How did you sort yourself out?

how did you sort yourself out?

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quit drinking 5 days ago

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I never drank in my life
I know I'll become an alcoholic if I do

I get anxiety from drinking alone so I just can't do it. Feels good man.

Shaved my balding head and found a better paying job.

it feels good to be a little bitch?

read more, go to AA meetings even though you don't battle any addiction.
it's good to undo any bad habits that you deal with.
stopped taking in drugs and started selling them, finally have lots of money.
put said money into trust fund.

>Jordan I think fighting 'sjw's' is a legitimate career path Peterson

working on it for a while now, love the progress

give tips

That's not even his main schtick. He's a stealth Evola disciple.

>[THE CURRENT YEAR]
>having principles
You sure showed him, fellow nihilist. MUH FEELINGS, amirite?

I quit doing heroin, started working out, got a job, bought a car, got a gf, got an apartment, bought a puppy, and now I'm saving money and working on career goals.

I don't feel like I've accomplished anything with my life. I don't feel proud of myself. I think I barely deserve to live, much less deserve a pat on the back for doing shit that everyone is supposed to be doing. But I am doing much better now than I once was.

Pinning steroids by the age of 19

Worked for Arnold.

I hit my lowest

Hung out with people worse off than me
Made me realise I didn't have it bad

Then I decided to ditch everyone who kept me down

And I decided just to stop being unhappy

Now every time I feel low I just stop and appreciate what I've got.

yeah bro being an alcoholic drinking alone is what all the cool successful people do

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>everyone who disagrees with me is a neo-marxist, nihlist, communist out to get me and destroy society
t.Peterson

>anyone who objects to having their language policed is a parody of themselves
t. some kind of faggot

>there is any proof that bill c.16 would actually mean this
t.uniformed retard who thinks the inane emotionally charged ramblings of some cancuck is relevant.

To be honest, lifting. It gave me the self confidence and mental fortitude to pursue my goals and reinforced the idea that small daily improvements lead to long term results and habits.

I mean *tips fedora* and all, but it really did help me.

I got inspired by your post.

What do you sell, aren't you scared of going to jail? Being a felon?

>unironically defending a bill that would make it a crime to commit "hate speech" based on "gender identity or expression"

t.the reason western civilization is dying and everything that Veeky Forums hates who has definitely had his body penetrated by a male sex organ

You just "do" it.

Went to rehab, then a recovery house, started lifting, then did NA meetings for like 3 years and quit all drugs, got a job, went back to school, am about to graduate in 3 weeks. Still feel like a loser because I'm 26 years old no gf in 1.5 years and moved back into my moms house to avoid loans and still haven't found a career job/internship for the summer aside from my wage cuck grocery job, at least I'm not homeless and shooting heroin though.

same situation but i'm 31.. Except swap heroin for opiates and ghb.

Heres a little perspective for you. I have a friend, hes 31 also. Has a place, a woman and a kid and another on the way. He was great shape, big handsome mother fucker.

He has a pain in his shoulder, it get so bad he has to get it checked out..

Stage 3 cancer and it aggressively moving too his back. He needed emergency surgery so he doesn't lose his arm. He is now in the process of fighting for his life and is about to under go severer treatment... This all just happened within a month..

Your life is not so bad anymore is it..

Appreciate your accomplishments and where you are going. I need to do the same myself.

I wrote a list of all the things I needed to do to succeed, then deprived myself of sleep until my stream of consciousness withered away. No emotions, no hedonism, no random intrusive thoughts, just exhaustion to the point my face hurt. Then I let my list guide me.

started a business with my friend

it legit turned me from a depressed directionless dude into someone who thinks more clearly, acts more decisively and feels much better in life.

I have really bad anxiety, but an idgaf attitude. idk how that even happens, when i go to the gym my fat hambeast self just does what i need to do . and ignore onlookers but once i stop and am outside all this shit comes flooding in and im a mess of tears and idk how to deal with it

Me too. Im a beast in the gym but my mind is full of cringy memories and shit that beats me up consistently.

However,i told myself im awesome today and that im in the moment as a mantra in my head, and i had a thoroughly good day for once.

Alright OP, you need help, and it ain't gonna be easy.

