Chad motivation

It's the one thing that gets me and I feel like my positive qualities actually amplify the insecurity.

Not the other guy. You're really simple minded. Meditation and mindfulness is what the other guy is talking about. Google it.

That's not what he's talking about.

I hate to say it but if it's an irrational insecurity the only way to fix it short of some drugs, is to force yourself to ignore it until you really do stop caring about it.

Whenever the thought comes up just make sure to focus on something that can make you confident (or nothing at all is even better). That's what worked for me anyway, brute force.

I'm the guy your originally responded to. The other guy's got it right, but what do you think I'm talking about?

Heres a real question. How much does $$$ play into being a chad.. can u truly be chad as lower middle class

lets say you achieve this state once.

Seeing the benefits you try again to reach this state yet it becomes impossible because you are trying to achieve a state.

How do you overcome this?

Doing things for fun is a goal in itself, so how can one seek it while attaining mushotoku?

Edge, jelq and kegels

> OP's pic is literally 5'7 145
> half natty lighting
> implying this is Chad
> possibly autistic

Having a relaxed attidute is a bonus (for your own mental health anyway) but it won't actually make you attractive. You implied that it will.

Chad is about looks, with his looks, chad can get everything

He can study, he can get rich girls, he can get rich male friends, etc

Yeah that's a bit of a catch 22, myself I've been having trouble with this for years.

I don't really know how to advise someone on this with words, I just know that to me, it kept coming and going, and eventually I realized that I only had it when I was trying to have it. If I'm talking to a cute girl, I focus on talking to her and the good feelings you get from it, and whenever the 'end goal' so to say comes up in my mind, I push it out, and it seems to work most of the time.

Honestly though I can say, write it down somewhere where you can find it in the future, then just don't try to 'have fun doing' things for a while, then try not trying again, then forget again. Worked for me, but again, it may or may not work for you as well.

None at all, the self interest of a golddigger isn't attraction lol. That's why the poolboy slays while the rich dude slaves away like a cuck.

Chad didn't choose the Chad-lifestyle.

Chad-life chose him.

soo butthurt over the perfection that is in OP

Well then yes, I do think having a cooler attitude will make you more attractive. Imagine two guys, one is neurotic and constantly dissatisfied, one is chill and fun, who's more attractive?

You can disagree with me, I can't convince you, but I'm sharing what helped my success with girls and life in general.

The idea that you can "become Chad" is probably the funniest, most hilariously delusional thing to ever come out of this forum.

Chad wakes up at 2 in the afternoon, checks his phone and sees 5 new Snapchat notifications. All of them are nudes from different girls. Did "lifting" earn him that? Did those girls choose him because they liked his "increased confidence" which he got from NOT MASTURBATING?

FUCK NO. Chad jerks off when he feels like it, and he gets laid when he wants. You have places FULL of guys doing "NoFap" like reddit's /r/NoFap, other dedicated forums, threads on Veeky Forums, and what do they all have in common? NONE OF THE GUYS ACTUALLY GET ANY RESULTS. It's hilarious in a way, these guys talk about "hitting new milestones" and how many days they've gone without masturbating, but... where are their lays? where are the girls they dreamed of? Where... where's ANYTHING besides sexual frustration?

I mean seriously, just be real for a moment. I know it sucks, but guys who ACTUALLY GET LAID don't even THINK about this autistic shit. Forget "NoFap", just lifting alone is pretty autistic, at least shit like 5x5 or deadlifts.

We are literally insects in comparison to Chad.

I agree it's a small bonus but in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter all that much.

The cool ugly dude will always finish 2nd (or 3rd, 4th...20th...in jail for sexual harassment etc) compared to the neurotic good looking dude who practically gets everything handed to him in a silver platter ever since he reached puberty.

Dont try to argue with him, he s one of those crazy fucks Who live their lives based on infographics and Veeky Forums knowledge, hes a nu fedora

thanks for answering :)

Its good enough to know that others are asking similar questions.

Personally, when things tend to get out of control i try to remind myself of the outcome that i desire. Not necessarily the goal that i am trying to achieve, but the reason behind the goal.

You literally have no evidence other than your delusion. Experiment after experiment shows that facial aesthetics and height are the only consistent variables.

You're just another future statistic in the male suicide epidemic after your wife cucks you and takes half your shit, and all that because you refuse to leave the bubble mommy built for you.

I bet you think Jeff Seid is natty too. Fucking moron.

You sound like a fat cunt.
Chad wakes up with a hangover
Checks his phone to see who's blowing him up
Then either eats breakfast if he has something to do or skips it if he doesn't
Then he goes out and has an active day. His exercise is activity outside, calisthenics at the park or his room and occasionally going to the gym to work on his guns back and pecs.
Jacking off?
Despite what porn shills and media that makes money from dudes jacking off they either go without or fuck their fwb/gf/confirmed lesbian friend or the hottest and or easiest yet cleanest and at minimum level butter face or aveage looks piece of ass he can.

