Your father wanted a son he could play catch with, teach to play football and come out to little league games for

>College baseball
>State level basketball
>Only attracted to psycho girls
>Mother is nice to gf's, always tells me shes glad I didn't end up with them after we breakup

WELL AT LEAST ONE PARENT GOT WHAT THEY WANTED.

>never been explained on how to approach girls
>taught to be sexist at a young age
>never been played with as a child
>always been talked out of anything I've started to foster admiration or passion for

Yes, it's all my fault for not magically meeting expectations, and being a prodigy.

I don't know my real dad. I think i want to meet him but what Good will that do? I don't even think of him, and my stepdad has been with me since I've been tiny. Any input?

>played sports with my dad when i was young
>became seriously ill during age 9-12
>dr's dont think imma make it
>fast forward age 17 start getting into sports again
>dad seriously overweight
>says getting into sports is waste of time
>laughed when i said i was joining a gym (now 22) he gained another 100 pounds
>laughed at sister when she wanted to join
>openly ridiculed step sister because she started selling the fruitshakes
>it helped her loose weight like a serious amount
>says hes gonna loose weight
>complains when we dont have pudding
>had three donuts the other day wanted a fourth, expected praise when he didnt

I lost faith in him long ago

The only respect that matters is the respect you have for yourself

Slightly different situation as I do know my father, but my Stepdad is my real Dad and I have little desire to meet my father's family. Water is thicker than blood.

My daddio never had any time when I was younger due to work and my mother is a psychotic. I'm only 20 so I guess its no too abnormal to be KHV but realistically I'll probably end up a wizard. Fuck it.

Hmm really makes me think.

I met my biological father when I was 20.
He was, and still is, a huge disappointment.
My half-siblings, however, and pretty decent people.
I don't regret it.

>having a dad
Fucking plebs

GOOD. Blame your parents for everything! Loser.

Spotted the nigger.

My father is a fatass though.

Not that user but I don't like socializing enough to date. I've been flirted with pretty often to be such an average-looking guy, but I'm way too socially lazy to put up with real people when I can come back to my dungeon and shitpost for free.

jokes on you my father didn't want me and my mother just wants me to not be poor and educated

tfw Eastern European life standards

What happened user?

dad was always working my mom was over protective, never had a real male figure growing up maybe that's why I was such a little bitch during high school.
My first everything was when I started University. There's still hope

They raised me.

Got in contact with my dad when I was 16. It worked out pretty well. I recently traveled with him so he could show me how he and two (I have four, fucking sailors mang) of my half-sisters lived.

> exactly what they wanted
FUUUAAARRRK FEELS GOOD BEING MYSELF

Hey user, we did well. They did good raising us.

Indeed
>Daily reminder to thank your parents for their love and support

Mom killed herself after dad left 10 years ago, dad moved to America and haven't seen him since

>final year before getting degree in economics
>play football and American football for uni
>banged just under 40 women
>have a job (not a graduate job)
>have a car

Sister turned out fine, brother is going for undergrad of the year at his uni

All I learnt from my dad is how not to be a shit father

damn thats a lot of pl8

>dad thnks im insane
>tfw he's right

>be 22
>third son
>first child was a rebel and fuck up, only recently got his life together, got on the Jesus train and started managing a grocery store
>second child is golden child, d1 soccer offers till he got some concussions, got 4.0 in mechanical engineering, married at 21, 2 kids by 25
>me, took an extra semester to graduate college
>4 months now without a career starter job, been working part time and a little support from parents
>only had one gf ever and she never met the parents
>they think I'm a Christian like them but I stopped believing years ago and I lie about going to church
>have great and loving relationship anyway
>dad always tells me he's proud of me even though I feel like a fuckup
>supportive parents are awesome

then:
>got bullied in school by everyone for being an autistic sperg
>mom screams at me for everything i ever did throughout my youth
>dad either gave me numb tasks (raking leaves, chopping wood, cleaning sewage, etc.) and never did anything with me or tried to be interested in my hobbies or life
>sister whores herself around the world while she "models"
>grandparents live next door and constantly talk shit about me, when they think i don't hear them since i have failed them as their first born heir to the family (they think about cutting me out of their will for my cousin's sake)

