Be me, muscular, good looking, socially not autistic

>Be me, muscular, good looking, socially not autistic
>Met a 10/10 (On my scale) blond fitness girl in July last year
>After the first weekend we fuck
>We agreed we date now, got feelz for her and she also
>She is social introverted and distanced herself as soons as she recognized she has feelings for me
>4 Months later
>We broke up duo several issues but agreed we still fuck regularly
>Fast forward another 3 months of good sex
>She met someone new
>I ask her "Can I come to you after the 4 weeks of your business trip?"
>Sure.jpg
>Yesterday she met the new guy for the second time
>They cuddled
>They kissed
>She slept in his bed but "no sex"
>She still wants that I come to her after the 4 weeks
>"I don't know what will happen after those 4 weeks hurr durr"
>Still have the feelingz for her and I can't help myself, I'm jealous as fuck
>I meet a new girl on Saturday

Also:

What is the best exercise to develop your chest? Bench or inclined dumbell?

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jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/
youtube.com/watch?v=lY8rzo4Ik4M
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>muscular, good looking, socially autistic
I am none of those so it is somewhat hard for me to empathise but that girl really seems no good for you emotionally. You gotta let go, my friend.

And in regards to the exercise, I think both are, in principe, equally good. What really matters is that you keep overloading them. More reps/more weight/slower barpath are all ways to do that. I don't think there is a magic cure.

>no good for you emotionally. You gotta let go, my friend.

I know that, 100%. And I still can't do it. Why I'm so fucking stupid?

>not socially autistic
>posts sad frogs and complains on a burmese crab trapping social group

If it is true that they didnt have sex, you are literally alpha in her eyes. You should just enjoy it and get as much sex as you want. Dont commit too much though.

>Dont commit too much though.

This train already left the station. This girl was the only one I really catched some feelings for the first time

>She is social introverted and distanced herself as soons as she recognized she has feelings for me
That's girl code for she wants your dick, but isn't interested in a relationship. My bet is that you don't have enough money for her.
>She slept in his bed but "no sex"
Obvious lie, but if it's any consolation she fucks him to get something out of it, and she plans to continue fucking you simply because she enjoys it. Women are aware that their vagina is a commodity, and so they use it. From a mans perspective it's an incredibly shitty, but most of us would do it too if we could.
>What is the best exercise to develop your chest?
Sorry, bodyweight fag here. I'd just recommend archer pushups and weighted dips.

>>She is social introverted and distanced herself as soons as she recognized she has feelings for me
Lol keep telling yourself that. You were her side bitch and that's all you ever were.

I'm bringing you interesting article

t-nation.com/training/tip-should-you-ditch-the-incline-bench

maybe it will help

If this is the case I suggest you do something; tell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel the same cut contacts because this is clearly hurting you

lol dont do this

>On my scale

Literally stopped reading there. If you can't be objective then i wont read you shit story.

tell her this"Its ok. Im fucking other girls anyway"
this will just make everything even and she will get jelly.

>>They kissed
>>She slept in his bed but "no sex"
I bet she's escorting and can't deal with the situation.

Bench is garbage for chest

>also
Go back to /r9k/ faggot

Fuck the new girl and see if that helps get the other outta your head. I would cut contact anyways tho. She clearly doesn't want a relationship and just wants to hoe around

>My bet is that you don't have enough money for her

I actually have alot of money.

>she plans to continue fucking you simply because she enjoys it.

This is actually true, she said several times to me that it was the best sex she ever had.

Dump that stupid bitch. The worst butches are the ones that dont know what they want. Drop her like a bad habit.

The worst is: She said to me, she never loved someone in her life and she is searching like a little teenage girl (Shes 24) for the love of her life

Stupid women shit and stuff.

>slept in his bed but no sex

She throated his cock and he licked her pussy for hours unyil she exploded with orgasm. No sex teehee!

Cut all contact immediately. You can see where this is going. You got months of good sex from a hot girl. Relish that and move on.

Literally block her on all social media, block her phone number, never speak to her again.

Yea, dont fall for it. Shes trying to keep you on the hook. Breaking ties with her is hard at first emotionally, but youll be glad to dodge this bullet.

watch 500 days of summer

chest flies

No its possible you dumb virgin. My ex has had just cuddles done multiple times when we were in an open relationship. A lot of guys are pussies that wont make a move, or simply dont know how to handle a girls objections.

Literally cucked.