You're a porn and masturbation shill.

Damn you got triggered, its ok lil fedora calm down youll grow up some day.

Thanks OP. This thread made me filter "Chad" on this board

Let's agree to disagree then.

Yeah, whatever, I tried.
I do see a bit of myself when I was younger in that type of thinking, it's a miserable place to be in.

Yeah man anything that helps you stay in control of your mind is good. Then as your successes pile up it'll come more naturally anyway.

>I do see a bit of myself when I was younger in that type of thinking
Same here, i guess its a phase

>lifting for girls

I'm 26 and not miserable at all. I've been happier ever since I accepted reality, and gave up trying to be something I'm not.

LMFAO.

Oh look, it's THIS fucking coping mechanism agani.

It's another retard who's convinced himself that avoiding alcohol, junk food or masturbating is the way to "be a real man"...but...LOOK AT THE GUYS WHO ACTUALLY GET LAID. Guess how many of them do ANY of this "abstinence" bullshit? FUCKING ZERO! So why do they still get laid? FUCKING GENETICS! LMFAO! Because little do you know, no matter how much "filtered water" you drink, NONE OF IT WILL CHANGE YOUR SHIT GENETICS! You will NEVER have Chad's HEIGHT, Chad's FACE, or his FRAME, as in his FUCKING UNCHANGEABLE SKELETON.

I swear, the "straight edge" camp is no different to a cult in how indoctrinated, delusional and dissassociated with reality its members are. What make you a doughy piece of lard and Chad a slayer isn't how much you DRINK, it's fucking GENETICS.

Being "shy" isn't due to "low confidence", it's not because of "a lack of masculine role models", IT'S JUST BEING AWARE OF WHERE YOU ACTUALLY FUCKING STAND. Non-Chad men are not SUPPOSED to reproduce.This is why shyness exists - it's not something you're supposed to OVERCOME, it's MEANT to limit you.

Cool

>Making excuses instead of working on yourself
Yeah mate you probably never will be a perfect 10/10 (for you) in terms of looks. You can still improve though, both mentally as well as physically.
If you don't want to make it then leave /fit / and go back to /r9k/

why is a man's view all dudes bro?

>no homo

Do you really believe only good looking men get laid?

I agree and that's what I've been saying all along. Non-chads aka "the betas", throughout history, have been nothing more than meatshields for chad's wars/white knights for stacy. Twice as many men have reproduced as women. Hell, in some periods it was ONE MAN FOR SEVENTEEN WOMEN (and there were no major wars to explain that, the reality is that women would rather share than date a guy who they percieve as inferior).

Thank god that we live in a peaceful society and us guys who didn't get the 9+/10 genetic lottery can go about with our lives without being a disposable entity. Just go mgtow and lift because it feels good, and don't neglet your cardio, losing gains doesn't matter anyway if you're a facelet/manlet.

No but the time expended and the risk is far too high for chad's overweight backup.

So, according to your opinion, if you don't have 9+/10, you just kys or go mgtow?

This body is way above ottermode

If he was standing upright, he'd be massive.

That or go gay if you have it in you.

Anything else is simply not a productive allocation of your time considering the risk-reward ratio, and the exorbitant time and rejection you have to go through for someone who isn't even that good looking.

What risk? Flirting is fun as fuck

The risk that if you're percieved as subpar she can sue you for sexual harassment/rape and you'll probably lose your job and/or go to jail without due process.

Dude, are you eggman?

youtube.com/watch?v=5tuf59ex-U0

You do realize there's a truckload of less than ideal looking men (and not only) who have come to the same conclusion the last 10 years or so, right?

In order to become chad you must believe you are a 10/10
This will automatically cause you to take better care of yourself, making you more attractive. And because you feel so attractive, you have more confidence in talking in almost any situation. People talk about genetics and all of this but a persons beauty is 80 % smoke and mirrors. If you're average, with the the right portions of your hair and facial hair you can go from 5 to 8 but you think you just went from 10 to 20
> tl;dr stop think your ugly you dumb fuck

If I believe I'm an attack helicopter, will I become one?

Chad is just a stupid persona a bunch of internet virgins made up for a man sexually successful with women.

Yes

I don't know motherfucker
If you pay for surgery to become a fucking aug then sure you can be one

>stop think your ugly you dumb fuck
Its people that make you realize you are ugly

If you hit on girls and they all say no then you will see that you arent normal looking enough to get girls

You can think you are a 10 but girls and other people wont treat you like a ten, they will treat as they see you and as you are, a 6 or a 5

Yes but read the rest you stupid bastard

I did you imbecile, if you are 5, you can think you are 10 but still people will see a 5 and will treat like a 5, retard

Will Veeky Forums ever learn or will it be forever bluepilled?