Now:
>parents have to finance my uni life(free tuition, but rent and food keeps adding up) because they don't want to tell others their soon is a jobless bum
>visit parents once a month at most for a weekend
>Mom constantly tries to talk to me (gets pissed about me never calling from univesity)
>dad wants to drive me back and forth university to get a chance to talk to me(would take bus otherwise, but they always try to guild trip me into the other way)
>let him drive me but never talk serious
>see them dying inside everytime a little more
>grandparents always ask when i am going to visit next and want me to come over for dinner
>sister still sluts it up with guys while stuyding in denmark
>she brings home some guy to parents, to show him around as her boyfriend to calm them. He is obviously some faggot

I know i am also at fault in this thing. I also was a brat most of the time. But honestly, what did they expect ?
I asked my father if he wants to play vydia, go to the gym, go fishing or play board games so often, i eventually just gave up with this guy.
No one can blame me for not trying
My grandpa, while still resenting, was the only guy who ever treated me like a normal person.
Worst thing is, my dad always wants to come to his cellar and have a beer with his mates nowadays when i visit.
it's just pathetic at some point.

>dad fucked off before I as born
>mom did her best to raise me, but it's hard for a single mother in a rough neighbourhood
>spent most of my time hanging with friends playing ball
>neighbourhood got rougher
>got in one little fight and my mom got scared
>she said "you're movin in with your aunty and uncle in bel air"

>fit that description perfectly
>has been happier since I started working out recently and told him I was going to join Muh Reens

dont know what to tell you, do you feel despair?

I honestly don't know. Compared to most pasta on this site, i can consider myself lucky with my childhood.
It's more about pure rage than despair.

lol what the fuck is your problem man? you HAVE parents that care about you and are together and love you; that's all you fucking need, dude. Now you can do anything in the world, conquer any obstacle achieve anything you want.

Do you know how many people I know who not only didn't have fathers or mothers or didn't have both? Do you know how many I knew who DID have parents that didn't give a shit about them, let them go to jail, sell them drugs, pimp them out...can you imagine your parents selling you drugs? pimping your sister for crack money?

You have to be happy with what you have, and if you aren't happy with what you have then take something away like say the internet or your cell phone, see how quickly you start appreciating shit.

I understand that human nature makes us avoid blame but we are always at fault because you choose your own reality.

If you're a dissapointment to parents here's a song that always gets me pumped before a lift
m.youtube.com/watch?v=Kgy8IPFVG5g

>mfw I told my mom that all women are faggots and jews and that relationshits are for cuckolds

I'm a 26 year old NEET and my Mum literally comes into my room and starts crying and shouting every day.

CatsInTheCradle.gif

>tfw have son
>tfw too busy growing up
>tfw always tomorrow
>tfw take a look at him and he's turned into a fine young man
>tfw want to get to know him as he's coming home from college but he has such active social life and wants the keys
>tfw I'm a grandfather and barely know him because he's so busy
My boy is just like me.

>18
>Wrestled throughout HS
>Accepted to first choice uni
>Get good grades
>Don't bring girls home often but when I do mom loves them
>Dad constantly tells me he's proud of me

Fuck your feels

> family has 2 girls
> dad wants son
> I come out
> not fit at all
> he is disappointed
> start getting fit in college
> sisters became doctors
> dad looks at me now to get an amazing job
Fuck my life man. I just started lifting a year ago and now I have to be a lawyer or something

i couldnt care less about what my parents want me to become.if i dont enjoy it fuck it.if they think of me as an object that exists only to make them happy and be proud of themselves for raising me to become their ridiculus image of what a "real son"should be then i dont want be called their son.thinking you can control someones life because you think you own it,means you are sick in the head.i dont talk about parents that want their kids to live an enjoyable and well off life while living it the way the like.i am talking about the psychos that want their kid to do x thing,do y job,have a gf with z n m characteristics or you are a failure."I wanted my son to become an engineer but he became a economologist : ((((" or "my son didnt go to harvard,now how can i brag/be proud"...cry me a river with your salty egoistic tears.

hikikomori

and we have a winner in the biggest loser ITT life contest

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Don't be a Fuckboy and just do whatever your parents want you to be. Think for yourself nerd

I almost got disowned for not believe in the same religion as them
I can't risk pissing them off more

