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How come you can't have what you want Veeky Forums?

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I don't know what I want and depression makes it worse

Because i'm buried in debt from a degree that I regret getting.

Honestly?
Low self image.
I start a company that requires me to go to business owners en masse.

Soo far Every single pitch has gone perfectly and they invest/partner.
The problem is that it takes me 6-10months to work up the self image to call/book a meeting.

The fact that I am too scared of failing. I want to try starting a business, investing in stock but my fear of financial failure is crippling, and I don't know if there's a way to work up to it or to safely try. I want to go to college but have no idea what I want to do and terrified ill make the wrong choice but not know it until 10 years down the line and have a family to support and be unable to financially to to college and try again. I feel I only have one shot at life and if I fuck up then I'm fucked and that fear is keeping me from even STARTING.

look up the self authoring suit m8, it could legitimately turn your life around.

Anxiety, depression, low self image, deep fear of success.
I also have the nagging suspiscion that I'm the kind of person that I hate and would fall completely into the mold of a mean spirited uncaring violent rapey big dicked chad who uses and abuses women and will never find peace or true love.
Pathetic huh?
You know wanting the help people but too afriad to hurt people but realizing that I don't care at all and am just a selfish prick

But that's okay. Suicide is a great option.

Jordan Peterson needs to get more attention as a philosopher.

He says a lot of things that have been said before..but he sure can word it in a unique way.

OP, because no matter how hard I try, people seem to want to fuck me over for no good reason and I can't kill those people.

>Hey user, come back to bed *brrpppttt*

It's medicine, isn't it?

What I want has a boyfriend.

Accounting

So sorry.

They always say that, it's a shit test.

A grill asked me to spot her on decline bench yesterday. She did 7 reps, and I told her good job and walked away. I don't think she heard me. She did a few more sets and then asked another guy to spot her for those sets. Kinda got me in the feels. So what I want is to spot that bitch

I want to colonize space, but i don't know where to start.

I asked her out and after finding that out just said oh ok I'll see you around then.

Is it recoverable?

Why aren't you making money? Isn't the point of getting a shitty boring degree so that you can atleast make money. And with money comes happiness.

I'm a nurse and I currently hate my life. I never asked for this level of stress on a daily basis and still get paid as an unskilled laborer. . Only way out is to get a masters in anasthesia and work as a CRNA.

I am making money but i've got a $50k hole to climb out of and after working in the profession I've realized i'd rather be a tradesman, power lineman in particular.

Sucks to hear man. My mom's been a nurse for almost 30 years and she has mixed feelings about it.

What I want isn't real. Now get out you fucking normalfags.

It's a combination of things.

I know exactly what I want without doubt in different areas, but they slightly contradict each other. Feel free to comment to get me some perspective.

>on women

I want a cute, chill girl who has self-respect and isn't a whore. Those types of girls never care about me. I'm a tall, in-shape, shaved-head daddy type. Underage girls and damaged girls are the ones that like me - basically, insane girls which won't last a month with you. Cute, reliable girls go for jocks and youthful guys who are the life of the party, not guys like me.

>on dreams

I draw and write, but I'm very insecure about it and have zero dedication to it. I can work out for hours but drawing and writing I need constant reassurance because every time I published something I just threw money away and nobody gave a fuck. It also means that I would have no free time at all since I work and lift.

>chilling

I'm a less is more kind of guy, so I NEED a couple.hours of doing nothing every day where I just chill and don't think about anything. This directly conflicts with drawing and lifting since work and sleep are mandatory.

> would you like some morning crumpets sweetie?
> hnnggg...

*BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAFFFFPPPPPFPFPFPFPFPFPFP SCHLOP*

How does BRAAAAAPFP even translate to farting noises?

I want to sterilize this planet from every living being

Because I don't want it enough

If I truly wanted it I would have it, but I don't truly want it/have that drive to achieve it because of my own personal fault

I want good grades, but I don't have them because I let videogames get in the way

I want good cardio, but I haven't run in forever because I make excuses

I want to most aesthetic body, but I let indulgence and junk food get in the way of that too


The only reason to not have what you want is because of some fault of your own

I'm against picketing but I don't know how to show it. :/
Hold me bros

*squeee*

Have you tried starting in space?