Maybe you arent hitting on them right

yeah i bet that's it

Yeah but if you think you're a 10 you take better care of yourself
> shave
> style hair
> dress better
> have better posture
It's like how all women think their perfect but won't outright admit it and use makeup to hide flaws
The same works with men

Good looking men dont need it yeah, but you do

>difference betwen a 5/10 male and a 10/10 male is at most from 35% to 55% success rate

That's not nearly as bad as you make it seem, especially considering how easy it is to make yourself look worse or better in pictures

You obviously didn't read anything. A good looking guy and a normal guy will send the same message but get wildly different responses. It has NOTHING to do with your attidute and ALL to do with your looks. If you can't accept that then you better be a fine looking chad otherwise the bubble is gonna burst eventually and you'll kys/go homeless/broke/in jail.

Or maybe you are super ugly like me

I have a big bumpy wide nose, that is very exagerated to my face, it make me look horrible, guess what?
Im 24 and never have a gf, i have hit in many girls and they all have said no

If i dont get a nose job to look normal then i will never get something and will be alone forever

What about if you are a 5?

You can do that and you will be a 5

How pathetic and self hating do you have to be to come up with this shit? Why haven't you just killed yourself yet?

>What about if you are a 5?
>You can do that and you will be a 5
no

Hahahaha

Reality will hit you hard, cheeky lad

Who's this faggot who can't claim responsibility for his own life trying to bring others down to his level.

Dont do The wanna fuck approach if you are ugly, how dumb are you son?

Holy shit you don't seem to understand
If you are a 5 now and believe you are a 5 you will stay a 5

If you are a 5 now and believe you are a 10, you will try your best to become a 10, which will at least make you a 7

You try harder to be attractive because you believe you are attractive
Same thing with working out
If you think you deserve a better body type you work like a motherfucker to get said body type and then boom

>If you are a 5 now and believe you are a 10, you will try your best to become a 10, which will at least make you a 7
With surgery i guess

Reality will hit you hard, lad

So be a cuck? Maybe that's an option for you but it's not for me. I'd rather be alone.

If you are a 5 that believes he's a 10, you will be a 5 but without a job and a court case against you.

>hire durr don't even try just sit in your room feeling sorry for yourself until you kill your self

Sounds like a plan. Oh wait, I decided to leave that life behind to try and do better for myself.

Hair, posture, all the shit that's easy to change will help make you more attractive
Do your eyebrows if they're really bushy
If you have a big nose grow a beard to divert the attention away from it
If you're nervous about the reaction you will get from a conversation stop worrying, it's not like you will be stab for making a move

What the fuck?
Explain the thought process there

Lol this

Leaving him alone, let reality hit him

Is this like a fetish for you? Do you get off to this?

I get laid fairly often with a new woman each time (every week). Am I a 9/10?

What even qualifies someone as a chad anyway?

Not gonna bother explaining it for like the 5th time.

Hahahaha, the funny thing is that I'm perfectly comfy and have a shred of a clue about how the world works. You don't. So right back at you, because statistically speaking there's less than a 1/5 chance you're above "average".

If they're cardio bunnies and your success rate is over 30%, then yes.

49%

Fucking idiot.

No, lol. This is where the bluepill really starts showing.

What do you mean?

I have experience, im very ugly and people are hostile to me, i cant change by thinking im attractive or im not ugly, i have tried specially the latter and it doesnt work, i just end up offended and feeling very bad and sad so i just trying to get 4000 dollars to get my nose job so i can be average looking and get something

If you're under 6'2 save the 4k.

Read this, idiot
I have experience

You dont know for all the things i have been through

I havent kill myself because i have hope but it hurt me everyday that im 24 and i cant get a girl while my 15 old brother have a daughter and made a girl to abort his baby

lol at retards that dont think Chads are real. What makes a Chad is he is part of the small percentage of men who has gone for his entire life at the top of the food chain. He knows nothing else. He's always been cool. He's never been humiliated. He was blessed with a pretty face and good genetics. The girl he wanted to go to prom with went with him, and they fucked. The Chad is the perfect combo of running lucky his entire life and being too dumb and ignorant to gain any sense of self consciousness. The mathematical probability for Chads is small but the Chad is real.

Why?

Im 5'11 and my cousin is 5'8 and he have got laid with many girls

>I literally don't know what average means

>I havent kill myself

You should if you're not willing to accept reality.

See

Women say that EIGHTY PERCENT OF MEN IS BELOW AVERAGE. That was the point you complete and utter fucking moron. 20% good looking guys = 1/5 chance you being good looking.

What reality?

With a nose job i can make it

Do you think you have to be over 6' to get girls?
Idiot

Here i have seen short guys with girls and even more taller that them

>mfw all along chad was just achieving nirvana while I was an acne faced dweeb