A healthy porn habit

Please define degenerate, and you can't answer "Things i dont like"

bbc sissy cuckold hypnosis brainwashing, and footfags too, I guess.

i personally masturbate like 3 times a day minimum. maybe that's why im feeling tired all day everyday... thing is i got zero game and im not gonna hook up with anyone soon, so im scared of just growing more sexually frustrated if i stop jerking off.

There's literally nothing wrong about fapping to 'le degenerate' things unless you are a fedorer from /pol/

Shouldnt you be spamming chad threads or manlet threads or whatever you spend your time on you pathetic faggot?

I feel you OP. For a while I got really depressed and would just drink a shitload of coffee and edge for like 6 hours to various weird porn, stuff like:

>gay hypno videos
>sissy hypno videos
>diaper fetish
>chastity cages/forced crossdressing/forced gay
>just straightup gay porn
>foot fetish/foot fetish hypno videos

I hit rock bottom when I started finding blogs and videos that were specifically about being porn a porn addicted sissy loser, I fapped to them a lot for a while and then realized how fucking crazy shit had gotten and just... let go of it all.

I realized I was just fapping because I was bored and anxious and it gave me a quick rush of relaxing feels. Doing something intellectually simulating was way more rewarding once I got over the bump at the beginning. These days I only masturbate to lewds that girls send me or my imagination in the shower, my desire for weird fetish shit has completely bottomed out and the only kink I really give a shit about now is thigh highs so I just tell women that I'm fucking to wear them and that's that.

I don't have to define anything I'm not inventing a new language you pleb, open a fucking dictionary.

>Adjective
>degenerate (comparative more degenerate, superlative most degenerate)
>1. (of qualities) Having deteriorated, degraded or fallen from normal, coherent, balanced and desirable to undesirable and typically abnormal.
>2. (of a human or system) Having lost good or desirable qualities.

I went completely noporn 2 months ago and it works wonders, I often think about it, but less and less often. I think it's a terrible addiction and I'm sure I'll "relapse" sooner or later, but the goal is to keep trying to stay away from that shit. It's fucking disgusting what kind of stuff I had to watch to even get hard.

>I realized I was just fapping because I was bored and anxious and it gave me a quick rush of relaxing feels
me too. trying to stop

What's desirable is defined by society. Stop imposing your impoverished standards upon the world.

And what shapes the society's humans have lived in for thousands of years? Genetics. Do you ever wonder why all the most successful society's around the world have similar beauty standards and morals? You are the one with impoverished, decadent, bourgeois, standards shaped by out moral relativist, consumerist "society" pushed by the global elites.

Best way to stop is to take a systematic approach like, for example, this one:

>limit how often you fap a little bit (if it was two times a day do it only once a day) one week long
>do it only every second day another for a period of time
>in that period you change the stuff you watch from degenerate to vanilla
>very specific shit
>hardcore
>no dudes (lesbian, try to fond amateur so its not fake and exagerated)
>solo (again amateur)
>only pics
>only imagination
>every step a week maybe, depends on how long you need to really think the step before is not anymore what you want
>when reached last stage limit to only twice,
>and finally once a week
>stop emtirely if that's what you want (also recommend to stop entirely for certain periods like one, three, six or twelve months)

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Thanks for this

There's hope that you're gonna make it, brah :)

can anyone post their experience with just quitting porn not quitting fapping?
Curious as to how you feel and how you react to wimmenz

Thank you, thank you so much. I'm at the brink of tears. The last 3 years have been so hard on me and I've been really trying and for the past 2 months I'm finally getting somewhere.
Another user said I had potential to make it in another thread too today, it feels so weird that both of these comments on an anonymous image board originally about anime means so much to me.
We're all gonna make it aren't we :,)

Check out Hegre art and beautiful agony. More intimate and artsy and not degenerate like Mayli's facial abuse. Orgasms have been more intimate when I cum to a video like that and I do it only about 3 times a week and I cum like a woman. Masturbating became fun and less like a chore to take my mind off of horrible thoughts.

