Dear Veeky Forums

Dear Veeky Forums

After the 6 months honeymoon period with a girl do you find having sex of usually 2-3 times a night end or is it just me?

I now have my second GF and I only feel like doing it twice a week and the other times I feel like fapping

Pic related, my gf

The hotter the gf the more you will want to fuck her. ie get a hotter gf or make her get hot.

Just do it once or twice a day, depends how busy you are.

If you feel like fapping you're probably not into her. I prefered to fap than fuck with my ex girlfriend, only after the breakup did i realise i only convinced myself that i really liked her.

Whereas i fuck my current girlfriend every day and maybe fap once every 2 weeks for a treat?

>no tits
>kinda fat
no wonder

I don't even want to fuck my gf anymore. My libido is through the roof, but jerking off feels better and is more convenient. We have had a lot of fights over the last couple of months, almost to the point where she tries to force me to have sex. I love her and everything but fucking her doesn't do it for me anymore. I would rather be honest than pretend.

Anyone knows these feels?

>no tits
>Tits clearly visible in the picture
How is being a salty virgin going for you?

hey man, well in that case if you dont want her just give her to me, considering you would rather spank the monkey than spank her

Been with my girl for almost 6 years. We have sex at least once a day.

>tfw gf cried because I didn't want to have sex with her

Why do women do this?! It's so fucking manipulative.

Insecurity

How old are you/gf?
She looks used-up-20s or not-bad-30s

Because that's the clearest sign that you're not physically attracted to her? It's all they have m8. Might as well be with guys if you don't care about physical appearance.

if she loses weight those will disappear

my now-ex gf is like that and the only reason she has tits is because she's fat

I know these feels. It's like they get a panic attack or something.

It's so pityful to witness that I just end up caving.

>I only feel like doing it twice a week and the other times I feel like fapping

Happens to me in all long term relationships. But a long term riliable gf > chance to fuck sluts , so I just keep things that way.

I have literally faked several orgasm because of this.

>"did that feel good user?"
>"your body was twiching and tensing left and right, hmhm"
>y-yes....that was great
>.............
>can I go now?

Kek, I don't have the balls to say the last part though.

My gf denied me sex for an entire month because I rejected her just fucking once.

She ended up trying flirt and cuddle with me at the beginning of the fifth week, while lying in bed and I was like "meh".

I now have a small scar at the right side of my stomach.

Guys, if you have issues in bed with your gf and want things to work out in the long run, talk with her about it.

>small scar
Did she fucking stab you or something?

a womans entire self worth depends on wether or not other males are attracted to them.

if even her own boyfriend doesnt think shes hot anymore, she literally loses the one thing that gives her a life purpose.

You cant understand because you/we are men, we have other things to pursue in life.

>just finding out sex is overrated and making it is about how you feel about yourself and not the puss you crush

Congrats user, you are here.

Stop fapping completely. It gets easier to deal with. and her feels wont get hurt.

I felt exactly the same, quit watching porn and now our sex life is much better

you have a porn addiction.

>only reason she had tits is because of fat
???????

>Stop fapping completely. It gets easier to deal with. and her feels wont get hurt.
I quit porn, not fapping though, and it made things even worse. It made me lust for other women like nothing else. Idk the psychology, biology, etc, behind it, but it is an awful position to be in. I would rather just neckself than cheat on her.

I've been married 9 years and me and my wife fuck once a day in average, twice sometimes, it would probably be more but I'm slow to get off so it's at least an hour a day, nothing to do with her I have always been slow to get off, every grill I've over been with loved it but I with I could know those feels of a quicky

No porn and nofap is a double edged sword when you're in a relationship.

>just finding out sex is overrated
It is definitly not overrated if the girl is attractive and good in bed. Hell naw, nigga.

What is the longest you've been in a relationship and lived together?

Im not him but ive been in two four year relationships and both girls were attractive
Sex never felt overrated

2 1/2 years, 2 of them living together.

So how many times a week you've fucked?

So Sex is your peak experience? Literally nothing else comes close? You live for the simple pleasure of jizzing into some chick?

I'm 24. We been married for 2 years going on 3 and we fuck/do oral usually every day sometimes twice a day. Rarely do we go a day without doing something.

