/fit please help
How come I can get hard to porn easily, but I can't get it up in an actual sexual situation?
I met up with a 37 year old woman from Bumble, I'm 23 (also a virgin), and my dick was completely dead.
How the fuck do I fix this?
I have friends who jack off on the regular, and still have fuck without an issue
Not your fault. You were just not attracted to her.
This myth that every guy needs to get aroused by anything with tits needs to end. If it was your dream girl you would have gotten so hard you would have crushed your own dick into diamonds.
This happened to me when I was a virgin. It's easily curable.
Get some viagra and pop 50mg next time before you have sex. Do this for your next three sexual encounters. For your fourth and fifth encounters, drop down to 25mg.
On your sixth encounter, try it without any. You almost certainly won't need it.
Also, most normal people make out and touch each other before bucking. Your girl should be stroking your cock until it's rock hard before you pounce on her to put it in. If she's moving too fast, is totally cool to say that you need more foreplay and go back to handplay.
Chad gets head first before putting it in
but she was Colombian and was pretty high test
this is also the second this has happened, the first time was with a hooker at a "massage parlor. Couldn't get it up either
I am not attracted to men or women. What does it mean?
Stop jerking to porn and use imagination only
any over the counter alternatives to Viagra?
Also, I don't have a gf, and don't really want one.
I just want to have sex already, preferably through a hookup app, or an escort
just meet her again OP
she knows you're a virgin and will help you get more confident in your body
couldn't get hard the first either
more foreplay, a handjob/blowjob will help you get it hard next
no need for viagra or any medication, you're 23 ffs
also, i lost my virginity at 25, no need to pressure yourself
Anxiety makes you shit at just about everything.
(except running away from things that are about to kill you)
had this same problem.
I found my dick responded only by stroking.
The first girl i fucked had super loose pussy and I could barely get/stay hard
Second girl was tighter and I could stay hard, I didn't actually get rock hard till I fingered her and jacked my dick a bit.
I realized I was death gripping my cawk and that I only felt around when having the feeling of fucking something really tight. Try getting a fleshlight. Also more foreplay
Stress response. Adrenaline literally makes your dick floppy.
To add to this the fucking anxiety was crazy the first time, being horny is like a chemical reaction in your brain (i think) and I believe when you're having feelings of anxiety it fucks up your game. Try may be drinking together a bit to get more comfortable.
You answered yourself, stop watching porn, it's fucking with your brain. Now i'm not telling you to do nofap, thats retard, just stop watching porn and start masturbating with only your thoughts. This is the only thing you need to do
When you watch porn you're actually watching the guys
You're gay
You need to meet with men, then it'll work
Sometimes you only like things as a concept. In this case, you're probably not really attracted to fatties, though it works with porn.
Try being with a girl your own age who isn't fat. Like a NORMIE.
Stop watching porn
When I realized this it was the best day of my life.
Never having to deal with rosties and having an all you can fuck buffet with grindr. Why aren't you gay yet user?
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Porn induced ED
But it was your first time. So nerves were definitely a factor. For me it was the same way I wasn't hard at all at my first chance but since then I've been fine
If it happens the next time you're about to stick your dick, then see a doctor
>Porn induced ED
is this real, or just want the NoFap community wants people to think?
I've got a kind of similar problem atm. I've tried to fuck my virgin gf twice now (I'm not a virgin, but only had sex once before and didn't have this issue). So I can get like 95% hard (but not dick gonna explode hard) and yet every time I try to stick it in she is just too tight and I lose my erection as I try to force it.
What do?
I kind of feel like it's me because I'm probably a bit anxious and my dick only gets hard after a bit of jerking, but at the same time I feel like 95% hard should be enough (it's certainly not soft). Do I need to be mega-chubbing 105%, oh shit my dick might explode, hard to fuck a virgin? Condom isn't helping either, should probably go buy some lube too. Any other advice?
>25yrs old
>Went to 10 hookers last year and could not cum with any of them
Did no fap for a month and it still didnt matter
You guys think its the condoms or maybe im just a fag.
You can fap without porn
You can watch porn without it becoming an addiction
You can fap to porn without needing the porn to fap
It's a real thing. I'm not sure if it's called porn induced ED but it's a real thing where your brain becomes accustomed to the women in porn rather than the women you'll meet and sleep with in real life
quit jacking off, QUIT PORN (seriously), and get more zinc in your system.
It is, after a while of constantly watching porn it degrades your ability to naturally make seratonin in your brain (the feel good or mood stabilizer chemical). It like any other addiction. After a while only porn will be your way to get any out of it. Only way to go back to normal is to stop watching it, and decrease the amount of jacking off you do.
>t. student currently in pharmacy school
It's real.
If you spend years whacking it to Japanese girls with double D tits using vinegar enemas to blast sea cucumbers out of their assholes it can be difficult to reach the same level of stimulation when Jessica is trying to twerk her mediocre cellulite ass on you.
that's very difficult user
also, why are there dudes jack it to porn, but can still fuck without an issue?
BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP
just popped my daily zinc pill nigga.
This. It's just nerves broham.
