So guys, i had issues with my dick bit getting hard enough. I could ejaculate, but wouldn't get hard.
So I've gone on NoFap and no porn.
I'm on day 3 and God damn i feel my dick will tear my underwear and explode.
How the fuck do you guys manage weeks and months?
Also will I get a significant test boost and the end of the week? I'm planning to do this only fit a week not more, as they say it can ruin your libido
Bumping once
If you got to the stage already that your cock gets rock hard (hard enough for penetration) then you're golden.
If you can do that solo but not with your chosen sexual partner then no fap isn't going to help anymore. The issue is most likely psychological. So either deal with that shit or get aome viagra/cialis. Once you fuck them once you should feel comfortable enough to fuck them again without drugs.
>dick bit
wait what? How many components is your penis made of dude?
5 days into it you should feel like a god. That's when the test spikes. Then it goes back to normal. Anyway, from my experience that's the best time for making PRs.
Dick not*
Didn't some studies show 7th day spike? Like it almost doubles?
More less, yeah. It spikes then goes back to normal levels.
At least for me the biggest fap trap is having nothing to do/lurking.
It sounds like the reddit shit but being productiv helps.
Also after one or two weeks it gets easier.
>being productiv helps.
I know. Sometimes when I'm busy, I can go a day or two easily. But by day 3 the cravings start.
>At least for me the biggest fap trap is having nothing to do/lurking.
I'm not really sure how to keep myself busy.
I work a 9-5 mon-fri and maybe workout for an hour or so three times a week but the rest of the time I'm on Veeky Forums.
Maybe I should just get some friends or something.
What do you guys actually do outside of work?
This.
I've been on no porn for a while now (tried everything and noporn is the healthiest option for me) and it's always when I'm bored that I get back to it.
Also when porn is being discussed here, don't search for the pornstar or the video even for curiosity because it will always lead to fapping. That's the trap I fell the most for.
Playing time consuming videogames works for me. So for example grand strategy games or Mount and blade
WARNING: Dont play shit like league of legends, overwatch, dota or other flavor of the month games. They will just make you frustrated and you will not get anything useful out of them
>Also after one or two weeks it gets easier.
Yes, because your libido fucking plummets.
Don't fall for the no fap meme.No porn is good but no fap is not unless you're getting sex regularly.
I'm cutting, in on nofap and I've given up on video games.
I'm putting my brain to a fucking lot right now
iktf bruh, broke up with gf recently (on pretty good terms, was more situational than anythign) but it really put everything in perspective
currently day six of
>nofap
>no smoking
>no drinking
>no cheat food
>no weed
and im on a meaty ec stack (120mgs a day plus 400mgs caffeine pills plus a cafetiere of black coffee) and i literally feel like im about to explode, but kind of in a good way if you know what i mean. like how there's some pain that's really gratifying to experience, its as though all my cravings are hitting me so hard at once that it's kind of getting me high
also craving something and resisting it kind of gives me a test boost (it feels like), there's something about ironclad self discipline that really makes me feel like a man
Congrats mate. Keep it up. We about to get to the next level. Leave this shit humanity behind
Reasons why I'm against porn
>drags on my imagination (in every direction, not just sexual related)
makes life kind of dull
>makes me less interested in girls
once you are abstinence for some time, seeing something risky or a girl naked is awesome and much more arousing. Created once a fear I couldnt get aroused by my gf once I've watched porn witch lead to performence anxiety->bad sex
>most porn is basicly disgusting but yet turns me on
creates inner conflict
Reasons for porn
>watching porn with your gf can be fun, depending on what you watch
>can inspire you to enhance your sexlife
>theres some porn thats an image of normal, healthy and loving sex
Even if its not a habit and you dont watch fucked up stuff theres basicly no need to watch it, moreover alone, sincet hen its easy for you to fall into the habit scheme.
My problem is: My brain connects fapping with porn and vice versa. I'm not used to fapping without it and making this a new habit is difficult because it seems boring. Same time I often dont know: Am I horny and want to fap, therefore want to watch porn, or do i want to watch porn and then I want to fap.
A reocurring effect of abstinence I can see at the moment is my loss of social anxciety. I dont walk around hating everyboy in fear of not being liked. Instead I'm openhearted, have the urge to socialize, the urge to talk to random people and can easily do so, flirt with girls, overall feel much better.
Since its something I reconized multiple times when done and that the best months i had in the last years were when i was abstinence from porn (and only fapped once in a while) let me draw the conclusion that its not just a placebo but a real change in my mind.
So: Abandon porn and embrace a healthy sexlife, even if you can only masturbate atm.
i had a gf for a while who was a total freak, she was into some crazy ass porn. she was really turned on by bestiality and would constantly just randomly pull up videos of women getting rammed by massive dogs n shit when we were just chilling which was pretty fuckin wild. she also had a "being used" fetish, and pretty often when we were watching it she'd start blowing me or riding my dick, but would insist i just look at the video and totally ignore her, just using her to "masturbate" as it were
she got me into some really degenerate shit (shadbase, bestiality, hentai etc) but on the plus side i basically never watch porn any more cos no jerking off could ever come close to what she did for me
she turned out to be a psycho beeyotch (surprise surprise) but in terms of our sex life i'll never find another like her
What did she do? Insecurities and stuff?
>Used to fap like 7 times a day
>Fapped only once yesterday
>Havent fapped today yet and its only four hours until monday
IM GONNA MAKE IT BROS
just emotional manipulation n shit, tried to stop me succeeding at uni, tried to make me feel like shit half the time, tried to turn my friends against me etc etc
never stick it in crazy user