Getting pumped for a lift

life

10/10

Zoë

Worst part is i asked her out and she didnt even say a thing and just walked away, and she was giving me mixed signals for long time

Kelly :(

IKTF

Michelle

It gets better, use those gay feeling to improve yourself and keep yourself busy.

Sugar. I use to be addicted, and I still crave her.

Damn... I thought I was the only one - I just up and deleted my instagram and facebook so I wouldn't see that shit anymore.

Pia

Have to see her every now and then on work.

Hey I remember you.
Still a fucking dick move from her

Bros I'm seeing her for the first real time since the breakup in February
I wanted to talk to her to get on good terms because she was my best friend for four years
But ever since setting up this time to meet I've had a hard time not thinking about her. She was on my mind when I was making out with my new girl last night and I can't stand it

I want to hear she's still sure and over me so I can be confident in my new relationship, but that would also cut. Part of me wants to hear she wants me back and I can make everything like it was but things got real serious real quick with my new girl and she's great for me

Thanks for reading my blog post. You guys have been really helpful to me and I made serious gains after we broke up

Rachel

We met about a year and a half ago and began dating more or less straight away. She was an international student here (from China) in the UK and had to go home when the year was up. I knew our relationship had a deadline but I kept putting the thought off until it was staring me in the face. Went to visit her in her home country when we both graduated. Met her family, looked around her town, even escaped the city one night and went camping together in the woods, just the two of us. At the airport I kissed her goodbye and told her that everything was going to be ok, that I would fight for us somehow.

That was a few months ago. We're still in touch, and still very much in love, but circumstances are keeping us apart. I suppose it would be possible for us to get married and have her move here, but it would be tough.

She has ruined other women for me. My head keeps telling me that I should just rip the bandaid off, cut all contact and find someone else. But the truth is there is no way I could ever be with someone who is any less kind and gentle than she is. Walking around London on the way to and from work I will look at women in the crowd, but all I ever do is search for her face in theirs.

Whenever I'm struggling for the last rep or two i summon my hatred and let out a bloof curdling "Fucking cuuuuunnnnttttt!"
And it always makes the weight move

>>I actually tend to do this. And it really is about that bitch.

r u me?

Not even memeing, I'm doing exactly this in like a week after breaking up in January. Feels wrong to have leftover feelings when I'm now with someone I mesh with.

I think the familiarity is what's holding me back. But, like you, if she's completely over me I think I can move past it. If not, more confusion abound.

she might be unironically mildly autistic

even my coworker which is old man said "shes weird" about her once or twice. Well, tough luck.

At least some girls are noticing my gains so that makes me feel better about myself.

>wear tight sweatpants to work today
>girl says "nice legs" to me

she miring my sumo diddly gains

>TFW you realize it was about that bitch all along and not about bettering yourself at all

jess. she got too involved in drugs and sleeping around, so i cut her out of my life. she was one of the most attractive women i've ever met, and was one of my best friends, but she regularly disrespected me and had zero concern for other people.
hot women are sometimes not worth the effort. especially if staying friends or in a relationship would just emotionally and psychologically strain you. i'd rather be lonely for a while than grow bitter. wouldn't change a thing other than working out and dieting earlier so i didnt waste time not getting laid

If she tells me tonight that she can still see a future with me I'm breaking it off with my new girl for at least a while so I can think about each of them. All my buddies are telling me I'm an idiot and that my new girl is really great and I'm going to ruin it but I loved my old girl

Would you do this?

It sounds like your old girl still has a lot of power over you (whether or not she realizes that is one thing). Just because you still think about her now, doesn't mean you'll feel the same way a few months down the line.

not that guy, but it sounds like you'll at least get closure that way, whether its a good or bad choice
do whatever you feel like

Personal freedom.

Just don't get baited by that shit, dude. Your new girl hasn't done anything for you to break up and "think" about her from her point of view. It's going to look incredibly unfair, especially if you're both happy.

I'd be cautious because you could end up losing someone awesome AND not really working out with your ex. That's how you become a batman villain.

If my ex tells me she wants to try again there's a lot more confirmations I'm going to need before I just trust her and break it off with my current girl, regardless of our history together.

Set guidelines, clarify EVERYTHING from her. Make sure whatever problems you had at your previous breakup aren't present anymore. And most of all, be fair to your current gf, she's shouldn't have to be a causality in the middle of this because of your baggage.

Elina

This, too. No matter what she's throwing at you right now, she might just be in pain from seeing you happy with someone else.

