Hey Veeky Forums, I was recently diagnosed with autism. It wasn't a huge shock to my family who suggested I be diagnosed, but I think it explains why my life has gone this way. I'm moderately overweight (240 lbs, 6 ft) and have had a girlfriend before, but never really got very far or very long with her.
For the New Year I'm going to start the SS+GOMAD to change my body composition...at least that's a start. But I'm wondering if there is a social equivalent, to get serious girls gains.
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Fellow autist here, look up RSDtyler on jootube. He used to be a sperg but now is a pickup artist and makes videos about learning to improve socially. Like lifting it takes time to improve your social skills, but if you make it a point to try and pickup girls and you consistently make an effort to go out and learn by trial and error try you will improve and eventually reach mastery if you put in the effort. Also Don't identify with the autism either, if you believe you have autism and it causes you to be permanently socially retarded then you will never get better. Social skills can be learned you just like anything else. You just have to get out of your comfort zone and work consistently.
>Don't identify with the autism either, if you believe you have autism and it causes you to be permanently socially retarded then you will never get better.
Yeah might wanna print this shit out and frame it
I was diagnosed at 23 and basically spent a few years being a stereotypical autist because that's all anyone expected me. It was a long and arduous journey getting out of that hole but I'm a functioning member of society these days and it feels a lot better.
btw I'm a grill :3 so I don't entirely condone that pickup artist shit but I understand where I am and that boys gonna boy
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Yo one of my oldest childhood friends is an autismo aspergers man, advice from me might be better than all the others so far on this thread because i don't have autism. And i've gotten good pussy.
Starting to get fit is great off the bat, chicks dig guys who are improving themselves, just don't brag about it like a fag.
Go out somewhere you where you won't be recognized, and start trying to get the number of every girl you find attractive. Hell just talk to people you don't know to get out of your comfort zone. Experience will teach better than ANYTHING. I did years of pua shit online and reading, youtube, rsd, all these guys, and in all honesty. A couple months of hands on is better value than years of pua theory.
Being autsimo means you need experience with social, facial and emotional cues. You're going to have to find your way in learning these things. Put an empasis on it. Getting girls is not about what you say in the end, it's more an energy exchange. Mostly with the eyes.
If you can't look someone in the face or eyes while talking, they won't trust you.
Meditate on some of this stuff.
Go crash and burn like i did until you get good.
What are some signs that a girl could be potentially autistic? I'm genuinely curious, is there like a Gretcheness about them? Like well read mousy type or is it random?
Also don't sperg and put every girl on a pedestal like you did just now.
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Try meditation, helped me a lot with my stuttering