So Veeky Forums, what are some of your life troubles?

That's my plan but I make 10/hr. Only silver lining is I should have my loans paid off by summer

I'm more or less in the same boat. Try to apply for any and all scholarships. Don't know if it works when you already had a degree. Got a crap physical labor job, but I'm plugging away until I get lucky with a renewable or two.

Broke up with a girl I loved because of the chance to be with someone I've been in love with for years. But it didn't work out with her because of distance.

Still love both. Can't be with either

take it from a 36yo, guys.

even though life can and will beat you down hard (harder than you expect, even), if you get yourself out there and don't hide, you can find some silver linings.

there ARE people who will appreciate and maybe even love you if you get out there, interact to multiple people every day, and actually improve yourself. lifting, having a hobby, reading, having a job, grooming. people will recognize your effort and dedication.

it may not be your oneitis, it may not be a super-model, but you will find good people out there.

also, even if you just want to get laid, there are girls into all types of guys, as long as you actually groom and take care of yourself.

I started balding at 18, so I shave and go 100% for the Statham/Cesaro look. girls with daddy issues LOVE bald shaved fit guys. whatever your type is, groom and work out AND meet people.

It's like you're giving us a hope or something

Thanks brah were all gonna make it

Not talking about physical effort, also lol if you think enlisted don't feel bored out of their minds or unfulfilled

I need to take a break from smoking weed but its been really hard to get going. I've finally got a good start on stopping though and I think ill make it. Its only been 3 days but I still really wanna smoke and think about it a lot, fortunately, the cravings and such seem to fade significantly after a week without smoking.

I'm also constantly in a state of butthurt over having an incompetent and unqualified president.

Aside from those two things life is goin güd

Honestly women are a lot easier to deal with when you realize they have just as much autismo as you do even if they're super hot.

Being unable to relate to most people cause I'm weird as shit

>want problems
>won't into marines
It's rewarding. Also if you see combat, you might care a little.

Lifting won't fix my lung problems. Lifting won't bring me towards my actual dream. Lifting won't convince me that love is real. Lifting won't make me comfortable that my dad will not see justice for his actions.

Im sad and unmotivated all the time for no reason. Although I still make it to the gym everyday, go to school, and have a job, I dont feel like life is worth living. I consider suicide every time I drive into my garage. Even now while I type this I just feel bursts of sadness for no reason.

exercising + breathing exercises WILL fix your lung problems.

I had severe ashtma, allergies, had pneumonia 4 times as a kid. fixed all that with breathing. exercises and cardio.

lifting helps confidence, focus and dedication, plus dating and strength, so it helps any dream.

Lifting improves my lung problems, but won't fix them because of illness. I get a pneumonia at least twice a year because of it even though I work my ass off to take care of myself

almost eng degree, good job lined up, decent ottermode, 6/10 face (manlet tho). No female attention and im too much of a pussy to approach. I feel that girls will think im a loser faggot because I dont use social media

I've been sad for so long that now whenever I cheer up and feel happy I get uncomfortable because I feel like I'm supposed to be sad.

I'm only 19 and I'm already an alcoholic. Sometimes I get too drunk and sob for hours. If I get really drunk I try to find a way to kill myself but usually lack the coordination to Cary through with the plans

I also fucked my mind up and now I have auditory and tactile hallucinations on occasion.

But my bench is increasing pretty well so that's good.

I have a speech disfluency and have been going to speech therapy since i was in 4th grade.
I'm 27 now and I can speak clearly enough if I think about what I am about to say but sometimes just trying to say "Thank You" or "Hello" or my own name is a struggle.

Lifting every other day helps me forget that i cant speak right because no one expects me to talk...

I've been a NEET for a year already. Please do not fall for this meme, I have literally never felt worse. It's extremely depressing, you lose the will to do anything at all and realise how extremely worthless you are. I was never good at anything but still I never had a lower opinion about myself than as a NEET.
I've got to start uni again, but I'm stupid, boring and have no intrests so I don't even know where to go.

Have a massive crush on a girl in my class. She has a BF that she said she was breaking up with weeks ago and she still hasn't. Got impatient and messaged her today and I think I came off as pushy. Can't stop thinking about it lads

never had a relationship into my mid 20s, never been kissed let alone having sex. never met anybody i really like enough to want to be with them either. not just attractiveness but actually liking their personality and not for their looks. habituatally used to being rejected/ignored by females that i have crushes on so i dont even bother trying to start anything serious
im going to be alone for the rest of my life

I was at a similar place lad. Antidepressants didn't help and everything just felt pointless. If you've really tried everything i'd try psychedelics. That's what ended up actually helping my depression believe it or not.

You got quads tho so there's that

I've forgotten what it's like to fall in love at first glance... I'm now only attracted to my own body

that theres no cure for stretch marks. kind of puts a cap on how good i'll ever be able to look.

