Is Veeky Forums a normie board or are most of you actually lonely?

I have a gf and am surrounded by people that love me along with tons of friends and I still feel extremely alone since I can't find a single real life person that I can relate to

Doesn't really bother me all that much since I enjoy everything in my life still, I just never feel a real connection with anyone

Mods need to ban /r9k/ posters

I only get fit for my 2d hoes

> mfw thinking any human isn't lonely when the default setting is total self-centeredness.

heh

Found out that having a good body is not everything

I have no friends and only temporary gfs I don't really like

I'm lonely but I have no trouble getting a date.

It's just a I want a true legitimate emotional connection and other gay shit like that.

I want to be in a relationship with a women I love where we go to the park and have a picnic, perfectly happy just being with each other.

Used to have a girlfriend and I was unfit yet happy.

Now I have no girlfriend and I am fit and unhappy.

Life is funny.

I have a gf but I actually hate her, she never gives blowjobs

extreme loneliness reporting in

Holy fuck, people like you are insufferable.

I've got a wife, kid, and lucrative job. I'm only on Veeky Forums because I've been here since 2007 and it's just become habit

I remember Veeky Forums being fairly normie in 2011 when it was mostly /misc/reants.
At some point, /r9k/ showed up with >tfw no gf threads and it all went downhill from there.

I'm curious as to why

23 year old khv here

I'm a lonely shutin with no friends.

I asked a qt at the gym if I could grab the foam roller near her and I didn't spurg out or otherwise embarrass myself in the encounter.

Highlight of the week.

This.
Started lifting and exercising because people said it made them feel good all the time.

Only makes me feel good while I'm doing it. I'm pretty close to riding my bike 100 miles to nowhere and shooting myself in the head so wildlife can absorb my gains.

so lonely that it physically hurts some times

when i leave the house, at work, in public, i'm a normie. but i live with my grandmother because i lost my house and girlfriend, and last job due to excessive drug use and now am recovering. i'm extremely sad and lonely inside and at home, because i use up all my energy seeming together when i leave the house.
i have no friends even though people actively ask for my number and want to hang out. i always ask for their numbers and never call them, because i feel too broken. i spend all my time at work, in the gym, or taking excessively long walks with a book at the state park down the road.

I am very alone. I'm also unable to feel not alone with other people even when I bother to or can initiate contact/conversation.

It's something I've learned to deal with.

Now back to the kitchen with you. .

I'm not lonely. I make friends at the gym that I work out with several times a week.
I talk to girls. Have had GFs in the past, it's pretty overrated.

autism

hang out with them before you get old and don't even have the energy to get numbers

I'm not a desirable mate so I don't talk to women.

I am very lonely.

>so wildlife can absorb my gains.
so majestic

And people like you are insanely elf absorbed. Just because the other user has friends and a gf doesn't mean that's some magical key to happiness for him. Your ideals aren't everyone else's, have some fucking empathy for a fellow fit user who isn't all ok.

>I'm not a desirable mate so I don't talk to women.
>I am very lonely.
I don't remember posting this.

Probably. Or it might be the depression I've had since I was about 13ish.

Consider that there are also girls out there who do not feel desirable either, if you're lonely give dating them a try through tinder, okcupid etc. Just because you can't attract a super model doesn't mean you can't find someone to spend time with bro

I've got a gf and a good job, so I guess I'm a normie, but I'm still extremely lonely, mostly because I don't have any friends and I haven't had a good conversation with anyone in about a year.

My gf isn't interested in anything so when I tried to talk to her about something she would just sit there with a stupid look on her face and not make any comments. So eventually I just gave up and now we only talk about everyday -stuff like what to get for dinner and whatnot.

It hurts brahs.

>Consider that there are also girls out there who do not feel desirable either
That get hit on every time they leave their house, yeah.

Good mix I'd say. I go to Dartmouth and will be moving to NY to work in an investment bank. I do all the normie shit like party and fuck and do facey clubs and shit around campus, but I'm also a bit of a sperg, insecure like a lot, etc and want to blow my brains out over women

no gf because i'm ugly and weird, and I'm doing poorly in college and at life. I got hit with a bunch of bad luck too.

started lifting and eating healthy a couple months ago, it's not solving my problems but it's keeping me sane

Bless you. Well put

i consider myself pretty normie. but everyone itt says theyre lonely and shit, i need to get off here

10 year NEET here. Strength lifting for 5 years.

Nothing's changed. still no gf, still fap to 2D.

I took electrical engineering and have a bunch of nerdshit hobbies, my gf doesn't now or care about any of that shit so I can never have a good convo on those kind of topics.

I can't fault her for it but she's completely lacking in any critical thinking or problem solving ability.

