Are relationships a liability Veeky Forums?

By Rollo Tomassi?

yeah

I'm reading it now. Good shit

Alright, ill look into it
Maybe it will help but my problems in life and dating arent...conventional

I always have someone to come to. Someone to cook for me, for me to cook for, and bring to family holidays. We were exclus8ve for like a year and we get a long really fucking well, why should i drop, just because i would like to smash a different pussy on occasion? Sex isnt as important as you make it out to be.

>sex isn't as important as you make it out to be
Well, apparently it is, because you have to invent an alternative relationship form so that you can have more of it.
Pretty delusional of you to say that under these circumstances.

I mean, go ahead and do whatever rustles your jimmies and have fun with it.
But most of us here are probably looking for a life time partner to build a family with.

Not a "main bitch that hopefully doesn't fuck around too much and cooks food when I get home".

but... polygamy is closer to what nature intended...

I mean, sex is important, just not as important as you personally make it out to be.

I do this. It's worked so far

...

Not him, but polygamy guy is the one who sounds over-concerned with sex.

you sound like a brainlet

I trust my gf but I don't really trust her friends. My girl is the attractive one in the group, the others are 5/10's and not very shapely, so guys will game them to get to my girl when they're out

Not gonna lie, sometimes it makes me insecure because she wants to fit in with the group but I try to keep the mindset if she fucks up, nothing I could do

How do I deal with this? Aside from getting a new girl

flirt with other women or what?

Not flirt, but I'll tell my girlfriend whenever some random girl in public flirts with me or checks me out

>How do I deal with this? Aside from getting a new girl

Find her a new friend group.

Newsflash you insecure autists. She wasn't "Too hot not to cheat" she was too much of a weak minded insecure bitch to stay faithful

You don't want to be with a woman like that to begin with.

I cheat on people before they can cheat on me

Proverbs 13:20 senpai "You are the company you keep"

Even the most sweet, loyal girl is a ticking time bomb if she has shitty friends, I guarantee that they're constantly talking shit about you behind your back and encouraging your gf to cheat or leave you for someone else.

>Are relationships a liability Veeky Forums?
Yes, at least thats what I tell myself.

Also, how do you console a friend who just broke up after years? I'm terrible at this shit and I just told him not to get all mopey and depressed.

Oh and when is it acceptable to fuck your friend's ex, if at all?

>Oh and when is it acceptable to fuck your friend's ex, if at all?

Never

>sex isn't that important
>which is why I will try to get as much sex as possible from other people instead of my girlfriend

do you have brain damage ?

Always cheat first.

>encouraging your gf to cheat or leave you for someone else

I believe this is happening. They all congregate to watch the weekly viewing of the bachelor show garbage and I feel they're comparing relationships

My wife doesn't have girls night out hahaha or girl friends rlly.

I also check her phone when I want and she checks mine. Merge t relationship we got. You faggots are too puss to set up rules and boundaries enjoy you failed progressive relationships lol

how to set up rules and boundaries

>sex creates an unbreakable bond berween me and my partner, so we abstain from having sex with other people

This is how important you make sex out to be? Its just a bodily function my friend. Trandcend your social programming.

You living on a tree and dying of disease is closer to what nature intended as well, what's your point?

I do this. It's worked so far

Maybe relationships (for most people at least) go beyond having sex and are more about finding someone who cares about you enough to do a few sacrificies from time to time and not having the self restraint necessary to not fuck other people is probably a sign that neither of you want to put in much effort.
Also I like how sex is just a bodily function but you're happy she hasn't fucked anyone else and don't want her to have as much sex with strangers as you

this is my point, friend

>Well, apparently it is, because you have to invent an alternative relationship form so that you can have more of it.
>invent an alternative relationship form

Also try "The book of Pook" (google it, can download)
It's an interesting read

Ive read the book of pook and i gotta say, i hated it
it had some good points (like self improvement) but those are few while its mostly a "approach more women" thing which isnt a solution if there is a lack of women

Is her foot nailed to the basement floor too?

Fair point

Don't speak for everyone. It isn't surprising that a bunch of fucking NEETs on an image board are desperate to wife the first chick they find but don't put that shit on me.

Are you retarded? The people who are hurt the most are the least likely to want to marry. All the people who marry are non-neets.

Just her left.

Nice projection you fucking loser

delusional incel detected

But not fucking other people is nary a great sacrifice to us, because is just a bit of fun, and urge relief. She's taken a crap job she hates, to help us out financially. Thats a great sacrifice for our relationship, not abstaining from something so simple and harmless as a bit of sex.

She's happy and stress she likes our relationship dynanic. Same rules apply to me. We don't want a progressive open minded relationship like milleniala do. There's a reason divorce rates are so high. We're going traditional, and she says she feels the most secure and happiest with me. Not everything is as bad as you think faggot. Stay cucked.

