Tfw no friends

iktfb

>only virgin of the group

>someone makes a joke about sex
>awkwardly laugh with them

>tfw friends

how do you make nu friends after college Veeky Forums

its a problem no one has solved

>tfw FWB gets BF
I forgot how awful it is to be alone.

>like bags of sand amirite

gym, social sports teams, work...
best is with through friends of friends if possible

This has happened to me three times lad

I don't think I'll make it if it happens again

We were also each other's first as well.
How did you cope with it friend?

same man

when im home i hang out with a group of friends every week but at uni i go to class gym eat then am alone for the rest of my waking hours, dont know how to make friends anymore

my friends dont have friends. im looking for deep connections but idk, people are people

Well the first time it happened I immediately reactivated my tinder and got a new one. Then each time after that I hit the bottle a little harder and harder because knowing that the closest thing to human connection I will ever have is vapid whores using me as a pleasure object and all I can do about it is let it happen.

There is only sex and death, user. Sex and death.

>25 years old
>havent had friends since i was 13

you guys wouldnt imagine how horrible my life has been

I'll be your friend

Through other friends

So if you didn't have at least 1 to begin with youre fucked

I am your friend though.

>tfw too many friends

They always want to go out and do shit that involves drinking and shit. Friends are just gains goblins user.

i have an eccentric personality and people always ask if im okay or am i on drugs. im pretty spontaneous but i dont think ive ever met a person who would want to do something just from the sheer moment. i have a problem with asking a girl if she would want to hang out later today even though your not supposed to but i wont be in the mood any other day

had 0 friends and social anxiety before i started going to the gym. now i somehow know 4 regulars there that work out at the same time and we always hang out and talk.

>friends are pretty much the most important thing in life
>if you fuck up early in life, even unconsciously, it's impossible to get REAL friends later on

what did life mean by this?

youtube.com/watch?v=B7JcGYilsuE

>implying anyone would care enough to put you on the news

I have enough fucking gains man all I want are some goblins, and maybe i can goblin off them a bit as well

>tfw friends but don't like any of them

>tfw same

Got a lot of friends at work. They want to get fucked up this Saturday night.

>tfw prob not gonna go and stop hanging out with them
>chick I really like at work and seems to like me doesn't like to party either
>gonna ask her out tomorrow wish me luck brahs

I had no friends in high-school but just assumed it would happen when i left. So i left and stared working and still couldn't make any friends.
I joined the army and they were pseudo friends we were only friends because we needed to rely only each other.
After i left i meet an amazing girl and i started making real friends who would call and text me asking to hang out it was a great year but as soon as we broke up i became a different person and lost all those people.
I'm 34 and have pretty much never had friends in my whole life my advice is if you are in your trends or early 20s then make friends now because it may not happen later.

is there a starting strength book for making frands?

>join social activities
>talk to people

>tfw have friends but ignore them and rarely, if ever initiate contact yourself

I don't mind hanging out but I really prefer being alone, don't know why. When my best friend moved away for school I was relieved because I didn't have to avoid his phone calls to hang out anymore. And yes I know I'm a bad friend.
I guess the good thing with guy friends is that you can not see each other for months and then hang out as if you saw them yesterday.

>tfw only ever had friends who were friends with everyone
>tfw nobody ever chose me to be their friend, they just didn't care

Anyone have friends but not really have any true friends?

I've got friends at college, work, and the gym, but nobody I truly give a shit about and vice versa.

>tfw moving to a new city soon and only know 2 people there

Am I going to be fucked or will this be a blessing to start fresh? Seriously wondering how I'm going to make new friends with a new job

Nah I have one bro at work who I hangout with outside of work sometimes. Same sense of humor. Pretend not to give a shit about each other even though we feel like brothers at this point. Met each others families. Both our girlfriends are pretty close. He's one of those rare bros until the end.

>start with uni
>try to hard to socialize and make new friends
>it worked lol
>friends with 3 guys
>realize they are normies and i just don't enjoy being around normies

what to do

Iktf

Kys because you think youre a special snowflake

even worse
>no friends nowadays
>used to have friends
>no idea how make new friends

fuck off i hate this shit

Start boxing

>normies

jfc, neck yourself

>"just b yourself user"
i dont even understand what this means anymore. years of depression and isolation has removed my personality
>just

i hope i will never become this desperate that i force myself to be around with people i dont enjoy

same. been alone and miserable for so long it's a lost cause
>tfw people at my job unironically call me 'robot'
and 'programmed'
>tfw i unironically feel like not such a loser because i don't go to r9k.

i win?

>tfw feel like a fucking robot

ah yepppp, its more so the isolation that does it.

