Hey Veeky Forums, I was recently diagnosed with autism. It wasn't a huge shock to my family who suggested I be diagnosed, but I think it explains why my life has gone this way. I'm moderately overweight (240 lbs, 6 ft) and have had a girlfriend before, but never really got very far or very long with her.
For the New Year I'm going to start the SS+GOMAD to change my body composition...at least that's a start. But I'm wondering if there is a social equivalent, to get serious girls gains.
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Fellow autist here, look up RSDtyler on jootube. He used to be a sperg but now is a pickup artist and makes videos about learning to improve socially. Like lifting it takes time to improve your social skills, but if you make it a point to try and pickup girls and you consistently make an effort to go out and learn by trial and error try you will improve and eventually reach mastery if you put in the effort. Also Don't identify with the autism either, if you believe you have autism and it causes you to be permanently socially retarded then you will never get better. Social skills can be learned you just like anything else. You just have to get out of your comfort zone and work consistently.
>Don't identify with the autism either, if you believe you have autism and it causes you to be permanently socially retarded then you will never get better.
Yeah might wanna print this shit out and frame it
I was diagnosed at 23 and basically spent a few years being a stereotypical autist because that's all anyone expected me. It was a long and arduous journey getting out of that hole but I'm a functioning member of society these days and it feels a lot better.
btw I'm a grill :3 so I don't entirely condone that pickup artist shit but I understand where I am and that boys gonna boy
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Yo one of my oldest childhood friends is an autismo aspergers man, advice from me might be better than all the others so far on this thread because i don't have autism. And i've gotten good pussy.
Starting to get fit is great off the bat, chicks dig guys who are improving themselves, just don't brag about it like a fag.
Go out somewhere you where you won't be recognized, and start trying to get the number of every girl you find attractive. Hell just talk to people you don't know to get out of your comfort zone. Experience will teach better than ANYTHING. I did years of pua shit online and reading, youtube, rsd, all these guys, and in all honesty. A couple months of hands on is better value than years of pua theory.
Being autsimo means you need experience with social, facial and emotional cues. You're going to have to find your way in learning these things. Put an empasis on it. Getting girls is not about what you say in the end, it's more an energy exchange. Mostly with the eyes.
If you can't look someone in the face or eyes while talking, they won't trust you.
Meditate on some of this stuff.
Go crash and burn like i did until you get good.
What are some signs that a girl could be potentially autistic? I'm genuinely curious, is there like a Gretcheness about them? Like well read mousy type or is it random?
Also don't sperg and put every girl on a pedestal like you did just now.
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Try meditation, helped me a lot with my stuttering
I think I may be an autist as well, don't have the courage of asking my parents as I feel they wouldn't tell me. What kind of testing is done?
PUA is great for some basic shit, but RSD guys are fucking retards and scammers. In the end Looks/Money/Status (LMS) is all that counts, not only to get women, you shouldn't do PUA if you don't have any of these things, you will just fail miserably.
This guy right here is a fag, don't let anybody tell you anything limiting. I've seen small ugly no status (no money too) mother fuckers get hot ass puss.
You need game and confidence.
Kill yourself faggot
Not sure where you got that notion from. I asked a question and elaborated on it.
It's the way you lean in, meditate like the other guy said. It will give you insight on questions
You're mistaken if you think I'm op, I really don't know what I expected by going into a thread with spergs in it. I guess I only have myself to blame for that one
There are no id's here you sounded like an autismo
>SS+GOMAD
>Overweight
fuck no.
Do SS if you'd like to (if your goal is strength) or ICF (if your goal is aesthetics)
But absolutely, under n circumstances, should you do GOMAD. You already have the calories necessary to feed your muscles in your fat, going in caloric excess will just make you fatter.
This especially if you're new to weightlifting. You can make noob gains,lose your fat, and look much better.Just keep progressive overloading till you stall while cutting, and then assess from there what you'd like to do.
Anorexia/bulimia mostly
It's easier to say "pickup artist" but his videos are really more about personal development. He basically preaches that you become an attractive person by being a genuine and developing social skills and character rather than using weird tricks to con women into giving you the SUCC. Really anybody could benefit from his content.
That's actually surprising, any idea why that is?
Is this really as common as the media seems to make it? I look up anorexic/bulimic girls on google and I don't think I've ever ran into one.
Lots of emotional powder keg ham planets though.
I used to be autistic enough as an early teen that I could have been most likely been diagnosed as one.
Clueless about human interaction, interested in autistic stuff and obsessed about them (hc weeab and autismo games and stuff)
I just always sat in my room by myself.
Later I had to get out and once I learned how to into human interaction my personality grew and interests changed.
Granted my gf keeps saying I'm a bit weirder than most people in some way and other people think I sometimes act the way I do because I dont give a shit but half the reason is I used to be a bit aspie.
>aspie enough that theres my pic in one of the /a/ christmas/newyear collage where I made onigiri for my weeab waifu
I have no idea where I would be now if I hadnt got out, it was just going worse by each month
>t. angry blue pilled virgin who still believes in disney fairytales
I know such people too, but how does average or under average guys banging club sloots prove anything?
I also didn't say PUA doesn't work, but that's just the icing on the cake. If you don't have looks, money or status you will not be very successful.
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Getting out and socialising is the most important part. I sat in my room for like 2 years after dropping out of uni and my social skills turned to complete shit. I would have a hard time looking people in the eyes because I was afraid they would see all my secrets and other weird shit like that. Always paranoid, extreme anxiety, very tense all the time. The more you put yourself out there and work on improving your weaknesses the better off you will be. It takes so much time tho, I've been working full time for like 6 months with constant interaction with other people and I'm only now starting to get over being nervous about talking in public.
Na i'm actually saying you don't need pua or your lms shit, just go out and learn game. Jesus your projecion is disgusting.
I dont give a shit about picking up girls (tfw gf), I just want to be able to have a normal conversation with people without freezing up or acting weird as shit due to anxiety.
does anyone know this feel
>believing on fedora wearing baldlets
pua is a scam
literally just be yourself
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Get a job that you are communicating with people.
Dont do GOMAD if youre overweight. Thats stupid. Maybe 1/4 gallon of milk a day, but thats should be it.