Bruh, just get back with the girl you dumped and act all emotional. Say how you need her in your life. You'll have the best make-up sex after

>I actually found a girl who will roleplay incest-fetish scenarios with me

There are no troubles. Only happiness.

They both deserve better than a person that fickle.

I'm sure you've heard this before, but if you change your mind, you can change the world!

Literally happened to me so I enlisted in the navy. Life is alright now, just living to pay off my debts and use the go bill to go back to school

Try to bring as much good and charity into the world as possible to atone for your father

a spinal erector that i pulled deadlifting that has been hurting for about 4 years now :(
cant progress past 2 plate squat or 3 plate deadlift because of it :/

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GET ON TEST

Are you that user from the other night on meet me

Do I just roid until I die?

Nah this one was met on Tinder senpai

It's not about how you speak, user. It's what's on the inside that counts. People will notice your good heart.

I go to a tiny school in the middle of nowhere. All the girls are in relationships except for a handful I'm not interested in
I'm 24 and have been single for 3 years. At this rate itll be 3.5 more years before I'm out.

I feel like the good years of finding a good girl are wasting away as the loneliness slowly eats away at me.

I had that problem for about a year. Then I went to a physical therapist. He had me do all sorts of really dumb looking shit that seemed useless, but in six weeks the pain went away. These days I rep 405 beltless.

TL:DR; go see a physical therapist. Good chance it's reversible.

i have them bad, even on the top of my shoulder before there was any muscle at all.

i just assume its must be puberty/growth spurt related.

Any tips you can provide? i literally have less than 5 dollars in my account, unemployed currently

>Good GF. Bit crazy, but loved me
>Good prospects on life, working hard for my goals.
>Fit, healthy.
>GF broke up with me, absolutely shattered.
>Dropped out of school
>Living every day chasing nothing, just existing.
>Depressed af, get fat.

That was 6 years ago.
6 fucking years I wasted getting fat.

Current:
>Crappy job, minimal pay with minimal work, can't afford to really live.
>Still undereducated.
>0 true goals except for lifting.
>Constantly depressed when I'm outside of the gym.
>No GF, poor health.
>Still just living every day without chasing any real dreams.

Feels bad man.
I just want to be happy.

...

If you have trouble finding girls, I highly recommend reading Ovid's Guide to Love. It's a work of Roman poetry that's still relevant today

Try doing some charity work, user. Or hell, even go to church. It sounds like you could use some religion in your life

Oddly enough, these last few months I have done more reading into religion than I have done in any other time period of my life. I can totally understand why some people turn to it for strength now.

I might give charity work a go. Thanks.

It's less finding girls and more that I don't live in an area conducive to finding girls that meet my standards.
There is one girl I'm testing the waters with currently. So there is some hope I suppose. It just sucks when the class size is less than 150 people

gf's been being a real bitch at a higher frequency than normal lately.

idk how to handle it. It currently is that time of the month though so maybe I should cut her some slack

Getting older and the shitstorm of responsibilities coming in a couple of years.

I'm just...So lonely.

I've been in love twice.

The first one died.
The second cheated on me.

I haven't really tried again since, but friends grow freezer every day, some moving on, getting married, moving careers, whatever. And I'm here. Unsure of a reason to live, or if I'll ever be able to be with someone again.

money and paranoia

Any hobbies you like? anything you are even a little interested in?

There a little things you can do like cooking a simple meal, reading a book or sketching some shit that can really improve your live.

You also might consider therapy, I would go there before religion in all honesty.

If you don't have any real aspirations out side of lifting, work on becoming content with a simple life. Learn how to relax, learn how to be happy, or at least cope, learn how to change your prospective, try to stop looking at everything as shit even when it might be. You're alive, you can lift, be grateful. If that is not enough, better yourself and you situation.

I'm anxious of doing maths. Yet, it's what I supposed to do professionally. I procrastinate and put off the work I'm supposed to do because I fear that if I start, then I will just feel incredibly retarded for 3-4 hours without achiving anything at all. At the same time if I don't, I won't publish a good enough paper to go for PhD at a decent university after I get bachelor's degree.

Married to a girl I don't love, fucking a girl that I do love, but doesn't love me back.

Two pussies on the regular, you'd think I'd be happy.

Protip: If she dumps some guy to be with you, then eventually she'll dump you to be with some other guy.

I am constantly letting relationship pass me by
>Know this girl that likes me, she does not hide it either
>too autistic too try and smash
>she was thicc
Now she has a bf :(

How do you 'meet people'. I don't get it. Seems like my options are
- go to a bar / coffee shop / mall for window shopping
- go clubbing
- take up some random hobby thing that I don't really care about

All of those things lead to me meeting people, and maybe its just that I'm shit at socialising but never have I wound up in a conversation that lasted more than about 2 minutes.

crippling social anxiety and depression which has kept me job less and living at home for the past 4 years after i graduated from college. at least lifting in my home made gym and watching animu has kept me from necking myself

Hobbies are a bit tough because most of the hobbies I've been into have needed quite a bit of money to enjoy properly (fixing cars, making furniture, etc).