Just fine a girl that's willing to take it slow so you can relax.
Lots of foreplay and cuddling. Don't worry of you can't get/stay up the first couple times.
Once you learn to relax you're good to go.
It's just a matter of stopping watching porn and meeting her more often.
The first times you fuck IRL you realize it's not as nice as porn makes it out to be - It takes effort, shit stinks/tastes bad and it all overwhelms/distracts at first.
Don't worry, you'll get there.
Her ass is a bit too big
my taste in porn is pretty vanilla though, and I can really only get off to POV
Q: How do you stay hard after cumming? My girl wants to go multiple rounds, any advice? I want to perform, I can get a semi back but not the full rock hard again.
Holy shit. I just had an idea.
What if I only fap to ugly women? Will I train my dick to want to fuck ugly chicks (and then lower my standards enough for me to get real sex)
>also, why are there dudes jack it to porn, but can still fuck without an issue?
Because Veeky Forums is making up a bunch of bullshit old wives tales. Nofap, no porn, anxiety its all bullshit.
If you cant get it up to a girl you're just not attracted to her, its that fucking simple.
If you want to perform you are going to be working hard. Prepare for sex like you would a workout. Drink lots of water the day before and on the day of sex. Get a good night's sleep and eat a big healthy meal a few hours before you fuck. If you can go a few days without cumming prior, that helps too. This is all anecdotal but it has worked for me.
if you're an average male between 18-30 the answer to every question is mental
congratulations, you found the way to beat the jewporn.
they make porn with hot as fuck girls so that way when you are in real life, with a regular/average woman you cant cum, ergo no babies, no more future white family.
>any over the counter alternatives to Viagra?
Garlic + Citrus combo is great.
This is unrelated to the topic but it just came to my mind.
Have you guys ever stumbled across a girl in porn that was really fucking ugly but for some odd reason it actually increased her hotness?
Maybe performance anxiety bruh just relax. Have her blow you or jerk off a bit, close your eyes and realize that someone else is touching your pee pee. Whenever I have that realization, I get diamonds, no matter how high test the chick is
To much porn
Jerk off too much
Ugly chick
Nervous.
These are usually the reasons. Not no fap meming but if you just cut it out for a few weeks your dick should start working again. Also helps if you do shit that doesn't involve your dick to her. Remember she'll get off more to emotional and mental manipulation than dick.
Lube the shit out of her. Finger/Eat her if you know how to make her wet. If this is taking to long use lube. There is no shame in it and if anything it just shows you're too big or she is too tight.
You mean there are guys who don't get head before having sex?
That's bullshit but I believe it.
Oh it's real. For sure.
Porn is a fucking killer. especially the high def shit.
head is overrated as fuck.
I'm feeling the same way about alot of things like that
You gotta get her more turned on bro. Simple as that.
you can check it, like 70% of the porn industry belong to jewish companies/families ;)
redpill yourself my men
It means you're free from this hell. Get creative and try to find joy absent these dumb urges
You haven't haven't received good head then. Your mom does it pretty good so ask her.
>Drink lots of water the day before and on the day of sex
what if that makes you have to pee a ton and ruins everything ?
How much porn do you watch? 99% sure that was performance anxiety.
That image was traumatizing
This makes mustard gas
no more than three or four times a week, sometimes less
when you having sex, your body surpresses the need to go to the bathroom. That's why after you cum you piss a hoover dam cracked open. Just piss before also itll help.
stereotypical response, yes i've had good head. i just prefer to fuck. i think it's a control thing too. face fucking i can go for.
Me and my first gf had a similar issue, didn't help that at the start she would flat out not let me guide it in let alone look at her pussy (self-conscious).
Keep pushing the foreplay, get her as wet as you can if she's a virgin making out alot works, hot and heavy, constant grinding as well. If you can't get in position with your dick comfortably then just use your thigh but make sure that bean gets constant contact.
HHHHHHNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGG
Extenze
when i was 18 or so there was this 17 year old thick chick (thick before thick was cool) and i made the mistake of staying up all night drinking coffee before coming over to her place. having a bitch grinding on you and having to excuse yourself to piss is not a good thing. ended up never getting to fuck her.
to this day i still blame that coffee.
SAUCE
I'm aware of that, i feel like the motivation for a lot of these older Jews is this holocaust revenge fantasy where they fuck with each generation of white kids more and more.
Until it hits the point where they spend their lives working to pay back the university and bank and have been raised in this culture of instant gratification that they keep telling themselves that they can't afford kids because their pleasures come first.
Now, please vote to increase immigration our population is aging.
>seratonin
>t. student currently in pharmacy school
anyone wanna guess who drops out in the next semester
Hmm, thanks user, appreciate the help.
Guess some cardio and stamina would help. Bloodflow is what it comes down too eh? haha
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any fitizens have experience with Extenze?
not op but this is good advice, thanks
cute pupper incoming
TOO BIG TOO BIG TOO BIG
thats some nasty cottage cheese
This. Happens to most guys their first time. I had to try like three times before I finally got it hard enough on the third encounter.
is that what causes the dual pee stream too?