Make it real out of pure willpower user.

...

My severe social anxiety makes it near impossible to establish any kind of relationship/friendship unless other people initiate it.

Start with self.

Trips. Zyzz demands you make friends.

Need some way to get there...

Same here.

Because I don't know what I want.

I want to make a lasting impact on the world on a large scale, but I don't want to be exposed to scrutiny.

I want an attractive gf who is in shape, but I don't want to break up with my current one because things are comfortable. Also because we live together, makes things tricky...

I want a job which lets me travel and pays well, but I don't want to spend 5 years working towards it.

I want to get a degree so I can have one, but I don't want to spend so much more of my life chasing something I don't really care about otherwise.

I want to get down to 12% BF, but I don't want to really start policing my intake strictly.

I should be grateful for what I have, in most aspects everything is better then what most people get. But I am always unsatisfied, nothing fills the void. And I think I would be ashamed if I was content.

Have you tried walking?
Lazy fuck

Self induced delusion takes time and effort to develop and it can go wrong. Dunno if it's worth it. Learning to lucid dream sounds like a better idea

Do both.

Yeah if you want to wake up everyday and remember that your irl life is shit.
You should just go nutso man. Trust me it's fun.

lel. On a serious note though, i'd like to colonize a new world. If there was a possibility, i would be the first to sign up for an expedition. Neil Armstrong was small business, imagine going down in history as the first human to ever set foot an an alien planet, with an atmosphere, oceans, continents and (potentially) alien life.

And i don't think it's impossible either. That's what the europeans were saying about Columbus and his trip to America. He ventured into the unknown, and look where it led us. You gotta dream big, like Donald says.
But yeah, i don't really know where to feasibly start pursuing my dream. Maybe go into spacecraft research.

I don't think I'm good enough

The closest planets that are potentially like what you are describing are light years away mate. :/

>that small ass
>what i want

don't lump me in with you, fucking low test

see what it takes to become an astronaut and don't listen to little dreamers like

As a reminder 40k space travel is brutal as fuck

Will see about that.

If it motivates and overall makes me feel better, then might as well.

Yeah but that's a huge ship
It's different for smaller ones, you just need one psyker (sucks for him though)

I had gyno and if that wasn't enough I also have an asymmetric chest and a ton of hair on my body. All of this resulting in depression and a severe lack of confidence. :^)

SSRIs. Zoloft and Lexapro do wonders on generalized and social anxiety.

I've tried Lexapro and it made me extremely angry all the time. Prozac did nothing for my social anxiety. I'm on Zoloft right now but a low dose. Gonna see psychiatrist soon to see about a bigger dose. Kinda sucks bros but lifting helps take my mind off of it

It also has a lot of side effects.

I don't know what I want in life.
I just hate it. I feel locked and tied.
I feel whenever a girl is interested in me, I am too unconfident to get it even further. They even ask me shit assuming I'm a ladykiller super-nonvirgin chad-like figure and I am blanked.

On the upside the other day I took a bitch's fixed barbell that was on the floor the other day to do some curls (she wasn't using it and was quite a bit away from it) she came up to me like 30 seconds later, stood directly infront of me with a creepy pedo ass smile, and said "can I have that back I was using that?"

and guess what? I didn't care too much, I just gave it back and let that bitch do her superset granny bullshit with 8 different items, I just did some lat raises in the mean time

it didn't embarass me as shit like that normally would, I got a little more confidence I guess? but still today I was going to bench but there was a cable going over the barbell to the wallsocket so I just did accessory chest work instead :/

>mfw stood there staring at the barbell on the bench with the wire over it for like 2-3 minutes while people were looking at me
didn't care about that either, I just stared them down

eh I'm probably a special kind of autist, I feel like my lack of confidence comes from a series of child abuse that were most prominent when I was a toddler until I was in my early teens (when my dad started to realise if I retaliated to his bullshit beatings and confidence put-downs x F I could kick his ass)

This is one of the only times I'm being completely honest as well, whenever I'm online I feel so much better by exaggerating things, making things seem better than they are, I sort of trick myself into thinking I'm ok when I'm actually completely miserable.

