How Fucked Am I?

Is there any reason to live if you haven't had a relationship with a grill by the time you're 21?

>tfw you managed to get Veeky Forums but still are a socially inept autist.

>pic related

There are people who fuck girls when they are 12 and there are people who meet a woman at 32, everyone is different.
There I said it now stop making this thread

nah man, imo when you reach 25 you pretty much out of the game, there is still time, make the most of it!

i got my gf at age 22.

Never give up!

sry if bad english

Maybe, I don't know, probably
I'd rather ask myself (32 kissless virgin) this:
I have gone so long without the "joys" of a woman and I know that at this point women generally look for a man to settle with, have a kid with and pay for their shit
Since I despise all of those things and I have gone so far without sex anyway why should I bother?
If I don't want to die a virgin I guess I'll fuck an escort sooner or later, but honestly, I'm not holding my breath for a life-changing experience

You're never "out of it". Even if you get in a relationship and she drops you because you're autistic as fuck, you'll learn from it, and the next gf you land you'll be better with. If it happens again, On to the next. Eventually you'll meet a grill who is down for your tism and you'll be happy with her.

>actually believes the women advice on /r9k2.0/

LOL you're not making it

OP I haven't bothered to read the replies here but what you need to know is that this comment is very effectively devastating because it plays into your worst fears and maximises insecurity.

Let me tell you that I have (no joke) autismal stuttering /pol/ closeted racist friends in real life who were total virgins up til the age of 22/23 when they found girlfriends and have been with them for over a year now.

Blanket statements about all girls are almost always going to be wrong.

>and pay for their shit
And you wonder why you ended up a virgin at 32? Stop going to /r9k/

Got my first gf at age 20. Have a good friend who's 23 and a gfless virgin and I'm pretty sure he's still gonna get it at some point.

Just put in the work (socially and romantically, lifting only helped me about 5% because it got me some initial attention) and you'll be fine m8. Provided you're not really short or ugly lol

>tfw 20 yo KV who has never had the balls to ask a girl out
there's no hope, is there, lads?

I don't wonder anything, I know I ended up a virgin because I lack social graces, I am not willing to work on presenting myself decently and I have a complex about my remarkably tiny penis.
Still does not invalidate my point. A woman in a stable relationship will expect you to spend more money for her than she spends for herself from her own and society will expect that too. That's not some redpill "fact", that's a commonly accepted truth.

Here's my game plan

1. Go to college even if you're mid twenties
2. Look young enough
3. Meet 18 year old college girls
4. STILL pussy out and do nothing


I'm never gonna make it lads :(

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Jeremy Clarkson once said that if you didn't complete driver license once you are 23 it's not worth even trying. And I must say he is not wrong. My mom is a complete crippe at driving, it makes me cringe everytime. But she still did it at 33 yrs old. So you can do It with a gf at 21. I am still single till this day and I must say I still don't know how relationships work. I fuck of course but be dedicated to someone is a prison to me. Will probably never be dedicated to someone, I am much too autistic. Should've been learning back in the day but oh well. Nothing really tragical

Didnt lose V till i was 23. Had my first relationship aged 24, now 7 months into relationship with qt korean so my advice is no don't give up, but also... try... trying.

Got my first kiss and date at 19 after spending about a year working up the courage to approach a girl. First gf at 20. Now super happy with 2nd 8/10 gf with a doctorate at 23. It can happen bois

26 here.

I didn't care at 21 but I can tell you that it only gets worse. Even to the mot assexual man it becomes a profound blight on the mind by 25.

Just lie. Just get SOME experience OP.

It's actually even harder in college than high school if you don't have social skills because you don't see the same people every day for 4 years.

Giving up is never right, no matter how easy.


You're a coward, so afraid of failure that you won't try to succeed.

That's okay. People like you weren't meant to make it anyway.

This is why prostitutes exist.

Not fucked at all. Just start with girls that aren't super attractive but have at least one quality you like (for example a nice ass on a butterface) All you need is basically one reliable fuck buddy or girlfriend and you can catch up. That's what I did I was 20 when I got my first girlfriend. Before that I did get laid a couple times but they were only one night stands and I was drunk and had no clue what I was doing. But until that first gf, I never kissed a girl, never even chilled with one for a full day.

You got laid twice without having ever kissed a girl? Da shit did you do when your faces got close, give her the stank eye while your nuts were bouncing off her monkey?

