OP encourage her and learn to validate her feelings. Take her to the gym outside your workout time and show her everything. Let her find out what she likes and encourage her to do that. Find a program for her and some app. Let her know you can always help but that you will need to focus on your own workout ( don't become an irritating couple that can not STFU ).
Never say shit like "it's easy" or things that make her feel like she ought to be able to do something but can't because she is too weak/fat/slow/etc. She WILL compare herself to others, don't make her feel like you do too else you'll risk resentment ( that is how you get the /r9k/ scenario )
Also her workout ethic may be different from yours. Let her workout her way so long as it's at least a little bit out of the comfort zone ( not reading a book on a treadmill vs. creating a pool of sweat and mouth foam at the weights ).
Carson Wright
>girl at work gives me a real good smile when I greet her >she's in the production >I'm an IT guy How can I start a conversation with her? She always seems busy and out breaks aren't at the same time. Should I just walk up to her and ask her if she wanted to go drink sometime? Feels kinda weird.
Xavier Lewis
>Should I just walk up to her and ask her if she wanted to go drink sometime?
Yes.
Ethan Bell
Why would a girl agree to that, though? Don't they have thousands of offers like that every day? I would be up to it, though.
Jacob Lewis
Because they don't. Most men are pansies too afraid of rejection to ask.
Carson Martin
So, I never talked to her besides the usual greeting. She doesn't even know my name. I should literally go right to her and ask her if she'd like to go out?
Like this, yes? >get up my chair >leave the office >go to the production >go up to her >"hey, I was wondering if you would like to go out with me?" That's it? No prior talk?
Brayden Gomez
Something like that yeah. Compliment her smile too. You said "real good smile" here so use those words at her too.
Dylan Jones
She's a colleague not a random girl in a bar, and it sounds like you never really had a conversation with her. Don't just ask her fir drinks right away. Just start making flirty conversation every now and then, after a couple times ask her out. Don't fall inti friendzone by being boring and talking about work etc.
Charles Carter
And why the fuck not? Establish right away that you're interested instead of playing dumbass games. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Charles Hughes
I guess I will start by asking her next time when she greets me with her smile why she's in such a good mood. When she isn't bitchy I'll ask her right away. Maybe I can ask someone else if she's got a friend first.
