Sexual Health General

Sexual Health General

When's the last time you had sex? Reminder that masturbating multiple times a day destroys your neurotransmitters and makes you unlovable.

never

Back in October, I recently moved to a new state and don't know anybody and Tinder sucks for me. I had a somewhat hit/miss with my old state and got laid a few times but I live in a small town so my chances aren't so great. Probably average around 2 matches a week. Girls are my job are ALL taken. Seriously, either married or already have a boyfriend. So I masturbate once a day but Im trying to cut down to only maybe 3 times a week or less.

Motherfucking 3 weeks ago.

As for the masturbating thing : fuck you

Last night, fucked my bros gfs friend.
4/5 tbqhwu pham

I get laid whenever I go out. I'm trying to get something more long-term though

Absolutely don't watch porn and rarely fap

I think I might have dick cheese

Any way to solve this? (Im uncut btw)

Mind that if you stop masturbating, you'll last 2 minutes in bed, like other betafags.

Get it balanced, don't deathgrip. Three time a week is perfect.

shower daily faggot

I've been on no-porn for a while now with the occasional relapse. I love being able to fap to my imagination now. My dick is harder when I have sex with my girlfriend too. Also, I had sex yesterday and I probably will tonight.

Basic hygiene is the ticket, lad. Peel back the foreskin and scrub that anteater.

>fap

>25yo virgin
Is there any hope lads?

wash your dick idiot, drink more water, multiple showers, and CLEAN your dick.

If you can't do that because your foreskin is too small you have phimosis, research how to get rid of it, you should be able t move your skin back effortlessly. The worse your dick is the more you perpetuate the stereotype of uncut fags having gross dicks.

This morning. It was wet and sloppy too.

Last tuesday

21 and still a virgin hold me brehs :(

I last had sex 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend is low libido while I have high libido. She rarely wants to have sex more than once a month.

It's honestly causing me anxiety and stress. She also says I can no longer look at porn.

When we started dating we never used condoms and it was great, but her friends told her not to do that and now we wear condoms. I can barely feel anything and haven't actually had an orgasm from sex since October because sex gets uncomfortable for her after 10 minutes and we have to stop.

I love this girl though and this is her only fault. I guess this makes me a beta whipped loser.

I suppose it could be worse.

In October at my Cuba vacation.

This morning.

Thursday night by an asian qt. It won't last though. She hates exercise and eats too much. I'm enjoying it while I can.

Dump her, have some self respect.

Already doing that
I can't pull the foreskin back far enough, I think it's too tight.

How far should I be able to expose the tip of my dick?

Good luck on your aids.

Last night with my gf

I want to try to spice things up with her. Our sex feels routine at this point.

enjoy the herpes

what Is a condom?

time to get cut goy

its been over 4 years, user.

I had sex this morning (and last night, and the day before, etc) and jerk off at least twice a day.
Checkmate beta faggots.

Use a cock ring. I was insulted when my gf first suggested one, but its actually awesome cause shes way more into the sex and moaning like crazy. So fucking hot.

Get circumcised

I was in your situation sort of, the no sex created a divide which eventually resulted in a loss of feelings. Slowly over time I loved her less and less and we started treating eachother less like gf/bf. Then it ended. You cannot sustain this user.

>not having sex 3 times a day instead of masturbating

kill yourself

3 weeks ago with a slut I met at a pool party. I added her on Cancerbook and she's a post modern immature girl that likes to glorify her sex life. Made me almost feel bad that I nutted inside her. The sex was great though. Degenerates make the best sex.

last night, shitty drunk sex that I can barely remember, with the same qt girl for the second time
the confusing part was
>both extremely hungover
>cuddle and sleep naked for most of the day
>shower together, have breakfast together
>ask for her number
>as I'm leaving she tells me "lets not make a habit of this, sorry"
what

What's sex?

yea this is exactly what's happening. I've already stopped saying I love you as often and am realizing that I'm slowly caring less.

Had sex just yesterday, came just 10 minutes in.

How the fuck do I last longer? The only way I can have sex for more than 15 minutes is using a fucking numbing condom but then I don't feel shit on my dick.

Last time I had sex was last night and almost fuck everyday. I used to va a heroin addict and fucked up my neurotransmitters and dopamine for life and the only thing I can get joy off is intense sport and the narcistic feeling I get when I make a woman squeel and beg for more. It's an empty existence, sex is overrated and most women are whores.
Everyone here can get laid if they stopped putting sex on a pedestal. I'm thinking off going on nofap and no-sex (u till I find someone I truly love). Having long and intense fuck sessions dont di any good for my dopamine levels. Anyone else has any experience with sex and lifting as a substitute for past addictions? It's not that I fuck every easy skank there is, I have physical standards but no mental standards and I feel vapid as fuck because of it.

