You hangin' in there, Veeky Forums?

That's a good attitude bro. I've been trying to change mine but it hasn't been working.

I've gone out on a lot of dates since she left me 6 months ago, probably have gone out with 10 or so girls. But in the past 2 months I've just given up. I don't like any of these girls and just want my gf back. I don't even know if she's seeing anyone new or anything since I deleted her from all social media because I thought that would make things better, it didn't. I did see her on tinder... I swiped right, she didn't...

...

Yea im a pretty lucky guy

i'm so lonely

Just barely, I made an appointment with my old psych last week.

Currently tripping balls and watching imaginary fireflies land on my screen.

>tfw it feel feels like depersonalization and brainfog is slowly killing you
> feeling mentally unstable
> your grades are failing and your loosing touch of who you are
> I can almost say I want to die

You're not alone buddy
youtube.com/watch?v=_nH0zVQSf78

Yeah i've been having a hard time with it too, i'm still obsessed over her but for me i havent been on any dates and i dont know any girls. she was the only girl id been with so i guess that makes it harder. its been 4 months but im not really any better, im just trying my best to focus on self improvement for a bit. id love to go on dates but i have a small circle of friends, im just trying to not stress over it cause i used to be fine before the relationship

dw m8 all we have to do is get a really nice body, a nice haircut, a nice car and a really high paying, highly respectable job AND then some girls might decide we're worth fucking :^)

Stop fappin so much and lower your standards. You aren't the genetically endowed chad. You are the average joe, maybe ugly and slightly austic joe with a decent body and nothing interesting about him.

Change that and find somebody worth caring about. Stop droppin a load every day and realize women are as horny and insecure as men, and you can't fuck a 10 irl. maybe settle for a 7. maybe settle for a 4 that respects you and treats you like a human being instead of an resource. Have some goddamned respect for yourself and realize where you are at and where you are going and find someone you can hit prison that realizes that too and maybe isn't a total cunt.

That's love. This isn't a fucking fairytale. This is real life. Get over it pussy.

When you find that person it's like lightening hits you.

that's the worst when they go for the friends, it always had happened to me but one day it went the other way sometime it will come

If my parents were dead I'd kill myself
>tfw parents have a good 35+ years left in them.

Tfw you're an only child and dont have any siblings to share the burden for when your parents die

It's going to be very rough when it happens

I'm an only child too, fuck I never thought of it like that.

Nope, but who cares?

Meh
Emotions are starting to get really strong, I'm in love with this girl but she has a boyfriend, but we're good friends and really close so it sucks
I'm even dating someone but all I can think about is the other girl, I've always had a thing for her but just in the past month or so it's gotten so much stronger, constantly thinking about her, dreaming about her, i wanna die

I appreciate what you're saying, but it's pretty hard to think like that when all the girls at the parties I go to are out of my reach and I can't even use tinder to meet any. it seems like a very stupid thing to complain about, that the girls I might hang with are too cute. However, it's fucking shit when all of your friends get told that a girl thinks theyre hot or something and they'll fuck them that night while you're pushing boulders up mountains to get your foot in the door.

it's then even worse when you get talks from your friends about it who don't seem to understand the reason why and genuinely give the "just b urself" sort of advice.

Nah
I've gotten to the point where groups of people larger than 3 wear away at me. I'm actively losing interest in my old social hobbies and replacing them all with solitary ones almost inadvertently. On the odd occasions where people come over they think I'm some sort of serial murderer autist from all the books and guns piled in every room.
I just want to share the world with someone

She will never be a part of my life again and it fucking hurts.

Lifting is the only thing that keeps me sane these days.

Tell me to man up and stop being a bitch Veeky Forums.