I know that feel, but for me its not just my nerdshit, my gf is interested in makeup, childrens cartoons, food and sex. Nothing else. Cannot hold a conversation about anything else.

I like discussing pretty much anything but how many discussions about disney or the price of makeup do you have to have before you want to shoot yourself in the mouth?

I'd say normie but mediocre/below average (on average) dudes looking to set themselves apart and improve

real autists and shut ins have no desire to improve their appearance

Sometimes shit like this really makes me fall for the
>Women are a meme
But at the same time I really want to believe
>Woman are a meme is a meme

Veeky Forums is a board for closeted gay men who envy the bodies of thicc women and try to hide the pain through lifting and memes

End it brah, that sounds terrible.

Do you even D her?

I fear I will never be happy again. I smile and laugh at things but it's just a reminder that I'll be alone at the end of the day. Happiness is just a point before you need more happiness.

I don't see why anyone should like me. There's a better version of me around almost every corner. So, why should I waste other people's time by talking to them?

We're hanging out on Veeky Forums dude. Most of us are lonely, some just delusional, and the rest of us are here because memes.

who is this goddess and are there nudes

Alexandra Geyer, no nudes but swimsuit stuff.

Getting fit got me laid and plenty of compliments tonight. My social skills are pretty much in the toilet though.

Honestly there's a lot of "normies" here. Not guys that pull pussy twice a week, but I don't think there's any shortage of guys who either (a) have girlfriends or (b) get laid at least once a month/fling per month. I think the big reason Veeky Forums seems lonely is because people are willing to talk about it in an anonymous setting; you don't have this sort of conversation in passing with strangers, so where the hell else are you going to hear it?

I think that's the biggest thing, actually. The veil of being anonymous makes talking about these feelings of inadequacy or being unable to connect with others acceptable. These thoughts are so damn common there are lectures on "imposter syndrome" to keep normal people from offing themselves, because they can't bear to talk to anyone about it.

A lot of people are here because there's some funny shit, and it fits there interest. Not everyone on here is some jobless virgin

>although there's a suspiciously night amount of those

Shits alright yo

I felt pretty good up until a few months ago

Not a ton of friends, but really love the ones I have
One is out of the country for internships, one out of town for school, one always working, gf broke up with me after 5 years (no bad blood, we still hang out from time to time), one friend I see regularly other than that

Basically, I have been hanging out with one person consistently for the past few months and it's made me realize how clingy and desperate for contact I can be

tl;dr felt normie, turns out I'm lonely

Poster above you m8. I'm the same way, find myself around 2-3 close people and then barely speak to others. How do others go about fixing this? I've done group workout programs, intramural/club sports but have trouble getting from "acquaintenace" to "friend" with these people.

>they can't bear to talk to anyone about it

Pretty true actually. At least I'm finding. "Normies" are fucking bat shit insane, but they hide that shit like there is no tomorrow by jumping through social hoops and playing the game and playing it well. Life's pretty fucking weird.

Maybe I should go fag.
Lot of girly gay dudes with daddy issues throw themselves at me. Maybe I'll be able to finally get a deep throat blowjob.
Hell I might even go into porn. I'm pretty well hung.

Just go to fucking facebook or reddit then normalfaggot fuck... this is Veeky Forums so fuck off

Oh hell yeah to that. Every once and a while you'll get someone drunk enough and it's a complete breakdown. Completely social, "cool" guys crying on your shoulder because they have never shared this shit with anyone and it eats them alive. It's hard to watch that honestly, because they're not doing this to make anyone feel bad. It's just, they're alone in a sea of people. They don't have an outlet to say "I am fucking lonely as shit."

I don't understand, I'm a decent looking guy, otter mode, 5'9, but the only girls that show slight interest in me are landwhales

What did I do wrong?

>be normie
>socially competent, handsome, charismatic
>religiously come to a website full of virgins and give advice that'll never be taken
>get called a liar or told to attention whore pictures of myself for fleeting acceptance
Mr bones I want off your wild ride

I'm not a normie, just a fatty concept artist trying to lose some weight

this. I dunno bro, but if you ever find out, tell me.

Then again, I really enjoy having a tight knit group of friends that I can always rely on. It's comfy as fuck

Invite them to hang out outside of those things
My issue is even finding people I want to hang out with. Unless I click really well with someone, I often feel uncomfortable and not myself when I hang out with them

Found out recently that one of the desk guys at my gym is fucking awesome though so I'm working on that

Yup. I think I'm starting to find that my role in this life is to be that guy that people can let themselves go to. I constantly try to smile and laugh and be positive when they come to me. It's starting to get hard cause when chiseled chinned Chad tells you he was put into a institution for shooting himself when he was a teenager. People are way more complex than the memes.