>tfw most girls suggest this because 4.5 inches

She getting FUCKED.

Remember to get condoms that fit your girth

she wasn't attracted or she has a bf already

those are the only reasons

Any ways to abort at home?
I read something about a baby killing tea but is it true?

Asking for a friend

it means she doesn't want you and is wanting to fuck chad or is already fucking chad

Ya its a tough cycle man, she will pick up on that subtle stuff and start caring less in turn, its rough. Don't do what I did and wait and hope it will get better, its just wasting time you could be finding someone better or focusing on yourself. gl

Never

...

This morning. I'm married to a redhead nymphomaniac who lifts.
The downside is I've been literally cucked before.
The upside is that we have sex at least daily, and I get to fuck other chicks when she's off taking miles of cock.
Done the wife swap thing before too.
Knowing I'm gonna boot her ass when the kids are all out of high school helps ease the emotional toll.
But yeah, sex this morning.

>Fuck her a second time
>Let's not make it a habit

yeah, just wait till she's drunk again and she'll suck your dick. You shouldn't make her your gf thou, having sex doesn't mean you HAVE to date her. With the info you just gave it looks like you guys aren't really compatible and you can do better.

Alright guys i went from a KV to having a girlfriend so far she has blown me four times and every time i nut in LITERALLY 10 seconds, its just a BJ so i don't care all that much but when we start having sex i'm nervous this habit will continue.
I started fapping deathgrip style twice a day and have been doing my kegels anything else you guys would recommend to help me last at least a minute.

A year ago. When I was in college I fucked 34 women, an average of 8/10 or higher. Now I'm a hermit workaholic who would much rather play vidya then to and spend my hard earned cash on a faux interview where some woman will arbitrary assign me worth based on what I say and how I dress, then subsequently decide to sleep with me

How long were you on H? How long have you been off?

Took me a year to begin to feel fulfilled by anything that wasn't drugs or crazy sex.

I definitely lift addictivly. I'm trying to focus my addictive tendencies on money right now.

Stop hanging around and fucking losers bro

BPD?

???

Fucking hell man. Your trying to kill a human baby. Unless she was raped i suggest your friend take a critical look at her life.

25 year old virgin here

was morbidly obese and unkempt until i was about 21, where i discovered Veeky Forums and Veeky Forums and decided to lose weight and care more about how i look

80lbs of fat lost, about 25lbs of muscle put on and now girls like me. i've got 1000's of tinder matches and some of them are dtf after just a few messages.

every time i arrange a bang my shit self esteem from years ago just rears its ugly head out again and i literally start shaking uncontrollably and flake

by my estimations i could have had about 50+ girls in the last 4 years

i'm also a total introvert from years ago and more or less never go out to social events

i feel like i'm gonna be this way forever

tl;dr dont be fat. it'll fuck you up forever

Some kind of PTSD from getting molested for years. Could be BPD.

Anybody have tips on getting and staying hard when intimate with the gf? I'm struggling lately and I don't know why, never had this problem before

feel
i've had girls make a real effort to get me too, even genuinely good girls that I can see myself caring about
but there's an insecure scared little child from back in the day still inside me, way deep down, and he shows up whenever I have a chance

Put a brown bag over her head.
Pretend she's someone else.
Use a buttplug.
On yourself, not her.

5 weeks ago, going crazy over here, the last girl I fucked hit me up last night and told me to meet her at the bar I met her at the first time. Autismed out and didn't go, ever since my long term gf and I broke up I have yet to fuck the same girl more than once because Im afraid of getting attached.

Don't listen to the dumbasses here saying get cut. You don't have to get cut. You were just not taught as a child by your failure of a father how to properly wash your manhood.

Keep practicing at stretching it. Should be uncomfortable but no sharp pain. Keep at it once in the morning and once at night in the shower until you can peel the foreskin back behind the ridge on the head effortlessly. Then it's just soapy water to clean the cheese off.

I had the exact same problem and I fixed said problem with that method.

>How far should I be able to expose the tip of my dick?
You should be able to expose all of it. If you can't, something is wrong with your foreskin. It is a known medical problem, but I am unsure what can be done besides being circumcised. Speak with a doctor

>actually keeping count
This is sad.

Been watching less porn and when I do fap it's with less of a deathgrip and I imagine vanilla things. Lately, I've had a ravenous feeling of wanting to stick my dick into any woman.

Where do people "pick up" women? All I know is work and gym and I am not aesthetic enough to just plain ask women to fuck. I don't want to catch a sexual harassment charge or get put onto a cringe board.

Late August.

Longest dry spell since I lost my virginity over a decade ago.

I'm 32.

Just fuck my shit up, senpai.

Have a third date with a QT spinner with a thicc thighs and booty for the Superbowl. Wish me luck Veeky Forumsitzens.

