>when you lose a bunch of weight or get Veeky Forums and get attention from girls but reject them because you're so jaded and bitter from being rejected by girls of the same attractiveness that had nothing to do with you just a year ago
Why should I settle for girls below me when they wouldn't offer me the same courtesy? I have a great job and am getting more aesthetic by the day so what can normie 6-7/10 girls that aren't financially stable offer me ?
Who knows this feel? I'm not a chad so I don't get attention from 8-10 girls automatically but if looks are all you offer then you better not be uglier than me.
Jason Hill
>rejecting pussy
Lol fag
Cooper Hernandez
t. basic bitch enabler
Adrian Morgan
People like you are the reason so many women are picky bitches with no discernablr character qualities at all
If all they need to do is exist and not be fat to fulfil their end of the biological bargain we're all doomed
Robert Thomas
Yes OP you're correct
The world WILL try to force you to settle down with someone you don't find attractive. Don't. If you're a virgin, by all means fuck anyone. Hookers are the easiest and, quite frankly, the cheapest in both time and actual money. Never settle down with someone you don't 100% like just because they give you sex when nobody else does. That's how you get stuck with 3 kids, a mortgage, and an inevitable divorce, as well as a shitty job that sucks away your mental and physical gains.
Kevin Davis
>not knowing that you can fuck them without committing Nothing personnel, kid.
Luke Robinson
> get rejected by hotties cause nottie > become hotty to get hotties > reject hotties cause fuck them for rejecting you in the first place
your life is a paradox and you will never find love
John Ward
This isn't a role-playing website faggot. We all know you aren't rejecting any girls.
Dylan Sanchez
degenerate
Leo Wilson
I'm in same situation as OP and it's not like some act of revenge, it's just an acquired negative view of women as a whole
Bentley Turner
Real Chads reject pussy all the time.
Benjamin Hernandez
this
stop flexing you fucking spaz, we know you dont look good or have rejected any girls
Brayden Wright
OP you are right when you reject something that does not feel good enough for you. Never lower your self and settle for something that is not really you. You are on good path.
This. There are real women there who would love you. You just need to find one, or one needs to find you. Better without anything than with one bad one. Best with one good one. Good ones are there, and there for you, keep an open door for that. And keep improving yourself for yourself, good winds with the path of aesthetics.
Josiah James
Don't worry about it, you're just bitter and been living with a chip on your shoulder. It's a high for you now that your lifestyle has been vindicated, you'll stop rejecting them in time when you normalize and get used to the new you.
Christopher Nelson
pro tip: be friends with the girl before you fuck her. Relationships fail so often these days cause people jump into shit and the days of sacrificing for the family are dead and gone.
> be friends with girl > get to know their non-dating side > decide if they're worth it > pursue them
it's easy to break up with someone when you have only dated them there's nothing holding you two in each other's lives other than romance. get to know them outside the romance and you strengthen the bond.
Cooper Sullivan
You should really study marcus aurelius. Like for real, doit. It will be very illuminating for you i guarantee it.
Owen Powell
Still buffs their egos dumbass
Aaron Richardson
This
You realize most women are lazy cunts that want shit on a platter
Bentley Price
fatty fantasizing about the future
Post your CBT if i'm wrong, faggot
Carter Sullivan
Bud your pipe is only going to work for so long, heres what do, snag up all the poon you can until u find one that you deem suitible for a relationship
Nicholas Nelson
>Lose weight and get buff until women start recognizing I exist >By now be so jaded and distrustful of women after decades of observing their actions and character >Now when a 6+ hits on me I immediately find her shallow, immature and untrustworthy Should I just date dorky and/or chubby chicks instead?
