Just broke up with my girlfriend. I ended up yelling at her that it was over and left her crying. Now she wants to meet up to get closure. I would like to apologize for the way I treated her.
Bad idea or no?
Just broke up with my girlfriend. I ended up yelling at her that it was over and left her crying...
Cooper Powell
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Liam Carter
why would you post this on a fitness related board? this isn't your personal blog dumbass
sage and report
Levi Baker
Depends on if you want to ever get back together with her again
Basic gest is:
>Giving a woman closure = Never fucking her again
>Not giving a woman closure = Chance of fucking her down the line because she won't forget you
Nathaniel Green
She doesnt really want closure. She just wants a chance to get back with you.
Caleb Howard
Of course it's good idea, unless she cheated on you or something. Don't be a dick and don't burn any bridges that you once might want to across again.
Benjamin Bailey
You don't want to make unnecessary enemies m8
You never know if she could be psycho deep down inside
Nathaniel Myers
This. If you are strong you can play this. Otherwise she will use her vag powers to tie you up
Brayden Johnson
Exactly what I'm afraid of.
Alexander Bell
>Admitting you were wrong
>Ever
I guess it really comes down to whether you actually want a relationship with her. I still wouldn't admit I was wrong though, I'd just say the shit I want to change.
It's immature, but I simply dislike apologising because other people got sad at your outburst over something that was most likely justified. Only apologise for the message, not for the delivery.
Jonathan Young
I'd personally advise not bothering to give her closure because odds are she knows why you dumped her, and just wants a chance to get back with you.
If it's truly necessary that you apologize, then do so, but remain adamant that it is over. Do not get mad, do not get sad, do not comfort her and give her the impression you'll still be around.
William Smith
"closure"
man you're a dumb cunt if you fall for this.
it's not a loved one who's been murdered in cold blood, it's a cunt who already took up way too much of your time and took you for granted.
David Lopez
Continuing on from this.
If you react in any way emotionally, it will give her the mental fuel to rationalize that it was her ending the relationship.
If you get mad she'll tell herself and her friends that she left you because you were abusive.
If you get sad she'll tell herself and her friends that she left you because you were a pussy.
Only way to win is to "be a man" aka emotionless.
Jose King
No contact is the only way to go.
Mason Hall
Yea also she may just want to use the opportunity to shit on you to your face, so she can end it on her terms instead of the situation you described where she was crying. Then she will feel no cognitive dissonance when she tells her friends she dumped your ass and you got told to your face of all your shortcomings
Hunter Murphy
nice blog you fuckhead. get the fuck off this board.
Hudson Morales
Nothing good will come of meeting up. The only pro is possibly getting your dick wet, and that isn't worth the shitstorm of drama she's probably trying to suck you into.
Jose Ross
This OP. She's trying to reframe the breakup so she can shift the blame to you.
Michael Anderson
idk man
My last girlfriend I completely cut contact and didn't even formally break up with her because I didn't want to go through that garbage. She was just sending me these snaps of her being all sad because I'm too busy with school to take her out. Then she made a snap chat story of her at some dudes birthday hugging him. So I just deleted her off everything without saying anything, blocked her number and went on with my life.
But in your scenario I feel like it would take a real man to talk to her. You yelled at her, and getting yelled at is one of the worst feelings in the world. Apologize for yelling, if anything it will make you more of a man and not a fucking coward like I am.
Nathan Hughes
you broke up with your gf cause she hugged a guy?
Jason Rodriguez
apologize user. girls wait forever for an apology when you've been shitty to them. they will never ask for it. every day that goes by and you don't apologize, she'll feel shittier and shittier. it gets to the point that they feel completely worthless and their self-esteem never recuperates.
Jace Miller
Shut the fuck up faggot and take your lifting shit back to /v/
Christopher Mitchell
hugs = sex