First, you got to separate the colors from the whites or they bleed into each other. Then you gotta go through all the junk you've built up and throw some of it out and put the rest in a neat pile. After that it's as simple as making a day planner.

i drink on occassion. i dont drink much in social gatherings. i drink a bit more when im alone, on my alone days i am depressed, today is one of those days, where i have to pretend everything is right when it isnt, my life is close to being in shambles

You're doing good man people are proud of you, even jealous they just won't say it. Keep up the good work

mostly weed, and well nah we only get a ticket here

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Need more Peterson meme images. Where can I find more?

Got back into lifting and running for health and personal reasons, not to impress anyone like I used to. Fucked around and got over my oneitis who'd had a hold on me for years after our breakup. Cut my drinking with friends down to once every week or two instead of 4 nights a week (college, man). Started working two jobs and refusing any money from my parents, they're generous as all hell and I don't want to coast off them. Made dad proud. Paying all my own bills got me to actually graduate college instead of failing classes due to "depression" which amounted to me being a lazy shut in.
Started cooking more. Reading more. Stopped jerking off as often. Improved my wardrobe. Sold my shitty minivan and got a nice used car. Cleared out all my pack rat bullshit and simplified my life.
Just landed a good job a few states away, moving soon.

I feel you on the cringy memories. I know that I'll never forget them and I constantly feel like a bitch because of it. I guess once I reach my goals maybe the constant nagging in my head will stop

I bought a bike, then I got a new job with 4am starts, I ride the bike everywhere I go now it's so fun, I use most of my paycheck buying nice stuff for it. Then I started to realize if I wanted to go faster I had to start really focussing on myself, so after 12 years I quit smoking cold turkey, then I quit drinking, then I quit eating extremely unhealthy foods.

After I lost the excess weight I started focussing on working on my body more, I'm ok in the legs so I focus on core and upper body workouts.
I do bodyweight training every other day, and ride my bike 60-120 miles every day im not training.

I'm super fucking poor, I'm tired all the time, but fuck do I feel good.
Decided to join the Army too so I've started to throw some jogging in there as well since even though I can ride forever basically, my running is still weak.

i didn't srs i still drink every day and have an amphetamine addiction i just use the amps to fuel my workouts etc

If you are fat and you are in the gym NOONE is looking down on you (except for douchbags, fuck them). What I say to myself to keep me from going full antisocial mode is that EVERYONE has their own insecurities to worry about you

I didn't. Now i'm just swole with all the same problems, in fact probably even worse because getting into fitness has made me even more narcissistic.

Sam Harris talks about this guy, or the other way round. So he must either really dislike Islam or love it.

Same reason why I can't smoke weed.

>Decided to stop being a sedentary faggot in 2013
>fight through the wet paper bag that is misinformation on the internet for 3 years
>participate in my first real bulk, massive gains
>Hair started really falling out last year
>Health insurance is fucked, bought fin off alphabay
>Bought dnp from dinitro, cut natty from 189 to 163, did two cycles down to 145
>Be now, bulking again with big focus on upper body, because squatting every day is a fucking meme
>Getting fat again, and i don't like it

Life needs constant sorting.

How do you get cancer of the shoulder

>the feeling of a hangover
>the guilt of saying and doing stupid shit
>the fact that its a gains goblin
>the fact that its a waste of money

one day i decided to just go do everything that i wanted to do and start building myself as a human being because i was doing nothing and had nothing.

i made the decision to take the first step and start from the ground up, working every day to make myself into who i wanted to be and slowly give up things that were holding me back or wasting my time.

you gotta be willing to sacrifice your time and surrender to the process.

also accepting that you wont always feel happy and perfect, makes you feel a lot more whole and makes life flow better

I didn't, that's why I'm still here.

I think I'll never be fully sorted if I don't leave this place. Veeky Forums is toxic and helpful at the same time.

Got a job and manned the fuck up. First months were terrible cause I am a fat introvert pussy beta but I just withstood and my character changed a lot from that experience. I realized that all the issues I was obsessing over and getting anxious about previously were trivial bullshit. Eventually I developed more of I dont give a fuck attitude, went back to finish my college and got a gf. Granted, I am still fat (less so) but I am way more confident my peers which is easy since I am in IT and everyone is an autist.

when did you realise who you wanted to be?

Some of us suffer because we do not know.

alcohol is naturally disgusting to me.
same as smoking.
same as most junk food.
guess I'm lucky

What motivated you to become a better man?