Really, the best thing she could do is tell you she's over you, for everyone's sake. Don't let her have this kind of pull over you, because she could easily sabotage any happiness you have attained without her, like with your current gf. Think about the things she says to you, but don't be rash.

fiona
danielle
allie

all three have hurt me

if only they could see me now (I'm still a loser, and they're getting pumped every night by deano haha)

These fucking feels holy shit , chase your god damn girl to the end of the earth or you will regret it.

>Rachel
that's Jewish name. You got jewed my man. Brush it off and keep going

Thanks for the advice boys. I don't think it's likely she's going to confess any feelings for me and even if she did I would need to hear why she's going to be different from how she was
If we have a thread tonight I'll share what happens

>lift ruined

Youre supposed to use those negative emotions to fuel your lift and get that set done.

Underrated post

I'm a veteran of already TWO long distance relationships. Three years with a Mexican, two with an Italian and as much as I tried they eventually don't work out. One of the partners eventually finds someone better. And there's always someone better :(

Stefani

>s much as I tried they eventually don't work out. One of the partners eventually finds someone better. And there's always someone better :(
Are you sure this was the real reason? Entering the relationship with neither party having an understanding of the endgame seems to be what kills most unsuccessful LTRs

Crushes my soul user

Marta

my gf left me in october, and i saw her for the first time for like 5 minutes at my house 6 months later, super weird but as much as i still think about her everyday and would probably get back together right away, it felt so strange being with her and unnatural or something and i knew we shouldnt be together and its over

I just lift at the thought that I'm a lone faggot that hates himself because he won't ever have a family or find a partner and just be happy :)

Please do not remind me, it hurts.

Fpbp in this trash thread

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A Zoe did the same to me, what a fucking cunt.

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>20kg isolate whey
dream birthday gift right here

>falling for a girl so hard that no other women can even compare to her anymore

Ah i know this feeling all too well. Her name is Andrea. I thought i liked and loved girls before, but what she made me feel showed me that i didnt know jack shit about love. Since the moment i fell in love with her and felt things i did not know were possible, i cannot look at another women sexually because none of them come even close to her.
We were playing cat and mouse for 6 long months but 2 weeks ago we started dating and confessed our feelings to each other and things are beatiful. The last 6 months have been the happiest period in my life and its all thanks to her.

Jill

>getting pumped for a lift
>remember her
>pain and anger pushes me for new pb's

Dont cry, fight

>had another dream about ex

Its been two years, please make it stop. The worst part is waking up and realizing it didn't happen.

>Hannah

literally the most attractive girl i've ever met and always enjoy talking to her at work but she wants nothing to do with me outside of that and im probably moving away in a couple months so i'll never see her again most likely

sucks, but that's life sometimes. Atleast my workouts are progressing smoothly

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U might want to cancel that meetup, I did it and I regret it, 6 months of pain and grief down the drain, I was back at the start. Its not worth it man

Melissa. Though the only reason my remembering her ruins my lift if because I can barely contain my laughter at her obnoxiousness and desperation.
>Starts out pretty ok, she doesn't mind my introverted lifestyle
>Eventually realize she's been lying about 90% of what she says when I find incongruencies with past conversations
>Spends months parroting my opinions but changes the subject or answers in roundabouts when I casually ask her to explain further on "her" opinion
>Calls me a pussy for not playing her in Smash 64 (she didn't like Melee because "it wasn't as fun"), yet spends days whining that I beat her without losing stock
>Says she's going to fuck another guy whenever I declined her invitations to go places, yet calls me for hours begging me to go with her
>Sends audios of herself masturbating or porn screenshots with the phrase "what do you think of this ;)" for each one, all of this for no reason or randomly during conversation
>Sends me pictures of herself half naked or barely covered up and says I'm a bitch for not sleeping with her, yet she continues to spam pictures and what amounts to "pls respond ;_;" when I tell her I wouldn't fuck a woman shorter than 5'5" (she's 5'1"). Meets me the next day apologizing for what she said and tries to hold my hand.
>Talks about how men only see her as a sex object but gets mad when I suggest not sending naked pictures of herself randomly
Eventually we stop seeing each other regularly after she moves.
>Supervisor at work tells me one of her friends asked him to tell me to get in contact with her.
>I don't
>She calls me 2 weeks after he tells me and I just tell her she's got the wrong number
>Her friends are still trying to get my "new" number
>She drives over to where I work and acts all friendly but I ignore her and kept walking

We weren't even dating, I just talked to her for a bit and she got clingy as hell after I made the mistake of giving her my number.
Not even worth the time wasted on her. Fuck.