Hehe thats what you think I just don't feel like typing

My father was a drug addict and my mom has had 5 mental breakdowns

I think they're happy I'm even alive today

>not on roids
>family always asks if I'm on roids because I'm always pissed off
What do

never asked to be born

it will only get worse unless you do something about it. t. 30 yo in the same situation

>my mother wanted to birth the second coming of christ

>my father wanted a dog

>my father wanted a son that could walk and not be a cripple
>my mom wanted a child that wouldn't die stillborn

I'm a 4th attempt at a healthy child, that's the best they could hope for.

also
>married
>have a healthy, 99th percentile big son
>wife lifted all the way through pregnancy, deadlifted 2pl8 at 120lbs less than 3 months after birth.

I think I turned out OK

I actually wish that was the case.
>your father is 400 pounds and wants to watch movies on the couch all day
>your mother is insane and is prepping for the end of the world

>24
>in college with high GPA
>intraverted but not anti-social
>not fat
>entry level Veeky Forums
>looking for work
>no gf but don't really have time for gf
>no debt

I think I did ok.

Jokes on you. My father never gave two shits about me.

I'm like this but I'm 32. Change something before you get too set in your ways.

>same gf since high school

Is it really great through?
Good for you for making it work but don't you wonder who else is out there? Seems like you're missing out on a lot.

>tfw high school gf turned into a lesbian

I actually kind of wish my dad had cared a little more about sports. I eventually grew up strong and athletic but they put me in school a year early (which is a near death sentence for athletic success when everyone else is 1-2 years ahead of you developmentally) and didn't kick my ass into gear when my confidence was low.

At the end of the day I probably wasn't going to do anything professional with football though so it's all the same in the end.

If she's pretty and loyal then he's not, he's really not.

t. guy who has slept around and also struggled mightily to find something that works

that sounds immensely depressing

>Mfw I did those things
>Mfw parents still disappoint

Shit dude
We're gonna make it brah

>>always been talked out of anything I've started to foster admiration or passion for

By who? For me it was my family growing up, I had all these plans and ambitions but they all got cast aside and I was told I needed to work a job. Que 5 years spent wageslaving watching everyone else my age work abroad and travel. Guess what I'm still doing? Wageslaving. I guess everyone else could be doing the same but at least they had a youth.

Take roids

my mum always says the same thing.

>tfw my dad didnt want me
>tfw my mom admitted i was an accident
>tfw they arent together
>tfw grew up being told this and reminded constantly that i was a drain economically for my single mom
Despite this i managed to be quite athletic, smart and gonna graduate uni soon, ive had relationships and good connections at work but deep inside i feel nothing, im just...cold from all the resentment i felt towards me growing up

You have no idea what it feels like having your mom yell at you that she wants to kill herself but she cant because you need someone to take care of them

>I wanted a brother to teach me stuff and play with me
>Mother convinced father to cut his vas deferens because 1 is enough
>They're stuck with me now

Good job mom.

Holy shit, some people are literally fucking evil. Today i saw a Mom eating lunch with her kid and she constantly yelled commands at him like he was a fucking pet. Did your mom do the same thing to you?

nah, she didnt do anything like that
I dont believe she was evil, she thought she couldnt get knocked up but did and decided to keep it. Then when she had rough times she would always take it out on me, all her frustrations, pain and aggression...

I guess it has fucked me up because when i was a teen all i wanted was a gf and a family, i got the gf but when i experienced how women are and how difficult relations with them are that fucked me up too so here i am unable to feel anything at all and completly unable to relate to people. I cant relate to anything because my world view is so fundamentally diffrent from yours

>I'm a 4th attempt at a healthy child, that's the best they could hope for.
What happened to the other three?

>Europe
>Pro sports

O i am laffin

I'm all of those things minus the girl and Americanisms. I also paid off their mortgage when I was 23.

