Got a tinder girl's number asking her to get drinks. She texted saying she wants to get food instead.
After being redpilled so much I'm paranoid that I'm being used for a free meal. I wasn't planning on paying for her drinks anyway but I feel like you're expected to pay for a girl's food. What do?
You wouldn't have paid for her drink? thats how you instantly look cheap as fuck
invite her for dinner at your place
sorry I'm new to this
But I always see pics of women just using men for drinks and free pizzas and food, and laughing at men for it. I have trust issues user....
Heres the thing, those redpilled people dont even go on dates with girls and probably never have been on a proper date with a girl.
Just go for dinner with her, you will be able to tell or not if she is actually into you, if it goes well you will probably be happy to pay for the dinner as shes gonna like that
suggest coffee
Make her pay half, especially if you guys don't hit it off or it doesn't look like you're gonna fuck. Dinner for a first date is too much anyway- drinks at a bar are the perfect first date. You know how awkward it is to sit through an entire meal with someone you have zero chemistry with? Have some drinks and try to fuck that night. If not, keep fishing.
don't listen to if you want to get laid.
listen to . if she doesn't come over then you wouldn't have gotten laid anyway and you didn't have to shell out $40 finding out.
it's hard to not invest in women when you're a sexless nerd virgin faggot on an anime lifting board, but you need to be less needy and have women invest in you. i get all the women I like to come to places near me or to my house.
>H-hey want to come to mine for dinner, my mom will make us tendies
kys
I've never used tinder but I wouldn't ever agree to meet a girl from tinder for a fucking meal