Well actually yeah I must've kissed at least one of them once. I'm still not a fan of kissing (self conscious about breath) I prefer just banging them or sucking on da titties while I do that

Don't listen to randoms on the Internet. Your life is your life and your situation than mine or anyone else in the world. What people fail to realise is that getting girls costs money - you have to go out to bars/have hobbies, dress nice, have a good haircut, etc. If you are a college kid that's eating ramen and tuna, getting a girl will be hard. If you have everything paid for by your parents, it will be easy.

OP, if you have the means to do and the desire to do it, you will do it. Don't let other people discourage you.

By age 22, I had sex with 3 girls and got head from 4, and made out with probably 20+.

I got my first real girlfriend at age 22, and somehow found out that she had banged 5 other dudes and hooked up with a couple more. I didn't think it was bad compared to most girls in that age group, but I was so insecure about my own "numbers" that I basically ruined the relationship.

Highly recommend making an effort or at least starting to bang some hookers/escorts.

I read your post OP and feel nothing

I'm 22, im not a virgin (fucked 2 escorts before), and outside that i have 0 experiences with women since i started college like 3 years ago

I'm Veeky Forums but short (5'6), I'm from a country where the average is 5'7 though.

Honestly I'm totally indifferent by now, used to get upset about it... Until i realized i had really few chances with my height and build, short girls just want really tall men, it's life.

Though i have seen a lot of milfs giving me attention, which is weird

>I'm Veeky Forums but short (5'6), I'm from a country where the average is 5'7 though
that's like 2 cm of difference. not even noticeable. buy some lifts if it bothers you that much.

i'm also 5'7 (almost 5'8) and from EU where virtually every guy is above 6' and even most girls are taller than me and i still get laid almost every week. even had a fair share of girls that were over 6'.

it's not the height, trust me.

The average is 5'7 but that's because the older generations are really short (5'5-5'4) and the new generations are tall (5'10 to 6'2)

>Tfw I was in that thread

She didn't bang 5 dudes, she got banged by 5 dudes. Huge difference. You don't compare scores when you're not even playing the same game.

The years of frustration and rejection have altered my mind into having an unhealthy and immoral desire to only fuck/date teenaged girls. I'm 21 and tommorow I'm going on the second date with a really cute, chaste 16 year-old. I should hate myself for this deviation but you know what? It's not my fault, it's the shallow vapid cunts that ignored/rejected me growing up, the ones that got fucked by chads twice their age when they were 13. It's their fucking fault. God, I hate slut culture for creating this degeneracy.

Be white and in decent shape, move to China or Thailand and teach English for a year or two. You'll get a ton of 3rd world pussy bro. Pic related, a Chinese college student I banged as an awkward fattie 8 years older than her.

>match with THICC chick on Tinder last night about 11pm
>not even 45 minutes talking she gives me her address
>not even 30 minutes into that we start fucking
>finish, we're chatting. Ask how many sex partners she's had
>"45"
>when was your last?
>"last night"
>mentions she broke up with her boyfriend 4 days ago. Already has fucked me and another rando bareback
>also tells me she got chlamydia twice in her life

She was high test as fug tho

I've slept around and fucked a few girls, but I've never been in a relationship. I'm 18, and I'll probably get a gf when I go to uni.

I still don't know if I genuinely am not bothered with not having a girlfriend, or that I've convinced myself over the years that I'm better off without one.

>Being proud that you stuck your dick in a fat sluts cumwallet and stirred the last guys jizz around

Total bullshit.

>first one night stand at 25
>first fuck buddy at 26
>first legit gf at 26

I lost my virginity at 22. She was my gf for about 8-9 months. Stop believing what you read on Veeky Forums haha.

Relationships are for betas who can't get laid casually. There's no reason to get into a relationship if you're not settling down and starting a family.

I'm the type of faggot that doesn't care for purely physical relationships. I like having an emotional connection with someone.

I like the guaranteed sex though. It's great fucking girls on occasion, but I want stability lad. Plus a qt to cuddle with.

Who says I'm proud

I've been with my gf since 6 months ago. She's my first relation. I´ll be 31 in a week.

I'ts never too late


Oh, and she is 21, btw

Get a fuckbuddy then, there's no need for committing to anything

I grew those balls at 30 yo. I had a few rejections, a relation that didn't work and then I met my gf, soon to be wife

You're posting about it on a Taiwanese underwater competitive basket weaving forum. And assuring readers how "THICC" and "high test" she was

Opie, firstly, pretty attention seeking to post this. It's obvious you got attention from your first one and now you are hooked on (you)s. Respect lost there.

That said, you would be fine. Just throw yourself in the deep end and go way below your league. Get some ugly or chubby girls for your first few experiences. It will take the pressure off because you know it's just a warm up and she will just be super excited to have the attention of anybody, let alone someone Veeky Forums. Even if you bust in 2 seconds it doesn't matter. Heck, even if you shit your pants it doesn't matter. Even if you accidentally rob her parents house it probably won't even matter.