>be really good at baseball as a kid
>be pushed by my father really, really hard
>playing on varsity high school teams as a middle schooler, travelling to tournaments all the time, homeschooled so I can spend more time practicing, etc
>emotionally abused by my father the whole time
>eventually have breakdown, quit baseball and all sports
>spiral into severe depression
>talked to 3 psychologists, 2 psychiatrists, and been on 3 adult antidepressants and attempted to an hero by the time I graduate highschool
>no interest in anything. Literally 2 people I might consider friends in highschool
>never touched a girl. Zero interest in ever dating. Never went to a single school function that wasn't mandatory
>every single class period spent daydreaming about shooting up the school
>drop out of college after one semester because it's just like highschool
>don't know what to do
>considering enlisting, maybe I could get killed and be remembered as a hero

I actually resented my loving parents and stable family environment growing up because they were kind of strict and didn't buy me anything due to poorness

have to appreciate it now

At least you are graduating college and aren't int debt.

Go find a hooker to deal with your insecurity in regards to women and start putting in effort into dating after that.

I know how you feel man. Keep improving yourself slowly but surely. You'll show them who is boss.

>22
>no gf ever
>part time retail
>almost done with college
>right around 25k in debt
>Play vidya, watch anime and lift
How am I doing anons?

>>your father wanted a son he could play catch with, teach to play football and come out to little league games for
>>your mother wanted a son that she could brag to her friends about, and brings a nice girl home
>>they got you

>27
>Slightly awkward
>Lots of friends
>Running my own company, not much money but I'm learning how to be successful, and I'm getting by fairly well on my own.
>Lots of grills in my life but I don't trust women because I've seen alot of men in my life go through fucked up shit because of women.
>The women I do respect, I won't date because I'm afraid that deep down inside I'm actually a fuck up who will ruin their lives like I've done to a few of my ex's.
>I just want to cuddle my onitis.
>Dad thinks I'm a great son because I haven't gotten anyone pregnant and am working towards building something out of my life.

>tfw dad has a shit life and my pathetic life makes him proud because I was better than him when I got through uni with no debt.
>tfw I just want to make it and make my family and loved ones lives better.

>mfw I can outlift my bodybuilder dad while my mom brags about my physics degree while I sit next my gf who lives with me

It worked out

>implying my dad wasn't a neglectful alcoholic

Hard to play catch when you're passed out every afternoon.

He just wants you to be successful for your own sake bro, get a good job

>not growing up without a father
Never gonna make it.

you're only okay. lmfao. And once you marry and get JUSTED afterwards, things will be way worse.

What the fuck is showering?

I'm sure my parents would love a son who isn't a depressed fucking piece of shit.

>be youngest son
>older brother rebels, gets into a lot of shit
>i'm just the quiet awkward kid with chemical imbalance issues making happiness foreign to me
>as brothers we were tight. we fought a lot but we were tight
>brother eventually gets kicked out. bounces from job to job before landing a good paying gig cutting down trees and getting paid money to do it
>i join the navy as a corpsman
>get thrown stationed 3,000 miles away from home
>get dropped on my recon corpsman package during field med
>stuck at tanks being treated like dog shit for making constant small mistakes and not being knowledgeable yet
>in a constant state of depression
>suicidal feels i had when i was a kid keep crawling their way back to me
>i want to end it

>in the eyes of my mom and dad, I'm the successful one
>they're disappointed with my older brother's life choices

>in the middle of a cut

There are few greater pains in life than dreaming of an idea of yourself, the kind of man you want to become, but never can. For once in my life I just want to be happy

I think it's going on 3 years since I've seen my father because I'm just too ashamed of what a failure of a son I am.

Don't remind me.
I have failed practically all their expectations.
I am sorry.

>21
>had 3 girlfriends, slept with 7 girls I think (3 of which were hookers)
>associate's degree
>20k/yr job, working on getting into a new job at 40k/yr starting with degree (in process)
>still feel crippling loneliness when not in a serious relationship
>random hookups do nothing to ease the pain
>not even a chad, or good looking at all
>receding hair line
>ugly

Just keep lifting bros, we'll all make it someday.

live for yourself, doesnt matter if u are remembered as a hero. just try to enjoy life, gl dude

>only child, parents raise me as uber-nice pussy
>never teach me to defend myself
>bullied through childhood, never do anything about it
>become antisocial and cynical in puberty
>eventually grow out of the pussification
>start lifting at 18, get swole
>an antagonistic, intimidating asshole now
>still socially retarded
I plan to go Bateman mode

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i chuckled heartily

>Dad got me into video games in the first place
I am going to steer my kids the hell away from video games. Thankfully I've redeemed myself but most don't come back.