>be 15, a fat 220 lbs britbong >have a hardcore crush on a girl in my class >she's about 7/10, not that popular but has a sweet personality >at this time she's still out of my league so I begin working out with the goal of asking her out after my hard work pays off >begin to get really into my fitness regime, slash my weight down from 220 lbs to 150 lbs in four months >all this time the thought of asking this girl out is motivating me >feeling great, have solid abs and the best physique out of all the guys I know of >get popular, receive interest from other girls but ignore them >amount of time I spend in the gym begins to take a toll on my schoolwork >flunk my GCSEs (only pass 5) >couple of years later and do just as badly at my A levels (2 Es and a D) >don't care, thinking about this girl too much >last week of school and prom was coming up >this is the moment I've been waiting for >find the girl and confidently stride up to her, smile and ask her out to the prom >"sorry, I already have someone" >she turns around and walks away >end up staying at home drinking and browsing Veeky Forums instead of going out to the prom >lost all motivation to exercise despite it being a near religious duty for the past 3 and a half years >seriously consider killing myself
That was last night. I don't know what to do. That girl was my only motivation to exercise and now she's rejected me. Lots of girls had payed interest to me but they'd been shallow and I'd never really liked any of them back. Help me out Veeky Forums, you're my last lifeline. Any similar experiences or advice?
Dominic Brooks
>be 15 >get banned
Josiah Hernandez
>not reading the post >make a fool of yourself
Hudson Parker
kys
Bentley Green
That sucks man. But really, just concentrate on your gains. Ignore girls and all outside distraction and focus on yourself, build your body and find someone new, or even wait until that girl loses her boyfriend or whatever he was.
Jaxon Roberts
>tfw you are argumenting and discussing with 15 years old every day
Jose Diaz
>He reads blog posts that aren't fitness related >He bumps spam threads
Landon Gonzalez
>>/r9k/ is your new home
Logan Clark
Don't stop exercising or you'll be in an even worse state than you're in now
Parker Sanders
>implying he's not either 15 or 16 >age 15 plus 4 months >still an underageb&
Caleb Sanchez
You're 18 when you do your A level exams.
Isaiah Martinez
You really fucked up, the whole time you were lifting you should have been talking to and getting close to this girl, not just hoping at the last minute... Idiot
Dominic Powell
Give me a min. I got something for you but its pretty much a blog post. But I will say this. You haven't even reached your potential yet. Show a pic of your bod
Gabriel Nelson
How though? I've tried getting close to talk but only managed to speak to her about three times. Wouldn't it seem a bit strange to just walk up to her and begin chatting?
It was just prom, start chatting her up , todays a new day playboi!
Adrian Rivera
I hope you learned your lesson: Never base your life around any woman. Not because I'm some edgelord MGTOW womanhater, not at all, but because relying on someone else for your own validation and happiness is always a bad idea.
Now take some time to get over it (and depending on how much you built her up in your head, this may take some time) and then start seeing new girls. Seriously, the fastest way to get over someone is to meet someone new. And meet someone who wants you at least as much as you want them, that's important. You deserve better than for someone to "give in" and be with you.
Thomas Jones
5/7
Hunter Lee
6/7
Parker Howard
7/7
Robert Jones
Oh poor little guy being ripped for college, where you'll meet hundreds of new people.
Sebastian Hughes
Why did you delete?
Bentley Watson
You started the whole thing for a completely retarded reason and chose a path that does not guarantee you getting laid. Neverthenless, remember two things: 1. You now have a body way better than you had before, which is good anyways. 2. There are plenty more girls that you will like.
Kayden Bell
Sorry, there was something private in the photo.
John Hughes
Best advice in /fit today.
Nathaniel Rivera
Flip me man, that's some body. When was this taken?
Andrew Anderson
A couple of weeks ago. When I still had hope.
Lucas Harris
Pics of girl to see if shes worth it?
Dominic Garcia
Sorry man, no can do. She wouldn't seem special through a picture anyway, it's the personality and sweetness that I like.
Alexander Sullivan
hahahah holy fuck who the fuck cares about that girl if you look like that dude.
If she follows you on social media just put up a pic of your bod on there to show her what she missed out on
You will literally have women flocking so one girl isn't gunna matter
Christopher Rodriguez
Gotcha. But be honest, is any of this advice sticking or does it all sound like fluff? You're at a better physique than the majority of your peers, correct? You had oneitis. The one girl to end all girls. But you are young and have only known this one girl that you made out to be all so great.
Asher Ross
kek there are alot of kids and fat fucks and legit autistic guys posting on fit, so you gotta sort the bullshit to find real knowledge
Justin Howard
Humor us dude, your text book example of why we say don't lift for women. You have demonstrated your discipline in one area of your life, now you have to carry that over in other aspects
Mason Moore
That's the thing. You only managed to talk to her like 3 times? How much do you even know her?You were just feeling shallow infatuation OP. It's just a fantasy. You'll grow up eventually
Also, no shit you'd attract shallow sluts. You're mindset for wanting to get gains from the beginning was shallow .
Jack Fisher
Dude, you're only 15. Trust me you'll recover. In a few years you'll laugh about this.
Christian Ward
He's 18. He started working out at 15
Joshua Robinson
He's 18
Levi Butler
shouldn't have fell for her OP
Austin Rogers
>tried to click the X on the ad
Nathaniel Wright
International A-levels are better and more flexible. There are also ways to get a decent degree without A-levels but you need them academia gains.
Lifting for girls is retarded. Thinking high school is the end of the line is retarded. Learn to stop being retarded.
If I were you I'd just work, study for some halfway decent subjects at A-level (Maths, a science or two, maybe a social science or history). There are also these American things called CLEP that can work as credit in a few circumstances. Loads of options are open but most important thing is to move on.
Jonathan Evans
The guy wants a meaningful relationship. But I agree, fuck some sluts to fill in the void OP.
Owen Cook
Read the post, meathead
Thomas Bell
>Wouldn't it seem a bit strange to just walk up to her and begin chatting?
Nigga u walkes up to her after only talking 3 times and asked her to prom. That's worse. Focus on your schoolwork and just try to talk to her today. Just cause she went to prom with the guy doesnt mean that they're a couple. Shoot your shot.
Julian Turner
>220 to 150lb in 4 months But why
Evan Garcia
>pass 5 >2Es and a D Commit suicide
Caleb Parker
>15 >Wants to kill themself Dude your life has barely begun don't be a retard and kill yourself over a bitch. There's others out there. You just gotta get your heart broken a few times before you learn to move the fuck on.
Work out for yourself and no one else.
also Veeky Forums is 18+ so gtfo.
Isaiah Allen
You really do choose to be happy. It's kind of a fucked realization, but it's all in your very own shaky hands.
Juan Jackson
He's 18, retard. Fourth person in this thread with no reading comprehension.
Kayden Clark
>A levels >15
WEW LAD
Christopher Robinson
>a body like that at 15 Wew wew WEW!
Chase Reed
This is why no one should lift for girls.
There are plenty of reasons (many of which valid) for them to reject you. Maybe they're in a relationship already, maybe they have a specific type, etc.
You can't base your self-worth on such an unpredictable group that is over 3.5 billion women.