>A lot of guys are pussies that wont make a move
Lol, thats not the case
Right now guys make too many moves, girls are flooded with options so this is just simply not true

Lmao

Found the cuck

She told him no sex to be easy on him, and because it was "technically" true, she only licked and slurped his dick till he came, but she didnt put it in her pussy.

>10/10 (on my scale)

If you're hedging this hard in your first post, she's an 8/10 max.

This

Also, ditch the first one and go fug the new one, I guarantee she will be jealous as fuck, that's a nice bonus

Beta

how is it beta to not "confess your love" to someone?

you trippin nigga

>I know because virgins on Veeky Forums told me

How is it not beta to be used by a girl as a sex toy when you actually want a relationship?

jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/

youtube.com/watch?v=lY8rzo4Ik4M

And this is barring all the IRL interaction you can see if you simply go to your local bar/single hangout and see guys throwing themselves at women in droves

If you think guys are not making moves you are basically saying nature is wrong

lol are you kidding me?

it is a terrible idea to attempt to have a relationship considering her and op's history.

op calls her a 10/10, why wouldn't you want to have sex with her with not commitment? and no you are not her sex toy, she is yours.

fucking low test beta faggot

Are white petite women into black brothas? I think I'm missing out, man.

No not at all bro. She knows about her and even told me to meet her, I just need to tell her when we had sex. Safety reasons

No, thats just jewish propaganda. White girls are actually less likely to racemix

You really can't see things outside your perspective, can you? OP clearly stated he wants more than sex and the situation is eating him inside and your solution is to keep everything as it is?

if he confesses his love he most likely will end up fucking up the relationship and end up with no relationship and no sex

Your """"experiment"""" takes in consideration only the online dating population, so people who are actively trying to get laid/know more girls. It's like saying that the general population is good at basketball because people who play basketball are good at it

Goddamn you guys are maximum autismo

Some guy who's kissing and pursuing a girl to the point where he's in bed with her wants to have sex with her.

OP can imagine that nothing's happening, which she'll "confirm" because she wants to keep fucking him too, but it's kind of silly to think that's really the case.

So what? It's clear that you and OP have different goals/needs and you'd be (allegedly) fine with seeing the girl you want getting in a relationship with someone else (which btw will probably mean she'll stop fucking you) whereas OP actually wants something beyond physical contact and isn't ok with the notion of another guy taking a girl he wants. So what's the point of settling for the scraps when he actually wants the whole thing?

Would I believe her? No, because I don't really trust people, but I wouldn't make any pseudo statistical claims from "studies" and youtube videos linked on 4chins either

The point was guys make moves all the time and since i cant prove they do it IRL via secondary desktop reserch ill do it though the online scene

If you seriously think the majority of men would just not make a move if they have gotten a girl into bed then i really cant help you. Either you only know beta faggots with no test or youre delusional

All I'm saying is you're not proving anything because online dating sites are not the real life (meaning that approaching a girl online and irl is way different) and the people who join dating sites are already a subset of the population who actually tries to get in contact with girls. The results are not significant because your simulation is already too far from reality because, let's admit it, any ugly fag can send a message to a hot girl online but will most likely never approach her in a bar

Dumbell press will give you better size/definition than bench but you'll need bench to progress in overall strength after a while.

t. idiot that spent 90% of his chest days with dumbbells and has now a big but weak chest

Are weighted dips on gymnastics rings good for a big chest?

>ugly fag can send a message to a hot girl online but will most likely never approach her in a bar
Yes, youre right that its a disparity between the guys who approach IRL and those who approach online
Every ugly and low confidence fucker can send messages online (and they do, en masse) but approaches happen IRL too but i just cant prove it as easily since...well usually its common sense

Ive been out with my gf and her friends and every one of her friends got approached tons, one got ten phone numbers in one night alone. Ive talked to girls ive gotten to know and the consensus for dating usually just is "Smile and guys will approach"
Obvious anecdotal evidence so it doesnt matter much

Just think about it though, do you believe your average guy will not make a move if he is lying in bed with a girl?

That's probably better for strength than hypertrophy. It'll also get your triceps involved so it's not really a chest isolation thing

I sometimes wish I was a black dude, for the sole purpose of corrupting a woman and making her undesirable for autistic children on the internet. Is there something like SLAVED?

How the fuck is she socialy introverted if she decides to bang after a couple of days and still wants sex after she breaks up while seeing another dude.You're getting played by a slut.

As for the exercise, do both.

Honestly girls like that will just ruin your lives, save yourself the trouble and cut her out of your life.

litterally me rn

dumbell>>>>barbell forever
also remove emotions, they will only slow down your gains