>porn
>healthy

pick one brah

>There's no such thing as degenerate

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Why are normies so triggered when you bring up that excessive porn is bad?

They don't want to accept it cause that's the only place/way they feel safe for that extended period of time.

They're pretty much such addicts who don't want to hear how porn is bad.

>to a solo cam girl.
This is actually unhealthy because it causes a false feeling of closeness. Not in the way normal porn is unhealthy, but in that it seems to cause obsessive feelings of pseudo-love a lot. Just go with pre-recorded videos or pictures of solo that you have saved on your computer so you don't get sidetracked into the bad shit.

No problem, man. It really is a shitty thing to go through. It cost me a lot of opportunities and relationships from my late teens to mid twenties. But once you overcome this you will be surprised how much it will work wonders for you in your day to day life. Not to mention in my opinion most problems i face in my life now are so small compared to overcoming that personal demon. It does make you a better person once you come out on top.

you're right but you sound stupid

It'll be about a year now since me and my sister started fucking each other.

Kill yourself degenerate.

I'm quitting and a lot of it is willpower and understanding when you have urges.
Also, go to Youtube, look up Terry Crews: Dirty Little Secret series.
Terry Crews has been a huge inspiration and help for me to get through this. Hopefully he can do the same for you. Dude is no joke.

Just think how many hours you wasted on porn. I spent 1/4th my years edging for up to 6 hours escalating to weirder shit until i couldn't even get hard to regular girls.

Just get a girlfriend bro

i use to fap at least 5 times a day to sissy fetish as well as interracial cuck porn

i got it down to once a day now, sometimes i can go 2-3 days, but i cant quit

i kinda feel i need to go out innawoods in order to beat it because if im within reach of a net connection, i give in

That's my (one of my) problem. I do it when 'm bored. It's a habit of opportunity, and house empty every morning.
Currently on day 5.

This is pretty solid advice OP. Either nudes that you personally have acquired or non nude pics of hot girls only. I went noporn and my body did a self adjustment to a healthier level of fapping (2-3 times a day to 2-3 times a week). Could be placebo but I feel like I have more energy.

How long did it take.
I'm on no porn right now since I few weeks and the last time I fapped was to a picture of a naked chick I found here or on another board.
But I still feel like I need a strong visual to feel aroused. I'm starting to wonder how long I will have to continue before getting back to a normal libido.

Ok, Jaime

>implying I dont get to fucking bitches who love being tied up and slapped
stay happy with your missionary sex

hooked up with a girl and couldn't get hard
did no porn for 4 months
got to the point where my standards got so low everything turned me on

ended up batin' so i wouldn't get boners all the time in public places

>implying having kinky sex with a woman and jerking off alone in your room in front of a computer screen to increasingly disturbing material are the same thing

Anyone know how to get rid of death grip? Its killing me when I'm fucking a girl for annhour and cant cum :(

Masturbate less. Even limiting it to just once a day makes a difference. Exercise helps too

What do you guys normally watch?

I like JOI, milfs, chubby, women masturbating, redheads, and lesbians.

I think thats why so many guys on cam site give those women a fuck ton of money. Those women are the closest thing to a gf the guys will get, so as long as they keep paying the camwhores, they will get their fantasy.

SAD

>I've been trying to quit porn altogether for about 2 years
mate i dunno what you think "trying" is but i hope you never get a real addiction.

grow some fucking willpower and never load a porn video again. there is no "healthy" relationship to an addiction. you cannot have "just a few drinks" as an alcoholic. you cannot "just snort heroin" and have a healthy relationship with it.

Softcore lesbian, sexual education videos like how to give a woman an orgasm, fitness Instagram models, yoga videos, and imagination with women that I flirt with. Recently been this older milf that works at a subway i goto.

