this keeps happening to me.. >Girl in gym ask if i mind spotting her bench >Sure.jpg >Regularly meet each other since we're both super early birds >Keep it to friendly conversations , but also flirt a bit >One day she joins me in the gym cafeteria while i'm eating post work breakfast and watching the news >Talk for half an hour + >A few days later she comes up on my tinder >Obvious sweep right >We don't match >Two weeks later, no match
Honestly if it was just her it would be okay, but this has happend to me like 3-4 times now. With girls from UNI, work w/e that i meet quite often and i feel that i have a very good/flirty tone with. Do people often don't get up guys on tinder or are the girls just rejecting me?
Nathan Walker
Are you in a small town or a larger city? consider the fact that every dude on the planet has tinder now and it's likely that your profile hasn't even popped up for them yet.
Josiah Cox
Either you're misconstruing flirting with just being generally friendly or they haven't swiped left and they want you to ask them out irl. It's awkward being a girl and initiating the relationship via Tinder.
David Robinson
Maybe she doesn't use Tinder that much, or likes you enough that she thinks you're worth more than a short-term hookup. Ask her on a date the next time you get the opportunity and you're face to face. Do it the old fashioned way, don't be a faggot.
Hudson Russell
they're probably embarrassed to swipe right because they know you IRL. why don't you just hit em up in person?
Daniel Clark
either you're ugly but friendly, or you just haven't come up on their tinder yet. It's happened to me several times. Don't rely on the app, if she seems into you, invite her out for a coffee
Asher Moore
Listen to this guy
Owen Perry
They're probably embarrassed to be seen in Tinder. Why haven't you asked for number? Are a loser or something?
Kayden Fisher
She doesn't use tinder anymore. Over 50% are dead accounts
Matthew Clark
I don't understand this shit, why would you fucking need tinder to match with her if you met her in person?
Adrian Brooks
>I don't understand this shit, why would you fucking need tinder to match with her if you met her in person? are you seriously asking why somebody who comes on Veeky Forums's fitness board to ask about relationship advice on why he used tinder
do i need to spell it out that OP is a fucking coward scared of rejection
Matthew Garcia
>consider the fact that every dude on the planet has tinder now and it's likely that your profile hasn't even popped up for them yet.
that level of desperation and thirst lmfao
Ayden Jenkins
saved
Jonathan Smith
i'm in a 800 - 1 mill city. Also tons of small(er)cities around that will put their tinder location to the city for more people. I have around 150 - 200 matches so i can only imagine some girls could be up in the 500 ++ if they want
The problem is that i meet them too often in situations were we're "forced" to be together (eg like work, gym), so if i do make a move it will be super awkward. If we matched on tinder i would be certain that they were into me and i could go for it, but as the other guy they, they might just be friendly.. pretty sure it's this. I get laid fairly often, but i always, allways have to work a lot for it fakk
Liam Parker
I don't understand these two posts. Apparently "everyone" has Tinder now (and by "everyone" I mean people who can't get dates otherwise). Why would they be embarrassed to be seen on there?
I guess I can see why a girl may be embarrassed because she should be able to get guys in class/work/gym/public and shouldn't need an app to get one. But if they are both using tinder whats the problem
Colton Smith
>I get laid fairly often, but i always, allways have to work a lot for it fakk
aww poor baby you get laid all the time but have to do a little bit of work to get it? man such a hard life having girls desire you, feel for you man
Wyatt Jenkins
this is true i live in eastern europe and while in 100 mile radius there are only 100 girls (including some from nearby country), there are over 1000 guys using tinder
Nathan Jenkins
Disgusting fatty.
Elijah Ramirez
you're telling me you never get bitter having to work your ass off for that 7/10 arthistory hipster in the bar with not a single orginal thought in her head while chaddyboy strolls in and bangs every blue eyed "girl next door" - beauty around you
Jordan Kelly
>flirts with girl >too beta to do anything and hopes for tinder to fix his betaness and you wonder why you dont have a gf?
Robert Nelson
>7/10
your guys ratings systems are so far off. i get that most of you want to act like you only have sex with hot girls, but 7/10 is like the most average ratings guys on here give for girls that they have sex with or have as a GF
7/10 means they are hotter than 70% of all other girls. you all post on Veeky Forums, believe me you arent all getting 7/10s. 7/10 is very attractive, the same level as the "girl next door" type you are talking about "chad" fucking
gee you mean you actually have to talk to a girl to get her to have sex? wow
Ryan Jenkins
>gym cafeteria this is a thing?
