Gf of two years, love her and feel loved. Even with several differences marriage is on the table.
She got an oral herpes outbreak two days ago, never had one before. I never had an outbreak, wouldn't know if I'm infected.
I'm considering breaking it up, and it's killing me. I do love her to death, but I'm worried about two things. It killing our sex life and two...
Is oral herpes definite sign that she cheated on me? Her mom, sister, dad have it, she was staying with them a week ago. Any info? I'm I doomed? She loved giving me blow jobs, haven't kissed since the outbreak, did have sex with no kissing for.
Jack Hernandez
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Matthew Gonzalez
> Is oral herpes definite sign that she cheated on me? Her mom, sister, dad have it, she was staying with them a week ago
Totally bro. Sounds like she had an orgy with her family
Tyler Sullivan
She sucked a big black one.
Justin Davis
Mariage is not on the table if you're considering breaking up for something that retarded or at least it shouldn't be
Caleb Fisher
You're one stupid fucker aren't you? Break up so she end up with a legally retarded husband
Gabriel Hall
It's not a definite sign. I had that aids on my lip long before I ever kissed or had sex
Noah Perez
I have heard almost everyone has herpes or they are immune to it, because it spreads so easily.
No fucking clue if that is true though, I'm just a guy posting questionable facts on an anime image board while taking a dump
Robert Sullivan
True, I have doubts. But with any other girl and these doubts I'd have called it quits long ago.
Jackson Morales
first thing happen and you run away better leaver now than later and she be more dissapointed of you and time wasted
Ethan Brooks
Please dont reproduce
Carson Anderson
There are different strains of it user. Chickenpox is a strain of herpes. The Herpes user is talking about is Aids Herpes his gf God from sleeping around with chad
>Shingles is caused by the varicella-zoster virus — the same virus that causes chickenpox. ... Because of this, shingles is also known as herpes zoster. But the virus that causes chickenpox and shingles is not the same virus responsible for cold sores or genital herpes, a sexually transmitted infection.
Blake Morris
>True, I have doubts. But with any other girl and these doubts I'd have called it quits long ago. ill do you a favour even though you're retarded. I probably got oral herpes from my mum when I was 16
Nathaniel Foster
>Is oral herpes definite sign that she cheated on me? Uhh... >Her mom, sister, dad have it, she was staying with them a week ago. >She got an oral herpes outbreak two days ago You just answered your own question bro, she probably didn't cheat on you
But she should because you sound like a dumbass
Michael Sanders
literally everyone has oral herpes, numbnuts
Brandon Morales
>oral herpes is a common infection of the mouth area that is caused by herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1). 50 percent to 80 percent of U.S. adults have oral herpes.
Easton Allen
Had a guy at my school who got oral herpes from his infected aunt kissing him when he was a child and now has it for life
If her dad and sister have it, might be a similar situation
Wyatt Wilson
> kissing family on the mouth and giving tongue
Sounds like a southern thing
Kayden Collins
>Is oral herpes definite sign that she cheated on me?
No, I had an outbreak once 4 years ago, and I've never had one before or since. Consider that worldwide rates of either HSV-1 or HSV-2 are between 60% and 95% in adults before you do something ultra dumb.
Mason Russell
>Her mom, sister, dad have it, she was staying with them a week ago.
Do a bit of critical thinking before the breakup
Gabriel Taylor
it's always possible, keep her under investigation but don't let her know it.
2 years is easymode, 3 years can be done on emotional autopilot, 5 years is actual hard work. 4-7 is where she proves how commitment worthy she is. If you value loyalty you don't get married after 2 easy going years (or at all in this social climate). All women manufacture drama just to bury the hatchet and are born actresses.
Easton Cox
Yes but she is 20. Why the first OB now?
Asher Parker
I once got oral an herpes breakout because I used a glass in my office one day and it apparently hadn't been in the dishwasher enough.
After an initial infection subsequent breakouts become less and less common.
I got it first when I was a kid from one of my parents. Got reinfected when I was about 14 or so, had a couple breakouts. Didn't have another breakout until 10 years later because I was a kissless kys faggot.
Carson Hall
Concomitant illness/stress leading to outbreak. Or a recent acquisition from a relative or friend (but not in that sense).
Camden Edwards
You're fucking stupid OP. The likelihood that she contracted it from her family is 50x more likely than her sucking the BBC.
Nolan Collins
I would just trust the fact that for once Veeky Forums is saying that she DIDN'T suck the dick
Noah Myers
Who the fuck doesnt have oral herpes?
Kayden Sullivan
But do we know for sure that OP didn't suck a dick?
Angel Gonzalez
Me Everybody know that it isn't cheating if it's gay.
Carter Moore
I had my first outbreak when I was 22. Just shut the fuck up.
