I recently ended things with a girl I initially had a very good connection with. We liked the same music, related on a lot of personality characteristics, and generally just "got" each other.
But I stopped seeing her because I feel like she was ultimately bad for me in the long run. Despite not being fat, she was kind of lazy, and was the type of person who skips class and that type of shit. She was also into weird stuff, like My Little Pony and anime. Plus, she had the typical white girl diet, the whole going to Panera and getting a sugary drink and a couple of leaves for lunch and thinking it was healthy thing.
Am I just being too much of a hard-ass? I know I have a tendency to push people away, but I feel like I just can't be with someone who ultimately doesn't work to live well.
Dating a Gains Goblin
Nah fuck that. She would have likely cheated eventually and been a gains goblin. Good on you
Sounds like you did good, assuming you at least tried to fix her. I personally would have ended the relationship as soon as she said she was into MLP -- there's no saving those """people"""
How old are you user? Nothing wrong with having some standards, and she definitely sounded basic but I do think you might have been too ego centric.
are you that fucking pathetic that eating at panera bread and having a salad would ruin your gains
panera bread is pretty good you ape stop being so weird
t. Doesn't lift
Nah fuck that bitch, she's way too fucking normie anyway. Waste of time.
UGGGHHHH right?? Like its ok to cheat twice in a week. Like frappés and mochas yaaasssss quuuueeen
Congrats, user. You made right choice based off of the right criteria. Clearly a degenerate, lazy cunt who'd be a terrible mother and wife.
I'm 19. I've actually never had a serious girlfriend, though. It's not that I don't have the social skills or the charisma, I just feel like I'm too independent. Some people are afraid of being alone, I think I'm afraid of not being alone.
Also, I wasn't dissing Panera, I was dissing the classic white girl diet.
Oh your not that old, eh neither am I. I'm 21. I had such low standards so I dated who I could. My self esteem was shit.Now I'm in a better place. I can be alone as well but I don't try to judge people wholly on what they do. I poke fun though since its easy to fall into stereotypes and be generalized but people are people.
>It's not that I don't have the social skills or the charisma, I just feel like I'm too independent.
Dunno the scores with you or her, but you should know: every year the girls get worse. By mid 20s they are all very mentally damaged sluts.
You don't sound like a fedora-wearer at all.
There have to be at least some girls out there with their heads on straight. I have to believe that.
There are, user is just very jaded because he has mummy issues and watches too much porn
>have gf
>skinny asian
>we order 2 meals at a restaurant
>she only eats half of hers and gives the rest to me
>She still insists we split the bill
thank you based god for what you have given me
I'm not saying you got to be with this girl or that girl; just if you think this is a good time of your life to be single, you are very wrong.
> I know I have a tendency to push people away
That's all it is. You found a reason to push her away. But you knew that, didn't you?
Jesus fucking christ get over yourself and go outside.
You're OK. People are heavily influenced by their friends and family. If you wanted something else, it was probably the right choice.
I did the same thing - we split on amicable terms. Now I have an on and off relationship with a nice active girl. Not perfect, but hardworking and active.
She's an uggo with yellow teeth. Bail
>None of your reasons for keeping or ditching her include things like religion, worldviews, future plans or life philosophies
Sounds like you're a pleb and you'd be a perfect match for any woman.
I don't know what my future is going to be like, and I'm agnostic and she was Christian. I know that can work, but it turned me off. I just didn't want to start a holy war, or make it seem like that was the biggest reason.
>Uses Veeky Forums
>Thinks he has good life philosophies
Hahahahaha
Can I get some advice as well? This girl I met on tinder just lost 50lbs, and while I find that impressive, she does have some more to lose. She is very diligent about her workouts, getting up at 4am to lit before work, but her diet is fucking off the rails.
>sugar
>alcohol
>processed carbs
These are not occasional treats, either. Today she sent me a pic of her trying on a dress and I could see her flabby arms.
I don't want to drink and eat garbage just becuase I like a girl who does, at least not just before summer. My question is this: how reliably do women stay fit or skinny once they've gotten there? Coudl I shame her into reaching her goals and maintaining her figure?
>I'm agnostic and she was Christian.
There you go, ditch her. That's the only reason you need. Why would you date someone who's willing to abandon her ultimate convictions for some turbo pleb?
She's dieting to trap a man. If you are lucky she'll put on weight before marriage (thus showing her true colors), much like my sister did. Some girls will trick you and wait till after marriage. Either way, she'll get fat again.
>include things like religion, worldviews, future plans or life philosophies
>posts that image
>here
i know you came from pol
You missed some key things, because you don't need to know that shit immediately (and you can also shape her).
>Kind of lazy
Red flag. If a girl can't be fucked to go to class every time, what about her legitimate appointments? What about paying bills? What about child raising? What about going on dates?
>MLP and anime
Another red flag. Specifically the MLP. Any adult that's into mlp is not an actual adult, but a manchild. This goes back to the laziness. She's most likely well meaning, but incredibly spoiled.
>the typical white girl diet that's not actually healthy
Goes back to the laziness, she can't be fucked to research a good diet or stick to one.
Massive red flags.
I've seen you make this thread before
>cartoons a red flag
>to a shitposter on a Marshallese encaustic appreciation fraternal organization
>The most important parts of life aren't important to me
>Please sleep with me
>Has shit genetics
I can eat pizza and fries every night and still maintain my 6 pack.
Also op you are a bitch and a fag. "I left her because she ate some food bad for my nutrition wahhhh" Sounds like she was the real man in that relationshit.
She will get fatter in the future. If she doesn't change her diet for good don't bother.
Soon as you get her pregnant she'll go full bore fatties for life
>"I eat unhealthy things and still maintain a good physique, I'm sure it's got nothing to do with how I budget my calories elsewhere, how much I exercise, and my overall lifestyle."
Also, I didn't end things because "she ate some food bad for my nutrition wahhhh," I ended things because she ultimately isn't someone I'd be satisfied with.
What a fucking shit thread. This isn't your blog, faggot.
>coming here to give you plebs a helping hand is bad
I'll just fuck off then
This shit made me laugh like a mother fucker, I feel like most of the people that lurk this site are way over there heads and have a over inflated ego
Your 19 and you browse Veeky Forums, I honestly believe she's way above your league, you have an over inflated ego just like everyone else in this site, your not that great, let her be the foundation of a better relationship, and get over yourself she probably has her own shit list dedicated for you.
Someone post the nudes of girl in op
I dont budget or count calories like some fag. I am a man. Not a bitch boy like you. So go cry somewhere else.
I see all these people itt supporting your decision, and frankly, I'm mystified. To me it seems like a really petty reason to dump someone. I really think that you cranked the autism up way too high, OP.
>marshalese encaustic fraternal organization
well done
>girl who watches My Little Pony and anime
>way above your league
Holy fuck, you are an idiot.
If it bothers you, then it bothers you. It's not like you forced her to change or anything so move on and find someone that makes you feel 100% good about. I was going to go see a 9/10 who I was very attracted to for years, but knew that our chemistry wouldn't match. Didn't want to deal with the heart break in the long run so I called it off. If your gut instinct says don't go for it then don't
>was the type of person who skips class and that type of shit.
HAH you made the right choice