Matthew Myers
>you're telling me you never get bitter having to work your ass off for that 7/10 arthistory hipster in the bar with not a single orginal thought in her head dude you are on fucking Veeky Forums asking for advice. don't discredit her if you can't even figure out why a girl won't swipe right on you by yourself
Juan Reed
"No" 10/10 implies the most beatiful female human being imaginable. 0/10 implies the most disgusting female human being imaginable. And every other integer/10 is scaled accordingly. Being in the middle of the beauty scale doesn't mean you are average. Being 7/10 doesn't mean you are prettier than 70% of all other girls.
Josiah Brown
well it's the same IRL thought, everyone will rate themself around 6-8. No one really uses the % of logic cus in the 1-10 scale a 4/10, for instance, most people will think of as ugly as fuck, not "slightly below average" as it truly is.
I don't mind talking with a girl before hooking up, all i'm saying is that i from time to time get slightly bitter seeing how easy that one aspect of a chad life CAN be (not saying you have a easy life just because your beautiful).
Lucas Anderson
>already know and flirt w the girls in person >still upset about tinder shit
wew e w
Logan Watson
The average person is definitely not 5/10, especially if they're not fat.
Luke Ross
Fukken rock solid, had to double check what board this is
Robert Diaz
are you really going to claim that the average girl is a 7/10 attractiveness?
those numbers are a scale for a reason. if you are rating every girl 6-8/10, thats stupid, you're supposed to have a wide range
Eli Scott
The average not obese girl that maintains her hygiene is probably a 7/10, 5/10 at worst.
Jaxson Russell
then that is the "average" and a 5/10 for god sakes how difficult is that to understand
Angel Powell
Because the average person is overweight and does not maintain their hygiene. Unless you're counting odorous hambeasts in the negatives, you need to leave room at the 1-3 range.
Angel Morgan
This user here I would claim average girl is 4-5/10. Are you too stupid to realize 5/10 does not have to equate with average?
Dominic Cooper
Hahah cheers dude
Benjamin Myers
Sauce?
Dylan Parker
it seems like for you there is on 1-3 for fat girls and then you skip over 4, 5, 6 and the average normal girl is 7/10
saying that basically every average sized girl is automatically a 7/10 in attractiveness is why girls hold so much power over guys now lol
Grayson Perez
Sorry don't know
Dylan Morales
Uh, alright dude. Not going to lie, you sound autistic as shit. What we're trying to say is that the average BANGABLE chick is a 7/10. Unless you're down to fuck. Think about the difference between the sexiest woman you've ever seen and an 'average' (read: bangable) girl and the difference between the ugliest, most unfuckable woman and the average (again, bangable) woman. You'll realize that the gap is bigger in one direction than the other.
More simply put: a 0/10 can get to a 5/10 more easily than a 7/10 can get to a 10/10.
Ryan Martinez
Instant hard on. Fuccck bruh im squating right now
Jonathan Brooks
jesus, what is it you don't get?
People in general, "normies" if you will, and people on the internet don't really use the scale to measure average attractiveness in the way you seem to think, the 1-10 isn't the equivalent of 0-100% perentace in most people heads (with 51%, eg 5.1/10 being above average attractivness).
Instead most people have a set idea of what a 6/10 looks like a 7/10 etc and rates from that. Ofc this is very subjective, which is why the scale is very (but not completlty) inaccurate.
have you never had a conversation or a discussion with normal people about this at a party or anything? This can't possible be news too you-...
Jose Powell
look man i dunno what you're getting at, all i know is that thinking that even average looking girls are "at least a 7/10 if they aren't obese or deformed" is ridiculous
i know people will inflate numbers of girls/guys they have sex with and of ratings of themselves for confidence reasons though
Luke Carter
Because the average person isn't a fucking chud
Jaxon Turner
kinda looks like xo gisele (or whatever name she goes by now), but must be a recent-ish gif, because she didn't use to be this T H I C. She's been active since, like 2008 or so though so there's hundreds of videos of her out there.
