What are some of your insecurities, Veeky Forums?

when I walk past mirrors theres this mental force that grabs my attention and makes me notice myself in the mirror, and its not positive, like I'm perceiving myself in a negative light, or expecting that, when I walk past a mirror. I don't even have to look at myself in the mirror, I expect it when passing it and get the same mental tunnel vision as the next example: When I'm in public, walking down a hallway, even when walking down a street with a car/person approaching me, I get mental tunnel vision and I can't just enjoy my walk, the presence of the other observer wacks me out. I believe both scenarios I've listed revolve around the same thing: I anticipate a negative reaction to my normal behavior and being? I've been conditioned to expect being rejected and feeling that I'm weird/a loser/deserving of social rejection? How can I take steps to get over this? This would make sense to a degree as I've experienced social rejection in my youth/life for expressing my natural behavior, and it is painful to be socially rejected, and it really deterred me from just being myself and saying what I want without fear of rejection.

5'10 is a hot height, don't worry. But yeah girls that are 5'8+ need a dude that's 6 foot.

mmm I'm 5'3 with asian genetics so I have a petite figure and my fat builds up in my lower abdominal area and back. the worst places ever. I just want a flat stomach :(

I'm not as big as White guys and can't get a girlfriend so I feel really insecure around White men.

I know this feel and I've had it for a long time too and don't know what to do either. Really sucks.

Pajeet?

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I think we have internalized social rejection. We've come to expect it at a low, almost nervous system level. I think its low self esteem or something tbqh. Or just giving too much of a fuck. but its hard to not give a fuck when the feeling is this powerful ya know

I have no hobbies, hate my major (which I'll the bachelors 2 semesters late, few job prospects, I feel inferior to my peers (intellectually and general life experience, never had a gf, etc) ,social anxiety, mild depression, only 182cm tall. That's all I can think of for now, but I'm a wreck.

Lol you do sound really insecure

I can't maintain a conversation

Loose skin and huge stretch marks that cover my entire torso. Did a strict regimen around 22 to fix it, got lean, was still dissatisfied and went back to being average but not overweight. Life sucks in general, oh well.

I'm 25 and I'm thinking of dropping out of college. I just can't mentally handle it desu. I've been in school for 4 years and I'm still a fucking junior. I hate my degree and classes and I'm just really bad with networking with my classmates. I'm really not sure what I want to do with my life. I'm thinking of taking a break from school. I might return to get a degree or maybe get a certification in something at some community college, but I'm not really sure yet.

Yeah I know I'm still kinda "young", but since all my friends are done with their degrees, getting married, having kids and buying house, I feel like an old fuck whos behind in life.

I just feel like a fucking failure in life
I try and avoid running into people I went to school with because I don't want them to know how I live my life.

>5'10 is a hot height
That is what all of my manlet friends tell me. I guess the grass is always greener.

>5'8+ girls need a dude that's 6 foot
Not necessarily true. Lots of women in my experience only will date 6'0+ guys.

you know what will make you even more of a failure? dropping out as a junior and then having to start paying back your student loans at say, $290 a month. Finish strong brah, get that degree, desu that's important for imployers (even if ur not going into that field) and honestly ur already in debt might as well get it. Don't compare yourself to others just keep on working on yourself move forward redpill yourself and keep ur head up brah

Fuck what anyone thinks, it's your life. Remember that, IT'S YOUR FUCKING LIFE.

Stay in school. You are still young, fuck I know some people in their 30's that are just starting uni. It's completely normal. You don't owe anyone anything, you only owe it to yourself to make your life great. And that path is the one you're on, don't leave it.

Not sure if this is popular opinion but from me and everyone I know I don't look down on people that are still in school at 25 or whatever. I graduated at 21 but that's only due to my social circumstances, I fully recognize that.

Don't let some perception people have effect you negatively. I don't have the perception and I think I may be in the majority. You do you and keep on keeping on. You're going to make it brah.

FUCKING ACNE. had clear face over summer literallly nothing on it, then put of nowhere i break out worse than ever before,

still able to hook up with girls but fuck man my confidence is shit right now, currently on accutane so hopefully it clears up. I miss my face

Finish off the degree m8. Honestly a degree is more about the fact that you can stick to something for 4years after high school and complete it. Regardless of what you get it in its a prestige most people would love to have.

I hated my major but im almost done with it. Geophysics. I can do pull through so can you.

I went to Community college for a while and I got a bunch of scholarships and grants. I'm not that deep into debt, but I get what your saying. I just feel like maybe college isn't for me. I mean I'm doing so poorly that I feel like I will get kicked out this semester.

I'm just still really behind in my studies. I need to finish, so I can help my mom with the bills, but since I don't really know what to do in life, I just feel like a fuck up. I work as a server and I make really good tips, but its not enough to live a good life.

Do not fucking drop out. All you need to get that degree is to get a C in every remaining class. Getting a C is fucking easy. Just do it. Dropping out now will give you a brief feeling of relief followed by a lifetime of haunting.

There is NO reason to quit now besides your mental state poisoning your ambition and drive. It's an evil illusion. Don't fall for that shit man.

yeah accutane is no joke it'll clear your shit up.