/pol/ virgin the post

>So how many times a week you've fucked?
over my four year period it varied, both of us were working so sometimes it was less but id say on average four to five times per week with less towards the end

Its a great feeling and very few things come even close to having a cute chick wrap her legs around you and dig her nails into your back
If you dont like it, thats fine. Im not gonna force you to but i disagree that sex is overrated

3-4 times a week. All depending on workload.

It's not about not liking it, people make it out to be the thing that drives them to live. People create personas around fucking, or live their entire life around a single fetish. At best it's like a really good meal. It sure as hell isn't going to make your life one your proud of alone.

Havent touched my gf in about 2 weeks. Wat do. We both brush it off as "work/tiredness"

Kek

Everything is about sex....except for sex. Sex is about power.

if it continues to 2 months then just break up

It is one of the most enjoyable things in this world, user but sure its not a surefire way to guarantee a good life
Most guys are driven by sex, its the reason most of us exist so there is a biological factor to it as well.

Yes sex alone wont be enough but it is part of a great life IMO and im sure many guys would agree on this

>At best it's like a really good meal.
You're either a virgin, fucked only sub 6/10 or fucked someone who pretended to be a starfish.

but this means power is about sex.

And don't you ever forget that.

Keep it up man, as someone married 9 years who is just as happy as the day he got married sex is really such a big part of keeping it happy

So if sex isn't everything, then isn't it overrated?

Maybe you've only ever eaten trash meals.

>So if sex isn't everything, then isn't it overrated?
How the fuck does that logic add up?
Unless something is everything to you, its overrated?

If you want to abstain from sex thats fine, just dont expect me to relate because sex is important to me and i happen to enjoy it

>So if sex isn't everything, then isn't it overrated

What is the logic behind this post?

What did he mean by this?

If you are still dating and can go 2 weeks without fucking break it off, I'm the long run neither one of you will be happy

People rate sex to be everything

We establish sex is not everything

Therefor sex is overrated

It is overrated TO HIM because deep down inside he knows he has nothing to live for but sex. He has no inherent value, no skills, no family, no friends, no purpose. So to him, sex is everything. He is conflicted because other people in this thread tell him it's not everything.

My girlfriend wants to have sex too much and this is affecting my gains, get on my level

You're a virgin.

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you are the one who assign value to the activity, you moron. If you act like sex is everything when it has little meaning to you then yes, its overrated but for most of us thats not true

You pay as much attention to sex as you want and in that you designate how valuable it is to you, you have a choice to abstain from sex if it has a low value to you or dedicate your life to it if it has a high value. You arent forced to do anything.

Overrated implies it has a higher value to you than it should and you are forced to "pay" more for it than its intrinsic value.

Been married for 8 years.

I always feel like fucking. She can only handle 3 nights or so a week though.

You would think she would get used to the meat, but she is always sore for a day or 2 afterwords.

I've been with my spouse now for about 4 1/2 years, living together for about 4 of those years. We went from sex multiple times in a day, to once a day, to multiple times a week, to... well now I can can't on one hand how many times we had sex last year.

I've been thinking of buying a fleshlight.

Fake. She's just not into you. Or she's dry af. Which means not into you. Use lube.

Won't be the last one to claim that i'm sure.
What do I have to do with it? People are obsessed with sex. Why do you think so many lonely dudes go on killing sprees, or shitpost on r9k? Billion dollar industries are created around it. People center their entire self worth around getting laid and letting people know they do.

We both know this so we keep sexual tension high. We also both workout alot and are both relatively attractive. I roid a d she does low doses of anavar for that booty. We do pretty much everything sexually alot of oral. Alot of fucking. Some anal.

Sad

4 times a week is pretty average so that just proves the point, I plowed my first gf every day at least once, after that it became the same average 3-4 times a week.

I must be doing marriage wrong. Sometimes it will be two weeks without pussy. I could fuck every day. I've been getting by with virtual reality porn. It's next level shit.

Yeah, it really is sad.

I've gotten bored with the sex. She doesn't want to try threesomes, either MMF or MFF. I'd be game for either. Actually, she cried the first time I mentioned the idea of doing a threesome because she thought that meant that I didn't think she was enough for me.

Just trying different sex positions is meh for me. We're talking about getting into kink, but she's not willing to go to workshops at our local sex store. Our sex life is boring, frankly.