Dude I was thinking the same thing but now I know its true.

I haven't yet.

idk apparently its really fucking rare. Like under 5%. It's like a freak occurrence.

I let go.

5% you say
Kill it

1) Implying I want Canada to uncuck
2) Implying I don't want to pretend to be SJW one day to get people fired and take their position.
Kek I'm playing 4D chess your still on backgammon.

He makes about $300k/year from his Patreon to do exactly that, so... yes.

Post Body I bet your DYEL.

>Have tenyer
>give up on being academic and become populist for /pol/tards
I bet my left testicle Bill C.16 passes anyway and he ends up in jail.

how important is it to get microsoft powerpoint 2003 specifically?

Yeah it's so fun but it kills social and communication ability (except when I find a conversation topic to bring up)

We're aggressive and normal people can't compare. Friends who get on Veeky Forums are fun at first but things fizzle out because Veeky Forums composes all the socializing we (I) want

You trannychasers are the worst shitters on this board

I didn't, now I just work out but I'm still a retard failure at everything else

>tranny chasers
Kek, no tranny's are always hons irl.

That's me and drugs. If I ever touch that stuff it'll be bye bye world daddy's a spaceman now

I was an egotistical fuck who crashed and burned his life at least 6 times. The last time it happened was due to smoking crystal meth. I prob didn't actually sleep for a year and a half. I now have a wife and kids and I'm 41 with a good job. I don't have an ego problem anymore because when life kicks your ass that fucking bad you kinda stop being proud of your own dumb ass.

Damn man, sounds like the world has been forgiving to you

Lifting weights brought structure to my life.

I drop a tab of LSD every week and spend the whole day smoking weed and watching movies, or whatever else I feel like doing. I call it my spirit day. Helped my depression so much

Havent had a drink in 6 months and I'm tempted to drink some beers. Somebody convince me not to please

Have you been regretful after drinking in the past?

Where can i get lsd? Darknet, what vendor. Whats a good dose

if u r around bay area go to sf hippie hills

or ask your weed guy if he got connects

Im no that dude but 100ug is pretty weak to me now since the very first time i dropped i did 450 lmao

Tried college because i thought it would be better than doing nothing and would make my parents and partner happy.
Dropped out of my third 1st semester of college because it made me miserable.
Did 7 months of cognitive behavioral therapy, learned to manage my feels and stop being afraid of living life.
Therapist felt ok letting me go once i started a concerted effort to dig deep to find some kind of purpose in life.
Met someone who made me realize I could be with a person who challenges me to live my higher values and pursue my passions instead of just being with someone out of convenience/because they support me.
Did the futureauthoring program to figure out just what the hell I really wanted out of life.
Now I'm:
>working on a personal training cert so i can have a real job
>selling on etsy lol
>filming myself building art in parks, goes on youtube
>getting my drivers license at 24
>gonna break 6'3 190 by august, 200lbs by my bday in march next year

tl;dr: wasted the opening years of my adult life sitting on the couch, browsing the internet, smoking weed, and playing videogames. Been sorting myself gradually for the last year, and i'm finally doing things with my life. I'm unrecognizable from my high, do-nothing-bitch self from a year+ ago, and it's great.

Get laid.

Regular lifting and cardio.

Everything else sort of falls into place after that.

9 times out of 10 i wake up with extreme regrets

Didn't really quit yet. Once you get to a month you can say that you quit

Can you tell me more about this because i dont do drugs or that stuff but i dont live my life up to my standard either. I live in The Netherlands but i want to know if this is in english only and is it a book only or do people help too in real life? I really need something lke this man i know im a better person and im tired of doing nothing good. Im 23 btw

Days come first you faggot
>not going to make it.

It started with a bad breakup. Then when I told my dealer that I was stopping he kind of dismissed it and patronized me, which pissed me off. So I was just angry at a lot of people all at once and felt like they thought they were better than me. Which they aren't. Most people are, but not those ones.

I didn't
I just got big

weighted punchies

well there's your answer

Quit drinking 7 months ago, got a new jerb 4 months ago, today got offered a team lead position. Accepted, ofc.

Also lost 10 kg since new years. Cute redheaded Polish girl working at the diner seems to have noticed. Still fat tho.

All in all, shits getting better all the time.