Goddamn user I want answers.

Kek, but I guess my reason is that people move, and I can't keep paying $1,200 every three months for just 4 days vacation with friends, especially at 25. Pretty much don't know how to make close friends after college, not to mention half of them are dad's and have obligations of their own.

I love this
While drinking, Friend A, though in a roundabout way, said he finds his girlfriend very unattractive (we all dislike her)
Friend B talked about the times he made out with a couple guys to experiment
Friend C spilled that he is a closet furry
Though Friend D talked about his depression and showed us his scars, that was kind of sad.

Alcohol is weird

I am a Chad, but I pretty much secretly hate everyone.

I feel pretty alone. I have a bunch of friends but I don't particularly like or care about them. I just hang out to keep myself from going insane. My two actual close friends live on the other side of the country now. Have ok family but they can be a pain to be around. No gf (obviously).

But I'm here because I want to improve myself. Working out used to feel like a chore but after browsing Veeky Forums and getting serious about lifting it is currently one of the few things I actually enjoy. Veeky Forums can be a real shitshow sometimes but I am truly thankful to have this board as I progress one step further to making it.

But how do you do that without being gay about it? Ha. Honestly, it's actually harder than approaching women for the anxiety of it. I just want to find new bros my age (that don't do mountains of coke). Like people to grill and shoot the shit with. I guess what I'm saying is I don't want to rely on grilling with work buddies for a social life.

That's what's weird right? You think you're fucked in the head because you're here, but damn, I have never had a breakdown nor needed one, no matter what my state was. And then there's the picture perfect person who you find with a gun to his head in his room because he "didn't know how to talk to anyone." I wish that wasn't a single occurrence.

Fucking kek to friends A and B. C's odd and D is sad. It's good that you're seen as the stable one to them. I hope that you see yourself the same way user.

>tfw Demo

the "girl" on the left is a trap.

Kek, I've checked. Not a trap

I'm a 25 year old kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin. I spend all my free time reading/playing video games/lifting. The only people I know are the ones I live with in a share house and the ones I know from work. I have zero meaningful social interaction with anyone and often go days without even speaking.

I have no idea what I'm doing with life and get more and more depressed as each year passes. I would probably just kill myself if I wasn't so terrified of death and not knowing what happens after.

What do you do for work? What're your housemates like?

C was pretty embarrassed about it even while drunk and seems to really want to get it off of his chest.
As far as I go, I don't even know what I'm seen as in the group

Just recently a friend asked if I was depressed
I didn't think there was a chance I was until she made me think about it
I think I'm alright though

Bring up something else you do or want to do. If they seem interested ask if they want to try it out/go

all i want is a qt gf who i can talk to and help her and teach her things and share things with

I love these bird pictures.

Don't spend too much time alone because I work a lot and live with my family. Definitely lonely though. Don't see my friends too often as they are busy with their lives. I've had a lot of meaningful loving relationships but all the women I've met recently are too young and stupid. Trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. Moving to Germany for work later this year though so maybe that will help.

I'm lonely but that's more because I substitute Veeky Forums for actual social interaction.

But I think when I wake up tomorrow, then I'm done with this shithole.

I do security for a golf course at night. It's a good area and nothing ever happens so I just end up reading all night and get paid $30p/h for it. It's actually a pretty sweet job, but contributes to not having a social life because I work over the weekend and have had maybe 4 weekends off in the last 5 years.

Housemates are alright. I get along with one quite well and we occasionally have a beer down at the pub but otherwise everyone mostly keeps to themselves

I have friends but no gf, but it's not like it's killing me to not have a gf. It's not like I don't talk to girls or go out on dates at all, just that there's not many girls I'm interested in, nor any in my classes (grad student in STEM)

this is oddly motivating

>used to be chad
>partying all the time and banging sloots
>was lonely with a gf and friends
>family troubles and I took it out in my friends
>now I lost my bros and have become a recluse that only leaves the house to hoist
>miss my bros so much it hurts
>I'm so sorry

Do you play golf?

Is it?

I have no idea how bad you took it out on them, and I realise how hard it would be, but if you're truly sorry and miss them.. apologize, reach out to them.

I am lonely as fuck. But at the same time, I prefer being alone most of the time and being around people when I want/choose to. Unfortunately the world does not work like that.

>feels bad man

Something about the bird looking determined, idk

where do you find these

Damn. Look what this society is doing to our men.

No. I tried it once but I could never keep track of where the ball went after I hit it.

I am you but further along, with own place, new job, and gf. Still feel empty and broken and only keep on truckin' because I feel constant guilt about the idea of offing myself. Another person depends on me for emotional support and would be destroyed if I abandoned her. Do it now, user.

On a Chinese cartoon board made by a homeless guy.