>mfw I cry in my sleep
every time I go to the doctors about my chronic unhappiness they always refer me to someone but I just shrug it off and never go

can anyone /relate/? Is my autism too far through the roof?

"You cannot achieve success without the risk of failure. And I learned a long time ago, you cannot achieve success if you fear failure. If you're not afraid to fail, man you have a chance to succeed but you're never gonna get there unless you risk it all the way. I was a failure. Sometimes half the fun is failing, learning from your mistakes, waking up the next morning and saying, okay watch out, here I come again. A little bit smarter, licking my wounds and really not looking forward to getting my ass kicked the way I just did yesterday. And now I'm just a little more dangerous." -Paul Heyman

I'm manic bi polar, it's made me an alcoholic. It fucked me out of my job and my girlfriend.

Wew

I'm not strong enough. I'm not fast enough. I'm not skilled enough. I'm not learned enough. But I will be.

I don't want what most people want on the surface (stability, wealth, love, comfort), but what they've wanted since they were young enough to not be limited by the beatdown of reality. I'm not knocking anyone for wanting those things, hell I sometimes feel tempted to pursue them myself.

But I've made my commitment to what I truly want, and though it will kill me in the long run, it is the only life I feel is worth my time.

>Was sad and unfilfilled
>No job
>No education
>Virgin

>Started lifting
>Started studying
>Got the degree I wanted, the job I wished for
>Living with the girl I love

>Still sad and unfulfilled

Got what I wanted, now I dont want it and have no idea what to wish for. What to do fampais?

I'm pretty sure i have ADHD. Been referred to psychiatrist so hopefully i will begin finishing things i sta

Care to elaborate? I see its some program you have to pay for so I'm always weary.

I've been seeing Mitch quotes around lately what gives

Take the bogpill

I take Lex and the only side effects i have are low libido and taking longer to cum. I kinda like it.

Because what I want has free will.

I'm fucking horrible with girls.
I Have a lot of excuses but no one matters in the end.
Been reading and watching vids on the subject for last year and still can't get an approach.
Just can't man up.

Not if you have money

bird up

u are good enough u stupid idiot

no he's not

Well figure it out. You've got your entire life.

Are you fucking underage?

can't win if you don't play

Because what I want take time to cultivate

Because I hate myself too much to do it. I've let too many good people down too many times. I've wasted too many opportunities. I'm already almost 30 so I'm too old to change.

to be fair we went from horse and buggy>car>space in less than 100 years
Who knows how quickly the next 10-20 years will progress.

Dude I'm telling you right now to try the self-authoring program. It's literally like talking to a self improvement therapist. I literally cried while doing it

the game is rigged

>How come you can't have what you want Veeky Forums?
because Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild isn't released until March 3rd

I want the god emperor of mankind to ascend and rule a united humanity

don't know how to help it happen desu

That's what I plan on doing but in the meantime I get strange looks when people ask me what I do and I say "nothing"

Can't even try to pick up girls because I have nothing going on in my life so hardly a good match even for fucking

Another user here, I want to give it a try but don't have 30 dollars that I can just spend on a moment's notice. Is there a way I can get it for free?

Just don believe the fake news

This user understands life

It's a writing exercise. It's not some magical thing, but for $30 you are getting a guide from some of the best (alive) psychologists in the world.

There's a list of questions that are asked as prompts and you write about them for set amounts of time. It's all based on the ideas of Carl Rogers who thought writing and speaking were the best ways for people to get their lives in order.

ouch, that hits too close

>Because I don't know what I want.
You know precisely what you want, you're just too chicken shit to make the sacrifices and take the hits that come with getting it.

