>go the gym >cute receptionists that i really like is working today >greets me and asks jokingly if my girlfriend doesn't mind me coming to the gym today instead of spending time with her >jokingly reply that i was hoping that she would be my girlfriend >laughs and says that we can work something out >smirk awkwardly and hurry to changing room >sit here between sets and ask for opinion on alpaca milking forum >afraid to finish the workout because i will probably have to talk to her again on the way out unless i avoid her
i'm terrible with women and never had a gf. didn't even expect her to get the joke but it somehow backfired. i'm not sure if she was just joking or if she really meant it. i'm afraid of looking like an idiot if i interpreted this the wrong way.
Women normally don't joke about that unless they're bullying the fat retarded kid in middle school
Liam Hall
"Hey so I've always wanted to check out *insert bar here*, do you wanna come along?" Blah blah blah "Cool, give me your number and well figure it out"
Isaiah Taylor
On the way out ask her for either coffee or her number. I cannot believe this is so hard for some of you.
Parker Reed
OP are you fat and retarded?
Ethan Watson
Work out and then leave.
The gym isn't a fucking dating service.
Andrew Baker
i'm not fat but i'm pretty dyel
Adrian Edwards
Then you're in. Just don't be an autistic faggot about it.
Andrew Carter
This actually works, I do this all the time.
Brody Gray
see if shes looking at you when you go out if its the case say jokingly and smiling : "so you're ready or should I wait till you finish?"
if she was joking earlier say : "okay my gf must be waiting"
Easton Parker
I agree. Lifting 4 girls is so 2012, OP.
Grayson Stewart
>2012+5 >still lifting for girls
Cooper Gomez
Just ask if you could suck her dick, bro.
Justin Cook
>walk up to reception after workout >so have you decided where we're going for dinner tonight or should i pick >sweet whats your number
Ez
Michael Kelly
kind of smiling and then looked at the floor. did she mean it or am i imagining things?
Cooper Russell
>went to gym last night >incredibly cute white guy i've been eyeing is back again tonight >obviously leg day for him >lusting after him but being friends is ok too >muster up courage to introduce myself, suppressing the sperg and admit that his presence inspires me to work out harder and pull the "would you like to train me sometimes" line >he smiles and admits he noticed me and thinks i've made lots of progress >asks for my digits so we can coordinate
he called me early this morning but i didn't answer the phone because i was in the shower. wat do
Nolan Perez
Even if you are imagining just take the chance my dude. Worst thing is she isnt into it in which case you walk off smiling like it doesnt matter and continue improving your life.
Every ancestor youve ever had managed to get there dick wet under significantly worse conditions. You can do it my dude
Robert Johnson
either she is intimidated and you can enjoy or she cut the joke hoping you wont get to far in your autismo
Justin Sanders
she jokes back at every guy that walks through the door, it's her job you fucking moron.
if you even try to talk to her on the way out except to say goodbye you're going to make a fool of yourself. enjoy your last day ever at that gym.
Nathan Richardson
like i said i'm pretty dyel. only been working for a few months. besides that i'm only like 5'8 and she is pretty much the same height so i don't think she is intimidated by me at all. there are tons of much bigger guys here that even make me uncomfortable
Joshua Hill
that was what i thought at first but that "we can work something out" line confused the fuck out of me and made me thing that she wasn't actually joking. wouldn't she just laugh and not say anything if she was?
fuck me, trying to understand this social interaction mind games from women is fucking hard man.
Alexander Lopez
Call him back you cuckboi
Easton Wood
Dude just go for it seriously, you're DYEL by our standards but maybe not to normies. Just take the chance, even if she says no, oh well, she's obviously not a bitch because of the way she took the first joke
Ryder Wood
shes just fishing for a bigger tip. Sorry man
Julian Ross
ask her what her plans are after work you sperg, its valentines. if she says she's free then ask her out for dinner, if she's got plans then you avoid a fuck up and can carry on as normal. also report back.
nothing to lose boyo.
Isaac Gray
OP wants to be pegged.
Alexander Williams
i didn't mean to be so rough on you, friend, just tough love. the fact you're putting so much thought into this does mean, however, that you are not ready to take initiative. just walk out when you leave and say goodbye while making solid eye contact. if by chance she attempts to chat you up or makes mention of your interaction before then just talk to her. ask her when she gets off and if she wants to get some grub. keep it simple.
Nathan Moore
just ask if she's serious all flirty like
William Jackson
>haha okay well my gf must be waiting, she's totally really a person not making this up pls believe me im not lonely
This is the most autistic thing you can possibly do, OP. Don't listen to user.
