Virgin

>first time having sex at age 24
>first time sticking it in her
>tell her i'm a virgin
>wow user, how are you a virgin?

literally telling the truth in full confidence is better than hiding in cowardice. If you're at the point where she's ready for the dick, she is literally giving you the opportunity to stick it in DESPITE being inexperienced.

Your only worry is pulling out on time.

No.
They'll start wondering what is so wrong with you that you're still a virgin

Just fake it til you make it. Lay off porn and fapping for a week, then take one of these sluts out. Boom. No longer a virgin.

Yes you're still a virgin even when you stuck it in

You have no reason to tell someone you're virgin.
There was even this fad "recently" that if you havem't had sex in a year you're virgin again, cause you'll behave as if your were a virgin, like not getting it up, or losing boner.
>Tfw worst fear in life is to lose boner
God damn that's awful.

No fap for a few days before pplanned sex, and keep your boner is a better trade than cumming too early.

You know what pisses me off you fucking faggot?

I am intimidatingly attractive. I make girls swoon in public when my games on point. In. public.

I haven't been laid in four months. I get no tinder matches. Only fat bitches.

I've done dozens of approaches. Nothing. I get makeouts from time to time and that's it.

I've never once had a conversation on tinder turn sexual. I've never had a girl agree to come over straight off of tinder for a fuck.

And here you are, being a faggot and you can't even fuck a girl who come over to your house to fuck you.

>I am intimidatingly attractive
No you aren't

Women can sense your deep insecurities

Lots of guys can't get it up, can't finish, or finish after a few pumps their first couple of times. Nothing wrong with you OP. It's one of those things people don't talk about because it's embarrassing, but it's extremely common, pretty much the norm actually.

You are delusional.
t. Chad

>Be dyel
>Start lifting
>Qt girl on tinder I really like
>Ask her out
>She wants to go on a double date with her best friend and best friend's bf
>I am noticeably taller and more muscular than the bf despite him whining about how he lifts
>Fast forwards
>Have a few drinks and gf is talking about IF we have sex
>We have sex
>Slowly push that shit in but she can't take it, since we're both virgins
>What ever, got laid, was kinda not worth the hype; penetration hurt her if I went deep enough to enjoy it
>Fast forward to a few nights later
>Watching a movie in bed (normal for us) and I feel horny
>Start grabbing her ass
>Kissing her neck
>Slowly take off her pants
>Tell her to take off mine and my underpants
>Spooning in just her underwear
>Start fingerbanging
>Work that shit until she's wet
>Slide on condom
>fuck the absolute shit out of her
>Turn her over, and bounce her ass on my dick while I fuck her
>"Jesus user, that was amazing"

So that's kinda the story of my first time. Or rather, the technical first time and the "real" first time. I'm not even fit; just a slightly builtfat dyel who's slowly starting to appear muscular under the fat.

Did I do good, anons?

you forgot to write that you are over 6'. manlets can't do that

>Qt girl
>not a Qt guy
No user, you failed

> Be dyel on trip in europe
> Be in italy, go to some shitty club filled with hostel sluts
> Get into a big fight with friend
> We have different flight plans
> Girl sits next to me on my plane, first thing I see is hair
> I try to not look at her directly but glimpse from the side
> She's really pretty
> Pray that she reads her kindle the whole time so i have an excuse not to talk
> She puts it away and looks bored
> The plane hits turbulence and I start an awkward convo over it
> We talk for the whole flight me sounding nervous the whole time
> I play dumb about where my hostel is to get her to let me take a taxi with her
> Me being a sperg and extremely nervous shook her hand before I walked off
> I was only in town for a day and we had planned to meet up for dinner the next day
> She asks if its alright if we hangout later so she can chill with some friends
> Let my friend talk me into texting her something sexual in spanish, she kind of shrugs it off but then she goes quite after me saying something about taking a train the next day
> I press whats up. She texts me a lecture about me being too inappropriate and let down because she thought I was really sweet.
> She thought I was asking to run a train on her with my friend. We clear it up but she says its too late now.
> I go to the hotel with my friend for like 5 days we left early, it was kind of boring and to get away from eachother
> The girl was promising to make it up to me if I came back
> We have a really fun date she takes me to some place that serves american style burgers because I said I missed my murica food
> We go to a dive bar and get drunk off of mojitos
> It gets really heated there so she asks me back to her apartment
> doesn’t even let me get my condom out she grabbed my dick first thing
> We cuddled and she called me muscly boy after
> I got to have frequent sex for 4 days straight. More sex then i've ever had.
> I haven’t really talked to any girl in 7 months now

>loose v plates at 20
>hot girl
>she says i have a big dick repeatedly
>root her for an hour
>dont cum
>we go get a shower because we (I) was so sweaty
>she cleans me in the shower
>asks me to run on the spot while she looks at my cock
>i root her again and cum on her titties
>i leave
>scared for weeks about stds