Trying to just be happy

I've been stuck on my ex for almost a year despite being with other women and getting laid. I just feel like when I talk to her again, I'll feel better and get closure. I've never thought about spending my life with someone until I met her.

ex broke up with me and is dating a 25 year old guy (he is 25 and she is 19)
i know she loved (and still loves me), saw her last weekend and she started crying, i was her first everything and i fucked it up. everything i do now is because i want her to see i have changed. I talk with other girls and go out now, but they dont interest me at all i know i will never get her back. All i want is her back... i tell everyone i dont care about her anymore, but I'm dying inside.

What did you do?

oneitis is killer user. get over it, do it right now. it'll only get worse and as it gets worse its going to get more and more difficult to pull yourself together. don't start drinking. improve yourself and start having sex with a lot of other women

Bitch up and stop being a man

Its me, , glad to see we are in the same boat. Want to be friends?

Message my fake email

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Has anyone here ever run into someone that went to the same high school as you?

How much has that person changed? It's been 5 years since I finished high school and everyone I know are finishing up with their degrees, having kids, and getting married.
>I'm 23
>single
>no gf ever
>still a virgin
>not finish with his degree or even close
>shit job
>constantly depressed

Hey man. I had a great highschool. Now I'm struggling out of it. Same age, not yet finished my degree.

We're ganna make it.

The guy most successful from my HS cohort was incredibly stupid but dogged as hell. If he can make it anyone can.

High school, no. Grade school, yes.

Sorta makes it worse. Right there with you.

I feel you man. I was the "fat fun guy" my first two years of college before I finally got in shape. Went to dozens of parties and always went home alone. Not for lack of trying. As soon as I got in shape things changed overnight. An average looking guy is the equivalent of a disgusting 2/10 hambeast to women. You just have to look at it from that perspective. Yes it's not fair but that's what women see and we all have to deal with it as men.

My girlfriend hooked up with 5 guys at the bar to get me angry, so I egged her house and broke up with her obvi. been better desu

I know man I'm trying to say in there. I kinda have to because I really need to finish this degree or just find a better job, so I can help my mom with the bills.

I don't have that many friends. My co workers are always busy and same for the rest of my family. I feel hella lonely sometimes and not ever having a gf just makes the feeling worse.

Yup,

Just got laid off, but as it turns out I have far more savings that I thought. I imagine I'll have a job in a few weeks, but I'm good for 6+ months if necessary.

Made a kind of pass at my former supervisor today, and am going to follow up tomorrow. I don't really know if I actually like her, but I've been kind of lonely as of late, and have at least a very shallow crush on her.

How are you doing OP?

Yeah I ran into my nemesis Chad Chaddington. He had a goal in high school to fuck every single attractive girl in our grade in high school. He got up to 46 (verifiably). His dad ran a very successful construction business and bought him a new car every 6 months. His house was worth over a million dollars and we live in the bumfuck Midwest. Anyways he was rich and attractive and a complete and total asshole.

He saw me in the supermarket post college and asked me what I did for a living. He told me he works for his dad's company making $250k a year and fucks beautiful women all day long. He told me school was a waste of time and that you just have to "work hard in life bro and anyone can be successful." I'm still bitter.

jesus christ that picture is like an exact copy of my room

would sips work as a good mixer with gin?

the thing is, i'm not fat at all. so i basically know that my looks are never going to get any better. when i'm drunk, i'm apparently very funny and confident and everything but makes no difference.

pretty shit realisation desu

>Had oneitis
>She pumps and dumps me about 7 years ago
>Take it surprisingly well, but left fairly guarded
>Occasionally date, have casual sex, whatever, but feel nothing beyond friendship ever
>Realize my oneitis experience has left me completely guarded and closed off
>Met oneitis again at a party a year ago. She was all over me, but I felt nothing but annoyance towards her.
>Satisfying, but now I'm not sure if I'll ever experience romantic feelings for anyone ever again.

As far as problems go, its pretty inconsequential and bitch-tier, but its still been bothering me. Thanks for listening Veeky Forums. It helps.

get your fucking hand off me. what are you some kinda transcendentalist?