Jayden Ward
OP here
well she was there when i was leaving and saw me so i couldn't just leave. had no idea what to say so i just pretended i wanted to pay for the next month in advance so i had a way to start the conversation.
>was it what you said before just a joke or did you mean it? >"did you?" >great more mind games >told her i'll be honest and that i suck at trying to decipher this small talk and that she should give it to me straight >she starts laughs and says "i can tell" >tells me to relax >hands me over receipt >just as i was about to ask her when she's done and if she wants to grab a drink or something she asked me out for a dinner >agreed, got her number and i left
meeting her in a few hours in front of a gym once she's done with her shift. i'm already having second thought about this. haven't been this nervous since i had to talk before the whole school and it makes me want to cancel everything.
i've never been on any date let alone had a gf before. i'm extremely nervous about all of this and i'll probably look like the biggest idiot. should i tell her all of this to lower her expectations or what? pretty sure she will be able to tell almost instantly, if she doesn't already.
Adrian Myers
just get a little buzzed before you meet her
Robert Wright
Chill out. Imagine you're just going out with a bro or close friend. Talk about your life, ask about her life. Interest, hobbies, likes, dislikes, movies, any pets, siblings, childhood, embarrassing moments, etc. The whole point of going out before beginning a relationship is getting to know each other and seeing if you click. It's like a flirty interview.
Don't tell her about your insecurities or anything like that it's a turn off. Girls want a guy who is confident. You don't have to actually be confident just don't act like you're scared. Good luck bro.
Daniel Fisher
Its fine OP, you cant expect to be an alpha chad thundercock with no experience over a couple hours. If things go well thats great, otherwise learn from the experience to get better.
Andrew Torres
good luck op, take it easy, it's harder to fuck up than to do well in a date, just limit the amount of words you're going to say
example >so how did you get that job? >i just left my resume and since i know the manager it was easy to get it
instead of >yeah, i know the manager, i went to school with him, we did all this stuff together, etc, so i applied and he talked with his superior, etc
Luke Cox
>walk up to her >"hey" >"hey" >"so would you want to go out with me sometime" >"sure user I'd love that" >"that's great when are you free" etc
it's not that hard
Christian Hill
stay in there until her shift is over
Gavin Mitchell
She already said "I can tell" so she's got you figured out that much. You can be honest with her and say you're nervous, it's OK user. You've done well so far, at the very least you'll have had a first date.
William Perez
youre a fucking autistic retard that had your work cut for you, im literally as jealous as someone could possibly be post body pics so i can goal what i have to achieve to get a gf easily despite being retarded thanks god bless
Jose Richardson
flex your lats at her, bitches love latspread
Jordan Thompson
thats the fucking joke.
Benjamin Jackson
yeah i'll probably just come clean asap because it will probably help me relax and not constantly overthink every single thing i'm about to say
i look like someone who doesn't lift in clothes. like i said before, i've only started a few months ago
Joseph Wilson
Its not autistic since she was the one who made this gf up in the first place if you joke while saying that its okay and not pitiful
Cameron Howard
no dont come clean user, ffs, its like the number one rule, you do not come clean about shit lie through your fucking teeth so you can appear normal, fake it until you make it
she asked you out my man, just contain your autismo and you will be having a mervelous night
Matthew Wilson
Well if you aren't full of shit,
the fact she was the one to ask you, and told you to relax, means she notices that you are nervous; she probably thinks it's cute.
Don't throw any of your insecurities on her. Just try to relax. She seems somewhat aggressive, she's the one who initiated it. She see's something in you that you don't see in yourself (given the fact she's willing to give you a chance, and you're so nervous and insecure you wont even give your own self a chance out of fear)
Suck it up, go to the dinner. Talk about the gym, and whatever other shit. Maybe if you are lucky she will suggest going to her place or yours, follow the subtle hints. Stop asking questions and just go with it. Stop doubting yourself.
What a fucking beta-male you little fucking faggot are, a girl asks you such a thing on valentine's day and you pussy you to your little locker room to seek the safety and advice of the online image board you visit on a regular basis, you fucking degenerate fucking autistic oxygen thief, alright you fucking socially-awkward-with-girls fucking loser, kill your fucking slef already
Thomas Howard
>girl asks you such a thing on valentine's day and you pussy you to your little locker room to seek the safety and advice of the online image board you visit on a regular basis delete this please
Joshua Price
At this point do not depreciate yourself at all : "Im a little nervous" if you want
Xavier Taylor
first off, good job on not sperging out OP. You actually did well for not knowing how to talk to women.
definitely do not tell her you've never had a gf, especially not on the first date. If anything, just tell her you've never had a serious relationship, it'll come off better.
