Girl looks in your direction

I WANT TO BELIEVE
I WANT TO BELIEVE
I WANT TO BELIEVE
I WANT TO BELIEVE
I WANT TO BELIEVE
I WANT TO BELIEVE

Fuck how can I be you. Are you naturally extroverted?

A girl being friendly or looking at you doesn't mean she is into you.. It means there's a possibility she might do it with you, she might like you at that moment or time but there's no certainty. It's up to the male to initiate any action either way. It takes practice.
Autistic gymcels on this site are worst than r9k

no I was naturally introverted my entire life all up until college but then I just realised that the reason I was introverted was because I had never put any real effort into forming meaningful relationships. That's the thing about a social life; the more you put in the more you get out. Over the past 2 years I've gone from shut in loser essentially to social butterfly, and none of it feels forced or fake because I genuinely had the aforementioned revelation. Basically if you're introverted it's because you haven't seen any returns of a good social life because you never invested to start with.

Also it's not like you'll become extroverted over night. It's like lifting; you won't be able to deadlift 4 plates the first time you walk into a gym (most likely) but if you work hard for a year you'll get there.

>Tfw havent had a conversation with a girl since I started college in 2013 and have no friends

How do I become more extroverted then?

I've tried starting conversations, I've hung out with lots of people and go to parties etc etc
But I can't seem to have any friends or have people remember me for too long.

I've got the confidence thing down pat because I just stop caring what they think of me.
Is that not enough?

what you need to do is go into it with this mindset:

"What do *I* want out of this?"
"What can *I* do to ensure that I have an awesome time with these people?"

You need to take charge of your social life. Start inviting people to things. Hold parties. Be welcoming. Make other people feel good and welcomed whenever they hang around you. Start conversations, don't wait for others to start them. That's the first step. Taking action in social situations.

The second step is just to learn how to calibrate to different situations. This is the hard bit, and can only be learned through experience. Basically this is the answer to "how do I not be awkward?" Well, and I know this answer kinda sucks, you have to just become hypersensitive to others reactions when you do certain things and then place your behaviours as either "good" or "bad" according to how they reacted. Sharpen the sword and you'll quickly learn which social behaviours reward you and which punish you. If you're paying attention that is, and constantly assessing your behaviours and people's reactions.

Sorry this post is a bit all over the place but I'm just trying to get this down as raw and unfiltered as possible.

dont remind me on my last date

So your advice is... overanlayze?