>get invited to parties
>friends
m8 why are you trying to make the rest of us feel bad?

i don't mean to m8. i've acknowledged that the problem is pretty retarded to bitch about but it really sucks. it's just been playing on my mind since i met a really, really cute girl and basically know i've got no shot no matter what i do.

Going bretty alright when I stop being a
>faggot
and remember how pretty alright things are going

>but when I don't
>pretty sure I have cyclothymia or some other low-level bipolar spectrum type deal
>mild "manias" and mild depressions
>I'm pretty much skinnyfat now at 6'1 and 174lbs... no gym membership and being lazy about calisthenics
>searching for my first software/web dev job out of school and feeling impatient
>severe oneitis to the point where I'm not sure I'll ever be with someone
>liek it's not even something I envision in my plans for the future
>feels alright but I know that I'm missing out

Fuck, no, im not. my sleep schedule is absolutely fucked and i think im developing some kind of insomnia

'm starting to feel like im having anger issues because of 2 years in a relationship where i didn't feel like i could get upset with my gf because of her mental health issues

my school schedule doesnt allow me to work often enough to make decent money

i just feel stuck, i hate it, and i just don't see how i can get through this

im currently forcing myself to stick to my gym schedule

>too ugly for tinder
>friends are all non-virgins
>never get invited to parties
>obviously can't get anywhere
>meet incredibly qt girls i know i'll need to win a lottery to fuck
>go home alone
>proceed to browse Veeky Forums

then you're in the right place

>tfw 23 and same

seriously, how do i get myself out of this hole

i initiated the breakup (just a few weeks ago) and it's just now hitting me how fucking lonely i am without a relationship, and none of my friends are around because we're all at different colleges

im just sad all the time

hey that was me a year ago!

life gets better user

gf has been giving me some drama over the past few weeks, messed with my already troubled head.

Been working on some skills I want to make sure i handle before applying to a few job options. Maybe not in the inmediate future but at some point this year I expect to have a job for the first time in my life.

Earlier tonight went for a run, been a while since the last time. I let some frustrations leave my mind while at it.

Also improvised some folk tunes on my guitar, i play like twice a month but somehow i'm getting better at harmony and improvising. Feels good man.

Most importantly gains are good. Going from skeleton to ottermode soon. So yeah, i'm hangin'

You are literally me

this is my 1st year going to the gym
i am 20 years old at 5 feet 10 and at the start of the year i was 191, i am now 187.
i jog until burn 350 calories and a lift free weights.

we've gotta make it, man

i was fine when we split, since it was becoming very apparent how her issues were being put on and taken out on me, and i was okay since i had a couple trips planned to help distract me, but the past couple of days i've been slipping into >tfw no gf territory and it's really bumming me out

>every so often the shell breaks
>i realize that despite lifting, pretending to be happy, confident and content, i'm not at all
>consider giving up, but eventually just carry on
>repeat

Fucking close enough. I keep thinking happiness is just one little change away but it never is. Whatever keeps me chugging along until I die of cancer at 60, I guess.

>Crippling bipolar
>tell everyone it's a misdiagnosis
>yeah I'm fine

...

i feel attacked

>wake up
>stare at AK for good five minutes wondering if it wouldn't be better just to blast myself
>go to gym instead
>pretend to be happy to everyone
>actually never am
>repeat

>be me
>check tinder
>qt rock climber with thin waist matched with me
FWUARK I feel great man

It's almost 4am est. This isn't the thread for you.

I'm not sure how to feel about this

>>>

I feel somewhat content with my life, more than I have been in a while

after accepting the reality of death a lot of my worries for the future have vanished, I try to stay in the present and think about what I do have

just trying to bring some positivity

>ex gf left me for guy she used to date
>he's suicidal and failing in college
>ended up hitting her, met up to talk and to give her advice
>told me I'm the only person she feels safe with
>blocked me on everything a few days ago even though we haven't talked since
>he probably made her do it
>last thing I told her was that I'd be here if she ever needed someone to talk to

Somehow I feel better being blocked, depression is fading and I can eat again. Time to lift. It's a very abstract feel, one less thing to worry about. Don't be there for anyone that doesn't want your help, I did everything I could besides kill the guy.