William Powell
who gives a fuck about them? just pump and dump
Lucas Cruz
>tfw i have made a habit out of flirting with women who are married or have a bf >more are fine with cheating than you'd think >collect screencaps >decide whether or not i want to fuck her beforehand >send snapshots to her bf/husband i've caused a handful of divorces, and the guys always thanked me. they're usually super pissed or don't believe me, but a lot of the women claimed abuse as a defense in divorce proceedings. too bad i screencapped them saying shit like "he treats me fine, i'm just bored" or whatever and they realize they're dead to rights and totally fucked.
Brayden Morales
>/r/mgtow
Tyler Hall
Bullshit. How do you get the bf/husband's number?
Matthew Hall
i don't need to. social media is a thing, breh. most people don't bother hiding their shit so if they don't know you have a fb you can snoop pretty easily mgtow are generally pathetic failures who are angry at women in general. i just have a really negative perception of people who cheat, so i feel no remorse for exposing them.
Chase Russell
solid advice desu
Grayson Foster
Just fuck traps and twinks like I do
Ian Sanchez
This man will never make it
Lucas James
...
Nolan Bell
im not gonna lie, traps give the best head,m and enthusiastically so!
Dominic Morgan
Okay fag post a couple of screencaps.
Michael Peterson
just humiliate them when you fuck, bretty fun
Dylan Jenkins
>be a 4/10 hitting on 7/10 girls >get rejected >lift and eat healthy to become 7/10 >7/10 chicks are now interested in me >wtf fuck these chicks for not wanting me when I was 4/7
I will never understand this attitude.
William Adams
The 8-10s wouldn't fuck you when you were a cave troll, either. Why give them the pleasure now?
Luke Hughes
Take the squat plug out, OP. No one cares about something so trivial; you'll find that only frequent posters on a Taiwanese h20 sports board converse about this :)
Lucas Collins
Just accept women are always acting in their own self interest at all times. So do men.
Youre not special.
You are a meat sack that thinks he's a special meat sack and you are projecting the surfacing realization that you are just a meatsack onto other meatsacks because they act in their own self interest.
Brayden Martin
I've been feeling this feel for the first time recently. I've always done good with the ladies but after getting Veeky Forums I find it difficult to find a girl that I actually like and have thus become pretty jaded.
>tfw now you have the looks to attract 9/10s but they shit test so hard you just can't be bothered and keep lifting out of spite
Connor Richardson
>be neet >get fit >find love >love doesn't want me anymore >get even more fit to forget her >end up fucking sluts >feel nothing for them I don't know what to do now. Even if my love wanted me back it would be different now because I have changed so much. I just can't escape the heartache for some reason. pls help
Cameron Ramirez
>tfw you get Veeky Forums but just look more intimidating so girls still don't talk to you
Kayden Cruz
>> be friends with girl
dont do this. its trojans horse.
first youre hanging out, then shes riding your dick, next shes staying at your place and moving shit around.
all the while you had no intention of dating her and wan6ted to be friends, yet it will be your fault shes all hurt and feels like shes not good enough..
Chase Brooks
this is false, your dick works better if you restrain it and use its power
Charles Howard
Indeed it does, i was talking about when you get old
Benjamin Murphy
its not real attraction. gettin fit is for your self esteem when hot bitches flock theyre just trying to collect you for later.
David Phillips
iktfb
Jose Rogers
occult literature
Wyatt Martinez
Reading Meditations right now. New perspectives on a couple things already. Worth looking into for sure
Alexander Sullivan
I've personally reached the realization that individualistic superficility is the root of modern women's philosophy and can only harm men.
girls just wanna have fun..but at your expense.
>tfw no gf >get gf >tfwgf >break up >tfw don't wan't another gf or spend time and money on a woman again.
tfw roasties excuse is you just havent found "the right one"
meaning go forth like every other dickhead waiting in line for used up pussy on tindersluts and risk stds and rape accusation seeking out this mystical girl so I can give her a 50//50 chance of taking everything I own after she gets fat and takes my kids after many miserable years of sexless fidelity
Daniel Miller
revere the gods, I know agnostic athiesm is popular, but it's a lie.
become spiritually Veeky Forums
Luke Davis
what anime is this from asking for a friend
Tyler Jackson
Same guy here. I'm combining the philosophy things with bible things. I'm a christian, personally.