Yep youre retarded. How would you even afforda wife as a NEET.

you won't. you dumb cunt. i was pointing out how fucking ridiculous your ideology is. how fucking hard is that to undestand? this board is filled with fucking worthless dipshit social rejects. and despite all their bullshit they spew online all they really want is a normal fucking life. WHICH they'll never have. on account of how fucking pathetic they are. jesus christ

Like not being in public without male escort, not having a drivers licence or job, and sheust cover her hair in public i agree my friend. Strong traditional values we share.

You're so fucking stupid holy shit just fuck off.

Obviously no. But like I said she prefers it and prefers o not have girl friends either. If you look at affairs that's how it starts. Again. Stay cucked and ignorant. Same rules apply to me. And I look netter than her so kys.

>all these fucking dorks harping on about traditional marriage and loyal wives and blahblahblah

Please fuck off /pol/

drink bleach nigger

So, neither of you are allowed to have friends? Jesus man ...

Guys just get a waifu. Its a lot simpler.

Bigger man than you faggot
>dyel hipster that fucks indie chicks thinks he's a man.

Yes but only of the same sex. And not such thing as guys night out or girls night out rlly. Unless it's to a get food or stupid shit not so much clubs or drinking outside etc partying and such.

And again we are transparent to each other and hide nothing. From personal accounts to phone logs etc everything. We also have no social media.

>wanting a normal life makes you a NEET or a nazi

Is this how bad it has become ?

You're a fucking retard, humans never live ed in trees. You might as well compare us to single cell organisms living in the sea when life started.

when tf is there a lack of women

(((who's))) behind this post?

You sure seem like a shit person. Do you want to keep your friend or do you wanna fuck some chick once?

straight up man shes gonna cheat, eventually, its statistically guarantee'd that someone better looking, or at least seemingly better will walk by, and at that moment its over.

Remember, Jhonny Depp has been cheated on, Brad Pitt has been cheated on.

the game was always rigged, we just werent aware of the rules

I live in Sweden so there is a statistical shortage
(bbc.com/news/magazine-35444173)
There are links to SCB confirming this as well but its in swedish so you wont understand it unless you speak it

This on top of the fact that girls who want a man usually got one, its the picky ones who are single in 90% of cases

the old me wouldve hated on you, but now i jsut fucking agree baka

oh you sweet summer child, im honestly praying for you

(honest no sarcasm)

Please tell me you aren't under the age of 30

If you are too insecure to be polyamorous I feel bad for you son.

t. Ahmed Mohammad

Well that's good to hear

stop dating gym rats and club trash and you'll find a woman who's faithful to you and cute

I got 99 problems but getting cucked isn't one.

> Make sure your primary bitch dont fuck around too much tho..

literal cuck

It's fucking retarded my wife is a solid p 8/10 of she's prettied up and we have no social media not friends of the opposite sex and are transparent with each other. People think this is some sort of abuse relationship lmfao even at work they ask her wtf but she gets pissed and tells em, she likes our relationship the way it is

Im 24 get fucked bitch shes 22

You completely missed the point, might as well collect your disability cheque

Getting a job is now a sacrifice? I thought it was something that just about every fucking body does. Also, you're still not answering why sex is so natural and innocent but you don't want her to get too much of it

the most degenerate way of living. she'll grow to spite you and your relationship will fall apart. even if that doesnt happen how do you expect to ever have a decent family? you gonna tell your kids about how mom wasat home while you were out fucking other bitches? i had a gf and i decided it wasnt right for me at the time so i broke up with her and then fucked a bunch of sluts. white trash moron

Why? Not even if my mate is over her? He is a smart and rational guy. He can move on.

I don't know man. Its not like I'd hop on it straight away. Probably wait a while, evaluate how my mate is doing and see where it goes then. I know him and if he is anything like me he doesn't get overly attached to people, no matter how long they were together. I'd also probably discuss it over with him before proceeding.

I've just wanted to fuck her for ages, but always restrained myself out of respect to my friend. Now it kind of seems like free rein.

>open relationship
>having to make concessions to your woman instead of just doing whatever you want and keeping her on a leash
top fanook

Absolutely disgusting.

Agreed, shower of cunts.

But that's not what creates a healthy society. Stop being controlled by base instincts.

> measuring dicksizes on a taiwanese ladyboy forum

kys my dude

You both sound really insecure

well its something i've never had to worry about cause i'll never have a gf

Everything is a liability. It's about how much of a liability it is. You could end up like if you take no risks and just follow the status quo.

They were together for years. Most people take at least a year to get over someone they cared about. Some people never do, even if he says he's cool with it I'm sure deep down it would probably upset him. How many long term relationships have you been in?

what if those work friends wanted her to start going out with after work, or on a beach vacation

To answer your question, if she fucks guys i dont know from bars id drop her quick because thats gross. She has met every female i have fucked and given me the go ahead on every one.

If she brings me a guy to meet she tells me she wants to fuck, and i deem him worthy (clean looking, has his shit together, non druggy, no wife/) then she can go ahead and fuck him. If she wants me and someone else to tag team her, im cool with that.

Jealousy isnt healthy.

>Jealousy isnt healthy

Advice on how to overcome/not have jealousy and insecurity in a relationship? Aside from not giving a fuck

Doesn't work. They still cheat to boost their self esteem. There's no winning