>Q: What is life?
A: To suffering

But at least working out makes you feel better.

I can imagine somewhat. I made my first friend when I was 19 and I spent 2 years solid of trying to improve my social skills every day before that.

this

>best friend is my cousin
>mfw i successfully utilized the "friend mooch" strategy since the 4th fucking grade
>he was the only reason i made friends in college too

i am so grateful for him. without him being able to make friends i would never have friends today

Good luck user

>deep connections

m8 that literally takes years and only with specific people

What can we do about this?
Bought 450ug of LSD yesterday that i'm gonna microdose over a few months. Hopefully this will be my ticket out of this hell hole.
And i'm cutting aswell so i wont be a fat fuck in like 3 months.

>tfw realize the only people who talk to you at uni are those "gets along with everybody" types who actually have real friends outside school and what felt like a major advancement in your social life was just everyday chit chat for them

LEL

holy kek

>tfw when freinds always make plans without me and never text me so my phone only goes off for dumb shit and I'm at home all the time

>group of friends who ive known since childhood
>all have gf's and dont socialise together as much as we used to
>have that feeling that theyre drifting away due to their social goblin gf's
>nobody ever arranges to meet up anymore
>only a few messages here and there just to show they still exist

Women ruined my childhood relationships with my friends and their weakness to pussy made them forget who was really there for them all their lives in happiness and sadness.

>suggest plans for holidays
>they take my ideas and go without me

>spending new years being comfy at home
>friend calls only to ask if I mind being the designated driver for them
last time I talked to any of them.
some times I get kinda bored being at home all the time but it's still better than what I had going on back in highschool..

tfw this post made me realize that just now
I should just end it

>tfw I have two friends that browse fit

I guess I'm lucky but one of them just got a gf and the other only likes to smoke weed. So I'm alone again lol

>tfw no friends
feels good man

You must be fun to hang around with

I've had friends before. It can be great. The problem is, you are always part of the group, going where the group goes. If you happen to pick the wrong people, you could end up 35, still in your hometown with a fat hambeast wife and your only escape is drinking at your buddies place on weekends, watching niggerball.
Then again if you pick the right friends you could end up a millionaire.

Imo, its better to go off on your own, become the person you want to be, then let the right people re-enter your life as friends. If you've made a quality enough person out of yourself, you will attract higher quality people.

I look back on some of my old friends, and at the time I looked up to them, felt warm and happy in their presence, we had great times..but I see now what alot of them have become in adult life and realize that is not who I wanted to be. I was right to break away from them.

whenever I hang with my freinds usually once every few months they say we should hang more often but they never hit me up or text first and I see them on Snapchat hanging without me

Rather have that than none faggot. Learn to say no

was lookin exactly for this post
thanks

>tfw 30 year old khhv with no friends
how do i get friends? i'm boring as fuck, and socially awkward

Going through this too.

Worst part is when they break up with their gfs and they come crawling back and you gotta put up with their depressed shit even though you're a KHHV

iktf

honestly the best thing you can do is stop giving a fuck and realize to yourself that you´re better off without them. The worst thing is telling yourself that they are your friends, when clearly, they don´t reciprocate that impression of your relationship and then expect them to treat you as a friend. They might think of you as a friend, but not "one of us". Conforming to a group of people is hard when you´re indepedendent person, try to gain faith in soldairty and strength in the peace of your own comfort.

cut them off and let them contact you once they need you, just don´t be that desperate outsider because that role will kill you slowly inside.

Tinder will help you get laid at least, that's what everyone in their 30's uses to meet people.

its for posts like these i still come to this place, even if know somee of this wisdom. if these r9k fags actually read smth this place would be better

nice

It's hard because we've been "freinds" since elementary and shit just changed when we went to different high schools
It's like two kids and a guy they met in HS
They're literally the only people I hung out with all through HS
Idk I'm just gonna be home all the time and that's depressing

>mfw I'm the only one who lifts among my friends
>mfw I'm more of a gains goblin to them than the other way around

Man idk why but I love being a bad influence on people

I only have work friends. We chat and joke around during work hours, we eat together at the break, but that's it. In the real world I've had zero friends in the last ten years after high-school.

Maybe this is the reason you don't have friends, grouchy pants

I'm in the same boat. My friend group dispersed across the country, and it took me two years to try and find new friends. And these ones say I have no filter and say whatever. It sucks being the groups comedian. No one ever asks if you're okay because you always force a smile. Only one girl saw through it and called it the Chandler effect. I miss her

This is the exact reason I don't even want friends.. Unless you pick the right people, they are holding you back, make you feel miserable and steal your time and money