Age?

I feel like I can relate to you... 32, fucked ~30 women, but coming up on month six of a dry spell due to no social life any more.

How do I not cum in 5 seconds when benis in vagina??
REEE

BROTHER

Jesus Christ, lads.
>sweatingman.jpg

Masturbating is mentioned were is the chaos and pain blogg guy and his links?

yeah, you're probably right
I just found the situation a bit absurd

anybody lose their virginity late?

im 30 and not popped it yet. girls like me though, i just have anxiety/depression issues as a result of taking too many drugs as a teenager

i don't get mornin wood or many hardons no more

i think i masturbate too much

if i stay away from porn and masturbation i'll get better right

what the FUCK do we do about this breh?

The pornographic Jew is what's giving you problems. Quit porn entirely and only masturbate to your imagination. They'll fix you.

There's no reason not to. Also, I make more than you, I live in a nicer place than you, I'm more educated than you, I probably lift more than you, and while we're at it I've probably fucked more women than you. Waiting for the (you)

Masturbation is fine. Porn is the problem. Also don't use a deathgrip. You won't even want to fap much if you don't have any porn around and your hardons should come back more often. I don't know about morning wood because I never had it in my life.

>masturbating multiple times a day destroys your neurotransmitters and makes you unlovable

just do 30 mins of cardio before you bust your nut, any negative effects of fapping will be negated.

Butt plug. You'll never believe how surprised you are when she sticks it.

Porn is no doubt what is giving you the flaccid dick. It is a huge contributer to erectile dysfunction.
It's fucking with you, my man. You use your imagination when you fap. This will be easier to do the less porn you watch

>need sex
>take a 3km walk to the red light district
>pay 50 euros to fuck whatever eastern european whore I want for 25 minutes
>they are better at sex than some random tinder slut
>I have fucked multiple 9's and 10's by now I would otherwise never be able to fuck
>feels good
I fuck whatever I want once or twice a month. And than I see Americans pay shitloads to fuck a 7/10. Must suck not to have a red lights district around.

25. I can still turn it around if I want and I get numbers all the time but I have a general apathy towards women at present.

2 years, the 2nd year I was a heavy user. I've been of off it for a bit more than a year but I used methadone to stop and I've quit that about 6 months ago.
I did stop hanging around losers for the most part thou, I felt like they didn't get me anywhere in life.
What do you mean with focusing on money? I've been saving alot to go to uni again and working alot to keep distracted. It doesn't help that my side-job is filled with hot, naive, college girls that have to listen to me.
Where did you find people that aren't losers or a living meme, I find it extremely hard to find people that aren't like that. I end up spending alot of time alone working on my hobbies and interests. I find this more enjoyable than spending time with average people.
I have a few groups of friends. My favorite one had one downside and that's that they liked soccer and I dont. I didn't really care but 3-4 months ago they started gambling on it and now they're all full blown gambling addicts and can't stop talking about it so I stay away from them now.

This isn't failure. It just means the degenerate hook up culture isn't for you. Maybe you just need to find a nice girl that is a good match for you.

Keep at it user. You can make it. I hope so, cause I am in the same situation as you.

You're never gonna get over it unless you actually go out ans meet them and let yourself crash and burn a couple times

don't console yourself with 'yeah, I probably could've had about 50 by now'

Take it as a learning experience, I guess. Let the regret fill us more than the fear. Maybe that will kick us into overdrive, one day.

don't you have to wear a rubber?

how many sad realizations have you had that you're forced to pay for sex while there are guys out there that have women actively wanting to have sex with them?

Are you nervous? not turned on?

i feel you. i think more than anything i just want someone who i can just ease into. best of luck friend.

this. Even though I still can't pull back when it's erect.

Alright, will try my best, maybe we'll share our experience here again someday, when we've both made it

hurry up and snag a new GF before she eventually makes a cuckold of you, avoid that sting at all costs. even if she supposedly isn't interested in sex Chad will always find a way in when you can't, that's his job.

Here's your (You). Keep posting these things. Hopefully internet strangers will validate you and you'll start to believe them one day.

I feel for you bro. I'm in some sort of fucked up "relation" with a BPD girl for 5 years now. I love her to death but just can't commit to her because of all her stints, she was molested as well.
Just remember it's not your fault and you may feel like a cuck beta but you're actually a strong man if you can put up with her shit. She's a lucky girl to have someone like you.

do it when its soft, then get hard

While I do agree with you to a point..

>women wanting to have sex with them?

When a woman actually WANTS you, it's hella good.

I'll see you then, user

Haha, I got my revenge when I repeatedly plowed a 22-year-old thin little blonde chick. She fucking hated it.
There is NOTHING like that massive, throbbing jealousy hard-on.