Have a girl over

Mods do your fuckin job

fapping weekly is still fapping

Sort your life out desu mate,

Couldn't get it up first few times I met with gf, we spoke about viagra. You just got to find the right girl, she now can get me fucking full throb on just by smiling in a certain way, just gotta get comfy

You might not built for one night stands yet OP, get a comfy girl

Dude she is a comfy girl, we been seeing each other for a bit.

Why'd she leave?
Mine was v cool with it, she was like oh ok well i'm not mad or anything. Few dates later and we've been going at it ever since. caught the feels ngl.

Best of luck bro, you'll be fine, don't stress, just give it the ol' college try and you'll be getting sweet peach from then on

she said she had to drive her sister home, which I believe but it just feels bad man, thanks for the kind words tho.

I will tell you a story, OP.

>first gf ever
>about to do benis in bagina :--DD D
>couldn't get it up cause I was so nervous
>was fine, we'd been seeing each other for a little bit and were really into each other, we spoke about it and she was understanding
>second attempt
>lots of foreplay, she was tight, I have a decently sized dong and didn't think to use lube, so it took forever to just get the thing in - very clumsy
>came within a few minutes
>THIRD ATTEMPT
>got it all figured out at this point
>go for at least thirty minutes, make her orgasm, cum shortly after her
>best feeling ever
>she describes it as "the best sex she's ever had" (I was a 21yo virgin, so you can imagine she was more experienced)

Don't worry bro, it'll turn out fine. If she's really into you, she won't mind and she'll be understanding.

Do you look at porn? That could be part of the issue.

For the most part, I think you are just pressuring yourself too much to perform. Relax. It is not a porno.

>Is this because I haven't hit 1/2/3/4 yet?

Yes, also you need to be on a 90 day nofap streak MINIMUM

you gotta stop jerking off dude
VID RELATED
youtube.com/watch?v=dIuajb45kHo

I find fapping every 2 days is best (for me). After a week of nofal my libido dies down tremendously and i find it hard to get it up for anything, like my body thinks im ignoring my penis and follows suit.

Fapping every 2 days keeps me consistently ready to go without too many random boners when seeing hot fap material.

Don't do nofap.

The phrase don't use it you lose it applies heavily here.

If it happens again, see a doctor. It happened to me like 6 times on 3 different girls before I went to a doctor. I thought I'd be a wizard for sure.

OP OP OP
There is nothing in life more embaressing then jerking a flaccid cock infront of a female. So heres some advice.
Next time make her think its her fault.
If you cant get it up, subtly cuddle her and put your pants on and pass out. Shell think its her fault. Dont say shit.
Wait till morning when you can get it up.
Jus stop. As soon as you know its not gonna happen.
Trust me OP

Holy fuck porn is not the issue. Men have been suffering from performance anxiety related dick issues for a billion years. Tired of you beta porn/nofap faggots

>havent fapped for a week
>couldnt get it up
>comfy girl,no nervousness
get your test levels checked.

Try taking a zinc tablet every couple days/ hour before sex, I've found it works for me and actually makes me so horny I forget about nerves.
Just remember to be careful about the zinc build up because too much is really bad for you.

uh yeah because you're a virgin and you were nervous

is this shit not taught in sex education anymore?

anxiety is the biggest cause of ED that exists.

literally every guy on earth will experience this.

The problem is everyone is being sold a narrative about porn being the cause of ED these days.

Everybody gets together in an echo chamber and perpetuates this crap

> porn causes ed porn causes ed porn causes ed porn causes ed.

Yet when you ask these kids about their issues with ED, you ask if they're inexperienced, and 99% its

> Well yes I am a virgin but that's not the cause of my ED it's because I wank to too much porn.

Anxiety causes ED and pre jac, address those underlying factors before going on some monkish abstinence bullshit.

Not your personal blog, normalfag scum

Best advice in thread

That's not a minigun it's huge

Same thing happened to me. It took like 4-5 times before I could actually put my dick in. Everytime I would go to stick it in, I would lose my boner. I could be rock hard, but when she got into place and it was time for action, I would go soft instantly. It was the nerves, as everyone in the thread has said. You just have to keep trying. "Just don't be nervous, bro!" is easier said than done, but you'll get there.

What helped for me was taking control of the situation. I pictured having sex with her in a certain way (doggy on my bed) and fantasized to that instead of jerking it to porn. I had the scenario in my head, how I would confidently tell her to bend over, how I would lift her leg on the bed, how I would spread that sweet pussy open with my dick and slowly slide it in, fuck, just thinking about it now is getting me hard.

Then, one day when she was at my place and we were fooling around, I just took control. I just said "let me try something here", bent her over my bed just like in my fantasy and slid it in. I lasted maybe a minute or two but from then on the problem was gone (sort of, sometimes when she rides me a certain way, I still lose it. It really is a control thing for me, even when I'm on the bottom, I have to direct her, grab her, etc.). I think I was extra nervous because of two things: 1 - the idea of relinquishing control of my dick to someone else was a little frightening, because you don't know what she's gonna do of if she'll accidentally hurt you (that goes away once you get familiar with the person) 2 - I was too worried about pleasing her and making her cum (that goes away too, once you've eaten her out to orgasm a few times, you know you can always fall back on that if your dick doesn't do the trick, but usually it will).

Anyway, just keep trying. Like I said, my main advice is to take charge. Don't expect her to show you how to fuck. You have to fuck on your own terms. You're the man and she's yours to fuck. Fuck her how you want to.

What did the doctor do?

Probably sucked his prick like in one of those "str8 boy in trouble" pornos and made him realize he was gay.

take it easy satan. jfc.

hav tried this b4 it takes selfcontrol
>it works