Easton Diaz
when did Veeky Forums become so nice anyway? couple years ago they would have insisted that OP's gf cheated and he should break up
Evan Price
She could have already had the virus for a long time, once you have it you always have it I think. Its like the chicken pox virus, if you got it you always have the dormant virus and it can resurface years later as shingles.
Brayden Carter
kissless virgin? I got it at 15 second time I kissed a girl
Jace White
>considering breaking up if she cheated on you is retarded t. cuck
Grayson Myers
I swear Veeky Forums, for a board dedicated to health, you sure know NOTHING about STD's (No surprise there though to be fair)
OP, if anyone in your GF's senpai-a-lam had the outbreak while she was there, all it would have taken is for her to have drank from the same glass to have it spread; it's THAT contagious. More than likely what happened was she took a swig from someone else's glass and boom. Now she looks like a $5 whore.
For real though OP, knowing this, I'd still be sketch as FUCK; if she knows this info too it could be a calculated risk on her part.
"Well, if I suck Jamals blistery, massive cock I might get herpes, but I can just tell user it's probs from my family if that happens! Besides, it's not cheating if it goes in my poon!'
For real OP. Be extra wary
Easton Kelly
Thanks
Jose Bell
Don't listen to idiots like this. Don't let this chick give you herpes.
It was just sex user, it didn't mean anything :)
Robert Anderson
>having family is cheating it's enough to greet with kiss on a cheek to get this stuff
Kevin Davis
I think you should learn the meaning of the word "literally". Also 60% doesn't equal to "everyone".
Dylan James
it also barely ever breaks out for a lot of people
i've caught herpes 5yr ago and it broke out exactly once and has been dormant ever since
so there's probably a lot more people who have herpes than you think
Ethan Lee
Herpes is lysogenic, which mean the virus is "sleeping" in your body, until it awakes, it mays take YEARS, before it awakes, its not a sign that she cheated on you. If all her familly had it, probably she caught it from them, this virus is easily spreaded, even with your finger you can spread it. Close to 80% of the population has it.
Ian Reed
You do know that oral herpes can suddenly break out, right? There are people that walk around all year without any sign of it, and then they suddenly develop it for a few days, and then it's gone again.
It's not a surefire tell that she revived it through oral means, just because her outbreak is there.
Did you not try to research this shit before posting, you fucking idiot?
Camden Collins
dump her mate, or I promise you will regret it
Christian Turner
When the fuck will they find a cure for this? Will it take advancements in CRISPR to rid the body of the virus? Ive had this shit since I was a kid and it fucking sucks
Joseph Ortiz
>Her mom, sister, dad have it, she was staying with them a week ago.
It's super fucking simple to get oral herpies from family. More than that, she very well could have had it the whole time and had her first outbreak.
This ain't chlamydia or something, I think you're overreacting. Get some medicine for her sores and get a bj to calm your ass down.
William Jenkins
>don't have herpes >drink from bottle at a party after person who has herpes >got herpes
don't listen to these virgins
Owen Miller
you probably do have it and just never get outbreaks
shit, your gf probably already gave it to you 2 years ago
Sebastian Carter
Everything changes, my friend. Even the chans.
Jacob Scott
Getting a bj from herpderp
>shiggidiggy
Caleb Garcia
>girl blew a guy with herpes >should I drop her? Jesus Christ. Guess you can be jacked and still be a loser.
Leo Cook
I had oral herpes at age five for some bullshit reason, but it's only flared up three times since then in my life.
Xavier James
who the hell even calls oral herpes, herpes? Most people have it and I call it a coldsore
Alexander Lopez
>Let's make this short and to the point
You could have just showed us your dick and saved us all a lot of time.
Jordan Robinson
just breakup with her over it, she most likely didnt cheat or do anything wrong but it will be fun, even the score a bit my guy
Jaxson Jones
>I never had an outbreak, wouldn't know if I'm infected. Have you shared saliva or other bodily fluids with her? Do you use the same cutlery? Drink from the same cups? Then yes, probably. >It's killing our sex life Wait a week or so. It goes away. Have a wank in the mean time. >Is oral herpes definite sign that she cheated on me? No. Some people are born with it because it's passed down through the mom during pregnancy if she has it. >Her mom, sister, dad have it, she was staying with them a week ago. If she didn't already have it in her from the beginning, she definitely caught it from them. Herpes spreads like fucking wildfire.
Herpes are fucking bullshit my man, take it from me. Mine flared up recently because I got sunburnt. Shit's ridiculous. But it's the most common shit out there. There isn't anything for you to worry about. Chill and love your gf.
Christian Rogers
OP this. Absolutely this.
I wound up getting mono from my brother who got it from is gf all because I shared drinks with him on a regular basis. If your family has it and you aren't super strict germaphobes it's almost impossible not to get this shit.
Don't let the insecure faggots on this board tell you otherwise. Don't end your relationship over something this stupid holy shit.