Are there any virgins here Veeky Forums

> 6'3"
> 26yr old Persian male
> Fit - aesthetic build

Biggest shame:
> Still a Virgin - been focusing on my career and gym. Never got laid sadly.
> I'm a Muslim from a religious family and is seriously considering to just get laid by all the mires I'm getting.

How can I tell a girl I'm a virgin? Can anyone help on this please?

>Persian
shit, yeah, non whites have it hard, just don't go apeshit and kill anyone.
Hire a call girl or something.

> 6'2"
> 19
> still a bit skely but work to jacked as fuck

> ex-Muslim (disowned)
> never talked to a girl except platonically and thus don't know how to flirt so yeah virgin

>22 yo
>5'11
>Anglo American
>DYEL skinnyfat - literally started stronglifts a month ago

Yeah, still a kissless virgin.

>21
>5'9
>paki mudslime born in America
>7/10
>still managed to get laid by a white girl

You guys can't be that ugly. If I could do it, you can

>ex-muslim

Stay safe fit-bruh.

I'm not ugly I'm just admitting I'm a virgin who didn't tale any opportunity. I get a lot of mires so I think I won't be a virgin for long.

>6'2
>slav
>24yo
>used to be skinnyfat
>now almost builtfat
Most girls talk to me and approach me like a friend or something. Lately since i started lifting i had some girls looking interested but im socially autistic INTP.

I dont think ill get laid before 30tbh

>lost my virginity at 14
>I was 5' 8" ~200lbs fat as fuck
If I could do it then, you can do it now

>went to a hooker a few weeks ago but couldn't get it up

Been on nofap since, I'll try again soon.

>non whites have it hard

But Persians are caucasian no?

>Persians
>white

Not op, but you are a legit moron

Guys please stop making a mountain out of a mole hill, it's literally easy peasy, and this is coming from a 6/10 autist, no I didn't drop my standards either, it's a cliche but confidence is key

>being this far in denial
I can see why ur a virgin

>triggered darky
It's fine to not be white mate, it's bad if you insist on being white when you're not though

I've been trying to give less of a fuck and just going after it and feigning confidence. Got any tips to get over the horrible failures and rejections that come with the process? I've been just laughing at it and telling myself it's like failing a rep. Anything else I can do?

>confidence is key
I'm confident all around but an autist when it comes to approaching. I guess it's just a matter of practice.

yes, i made a thread here i have no social skills

To the guys "not stressed about it", "focused on career", etc.
Man up, those are just excuses for being a pussy/having a huge ego and not approaching girls.
Of course you'd like to fuck them right now if you could.
First step is admitting it.
I'm on the same boat btw.

You dont know what I am because i never told you, but you are fucking stupid with your rhetoric. Youll never go far in life

24 here.
Thinking about trying Tinder once my jaw/chin fat goes from this cut. Only problem is I still live with my parents, so yeah.

Being faithful to your religion/culture is actually a valid reason to stay a virgin. Don't worry about it.

It's my birthday today, three years past wozardhood and counting. I'm a broken man incapable of normal emotional functioning following a major depression many years ago, in addition to extreme fear that got worse and worse as time went by. I'm spending my birthday eating old cake and going through forums for people who order escorts / go to prostitutes, trying to nerve up and make a decision, basically wasting my time instead of doing anything productive or fun.

I'm broken and I'm 100% sure I can't be fixed. This life so far was a goddamn disappointment, and the future is filled with people close to me dying, being alone and empty, and never experiencing love or real warmth from a female.

Veeky Forums, you've been a good place for me so far in the last year I've been coming here, and I just want to say, on the eve of my lonely, miserable birthday that I thank you for the laughs and the time spent looking at thicc/thinn women. I mean it, for someone who has very little reason to live, having comfort in a familiar environment is important. So thanks for that.

>pic unrelated, my cake looks worse

>claims to be woman
>links anime

Dude it's my birthday today too
i'm now 21 years old

>5'10
>21y, Norwegian male
>Strong for normie standards, dyel for Veeky Forums
>Lack definition in my core area in particular
>165lbs

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Happy birthday m80s

Happy birthday user. i know depression sucks but you should talk to a therapist or something. I'm on antidepressant right now and life aint too bad, and start working out we can all make it.

NEI
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i'm here 4 u user - just don't give up and start liking traps

dw bruh
try digging into philosophy as coping mechanism

>but you should talk to a therapist or something
I'm long, long post psichiatrists, medication and esoteric treatments. What I have is clinically diagnosed as "treatment resistant" - it ain't going away. That how I know I can't be fixed.

What good would that do? Anyway if I could be sexually attracted to men I'd be gay long ago, seems easier than hitting on women.