Always feel like I don't belong no matter where I am pretty obscure feel famalam

Fucking remind me. Stacys think im over compensating for getting Veeky Forums. No bitch 29 pants length only exist in 32 waist or lower

You are a failure at life man.

College is fucking easy mode and I'm in one of the more difficult majors offered (EE). If you are such a brainlet that you can't pass undergrad courses you should just an hero.

all of them

bro there are literally a ton of factors that play into someones life, you shouldn't be so quick to judge.

Halp, I spent 20 years sour graping women, thinking that girls will like me if I achieve X or attain Y, and focusing exclusively on self improvement... And now I find I've grown out of needing intimacy or social interaction in life, and can't bring myself to enjoy the dates I go on (because I could be getting gains instead)

Seriously help, how do I learn to love?

I'm a joblet. I make 40k a year at a relaxed office job but don't want to get a more involved position where I'm waking up at 6AM every morning, putting on a tie and going to meetings. I know that I'm weeding myself out of the gene pool by not being more ambitious. Will I wake up? Who knows.

>EE
>Difficult

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

Therapy desu but if you don't want that I'll give you some other thing I know.

There are people that get so addicted to porn that they are unable to cum with a woman, they can get hard and last legit like an hour. They're completely unable to cum unless they watch porn though. The solution for them is to stop watching porn and masturbating. They should only have sex for the release.

I don't know if you can find some solution to your problem from that knawlage but gl.

What kind of office job?

Height, Balding, wide hips, weak jawline and double chin when looking slightly down due to excessive skin

also penis size, cause since i'm a virgin i dunno if 6.3x5.3 is good enough. Porn doesn't help this one

i also basically hate myself and have no confidence at all, but these are half of this board, so who cares

T. unemployed math major

Data Analyst at a university. Low stress, 40 hours a week and all I do is build Cognos reports and make excel workups/calculators for the staff. The work itself feels meaningless.

I know how to use GIS pretty well and my old boss told me he'd show me how to survey. Been thinking about getting certified as a CAD drafter and taking my career in that general direction.

Math majors are always needed somewhere don't kid yourself

Know that feel. Leave the booze alone and keep your mouth shut about it.

MY JAWLINE FAUUUUURK

Social autism
>Spent first 16 years of my life with severe social anxiety
>Could barely hold a conversation
>Started lifting and turning that shit around sophomore year
>By the end of junior year I was fit and confident
>Still haunted by the dark times in which I couldn't talk to people
>If someone even suggests I'm being awkward or annoying then my autism comes creeping back

I'm 25 now and have made no improvements since then. No matter how much I try it just won't go away for good.

my strabismus on right eye
my dick 15,75cm
my nigger bottom lip.

>Small dick, 4.5x4
>Short, 5'7"
>Boring personality that is unable to keep someone interested for more than a week/month
>Somewhat unattractive
>Still skinnyfat, fixing that though
>Still don't look like I lift
>24 year old kissless virgin

>shitty hair
>ugly face
>manlet
>skelly
>shitty voice
>dumb
>can't make real friends
>get too attached to girls that show me just the slightest bit of attention
>small dick
>didn't have a dad around to show me how to be a man

JUST

>Sometime I have a big zit somewhere on the face
>Tiny head
>25 years old kissless half virgin
I always dodge women if they want to kiss because I don't want to pass for a retard

Lazy eye

>40k
>relaxed
fuck you I want your job

Women say that sort of shit just to get a rise out of you. Like everything else they say, it has no meaning. It's only obnoxious when ugly girls try that horseshit

It's ultimately an empty existence user. I hate myself for not being a productive member of society.

Captcha: Blind Drive

Just like my life. Navigating by banging my head against the wall with a mask on.

Shit I almost put out my eye in high school cause of strabismus. Thought a eyepatch would look cooler

>short
>small penis
>okay face but acne
>neet

I should just kill myself right?

My giant t. rex legs.

>fingernails
I couldn't give 1 single shit if anyone insulted me about any part of my body. Literally nothing. But the second anyone looks at my fingernails and makes a comment like

>"gee user, you keep your fingernails cut short"
>"gee user, your nails are lookin kinda long"

I fuckin get so self concious I gotta either hide them in my pockets for the rest of the day or go home in between classes to trim them. What the fuck is wrong with me

that is the most mundane insecurity I've ever heard. You can fully control the length of your fingernails and their quality easily.

I'm seriously jealous of your life if that's your insecurity. Let's trade.

reeeEEEEEEEEEEE HOW DO I GET RID OF ACNE SCARS FROM ACCUTANE I NEVER ASKED FOR THIS ITS BEEN FUCKING 2 (TWO) YEARS SINCE I GOT OFF OF ACCUTANE AND MY SKIN IS STILL RED RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

My left clavicle is 1.5 inches shorter than the right and it fucking annoys me. The right one is also not very long either. I unironically think I would be perfectly happy with my body if i wasn't a disproportionate claviclet

>tall
>handsome based on everyone I talk too
>broke out of DYEL
>7x6 penis
But I got bullied by girls in high school excessively. Currently, in therapy 3 times a week trying to start conversation with opposite sex, it's a struggle.

go to a laser dermatology clinic. Fraxel or CO2 laser should fix that right up. Will probably take 3 treatments to get the look you want and it'd be like $1k but worth amirite?