I was a "secret virgin" for a while but I lost it recently. Here's what I did OP. You can choose to believe this if you want but it's 100% true.
>be me
>18
>start hanging out with chick
>good friends after a while
>she starts making moves on me one night
>ohshit.jpg
>starts grinding up on me making out etc.
>"i dont have a condom"
>oh okay, next time then
>continue making out and spooning for a while
>next time rolls around
>have condom in wallet
>drop hints about being a bit under the weather/tired, brush it off as nothing though
>gets to to the point in the night where shes getting horny and starts making out w me again
>I do my best not to sperg being 100% virgin and having previously lied about this to her
>we have sex for about 30s before I blow my beans
>she doesnt realise
>fuck her for another 30s with a semi
>since im a smoker I can have a coughing fit pretty much whenever I want
>fake huge coughing fit with flem and nasty shit
>have to take dick out
>go to the bathroom quickly
>ham it up a bit
>"a-user are you okay?"
>"yeah Im fine but I completely lost my boner sorry"
>"its okay you're sick I understand"
>spend night cuddling

And thats how I lost my virginity while keeping it a secret. bit of a shit story but it works if you dont wanna look like a spastic

>fit
>smart
>attractive
>find great girl. Former gymnast, great job, good body, cute, rich parents
>have great relationship
>marriage guaranteed
>year in hardly ever have sex
>gone from two to three times a day to two to three times a week
>always too tired from work and gym and meal prep
>not sure if I mind?

I'm 31 though so results may vary

>two to three times a week
I mean I think this is still fairly acceptable. im only 19 so idk how the fuck marriage is meant to work but this doesnt seem unreasonable.

It's only been a year, it's probably going to get much more infrequent for him.

Lots of married couples talk of doing it once a month

3 stages of married sex:
1. Do it everyday all over the house
2. Do it once a week in the bedroom
3. Pass each other in the hall and say fuck you!

Hornet works better.

>>last girl that came over i stuck it in for a second then lost my boner and she never talked to me after that

>Good looking but literally haven't talked to a girl before for more than 10 seconds cause autistic
>get invited to party for first time in my life at 19
>Decided I need to stop being a pussy and have to try at least
>arrive to party, drink a lot to lose anxiety
>It works
>Talk to people and stuff
>Didn't get any phone number or anything but still feels good
>4am, time to go to sleep
>I decide to sleep on a couch, two other guys are sleeping on the floor in the same room
>5/10 girl tells me that she wanna sleep on the same couch as me
>I'm drunk as fuck and don't understand what's going on
>ayy lmao sure m8.jpg
>The couch was tiny, so we had to do the big spoon/small spoon thing just to fit
>Alright, time to sleep
>Wake up 30mins later
>Not that smashed anymore
>Wait, I can feel a girl's butt on my dick
>Not going full diamond thanks to alcohol
>She realizes I'm awake and turns around
>Alcohol is still kicking in
>Alpha mode engaged
>Makes up without even talking
>I start to go further, touching her ass, boobs
>I can do it lads.webm
>Going for the pussy with my hand
>She stops me
>We can't user, there are people in the room
>keep making out for few minutes then just sleep
That's how I almost lost my v card to a 5/10 slut, not a bad experience I guess, it'll help me be less anxious around girls, and now I know I can be alpha with the right amount of alcohol

>Good looking
>Not english speaker
>Have great sex life, but dump girls because I get bored of them
>Download tinder just to fuck
>Meet a model
>She falls in love with me
>I really like her, but she wants to have sex too much and this is literally killing my workouts

Thinking about dumping her.

>she called me muscly boy
kek

Damn I wish I had those problems i haven't seen a pussy in 2 months and even then it's 5/10 at best

I cummed during foreplay then lost my boner while trying to loose my virginity in a side hallway in highschool. I always jerk off a day before

>I am intimidatingly attractive
>I get no tinder matches. Only fat bitches.

Sorry, but no. You're just not attractive. Delusion isn't healthy

Is this level of delusion real?

Success stories? Sure.