Otherwise, just ask her about herself, by learning about where she's from and shit or where she went to school hopefully you can relate in some way and continue the conversation.
Good luck buddy.
Carter Hughes
I know that's the joke, but OP's apparently an aspie when he gets nervous and needs it cut out.
It's like you guys don't even want OP to make it.
Take it easy OP, she's already into you. Don't conjure up an image of how you think you should be for her to be interested, you're already well on your way. When you get nervous to the point of autismo traits, just remember: You already manned the fuck up enough to land a date, you're gonna be fine.
Owen Barnes
This Drink a couple beers or something
Jeremiah Foster
idiot ,thats what everyone feel before first date but how can u fking get gf if u always shit ur panties,maybe u can get sum sexy time tonight ,GL bro.
Hudson Davis
done posting here because this. if it doesn't work then at least i'll be able to laugh at this for my entire life
nah, i'm driving there
Julian Nelson
i'm dumb
Benjamin White
Get there earlier and drink them in the car fargot Also keep us updated
Colton Lopez
Is this real? Jesus christ
Jonathan Bailey
Meant for
Jaxson Roberts
post more convincing screenshots next time
Luke Brooks
YOU BLEW IT
Benjamin Mitchell
This is too weird to not be real
Julian Morris
holy quints
checked
Owen Wilson
Hi OP's potential gf!
Nolan Barnes
Is this real?
Angel Smith
If that's real you're a really lucky guy, congrats
Logan Williams
You now realize that: could have been her shitposting to fuck with you.
Samuel Turner
First Quentin x Laura, now this
Cooper Moore
Wew
Caleb Brooks
>had no idea what to say
But you asked what to say and were provided with quality material here: Why didnt you just fucking say one of those things you complete retard?
Elijah Edwards
W E W E W
Christopher Harris
Damn. No words.
Luke Ward
SO FUCKING HAPPY TO HAVE STOPPED BROWSING /B/ FIT IS THE BEST FUCKING BOARD
Brandon James
That was strangely motivational
Grayson Hill
YOU LITTLE SHIT!
Congrats. Now that you know she's one of us, you can relax. Just be yourself. Not your Veeky Forums self, just yourself. Have fun, be respectful, but be a man as well. You got this, bro.
Have fun with the new girl.
Henry Bailey
What the actual fuck? Is that for real? Please OP, confirm this is real?? What the fuck is happening with Veeky Forums? Quantin and Laura and now this wtf I'm going to kill myself
Christian Myers
Asking "does your wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend..." is a really obvious way of showing interest. Just ask her on a date you mong she clearly wants you to
Bentley Bennett
what's quantin and laura, what did I miss?
Sebastian Moore
Ask yourself if she's out of your league. If she isn't, at least go talk to her, ask her what she's doing today. If she's dropping hints then ask her if she wants to do something tonight. This isn't high school, she's not going to tell everyone in school that she rejected you, she will let you down lightly. It's also ok to be friends with girls, you don't have to lay pipe into every girl you're friendly to Just make sure that you at least act like your feelings aren't hurt
Oliver Allen
without doubt. my only criticism is the lack of lifting related shit. just a few more threads with solid advice would be great. every now an then we get a thread that completely covers a certain topic and provides actual great advice but they are rare.
Joseph Watson
Yesterday's thread, look up in the archive, some autist (Quantin) got Laura from Tinder to post a picture with timestamp on the thread
Austin Perez
...
Ryan Brooks
I REFUSE
Julian Kelly
Quantin was an accidental and now. intentional mispelling of Quentin, a guy who found Laura, an archeology student, on tinder and posted screenshots of the conversation after using the "bone to examine" line. Then he gave laura the link to the thread
Nathan Rodriguez
I mainly do bodyweight, so recently i have my "comfy place" of advices and guides.
Brayden Clark
>he thinks is body is all that matters to a girl It's all about your FACE boyo, if you have a good FACE and you're not obese or anorexic you're g2g
Jeremiah Collins
> intentional mispelling I see what you did there, wasn't intentional though
Luis Wood
If this is legit then St. Valentine's blessings are truly upon ye on this day user
John Campbell
>Undercover potential gf
FUCKIN LEG IT M8
Joseph Ward
t. manlet
it's all about your HEIGHT, faggot
Noah Foster
>big fan of the site
who said that? is that even possible?
Owen Ortiz
give us an update OP
Grayson Brown
who's gonna find such a thread among over a thousand archived threads?, noty
Michael Bennett
CTRL + f "archeology"
Kayden Edwards
OP is making it
Godspeed you magnificent bastard
Hunter Torres
celebration party?
you made it, you fucktard
Christian Price
I can't find it user. Even googled it and it says 404 thread not found. pls halp