No man escapes this world without scrutiny. Comfort is always temporary so holding onto it needlessly is spending time you ultimately do not have. The same with getting that job and cutting that bodyfat.

You can put forth all the rationales in the world to justify it to yourself, but you will be eternally unsatisfied in doing so.

basically, what this user said, it allows you to conquer your past and plan your future through writing exercises, it takes a long time and a lot of HARD work and self-evaluation but it (you in all reality) truly can change your life if you make the effort.

he has a unique approach to jungian archetypes and their relation in our world and minds that i find very insightful.

Sounds retarded.

You have to have a college degree to fly jet fighters; I don't have that yet

I always think about this:

We have the same 24 hours in a day that extremely wealthy and successful people have. We all end up in the ground at some point.

In this life, why work like hell to get what you want? There literally shouldnt be a minute wasted. Why should someone else have a better experience than me on this earth?

Fuck that bro, go and get it!

Some things you can't get without the help of others. That exposes you and one wrong move you could be behind the position you started at.

In the end we'll all die with regrets

I don't even know what I want. I feel numb now. Reading doesn't stimulate me anymore, I do it because I feel I need to keep my brain sharp for some reason. Exercise is barely enjoyable anymore. Socializing is pure pain. I have no idea how to ask a girl out, and I don't think I would be any happier with a gf. I don't really even care about sex and haven't for a while, I rarely even beat my dick and porn makes me feel sad or sick. Music isn't really enjoyable anymore, vidya isn't really enjoyable. I liked reading Veeky Forums stuff, but my local library is shit, and as I said earlier, I don't feel as stimulated reading complex material as I used to, it just kinda feels like a boring leisure activity. Politics as well as most philosophy is meaningless to me now. Most people are completely uninteresting, I leave my phone off for days at a time and only have 6 contacts now. Partying became meaningless to me some time ago, drugs are not very appealing. Technology is not fun anymore, I don't care about fucking around in c and ruby, and tinkering with different linux distros. I am going to school with all my tuition paid and then some for computer engineering in 6 months and I don't care about that subject anymore, although I don't know what other subject I would care about so I'm just sticking with it. The military is doing nothing right now so I can't join and get into the fight, plus I don't really care about killing brown people for oil. I try to focus on art, like drawing, writing, or music, but I lose interest quickly and feel like it's meaningless no matter what I create. I used to get cliche suicidal thoughts like "I want to die" or "I'm gonna fucking kill myself" echo in my head randomly throughout the day but those stopped a long time ago. I'll say it again, I don't know what I want, I don't really want anything, I just don't know why I feel like such shit. I don't even know if I want to stop feeling like shit, but I just don't know why I feel like complete shit.

I'm surprised I don't see that type of answer more often. I mean how much more obvious can it be? We have daily threads about CHEAT meals for christ's sake. There isn't much more to be said desu.

Gratitude is a skill, not just something that happens when you get what you think you want.

Practice with the same diligence you applied to get this far and you'll be set.

That is just pure autism, I really hope that bit of cringe isnt part of the actual lore.

it is but it's vastly overstated/hyperbole for dramatic effect there

I should add that whoever wrote that has weapons grade autism which makes it worse

>demons made of RAPE and LEMON JUICE"

I mean come the fuck on

Not sure if copypasta or not but sounds to me like you've got a hormonal imbalance of some sort.

Very interesting user, how was your first pitch experience? how do you "build up" yourself? What's you company about? Could you share some of your pitch?

Also, if you haven't, read Oren Klaff's book "Pitch Anything", also watch his videos on youtube with LondoReal and his channel, it helped me a lot to modify and improve my pitch.

Here's a quick summary of his book, I really recommend it for all anons
pitchanythingbook.com/

not copypasta. I don't think it is a hormonal imbalance because I'm only 18 and my dick works fine, which both seem to contrast the possibility of it being a hormonal imbalance. Plus I don't have time/money to spend on getting counseling and drugs so I'm just gonna say it isn't a hormonal imbalance and get on with it.