>full-blooded asian born in Canada
>masturbate from a very young age (5 or something)
>age 12: finally get something like an orgasm around age 12, feels great; sort-of erection
>age 15: short af (5'8") but considered good looking face-wise, broad shoulders and genetics for easy musculature lets me get away with murder
>track and field, volleyball, badminton (lol), weights (old man trainer caps weight hard because "growth plates in your bones" but gives me special permission to ignore caps)
>been masturbating for years by now, get full legendary rigid boners, last for 45 mins and can hit the ceiling when I cum from masturbating from ground level
>dick is just short of 7.25" at this point and quite thick (laugh if you want, it won't make my dick smaller)
>start fingering gf (same age), humping her through her panties, cumming on her tits or in her mouth, etc.
>she has no context for dick size so I get no special attention for it beyond usual first-timer big eyes
>keep with it, get to the point where I'm basically duckbilling her when I do use my hands
>one day I'm rubbing my bare cock on her actually drenched cotton panties in her bed at home and she's just panting like "fuck it let's do it"
>ask her if she's sure, offer condom
>"no just cum inside I'll get plan B"
>ask her if she's sure again
>shut up and fuck me
>it's fucking glorious, everything I was promised and more, so warm and wet and velvety snug, all new all good experiences
>she's perfect, soft and feminine and vulnerable and on fire for me she's crying out it's literally heaven
>despite all my masturbatory experience, ready to cum after 5 mins flat of rutting in her sex (humped her panties for 10 minutes before that)
>cum inside, shooting it directly onto her marble (not that I knew what that was then lol), hard enough that I am convinced I feel it splashing back onto the tip
>invincible confidence from that day forward
>we broke up after 8 months, hurt like fuck

/r/asianmasculinity: the post

Never heard of it. What's it like?

You managed to do what your body was designed for. Good job user you deserve a medal. I have the same story as you kinda. But I was 14 lol. Now I've had more than I can count. It's one of the few things in life i know I do well.

>then lost my boner and she never talked to me after that
my "first" time too. My problem was a combination of nervousness + condom (switching to magnum helped). We'd been flirting and talking for a few weeks before then, and once that happened she started ghosting me. Even went down on her hoping that would make up for it but nope.

You did good, firendo

I love this
>says he's DYEL
>friends bf is noticeably less build

kik?

>be me virgin 20yo
>just moved to a dorm
>first party at the dorm after I moved there
>lets fucking go
>start off slowly with the beers
>a few hours in I just slam down vodka shots
>thereisnostoppingme.jpg
>fast forward
>it is now 4 or 5 am, too drunk to know specifically
>girl (7/10) I haven't spoken to at all comes up to me and hugs me
>asks if im going to bed
>"yeah i was thinking about it"
>tells me she is heading back to her dorm room
>blurt out "can I see it?"
>"sure"
>follow this girl to her dorm room
>see this small shitty and messy room
>whatever she is a college student cant expect much
>tells me it is her turn to see my room
>sure whatever
>get to my room
>turn on the tv and tell her to sit down on the bed
>we watch 10 minutes of this weird porn documentary
>start grabbing her tits and finger her
>end up fucking till like 8 am
>tell her to leave since I need my sleep
>I wake up a couple hours later and realize that it was my roommate's gf
>wellfuckme.jpg
>it has been 3 weeks sine then, still dont know if he knows
>every conversation with him is just awkward

Married now, so not looking.

Should I lose my virginity to a hooker at 20?

I'm 21 about to be 22. I'd like to know as well. Just a virgin but even then Idk if it really is worth it. Like I know sex is just sex but I can't seem to let go of the pressure and societally ties to having sex.

You probly have ED or weren't attracted to her

I did it at 18, I don't regret it. Got a gf soon afterwards and started getting regular sex

My gut reaction? No. Why you want to tho?

Either put in the work to get it legit, or don't sweat about not being there yet.

Is it especially difficult to find sex as 20+ virgin? Tell me about your troubles.

No there is more to sex then just sex. If You find a girl you really connect with its so much better.

>now I know I can be alpha with the right amount of alcohol

and this is how an alcoholic is born, kids

what the fuck is this
are you using google translate?

Not him, but it looks like he's speaking Australian.

no because when you nut you're gonna think "why the fuck did I waste my money on this"

Why do people care so much about being virgin?
I lost my virginity at 16, a friend of mine hasn't lost his yet and we're 22. The guy is completely spastic about it, fucks up every single communication with women if there is any implication that they will get laid, smooth as fuck up until the point where kissing becomes something that can be put on the table.
Spaghetti everywhere

I just don't get it. Just do it, just fuck and soon you'll be breaking pussy on the reg.

>virgin at 21
>decide to get Veeky Forums
>lose weight, gain muscle
>now 24
>cannot b urself because of depression
>anxiety
>thinks everyone hates me so I don't look at anyone if I go to my favourite bar where I go since I'm 17 and never spoke to the bartender once besides ordering.

so you faked being sick instead of just being like "whoops" and then going for round 2 10 minutes later and actually having a good time? Sounds pretty spastic to me.
If she is cool she won't make any fuss about it... speaking from experience lol.

Australian here, I'll translate some of the slang for you
>v plates
Virginity

>root
Sex

>Shower
the way non Americans' wash themselves as we do not need a team of nurses with sponges

S...sorry user. I'll fix that right away.

I don't believe you

Thanks user

Dyel by fit standards is still "big" to normies. I have big shoulders, OK legs and some degree of tricep growth. That makes girls think I'm big.