I'm eating another slice of cake. Fuck my cut, I need sugary reinforcements. I'm also debating ordering a top-notch prostitute to my house tomorrow (I have the money), I'm just 1) dead scared and 2) don't really feel it would help in any way, I just feel like doing something unusual.

thanks m8's. happy birthday to everyone, it's on the house!

Give me some cake too senpai

Where do you live?

You need to watch your figure bro, I don't. It's my cheat day.

I'm intimidated by and afraid of any woman attractive enough for me to find fuckable.

if you lift and are still a virgin its because you want to

netherlands

doesnt help that i cant speak dutch well
>tfw no blonde amazonian tall dutch gf

Happy birthday mate.

I feel like i'm reading my future. Take the plunge then you have one less thing to worry about

Im embarrassed that a fellow Persian is still hanging on to the backwards religion the arabs put on us centuries ago.

Youre in the west now. Its ok to leave that garbage behind.

>then you have one less thing to worry about
In what sense? Not sure I follow.

...

Did it feel like we're going to hell? I'm asking because I'm a Muslim too and I get mired a shit ton. Had girls that liked me and all but I never did anything because of the whole hell fire thing. Tell me how you felt/feel about it bro.

>6'4
>Going for modelling as a side job
>Pretty face, muscular, deep voice(Actually won some radio contests)

>Fucking horrible eyesight, i prolly wont be able to go to army
>Broke up with oneitis
>Kinda bad posture

Don't, women hate men virgins simply becasue they think that if you'll take man's virgnity he's going to become clingy. Never tell a girl you're a virgin but ask a girl if she's one. Roles are reversed when it come sto virgnity. Being virgin as a girl is ok while as a man is not.

Insallah may allah bless you with some halal gains.

What said
Women don't like virgins simply becasue they'll afraid guy will cling to them becasue they took his v card. I didn't tell girl who took my virgnity that i was one since many people (including women in my family) told to never tell anyone im a virgin. But if you're truly Veeky Forums then DEMAND girl to be a virgin unless you just want to fuck. It's an awesome feeling when some girl starts hitting on you and you ask if she's a virgin. They get fucking dumbfounded.
One girl litteray said this to me
>why do you care if i'm not a virgin?! what difference does this make?!
I went full autistic /pol/ and started telling her about how number of partners co relates with the happines in marriage and likeliness of cheating. I openly tell women i do not look for hook ups but for stable relationship that will end in marriage and if she's not a virgin, i'm not interested.
I've had 2 gfs before i started acting like this now im 24 and looking for a virgin qt to teach her about sex and later marry her so obviously i need to start dating younger girls 18-20. Problem is i don't know how to meet them. I know where to find 18 year old sluts but i want to find 18 year old wife material.
Remember
>non virgin for casual fucking
>virgin for long term relationship and marriage
Or if you don't care fuck whoever you want, just don't admit to being a virgin unless girls also wants you to be one then just lie about it since lmao it's not like men have hymen or some other shit. Unlike women we don't have to make up some bullshit stories about horse riding or gymnastics.

This. Dudes that are awkward just pirate bay bang n day bang by rooshv. Hes a persian dude.
Westernized muzzy that looks good youll be exotic as fuck. Just dgaf like those like migrants in europe

If it's a pump and dump don't tell her.

If you want to stay with her it really depends on how you think she'll react. If you think she'll have a major issue with it maybe you shouldn't stay with her for a long time.

Just talk about gym shit and you'll be fine, that's how I got my wife

Being this butt blasted

21 here, I had sex for 5 minutes once five years ago. I could get laid easily if I wanted to but I wouldn't know what the fuck I'm doing, it would just be awkward. I also don't want to groom my pubes because it itches like fuck when I do. So I just abstain.

darood be shoma

Look at approaching girls like giving out 100 dollar bills, you wouldn't feel bad about being rejected from giving someone money, nor should you feel bad about trying to give a girl a chance at a good time.

>i want to find 18 year old wife material

go to church

Caucasian doesnt mean white

>5'5
>21 fat mexican but look asian
>190
Im still a virgin but Im not stressing on it like I used to. I have a lot of shit I got to work on me and I like to think after losing some of the weight, down 35 lb, helped me come out of my misanthropic self.

Kissless 23 year old virgin here.

I am more afraid of my first kiss then my first sexual experience, penis in vagina seems easy while the act of kissing is completely alien to me, if it ever happens I am convinced I will be doing it 100% manually.
If I never saw it in public/films I doubt I would ever feel the urge to exchange saliva with an another human being.

I lift so I don't have to think about these things.

bruh if I had the money I would buy you a top tier hooker. just know that.