Agree / 10
Leo Lee
But user, I want to know their nipple colour, breast shape aesthetics, and if they have an innie or roast beef before investing my time into them.
Aaron Evans
>feel nothing for them
Youre not a high estrogen beta anymore.
Cameron Wood
underrated
Easton Wilson
Little Witch Academia
Blake Green
Accept your role, pussy
Leo Rivera
you're on Veeky Forums, shouldn't you be complaining all girls are sluts?
Ian Hernandez
Joke's on you, I'm gay
David Long
This
It's worse when you used to be so fat you just assume that no female wants to touch your penis. Then after weeks of thinking her flirting with you is just how she talks to all guys. By then it's to late and you're deep in the friend-zone
Christopher Roberts
I'd rather date a 5 with a good personality than a 8 with a shitty one.
I can't image what it would be like to date someone with silimar interests. Pretending to be someone I wasn't felt worse than being alone.
Caleb Wright
Basically on the same page as you are.
Hunter Williams
Do it if only to fuck with all the women who will see you together and go green with envy
Chase Jenkins
valid points. I personally would never date a slut-outty.
Josiah Rogers
Honestly, it reads like you've suffered some psychological trauma from rejection in the past.
This isn't anything to be ashamed about, it happens quite frequently to everyone.
However, attempting to intellectualise this IS a problem. You need to interrupt this logic circle sooner rather than later, or else you're going to move through your life getting attention from females but never capitalising and experiencing a relationship. This is an active process and will require you to put in an actual effort to interrupt this logic.
Or else you're going to get later into life and want to settle down with a good quality woman, only to realise you don't know how. The strategies you should have mastered a decade ago will be absent, and therefore you will be incompatible with any woman.
Ian King
>However, attempting to intellectualise this IS a problem. You need to interrupt this logic circle sooner rather than later, or else you're going to move through your life getting attention from females but never capitalising and experiencing a relationship. This is an active process and will require you to put in an actual effort to interrupt this logic.
how though? cbt?
Ayden Price
but OP's picture is a statue of Caracalla, not Marcus Aurelius
Cooper Hall
If you want to pay for a clinical psychologist to walk you through CBT strategies then absolutely.
However, I think if you're a relatively intelligent dude you can probably walk yourself through this logic pretty well. It'll just take some introspection, and I mean serious introspection.
Immersion would be the best fix, you say there are these girls that seem interested .. so immerse yourself in their experience. Totally surrender to it, don't have any sort of gameplan or presupposition on women, no redpill shit, just approach it as an experiment.
Hello fellow Homosapien of the opposite gender, what are you about?
What's the worst thing that could happen? You fuck up and meet the person you wanna spend your life with? You're happier, feel more complete? You live your life with them, have children with them, and ultimately die satisfied?
Jeez that sounds horrible.
Ayden Robinson
>your brain is the problem
typical response to the men who've witnessed female nature and dont like what they see.
Dominic Roberts
Reductive analysis of a simple truth; it's not your brain it's what you're doing with it.
Don't get me wrong, I love self-loathing & stoicism, or rather the new form of stoicism that Veeky Forums perpetuates aka to retreat at the first sign of turbulence/difficulty and then declare youself as above the simple truths of life, immune to emotions, a being of pure logic and control.
Secretly of course, you're crumbling on the inside, you're wounded and if somebody were to corner your bullshit intellectualization and rationality of "women; relationships; life" your first reaction would be anger.
Kind of like how a hurt dog will cower in the corner and snap at anybody happening upon them. Totally a pathetic site, and I mean truly pathetic, but regardless this dog will still snap and try appear imposing or threatening despite it's cowardly demeanour.
Classic.
At the end of the day, chief, it's your life. But do yourself a favour and remember at the end of the day help isn't coming, you gotta save yourself.