What are you more likely to regret on your death bed? The fact that you didn't kiss anybody ever or the fact that you had an awkward moment that time when you were 21?

You already know the answer and you're just here for attention so get the fuck off fit and get out there to find a woman. GO GO GO!

Only just too young.

Though desu i have ever fucked anybody over 19, but I'm not as old as you so society still likes me.

Did you use a condom? I have never used a condom to fuck lol.

I did not, I was hoping to bust inside her but she was freaking out when I said I wanted to

I had my first relationship at 20. Met my current gf when I was 23. I was her first boyfriend. (She was 24 at the time)

It may seem like everyone else is having sex and relationships much earlier than you, but statistically you're not a huge abnormality. Something like 25-30% of people are still virgins in their early 20's.

Just remember you have to put yourself out there if you want to meet anyone. They won't find you in your basement.

what?

I'm 80% sure this is bait so good job for getting me to reply. Here's your (you).

I'll just say that anybody who blames anything but themselves for their own actions is a piece of dog shit. Take responsibility.

Also nothing wrong with fucking 16 yearolds. They're old enough to consent. You'll probably get over it fairly soon after you compensate for your miserable highschool life.

>They won't find you in your basement.
Phew, I live upstairs.

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I haven't fucked anybody over 19. I didn't even write desu wtf?

I'd like to put a belated fpbp on this

Dodged a bullet. So you got chlamydia? Were you pissed she didn't tell you?

>Just remember you have to put yourself out there if you want to meet anyone. They won't find you in your basement.

I've always been pretty decent at talking to women. I just have made zero effort to do so for the last several years. Can't really support a relationship with a part-time, minimum wage job and a bedroom in your mom's basement.

how you did it? just asked her out?

thats better, if you fuck up you can reset the pool and meet lot more of people

That's not true either. I graduated school and spent months looking for a job. Worked part time and am now back in my Mom's basement (thankfully starting a new job tomorrow) and have been with my gf since a month after I graduated.

Find the right person and they won't care. My girlfriend makes shit tons of money and doesn't care that I make less.

better for chad, yes, because he has the courage to go out and talk to people he doesn't know.

>I'd rather ask myself (32 kissless virgin) this:
>I have gone so long without the "joys" of a woman and I know that at this point women generally look for a man to settle with, have a kid with and pay for their shit
sourest of grapes

well thats the only way to do it bro, you cannot wait to get paired by some teacher with the girl you want

She said she got it twice but got it cured.

I'll get myself checked though. What a piece of trash

>fucks fat bitch from tinder
>complains she is trash

what were you expecting

what's your point? if you have 0 courage you don't deserve a gf

welcome to Veeky Forums

She's old enough, had been into relations before and wasn't virgin before me. What's the matter? She will be fertile once I get my life ready for kids

you can hardly boast in an anonymous indian poo support group forum

I met my wife on tinder

Yes there is hope.

>kiss at 20
>lost virginity at 21
>started being more social and getting many girls at 22
>first gf at 23
>broke up at 25, back to meeting girls
>27 years old now - 5 years after I've started getting girls and I've fucked about 30 women

It can be fixed.

don't forget your wifes son too

Age/2 + 7

You're breaking the golden rule so society will always think you are gross. Up to you whether you give a shit about that.

>Age/2 + 7
>19
Fuck you society

>Something like 25-30% of people are still virgins in their early 20's.
Sauce? I thought it was under 10%, I know there's more male virgins than females at that age. From my short experience in a big social circle, it does seem to be very abnormal.

they don't have a social circle, that's the point

She's pure

>joined several sports clubs
>been in college for nearly 4 years
>go to events
>never had a friend who was a girl
>never even had a male friend
>have a severe stutter which means every time i begin to talk i get interrupted in the 10 second gaps between words
its not happening

31/2+7=22.5
I'm fine

That's bullshit. My friend lost his khv status at 24.

You said she was 21. The rule isn't that you can only date younger you retard lol.

Get lessons to get rid of your stutter. Do toastmasters to work on it. You will only inprove yourself by going out of your comfort zone.

she will be 22 just a week after I get to be 31 I'll be out of law for a few days thought.

Said like a true sad person. Committing is the road to success. In any aspect of life. When you commit to something it helps you grow and go through obstacles. Without it you will forever escape hard times and be a superficial pleasure-seeking nu-male with no real value.

A future fuck buddy. Not something that has me worried about my penis