My personality

Try aloe (assuming it doesn't make you break out) or maybe see if you can get on some rosacea medicine. it's just a low dose of doxycycline that reduces redness and acts as an ant inflammatory rather than an antibiotic.

won't do shit about the scars he needs laser scar removal

Cheap Solutions
Grow a beard
Use makeup by limited amount
Money Solutions
Go to a dermatologist Clinic, be prepared to pay out of pocket tho

can't lazer procedures fuck your skin up even more? I'm pretty content with my scars, but i'd only be willing to do it if there is only benefits

I don't know where did you hear that info? I have very minor scars and from the research I've done it's pretty safe, especially fraxel.

>my cock just randomly decides not to work when im with my gf
>when im with my gf
>gf
Why the fuck hasn't she left you already for Chad?

nah senpai, It's just expensive because no insurance is gonna cover it, because it's a cosmetic procedure. And I haven't heard a case of ruining the skin even more.

Not good at confrontations.
I usually either freeze up or go batshit on people.
But if I don't get it out at that second I'll spend days pissed off and slowly ramp up and get more angry and it just seeps out everywhere.
I'll workout and play games and try to think about other things, but it's still there gnawing at me.
I think I need to figure out how to deal with these kinds of things or I'll end up killing someone.

Just get really pissed and direct that anger at your body. Then use that to never give up on working out. Ask yourself "is it fair that I'm fat while everyone else isn't? Nope." Then MAKE IT FAIR and get your fatass in shape.

What'll you look like if you eat perfect for a few months? Remind yourself what you want and stick to it.

Every time you look at yourself, tell yourself "You're a badass" like 20 times. Kinda laugh to yourself about it, but repeat it. You start to not be so negative on yourself.

>gay
>never been proud of my body
>bad snaggletooth on the bottom front
>warts
>terrible with money

All this combines into one giant mess of a man who hates himself. While I can fix most of the ones I've listed fairly easily, I cannot fix the one I want to change the most

>engineering
>hard

hahahaha

>tfw can't approach cute girls
I know I have the looks for it, I just don't have the confidence for it. When a conversation is already going though I don't really have any problems, but yeah initiating conversations is always hard.

Nah it's not that hard to fix that snaggletooth

do 5 reps of tooth press every day

I haven't fucked a girl in 3 years and it was making me super depressed. But I just fucked a really cute slut off tinder and I haven't felt so good in a while. The slumps over

lol faggot

>on Veeky Forums
>calling other people faggot

...

> Ginger
> Fucked up teeth, like pretty bad. Needed braces as a kid but parents couldn't afford them
Still not a virgin though and hopefully after this cut I'll have abs.

My noodle arms. I'm also 5'11, and I went from ~160lbs scraping ~200lbs in less than a year. I still feel like a skinny ass dyel fuck.

I've now been training for a full year.

My clothes have gotten smaller, people compliment my physique, and I've gotten stronger, but I still feel like a small bitch. Is this the first step on the path to steroids?

I can't make meaningful conversation which makes it hard to make new friends and meet women.

Among about 100 other things, my jawline.
Give it to me straight how bad?

not your jaw mate, your chin. Need chin implant and you're good. Relatively cheap, very safe, easy recovery. Get on it brah.

>5'11"
>200 lbs
You're either ripped or fat

no confidence
no social skills
fleeting nutritional discipline
small cock
wide hips
poverty bench
lower than average academic discipline for age

I feel the same way senpai.People say Im bigger and stronger but I dont feel like it. Its probably the body dysmorphia kicking in. If you want to hop on the juice wait at least 5 years or what I do is look at my beginning picture to see how much I changed.

"You're either ripped or fat"

My huge barrel chest. Can that ever be aesthetic?

you could bs most of school in all honesty. Just lie about having dyslexia, and boom uni is 10x easier. You get prescription adderals and extra time for all assignments. Thats what most students do.

a bit chubby (bulking)
6x4.5 d

literally no other insecurites except my autism
6'3
fit
good frame
good jawline
great hair
hooded eyes

i got genetically blessed.
too bad im a talentless autist.

I had your level of acne a few months ago, its red scarring now but the best thing i did was go dairy and gluten free.
I remember stopping myself from seeing girls when i had it bad but know it feels good just going up to chicks and hooking up etc

>6'
>Not ugly
>adonis belt even with a little fat
>ectomorph

>18 inch shoulders. ima fucking kill myself.

>uncomfortable with the idea of random hookups
How the fuck do I get over this?
I've literally had sex with 3 girls in my life, and a few blow jobs, never finish when I do, and rarely find myself comfortable with trying to hook up with a random girl, even drunk
What do

>Stretch marks on my stomach, thighs and arms.
>Loose skin around my stomach.

I guess I shouldn't have lost 60kg by taking dexies and not eating.

honestly once a girl is there to see you naked (assuming you are), she won't really care about stretch marks or anything. At that point she just wants the D, once you're in you're in. Hard to get out once you're in.