I'm overweight and bald and still managed to get laid by a qt, if I can do it, you can do it. Smell good, learn how to talk to people and be confident.

But all the dykes around me are horrible horrible people.

bully him into suicide

Feeling sorry for yourself wont help you, nobody cares if you feel bad, grow a fucking pair dude damn, take risks make a move on a girl you're interested in.

i suppress that shit brah

you are a true man, user

you walk the righteous path

i think im just in a transitional period. I know that i'll be happy once i get all my stuff in order and my schedule starts flowing better but right now everything is kind of all over the place so i default to "emotionless robot" in order to keep track of everything

it works fine except in the downtime when i'm just kind of stuck with my own thoughts

You're right. But everytime I talk to a qt they start talking about their boyfriend. Am I doing something wrong?

yeah you're talking to taken women, find one that isn't.

Truly I am an idiot. Perhaps I should lead one to a love hotel and have a root.

She wasnt good enough for you, breh. If she wants to be treated like shit by some loser instead of staying with a genuinely decent guy, it just goes to show how much is really wrong with her. Trust me, ive been there.

ah I see i'm getting memed on, good luck user.

Y-you too.

that was pretty much the case with my first gf

Thanks m8s. Was my first relationship in 2 years and I fell hard for her. Shouldn't have though, and I saw it coming.

>tfw you think you're getting closer to her while she's in your arms, then she starts crying for her ex

This hardened me up emotionally.

kek

3rd time a girl breaks my heart to get back into an abusive relationship, don't know what to feel anymore. Gonna lift until someone loves me.

>Gonna lift until someone loves me.

aye, focus on your personal success and do things you enjoy

spend some time with the family and warm your heart

just enjoy being with yourself user, you're a great person and you can appreciate that and I'm sure your friends and family do too

Just joined the gym three days ago. Already doing a lot better with my routine than with the apartment gym. Still haven't quite figured it out, but I've been doing more research and trying to figure out Push and Pull and all that shit.

I'm definitely still being a newbie but I think I can make it if I keep trying. I have a feeling someone will greentext a story about some autist at a gym doing shit, and I'll know it's me, but I don't give a shit. I just want to make it.

The important part is that you learn from it. Dont go back to girls who leave you for shitty exes or youre no better than the stupid girls. Have some self respect and once theyre gone, dont let them come back into your life for any reason. Theyre not your friends, theyre your exes.

> Once I was 20 years old...

youtube.com/watch?v=LHCob76kigA

Thread theme?

that's some rough shit luck, man. i dont know how you managed to get dealt that hand 3 times but im impressed that you managed to keep going after all of them

>I have a feeling someone will greentext a story about some autist at a gym doing shit, and I'll know it's me

Purge the mind of negative thoughts senpai

this, use that against him without doing anything directly

Holy fuck, I had almost an exact same experience with a girl. I cut her off though after she went back to her abusive bf and told her "if you're going to keep making stupid decisions don't even contact me again, I'm sick of trying to help you"

do literally every one of those things and nothing comes of it. they like me, sure, but they certainly don't want to fuck me.

Last half of 2016 was a shitty ride.

>New Year, New Me

Joined a gym, started to monitor what I eat, (mostly) quit drinking, got a new haircut, cleaned out my closet of tons of old junk, left Facebook.

I-it's off to a good start....

good job, user! im in the same boat.

broke up a destructive relationship on December 28th and went out with friends for new years and ended up making out with one of their roommates, so the year started off well. I just need to remind myself that things are good and to hang in there

Got the winter blues.

Coming off a cold and haven't worked out in 2 weeks. Talking myself into going this morning.

>im currently forcing myself to stick to my gym schedule

making it.

I had this exact feel for about two years, since a week or so I've been feeling much more clear-headed and positive for some reason