Got to this from degenerate shit like abusive gangbangs, hypnosis, incest, and really fucked up SFM shit.

i watch amateur vids of girls cumming, its hot

anything even remotely produced/embellished doesn't even give me a boner

i fap MINIMUM 5 times a day, probably closer to 8-10. how unhealthy is this?

>muh /pol/ boogeyman

Ur gonna break ur dick son

dude you guys are so softcore you have no idea

my daily fap consists of mature shemale bbw interracial fart bdsm pissing porn, followed by regret and self hate.

how does one even end up finding that stuff sexy? farts, piss, cocks and fatties are fucking horrid, how do you manage to trai yourself to get off on that?

sexuality is a strange thing indeed.

Never give up. You will absolutely make it.

fpbp

I know it's the next day, but still. I've had porn related ED, I couldn't keep it up with a girl because I was used to some really fucked up stuff online and vanilla fucking wasn't enough for my brain apparently. So I just stopped watching porn and after about 2 months my dick was working like magic again. Highly recommend it, though it's not easy, it's like any other addiction.

This.
Story of my life.
The effect only lasts a while then i feel like shit.
I should probably pick up mindful meditation.

I guess regular/vanilla stuff like what you said aside from JOIs which I also enjoy due to foot fetish.
I think I'm somewhat healthy when it comes to my masturbation habits (every other day), but I'd would like to take a week off. The only problem with waiting longer than usual to beat off is that I get extremely sluggish afterwards so I have to do it at night.

I'd recommend playing Cockhero once a week. I also only fap during the weekends, often more than once or twice, but it's better than draining myself every day

True, but sadly this is why the majority of the chicks on my instagram are either latina jailbait or barely legal. Good fap tho.

When on nofap I felt more confident and could more easily talk to them like friends (dudes) and not like potential partners with all that pressure and general inconvenience.

Watching porn (with or without fapping) reset these feelings allways.

Only fapping isn't as bad as the previous but still pretty bad.

Are you still there? I'm the guy you responded to and who wrote this plan.

Yeah it's nice to have a community that can be as honest as they want because of the anonymity. Stuff like that gives hope.

When on NOFAP and NOPORN, you don't really gain physical energy but rather mental energy. You feel a lot more active, and adventurous i would say. Also a bit more "alpha", i don't really care what other people think about me and i don't care if i say something awkward to a girl. Back when i was watching porn daily i'd say i was mentally exhausted all the time and didn't want to do stuff or talk to anyone, mainly just stay at home and relax, even though i still lifted back then. So i'd say the gains are mental. But of course, that manifests in your physical form. Healthy mind, healthy body and that stuff.

>Is that the right way to go about quitting porn addiction? Using porn and masturbating once or twice every week to a solo cam girl.
That's how I feel, OP. Even better if the girl is a girl you've seduced yourself and it's stuff she has sent you or you've recorded. Been doing this for a while and now have a big private stash with a lot of different girls, and it's hotter than masturbating to girls I've never interacted with.

Let me share this video about NOFAP, which /our guy/ latsbrah uploaded today, in fact:

youtube.com/watch?v=EbnVkx0t1-Y&t=0s

I wanna quote this for truth, it's a good tactic. To gradually work your way down to more vanilla porn, so that eventually you're just fapping to pictures of women, and also gradually reducing the frequency of your fapping sessions, until eventually you reach a point where you fap about every 3 days or so (its personal of course, for me its 3 or 4 days in between). And then you can start fapping only to imagination, with no porn what so ever. What i do, is fap to the memory of a beautiful woman from my real life, just imagining vanilla sex with her.
And then, when you've reached this point, you are pretty much in a "healthy" state in regards to fapping. Completely off porn, fapping about every 2-5 days. At this point you can start doing NOFAP for certain periods. 2 weeks is a good start. Treat it as a test of your own discipline. Prove to yourself (or the gods, if you have them) that you can master your own desires. This is basic asceticism:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asceticism

Yeah man, taking everything here to heart. Didn't touch porn yesterday nor today and have a smaller urge than I do normally to view it. I'll use it when I really feel like it.
I deleted all my stuff which was hard but it feels good to not have that burden on me or any porn to go back to.
Having the option to view and use porn as long as it's soft stuff every other day or fewer times feels much more realistic and natural to me than quitting forever right after watching a horrible fetish video.
I'll do this until I can eventually stop masturbating altogether except for once a week to a still image or nothing at all.