Dont fuck a hooker brehs
You will feel aweful when you realize what you have done

I refuse to believe you can't find happiness. Problem is that you need to believe you can too.

As grill I'm not sure how much a hooker would help. But maybe now that you feel total loss of hope it's time to do something you never have because you have nothing to lose? What about a dating service that isn't tinder? What about finding a local meetup group with similar interests? I don't want you to give up, everyone can find happiness in some way.

I love these threads, like all you have to do is make a tinder or okcupid and just talk to girls... im ugly and sorta skinny-fat despite gym every day for years and im a social pariah yet I still manage to bang 2-3 girls a year.

Sad sack of shit, just be yourself, fake it till you make it, just go out more and talk to that thot bro :^)

Dating pool is slim in fly over land. Am going to road tripping to south carolina and visiting some bars near the beach when I pass through.

You're going to hell anyway. All have sinned and come short of the glory of God. Christ took the sin of the entire world upon himself and paid for it all with his perfect blood sacrifice; he took your place on the cross and in hell. Therefore, Christ is the only way to heaven. Accept his free gift of eternal life; ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find, knock and you will be let in.

Thanks man.
Wrote down my thoughts on paper. I feel like crying but I can't, it's so fucking frustrating imagine knowing what you're supposed/want to feel but you don't feel it. It's like looking at a sexy young woman, knowing that you're supposed to feel sexual attraction and expecting a boner, but it doesn't come up.

>I refuse to believe you can't find happiness. Problem is that you need to believe you can too.
Look, I appreciate the sentiment, but I've been through this shit for a long, long time, and it's not going away. I tried CBT, antidepressants, "fake it until you make it" approach, multiple different psychologists, alcohol, I spent thousands of dollars on treatments (as if anything else is more crucial to spend money on), and nothing worked. I don't feel like dying, but if I don't wake up tomorrow I feel it wouldn't be a huge loss.

I cant connect with people on an emotional level, because I have very, very flat affect. I find very little enjoyment in so few things, because I'm anhedonic, so I also don't enjoy other people's company that much. I've been alone for years and years, so much so that it's now hard for me to spend more than a few hours straight with another person. My hobbies are those of a loner - sculpting, reading, playing games, I can play nice but at the end of the day I've met thousands of new people and never managed to create a lasting, honesty-based relationship, if I want someone to stay I have to lie to them - I've learned to laugh convincingly and feign interest and humor. Would YOU be a close friend of someone who fake-laughs at your jokes, can't connect with you emotionally, doesn't find you interesting and will never give you warmth or love? Fuck, I wouldn't.

I really feel this is the end, and not in an edgy kind of way, all my rough edges grew dull over the last decade, I'm old and past that. It truly feels like it's the end; I will die when I have no more inertia left in me.

How old are you? btw not her. also dude Im like you to as well just not that much of a bitch. I know Im empty too but unlike you I have family lmao at your life. But if my mom dies of her leukemia idk what id do. Probably be just as pathetic as you

I'm probably frustrating to you but I still politely disagree. I am not that far behind in age and do spend a lot of my time alone or doing things alone. Which I prefer a lot. But I still think you can find things you'll take pleasure in with time and doing things you haven't before. Also I think you need a pet.

And you said you feign interest in others, okay, but you have hobbies that you enjoy, right? What about others that share those same hobbies? Would it be uninteresting to have conversations with these people?

iktf, I can't even imagine what it would be like

>I'm probably frustrating to you
You're not.

The problem isn't that I'm alone and therefor don't connect with other people, it's that I can't connect with other people, and therefor have chosen to be alone. My flat affect means people tell funny jokes, or try to open up to me, or try to start an argument with me, and it slids off me like water on an oily surface, it just kinda makes a mental note that I should be feeling something and that's it, I don't laugh, I don't feel fondness of them, I rarely get angry or feel the need to discuss my world view. Under these circumstances, starting and maintaining new friendships or romantic endeavors is nearly impossible without faking it 100%. And I hate faking it when I don't have to, and I hate wasting people's time.

Here, picture this: I go to a meeting, say for people who like board games or something, and there's 6 other guys there and a girl. We talk and I tell them about myself and my work and where I live, and we start playing some game. The game isn't doing it for me, because very little does, but I fake curiosity and interest anyway to not seem like I'm bored. The guys make jokes, one of them is charismatic, but the jokes don't register any emotion in me, I don't feel like laughing, but everyone's laughing so I laugh too. The girl keeps eyeing me, because I'm sorta well-dressed and seem nice and intelligent and seem to have money and maybe she finds me attractive, but I have to shoot her off because I will never connect with her, she doesn't interest me at all, and I know from experience that 1) on a date I would just like to be left alone and stop having to fake my responses to her and 2) she will eventually figure out I'm as emotionally dry as a toast and break it off. So I pretend to not notice her and move on.