Tfw use to lift to the physical pain to distract myself from the emotional pain and then got gains and now just lift for the satisfaction of knowing she would leave her husband in a heart beat if I asked her.

Once you realize how cruel a woman can actually be it changes who you are internally and nothing or no one will change that feel except a barbell and some heavy ass weights.

Turn that love and affection of your ex or crush and let it turn into hate and every time you step into a rack or touch a barbell use it as motivation to push/pull the weight and once your done leave it all in that gym. Rinse and repeat

shannon was a keeper

>Tfw no name to give

>Struggling with last set
>Remember how you fucked upped your chance to be with her
>Three more sets

Use her as fuel user

Brittany

Everybody says they understand and blah blah. But about one year without physical contact or face-to-face interactions both parties start to feel the strain. Even when you're visiting you start to feel that growing disconnection.

Laura

>she might be unironically mildly autistic
Greentext it
Your's too

I know that feel.

Felicia.

>Even when you're visiting you start to feel that growing disconnection.
i know that feel man
tried long distance when gf and i went off to college
it isn't fucking worth it
even on break it doesn't feel the same
worst part is i'm probably going to fail out, so i left for nothing

>letting bitches get so inside your head that they ruin your lifts
never gonna make it

It doesn't fucking work, don't do it.

I was in a similar boat and cheated on mine while we dated, don't waste even more of both of your time.

I gave up my dreams for that fucking bitch, now i'm stuck in a dead end minimum wage job. As soon as a woman surpasses you in terms of money, you're dead to her. Never forget this anons.

Her name is Chatalle. She's a cute Spanish girl I met a few yrs back in college. To bad she's a lesbian girl, so I never had a chance with her.

>>fuck you, you stupid bitch. You're not supposed to ditch people "you can see yourself being happy with forever" for randoms you've met for a week because there was a spark. You absolute fucking cunt you shouldn't have to learn through experience that looks don't guarantee a personality. REEEEEREEEEEFUCKREEEEEE

Tiffani

She was something special....wish she could see me now.

Kek

>Felicia

>her
I moved on from females awhile ago. They exist to cause pain. If you really need to fuck a vagina every now and then, hire an escort, it is significantly cheaper than wining and dining anyways.

>get pumped for a lift
>right before you lift you think you can't do it
>you do it anyway

Jasmine
youtube.com/watch?v=QsHuV3Aj1os

But isn't there something more to a relationship than sex? I mean, I really doubt that having your way with just any old whore when you feel lonely is enough to make you happy.

Thats what I mean. I can relate better to males, I don't mind fucking males, so I'll just take males.

Is she from the northern US by chance?

lemme guess, that one who's mom is a teacher?

Stella

She ended it because she thought she was just a sex object to me.

I want her back

but just for sex lel

>getting pumped for lift
>think of her
>PR

>2 years
For me it's been 12 years. I dreamt about her last night. The ride never ends.

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Omen
I gave up a career and a future for her and she broke my heart. Haven't wanted to be alive since then. I would be an hero but it would hurt my family

>be me
>break up with gf in February
>she was being a hypocrite about long distance stuff
>really fucking hate doing it
>really fucking upset we turned out like this
>we used to be so much better
>feels for months but getting over it
>meet new girl at uni event
>she's a qt
>she is also very nice, very similar personalities and life experiences
>forgot to get her name
>find her online anyway
>could contact her
>don't
>all of the fantasy of dating this new chick for years and just breaking up with her runs through my head
>now feels frequently coming out of nowhere around chicks
>even with gym sloots
>very nihilistic view of relationships currently
>feeling like I lost my purpose with relationships
>gym has back room for deadlifts
>trying to lift in there to be alone as much as possible

>Sofia
She inspired me to get Veeky Forums, but now that I'm Veeky Forums my life just feels empty without her.

CHRISTINE WHY DID YOU DO THIS TO ME. YOU ARE THE REASON I STARTED LIFTING IN THE FIRST PLACE AND YOU STILL RUIN THAT FOR ME

Nikita. Fucking Nikita. I was so set on you, the only woman I was ever 100% sure I wanted to marry. You weren't the hottest, you weren't funniest, you had cooked teeth, you had a weird laugh, but I fucking loved you. I loved your off humour, I loved your scientific mind, I loved how excited you got when I told you silly things about my day. But most of all, I loved how much you believed in me.

Fuck you Nikita.

I fell for a Sofia too, user. Five years of lifting later, and in all that time I never met another quite like her.

Mia, that wretched cow of a woman destroyed me

>letting some dumb cunt break you

How weak can you possibly be?