>Tfw Veeky Forums still laugh at me in CBT threads

>not knowing that this is what like 90% of guys who are successful with girls do when they're "on the pull"
The other 10% are either creeps who soberly chase drunk girls and genuine slayers who fuck chicks they know/met through mutual friends outside of a partying/clubbing environment

Is it okay if you're sober at a party and hook up with a girl who's been drinking but isn't tipsy?

I can't drink because family is a bunch of alcoholics.

but isn't drunk?***

>senior year of college
>21, 5'7" pajeet (American born tho)
>feeling hopeless about virginity
>decide to stay at school one school holiday
>reopen tinder
>match with only one girl
>talk about ITAOTS get her number
That was the first and only time a tinder convo got anywhere for me
>invite her to frat date party
>awkward as fuck at first
>end up talking about some personal shit, date goes along much better
>get back to campus, we smoke some weed and cuddle at her place all night
We hung out the next day, made out, then hung out a few days later which ended with me jerking off all over her chest
>4th hangout
>my place she says she wants to get drunk
>borrow bottle of apple whiskey from bro
>we both drink equal amounts
>not feeling particularly drunk even though we finish almost whole bottle
>get to fucking
>staying hard no problem doesn't feel like much with condom
>realize she isn't doing much
>after 10 minutes or so she says it hurts and we stop
>both pass out naked
>wake up an hour later just start browsing phone
>hear her burping
>she starts puking in her hair
>I panick and she rolls off of bed
>she's naked on the floor, vomit in hair
>go full pervert and start to finger her and stick the tip in
>she starts laughing then starts crying
>pisses all over my floor
>throwing towels down overywhere trying to soak up the piss
>eventually clean her up and get her back into bed
>she leaves in the morning, my frat bros saw her crying a block away from our house
Thankfully she didn't report me for rape or anything. Actually we kept hanging out and kept on fucking each other.
Have some hope user, I wanted to kill my self at age 30 because I was a virgin but things worked out.

What is it with poo in loo's raping people?

It is not worth the trouble if she gets too drunk and reports you for rape/sexual assault. Better to meetup sober first (for safety). That applies even if you're drunk but it's even worse if you're sober - it makes you look like you're preying on drunk chicks

>fingering a vomiting, crying girl as a pajeet
nigga how in the name of Vishnu did you not get slammed with rape charges

>even swiping right on whales or any girl over 120lb

I meant more for just making out, not having sex. It's fine then, right?

Post pic and we'll tell you if you're intimidatingly attractive
>protip: you're not

I only did it for a second. Stopped when I realized she was way too out of it. I think the more amazing part is that we still hang out and fuck despite that traumatic shit.
>when she whispers "you mean so much to me user" while fucking her
If I can do it you can too. I'm dyel too

You /could/ get accused, I've seen it happen but there were usually a couple outher factors involved. I'd say making out and JUST making out are fine. Further escalation is asking for trouble. As a rule of thumb, when doing shit with drunk girls, is it something most girls would be comfortable doing in public? If so go ahead otherwise don't do it

This desu. Happened to me my first couple of times actually.

Here are some quick tips:
>Use magnums, even if you don't have a {MAGNUM DONG}
>if you are going to intoxicate yourself, use thc not alcohol

>not telling her that you want to move it somewhere else

Never going to make it

Iktfb

I did it, at 20 too. One of my best decisions eve. I "trained" with a few hookers first (4) and that got rid of my anxiety. Then doing it with regular girls was easy.

>Be autismo virgin
>Get fit
>Ask a girl out
>She says yes
>Date her
>Have sex, it's good, she was as clueless as I was so no pressure

Success stories are fucking boring. That's why you hear these retarded failures.

There was some goofy stuff though
>Her period ended so we decided to have sex
>I fuck her, she tells me to slow down because it hurts
>I pull out, the base of my dick and my balls are covered in blood
>Turns out her period wasn't quite over yet.

lost mine to a hooker in Amsterdam when I was 21. 22 now and have yet to fuck another girl

How the fuck did you land that bhenchod? Also was it a white girl?

>download tinder
>needs facebook
fuck that

I know right? Just be like this guy and not like this guy.

As someone who has been married 10 years and still has sex three or four times a week: according to everyone who finds out, this is exceedingly rare. I consider myself lucky.

Try finding a girl you actually like? Jesus fuck man, you've just put down what pisses me the fuck off in my peers and guys younger than me as well. Everyone is fucking drooling for external validation. Try finding what actually makes you happy, find a girl you actually like, start defining happiness and success by how happy you are with a particular woman. Numbers don't really make you happy.

Also, read Models by Mark Manson. Dude knows what's up, especially in terms of how you should think and see the world and how to start creating an actual person of yourself.

pic related
I've been called a legitimate 9/10 by boys and girls alike, but it seems as if girls are intimidated by my dashing looks

4 at best