Nathaniel Long
Literally to stupid too understand statics
Hudson Campbell
Your discussion is very interesting to follow and I appreciate your input.
However,I would like to also express my dissastisfaction with how fucking retarded are all the stories about girls on Veeky Forums.
Everyone bansh 8/10. Everyone meets 8/10. Everyone is getting mired by 8/10.
Fucking fuck fucktards motherfucking retards what the fuck is wrong with you?? How fucking low your standards are. Maybe that is caused by the fact of me living in poland, and it is widely agreed that Polish/ukr/Rus girls are infinitely prettier than western girls (and before you get mad, in the same way our males (including me) are much uglier than the average spain/germ/norw)); but over there, a girl being 5/10 is "fuckable", a girl 6/10 is good, 7/10 is very pretty, and 8+/10 are considered truly extraordinary.
Meanwhile all you mongoloids keep saying that in EVERY fucking situation that interwined you with some girl, she was "8.5/10 qt" .
Guys. You have NOT seen real 8's or 9's, you would stop inflating your egos on this board after 3 months living around here.
Start fucking admitting that you mostly interact with 6's. just as I openly admit that my ex2 was 6.5/10, my ex was 7/10, and my current FWB is like 6/10.
Aiden Garcia
Dear lord.... I DEMAND MORE
Juan Perry
Your post is exactly what I'm trying to say. Obviously the reason guys here talk about every girl being a "7-8/10 qt" is to boost their own egos and act like only SUPER HOT girls look at them, or that they ONLY try to flirt/hook up with ONLY the hot girls.
>a girl being 5/10 is "fuckable", a girl 6/10 is good, 7/10 is very pretty, and 8+/10 are considered truly extraordinary.
This is how it is over here as well. 5/10 girl is alright but definitely fine to get with, 6/10 girl is cute, 7/10 is pretty (like your average hot girl in high school/college), 8/10+ are super hot actress/model/porn star tier. I would even add in 4/10 as a girl who is below average in looks, but who you may have sex with if you want to get laid
Most girls are 5-6/10. It is crazy how guys here think that every average non-obese girl is already a 7/10. And most guys on Veeky Forums are a 5-6/10 as well.
Jordan Cooper
No, I agree with you there. I think almost all of us agree with you. We're not saying that the average person we interact with is 7/10+, but instead that the people we'd like to fuck are that attractive. Most women, with minimal effort, are about a 6/10. 7/10 is very pretty, 8/10 is throwing in a good body, 9/10 is knowing how to dress, 10/10 is what peak performance looks like.
I think you're mistaking a bias to report these stories (and the bias of inflating ones self worth by inflating the worth of others) with how we actually perceive things. However, I still hold firm that the "average" girl, aka the ones I want to fuck and above, are 7/10. 6/10 is comfy-tier, and below that is a waste of genes.
Kevin Moore
I'm not most of Veeky Forums but of the grills I've been with >6+ft tall landwhale. 2.5/10 - The only good thing was when i picked her up and held her against a wall, guys mired my strength the next day. >Overweight reguard - 3.5/10 I don't want to talk about it >actual 8/10 - blonde hair, blue eyes qt. You know I'm telling the truth because I'll admit I was so drunk i couldn't get it up... told her I was sorry... probably the biggest regret of my life. She later did amateur porn. >6 foot blonde hair blue eyes grill, big tits avg or so face... 6/10?
James Cook
>two fat girls >a 6/10 >a hot girl
no, that actually sounds pretty normal for Veeky Forums actually
then again you're probably like 18 and have already banged 4 girls so..
Christian Jackson
>gym cafeteria
Is this a meme?
Hunter Harris
Try 30 I also left out a fatty who I didn't go all the way with My first gf who I also didn't go all the way with but was the only one who wasn't a one night stand. Pretty pathetic desu.
Brandon Cox
I think
Luis Cooper
Would you look at the time.
i need sauce right now
Grayson Harris
source(ish):
Colton Harris
my old gym had a cafe, protein drinks, soup sandwiches etc
It was more of a lifestyle gym though, old people and womyn on cardio etc. It's all business
Jonathan Adams
It's like scouser maid or something thank me later
Henry Collins
They dont want to hook up with a guy they know IRL on tinder, its the ultimate sign of a beta if you do that
Josiah Ramirez
It's because 70% is a C so they think they're "satisfactory".