Do you consider yourself an alpha male? Why or why not?

Do you consider yourself an alpha male? Why or why not?

no because I'm a 21 year old virgin

Yes.

I don't need to explain myself on an anonymous imageboard.

And yet you felt the need to post.

Nope, I don't. I don't compete for the right to lead and am very comfortable letting others take it when they appear to have the competence. I do not usually show dominance and I avoid conflict for the sake of the group's stability. I have low self-esteem outside a small field of expertise which revolves around performing and assuming a different persona, which renders the point of self-esteem moot as I am basically escaping to be somebody different, I guess.

>alpha
Yes
>male
No

Alpha personality, but not manly or hot enough to be a chad.

>Alpha
>Beta
I'm the guy with the gun.

No.

I always get really scared when a confrontation arises.

Thankfully people assume I must be tough because I'm muscular and big. So usually people don't get aggressive at me.

For example, me and a colleague were working on a job together, we didn't hit the target before deadline, the manager literally directed all his disappointment and anger at my short fat colleague. Secretly I was paralyzed with fear and was hoping he would not turn it on me and demand explanations etc.

So no, I'm not an alpha male. I'm a little bitch in a big body.

no, because even thou I have a decent musculature (compared to a dyel) and a decent face. I'm still at around 20% bf and every girl I've asked out has either said no or given an indeterminate answer like "maybe" or "i'll think about it".

If i was an alpha, bitches would be lining up to date me, they are not.

The real key to being an alpha/attractive male is either money or low bf%

I don't consider myself alpha or beta, just something in between.

> Type A personality
> polite to most people online and real life bc I like networking

Does this make me beta if I'm not an overbearing asshole?

Can I be an alpha male if I'm a gay bottom? Serious question.

Am i alpha?

sure you can, you can be anyone you choose to be. For the time being you've chosen to be a faggot

i stopped giving a fuck

if you do it to impress people, you're a beta
if you do it because you want to, you're an alpha

Comparing yourself to other people is not healthy

Everyone has their alpha and beta characteristics. Most people who go around parading how alpha they are, are usually very insecure which is a beta trait. I feel the bodybuilding community has a lot of betas in it who are trying to make up for their insecurities.

No but I'm not beta either. I'm confident but not masculine or flirty around women. I probably make jokes too often.

Not currently, but I'm getting there. I'm DYEL as fuck at the moment but I'm 6'3 so I have the potential for sure.

I'm starting to see what makes women tick. I'm turning into a manipulative misogynist asshole because I want to fuck 100 women before I'm 30. (I'm 20)

I was a very shy quiet kid who read a lot but I had a very red-pilled dad. He pushed me hard and that made me very successful both academically and in competitive sport. This also made me into a super serious person who never really had a chance to be a kid.

So I find it hard to socialise, firstly because I feel I'm wasting time that I could be spending improving myself, secondly because small talk doesn't interest me, and thirdly because I feel that the majority of people I meet aren't on my level mentally. Their lack of direction, discipline and self-control disgusts me.

I have one close friend who's somewhat similar to me in that he's very driven and serious. We talk about our careers, our lifting progress, literature, politics, nutrition, you name it. We're generally very busy though so we only see each other maybe once a month.

the rest of my "friends" are losers with no ambition and no backbone. They spend their days getting stoned and playing video games. They're not bad people, but I have no respect for them as fellow men. They make me sick.

>Chad is so alpha he even has a country named after him

How can we even compete, brehs?

I hate this fucking meme so much, it just gives people an excuse to act like fucking animals.

I have some similar traits, but i dont think that I fall on a specific group.

To be short, I'm what is needed in the group. I'm a team player.
I have been a leader and a follower, the dry-tought guy and the sweet-funny guy. I know that I dont handle well disrespect and I'm ready to fight; and yet I never try to be the top dog or try to keep that position if somebody better Is able.

I dont know how to define me, and I'm thinking that maybe this alpha-beta/etc thing is bullshit all-around.

Just my two cents

Well, Alexander was surely Botton at some point, but he was still alpha as fuck. So why not?

what else you got, jonny?

I got my dick in your mouth faggot.

No because the alpha male has a heightened risk of death due to constantly having to defend his position. Actually, the beta male has the highest longevity. Then it goes down again up to the omega male. Read it up on wikipedia.

Nowadays it's not worth it to be the alpha male. A life focused on competition and achievement has little opportunity to experience and feel and to form lasting memories.

Although really I'm a hyper-competitive person. I think I'm describing the mindset of some of my friends, whom I look down upon for smoking weed.

I'm pretty alpha when around guys and a shy beta when around grills. Send help.

You sound like some robot. An alpha robot.
If you are happy and enjoying life, good for you. But your post reads like an ask for help (on this Anonymous and cold forum)

blaha is that you?

I was captain of my school basketball team while also being a shut-in outside of school.

I went to an all-male school so I had no interaction with women.

I think people thought I was a psycho desu. I was a really selfish, aggressive player who got into a lot of fights, and I practically coached the team myself because the coach was a female and she didn't have a clue.

I was good enough that I could get away with it though. I was on the senior team at age 15 with guys who were 18-19. I rarely missed a shot and I was very fast too. I guess I took out my anger on the court.

I made one of my teammates cry before because he kept fucking up. I feel a little bad but he needed to toughen up.

I guess I'm happy? I work really hard and I'm set up to become very rich and successful if I stay on my current path. I keep the goal in mind at all times. Sometimes I feel lonely but then I remind myself that the path to greatness is a lonely one. I think everybody is lonely really, they just don't think about things as much as I do and they delude themselves into believing that everything is ok.

I see. Nothing more to add then. Godspeed user, let the years reach you but try to enjoy your age.

Yes

Everyone else seems to need a reason or justification to do shit
I just do shit because I want to and the cost-benefit equation checks out
Like I'm not trying to be an edgelord but everyone's obsession with checking their actions against other peoples opinions is weird desu
Either bullshit a justification, hide it, or be strong enough they can't overrule you

I unironically wish I had your life

yeah

ive even cucked some people here and there

I'm literally afraid of telling people what to do or being a legit dominant asshole but I am so sick of being a beta bitch and having people do it to me, or even attempt to do it to me.

What do?

I'm the opposite really
I love taking over leading as a chance for people to see me and having anyone else lead feels like a deliberate insult to me

Is narcissism an alpha trait? I literally divide the world into me/not me and disregard anything anyone not me says because they arent me
Like same with women, i just straight up ask to fuck because if they say no then someone who isn't me felt bad so its not me feeling bad
But if they say yes then 'me' has just fucked someone
I've no time for people who aren't me

Anyone else take this mindset?

I'm stuck in that spectrum where I can get girls, laid, and do okay at helping others, but inside, I still feel and know I'm an autistic fuck. I just pretend I don't have it for long enough and people suck it up.

>26

>virgin

>unemployed

>no friends

>total work experience in my lifetime: 11 months

>never had a girl interested on me

So no. But on the plus side:

>I care less and less as a grow older

>not living in my parents house anymore

>is kinda exciting living on your own

>im trying to be more positive everyday

>being lonely my whole life made me ready for this lonely adult life

>got a new haircut and I feel more confidence with it.

>feeling overall OK today

So there you go.

Good man. Keep it up.

Sounds a bit psychopathic, if you ask me. Which I guess you won't, cos I'm not you.