What have I gained in this evening? How is this helping me? It's only reinforcing my belief that I shouldn't bother trying to develop relationships and should remain alone.

>6'0
>29 yr old male
>Fat and ugly

>No friends or life experience, haven't had any since middle school
>Now have no idea how to make any friends or even talk to people

Have you, like, not thought about what to do or not self sabotage yourself? You already set yourself for failure by making up stories of timelines that may or may not happen.

I'm fighting 5 o'clock traffic but I have a response to this when I get home.

Crash pls

It was just a hypothetical example. Similar things have happened to me a lot over the last decade.

Don't Veeky Forums and drive m8 it ain't safe.
Also if the response is "haha what a fucking loser" don't bother, I don't care.

>past decade
well no shit, its simply doing it more than a handful of times. Its not easy but your making excuses.

Alright grill is done driving. Also never move to southern California anons.

I get that you've been diagnosed with things and you use terms that I've had to Google (legitimately never heard anhedonic), and maybe it's because I'm only 3 years behind you, but I don't feel like there's no hope left. As another user pointed you, you're dooming yourself to failure before trying again. Trying AGAIN. Having multiple failed relationships, friendships, general endeavors, etc is a relatively normal and common part of existence. And it makes me sad to think you've essentially tapped out at this point. I realize I don't know you but based on your posts you seem like a fairly intelligent individual, but maybe too much so. Like you need to get out of your own head about life and just exist sometimes. Even the scenario you gave, I would assume from parts of it you're doing fairly well for yourself (clothes, job, etc) and even you recognize that but still assume that everyone else will eventually disregard you based on what you assume will happen and honestly that's not even fair to the other people you've met. (I also doubt it's in the thousands, as you mentioned)

I'm just trying to say that there are a lot of enjoyable things in life worth putting yourself out there for again. Sex, being one of them, as this thread is about, but even beyond that. Hope you consider my words and honestly give YOURSELF the benefit of the doubt and lose the total defeatist mentality. And I think maybe you might even want to, considering you're here and responding to me.

Take 5g of shrooms

I think you're being unfair and oversimplifying what I said by calling it a "defeatist mentality". This fake scenario was just to give some perspective to the person who thought I just needed to "bee myself" or that I should fake it until I make it or put myself out there, all things I've done many, many times before with no luck.

This isn't a singular event, it's not something I haven't encountered much before and simply decided to never try again, it's not something I completely made up; I've been this way through 3 years of university, 4 workplaces, 6 apartment buildings, I've gone abroad and traveled occasionally, always surrounded by other people my age, so I have experience with people in repeating, social circumstances and I TRIED for many years to make a connection with them. What I'm trying to disprove here is the idea that I'm some teen NEET frogposter reeee-ing from his bedroom that his life is shit, who never tried anything and might not have any real personal issue. I'm 33, not 22, and I've put some mileage behind me, I'm not merely dismissing it just so I can stay in the safety of my bubble.

I've tried everything and it didn't work, for a full decade. Just some months ago I finished throwing away thousands of dollars on a cleanically-proven treatment that did not work either. If after a decade of failure and empty relationships you can still go on trying, I applaud you, but I don't feel like I can anymore. Insult me all you want by calling it defeatist or saying it's unfair to others; maybe you're trying to resolve some cognitive dissonance, "life is fair, these things only happen to people who don't try hard enough, anything can be fixed", I don't know. All I'm saying is that I feel I tried.

I love you man, never surrender.

>I'm a Muslim from a religious family and is seriously considering to just get laid by all the mires I'm getting.

But you have an actual excuse though. Just say you're virgin because you're Muslim; burgers won't know any better.

Still trying my best, thanks man.

>21
>kissless virgin
>slightly above avg but still dyel
>social
>go out drinking with friends etc
>continuously attempt to chat/dance/attract the female kind
>zyzzwoudlbedissapoint.jpeg

I'd argue my situation is one of the worst as in all respects I should easily have lost it ages ago yet for some reason despite not being too autistic, being a solid 7/10 and having numerous opportunities I still have no success.

wat do

i tried liften but even after i reached a low-level ottermode it didnt work

>pic semi-related

>25
>pectus excavitum
>still a wagecuck three years after graduating college
>live in retirement town south of Atlanta
>nothing but niggers and old timers everywhere

At least I'm not a manlet...

Ehh be a bitch then. This is perfect example of not making it.

If you could only pick one piece of advice from Veeky Forums to listen to it should be this. I have literally missed out on chances to lose my v-card because I let it slip. I wish someone had told me this 5 years ago.

>pectus excavitum
>not a manlet

bless you senpai