I've got a bunch of books that I've been meaning to read, so might give that a try. If that doesn't help I'll look at therapy. Thanks, user.

I'm naturally anti social and have aged out of most of the activities I did in high school that gave me a circle of friends. Most of the things I enjoy outside of lifting don't have the best crowds associated with them

all this relationship talk and i just wish i felt comfortable enough in my own skin let alone subjecting someone else to me.

>tfw friends grow freezer every day

You have to forgive them user. I'm dead fucking serious. Find peace in the present moment and quit living in the past, and learn to accept things as they are in your heart. Dwelling isn't healthy for your soul as eating bacon grease isn't good for your body.

You're welcome user, good luck to you.

>fixing cars, making furniture, etc

Maybe try and find an affordable trade school or some one you could apprentice with. You could totally make decent money doing either of those things with a little time and hard work.

I have bicep veins and on a good day I can only just pass as someone that lifts.

I have a good life and the best gf, but I know its not going to work.

>She is amazing
>The kindest, most supportive person
>Sexy af too
>And she loves me way more than I deserve
>She wants kids
>I've come to realize I don't
>When she finds out its going to kill her
>She's made it clear that its really important to her
>I don't have the guts to tell her yet
>I know she can't be with me once she realizes I'll never give her a kid
>I'm scared af of losing her
>It hurts brehs, I'm going to lose the only person I've ever truely loved

so i have no problems meeting new people at restaurants, bars, other places and shit, but what the fuck do i do if i click with someone and want to talk to them more? shit feels awkward as fuck just texting them randomly. i always feel like they'd either ignore me or just be annoyed. not too sure brehs.

talking to someone on a whim is easy, going beyond that is weird.

Try go to gym classes

Ive met a few people through crossfit classes. Just dont go to a shit gym that pushes you to do poor lifts and you will probably enjoy it.

They are usually 2/3 female as well.

>2017
>liking a woman for her personality
swallow the redpill m8

>tfw christian
>tfw only want to marry christian qt
>tfw nowhere to meet young christian qts

I cheated my way through high school and now I'm completely overwhelmed in uni with a crippling vidya addiction and a fear of failure.

>thinking about tomorrow's lifts is the only reason I'm able to smile

You've described what I've been feeling my entire life. If WW3 did break out on the inside I'd be incredibly happy and be 100% willing to serve my country. I want to go on an adventure. And if I die, so be it. At least it will be serving my country for the ones I love.

check and welcome to the fold... please grab a robe and meditate with us.

started lifting to distract myself from the pain of losing the girl I was going to marry. I was retarded and pushed her away so she wouldn't be hurt by my eventual suicide, and now she hates me. Lifting won't bring her back, and she's with some genetic failure now. I've gotten some girls' numbers since then (it's been about a year and a half) and have asked out one, but it just doesn't seem worth my time. I want her, not these other girls. I don't expect to get her back, lads, don't worry.

just convert one with the word of god

the girls i like don't like me

all the girls that like me i don't like

Nothing
Lifting boosts my positivity
Positivity makes my life better

boo hoo
at least someone likes you

yeah i know things could be worse

I saw a picture of my buddy who is Veeky Forums and his new beautiful girlfriend

He's a certified EMT now

When we were in High School we were good football buddies, and after we graduated I got him a job at my restaurant I worked at, he moved up faster than I did and proceeded to screw a couple of the girls there.

I guess my point is, he has a perfectly functional life, 0 family problems, 0 financial problems, everything was smooth sailing.

Meanwhile I'm forced to live at home, compiling mass while studying to be a cubicle monkey because my family is poor and broken apart.

I guess what I mean is I'm just a miserable piece of shit where even if I got healthy and in shape it wouldn't be enough to bring me the happiness I desire.

You're a junky. You got no right at all to complain about someone else being incompetent.

you really shouldnt have killed the first one

ask them for their steam profile, then when you see they are playing 3d rape dungeon you just say "haha i used to play that too, make sure you dont forget to rape their butts"

I suffer from depression and I can't get out of my head.

im super fucking awkward around girls and have little to no idea how to keep a conversation going

feels fuckin bad, man. Especially since i finally worked up the courage to ask for a girl's number and im worried im just going to seem uninteresting

Quit my desk job cause I felt myself going insane
Jobless
Interview tomorrow at grocery store

I hope this was a good decision

you have no goddamn idea, I have spent 12 years in the states, got my dds degree and trying to get greencard/citizenship, in this country, and it so bloody difficult and border lining on impossible. what the hell man. If i can't secure either in a year i'll have to join the military as an infantry for 4 years, losing all my dentist handskills and knowledge... FML fitizen lads, what the hell am i going to do?

wtf, are you me
same thing happened
we're both fags

As long as you aren't nervous, silence won't be awkward

You can do it, just don't be worried and ask out a girl with similar hobbies if this one doesn't work out man