I followed this too which helps a lot, my addiction really is mainly a bad habit which I have to break, then I just need willpower.
Keeping away from my bed throughout the day and keeping my belt on which I always took off right after when I came home from work, a swimming cardio session or my lectures, these two things always led to porn.
I feel like I can really do this, this time.

Will the wasted protein/minerals/nutrients after fapping replenish themselves if I start nofap?
t. brainlet

Nevermind. Day 0.

It finally hit me recently that all these years I've been hiding my problems and emotions behind excessive masturbation

Not masturbating for a while finally made me get off my ass and do something about myself

Thinking back about all the hours I wasted with that shit makes me feel terrible

imo self-control is largely a meme.

want to quit porn? get a roommate or stop paying for internet.

want to quit coffee? literally throw away your coffee maker and any beans you have.

etc

the problem with exercising self-control is that you have 24/7 access to porn. you can exercise self-control all day long and then break down for 5 minutes and you've ruined it. this is why people snack late at night while watching trashy TV -- they literally run low on self-control.

go ahead and be the strongest willed guy on earth. I'll build better habits with less effort.

Fap to memories of sex but add bits in. Always feels better than porn wanks.

>There's no such thing as degenerate, its a made up concept, fap to whatever you like
What about loli shit?

You download a parenting software supposed to restrict kids from searching certain keywords and/or accessing certain websites, install it, configure it, and then throw away the password.

Do that for all your internet capable devices.

Use that frustration to fuel your game

>There's no such thing as degenerate, its a made up concept, fap to whatever you like

this is somewhat true, i'd say. There's nothing wrong with having a fetish, like feet being your thing, sure that's okay. But a lot of guys (myself included) will go from watching your normal porn, then feel like it just doesn't cut it anymore, so you'll go on to something maybe a bit rougher, maybe bondage, then mix in some humuliating Jerk of instructions videos and next thing you know you're fapping to furry anal tentacle anime sex.

Again "natural" fetishes and fantasies are okay; i like to play out the school - girl fantasy with my partners, and i also prefer to be very dominate (ass slapping etc). There's also nothing wrong with discovering new pleasures with your partner, like maybe she'll slip a finger up your a-hole and whatyaknow , it feels great.

The problem is when you're a skinny boy sitting in your dark room mastrubating 7 times a day until your balls are aching to hundred different kinds of videos and pictures. Humans just weren't meant for that kind of stimulus and it's no wonder, or that odd to conclude, that it might fuck with your mind, personality and libido a bit.

Will noporn/nofap bring my libido back to normal/get rid of weird porn preferences?

Its time for that job promotion user. Just bend on over and come get it like my cute little battie boy.

Lets hear more about your slow descent into homosexuality

t.Cletus

I'm restricting myself to fapping once a week, mostly to vanilla. I also started using a looser grip to help cure my death grip. I think it really helped, last couple times I fapped it took me longer to cum, it felt much better, and I came more than usual.

This guy is the truth, love watching his vids.

I'm going to learn drawing just so I can make my own degenerate porn and there's nothing you can do to stop me

>watch
I usually play transformation games where you get turned into a girl and fucked silly

>how does one even end up finding that stuff sexy? farts, piss, cocks and fatties are fucking horrid, how do you manage to trai yourself to get off on that?
haha i remember when i was 16

Who here only watches Milfs/step mom role play videos?

i dont like tendies desu

Don't forget the sister, daughter, roommate and blackmail. I like them most when they have a story, just watching a chick not getting nude in a bikini talking smack just feels like waste of time

Ps

I recommend watching Tara Tainton - Daddy Caught Me Then He Wanted to Watch. Pic related