I've recently started using Tinder when I'm out of town, and so far it has worked like a charm. I usually end up getting high for free, meeting interesting women, and have recently just received the best blowjob in my entire life.

It's too bad the sex life sucks with my current spouse, because otherwise she's my dream woman, but she's just so fucking vanilla in bed and can be depressing as fuck sometimes.

Is your gf's name erin

... why

I got bored of fucking her too

>Sometimes it will be two weeks without pussy

You sound like a piece of shit and I hate your guts. I would never share my wife. You're a cuck bro. And you're not even loyal. You prolly Jack off to too much porn that's your problem. Or your wife is ugly but that's your fault for marrying her. Either way you sou d like the kind of person that doesn't think things through kys.

Not even him but why even post. Low brow as fuck.

Yeah, maybe you're right.

Want to fuck my wife with me?

my girl needs dick twice a day or shell freak out like rainman when he missed jeopardy

>ex gf: sex/bj 2 times per day all through relationship
>current gf: sex 1 time every 2 weeks
Only get handjobs few times a week otherwise

because being attractive is the whole basis of their being

Lol why

Why bother with the handjob? You can probably do a much more satisfying job yourself.

I've never cheated in my past relationships and I would never cheat on my hot thicc wife who fucks/blows me every day for some depressed hambeast. I genuinely dislike you.

This genuinely turns me on.

Dunno she isn't very sexual I guess. Quiet girl, I don't mind.
I like sitting back with her butt in my face being jerked off by her. She has a nice body to look at

She doesn't want Chad's cum dripping out when you fuck

Bf and I used to fuck like rabbits until he gave up benzos and lost interest. We've been together just over a year. We still do it occasionally and it's always amazing but I'm starting to lose the urge I had almost 24/7 to jump on his dick. It's not worth the rejection so I figure I'll just wait and see if things go back to normal while rubbing one out every other day to the thought of him having some desire for me.

The frustrating thing is over the past few months I've hit the gym hard and I'm heading towards the exact body type i want - its almost like his disinterest is conditioning me to feel like this is a bad thing, even though it's just a coincidence.

Post pics of your bitch

America: the meal

I know that feel

I am bored with my sex life with my current GF. I don't know if it's my libido or her.

STOP WATCHING PORN

Huh...so this... this is how Euronymous felt....not bad...

*stab you 23 times in self defense*

shes been bored of sex with you since before the 2-3 times a week thing started and has been gargling chad's semen for weeks. don't worry OP it'll be over soon.

Why would you not want to have sex with your gf? She is shit at sex, doesnt attract you or what?

Looks like you don't have a response to this user.
I agree that it's overrated and find the meal analogy very fitting.

Yes, when you live together it all slows down because you have better things to do day to day. I've lived with my gf for 8 years and we usually just have sex once or twice on the weekend and life is great. Dont worry.

The lifting is probably making you blocky and manly and totally undesirable to him.

> jerking off feels better and is more convenient

Might want to look into things like porn addiction, user, just a heads up. I went through the same thing a few years ago.

But, honestly, talk to her about this kind of shit. If she tries to force you to fuck her that's sexual assault and you shouldn't have to deal with that either. Dump her ass.

Iv had the same fuck friend for the past 5 years
We used to fuck 2-3 times a day, almost every day
now we fuck once a week maybe twice at most.

I also have a gf for the past 7 months, only fucked her 5 times in all that time. I really don't find her attractive I think ill dump her actually.

Man, I wish I could be your girlfriend.

Not - like - YOUR girlfriend, but she sounds like a really awesome person.

>The lifting is probably making you blocky and manly and totally undesirable to him.

This. Dump him and find a man who can actually handle a woman with a little bit of muscle.

Wtf get out of here you dyel homo manlet
muscle girls are the best

bad ass!!!!!!

This is fucking legit coming from a female piece of shit.
The main reason a woman doesnt want to fuck every night is because she feels nasty, having a bad stomach is a main reason. Make her eat better, take care of herself instead of being a slob, dress good and she will fuck you if shes not a complete bitch.

Worked on my gfs.
Got them to stop having diarreha 24/7. Nasty.

She's my wife and yeah but I had to red pill her to alot of things. It helps if you already have a decent base as in are a decent person and not too ugly. I got her the anavar and got her into working out. We have no social media what so ever and no friends of the opposite sex.