For those of you who have made a turn around to finally lose your virginity, was it easy? What did you do...

For those of you who have made a turn around to finally lose your virginity, was it easy? What did you do? I've been working out lately and I have a nice body and stuff, but I know I need more. Is it hard to make the full commitment?

Joined Uni boxing club, went on night out with them. Got smashed and started talking to some random girl. Just asked her if she wanted to get out of the club. Went back to her dorm.
It was weirdly easy to do, I dunno probably just got lucky. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take I guess

Was pretty easy, it only cost 300$

She was cute too

OP here.

If you were me, where would you start?

>age 20
>no car, but have a permit
>work in retail
>not in school
>decent looking I suppose
>no hobbies or anything, but I do lift frequently

I was thinking I should try and get a car first. Then maybe consider going back to school. I was gonna try and become an electrician.

Met this ridiculously out of my league 10/10 girl on tinder, she invited me to her place.
We watched a movie in her room. I started making out with her, and was terrible at it.
Told her I was "kinda rusty" which she found to be cute/endearing. She told me i could practise as much as i like.
I got her shirt off and then was dumbfounded by her huge boobs.
She said "well, what are you going to do now?"
And I unironically said "I'm not sure, I didn't ever think I'd get this far" which she died laughing at. I told her the truth that I was actually a virgin, which she didn't believe at first because I'm "too hot" to be a virgin at 20.
She then said "well, I can't take your innocence tonight, but....." and told me to lean back and relax.
She gave me a blowjob, swallowed.
Then we just make out and talked till 5 am. We dated for 3 months after that, and she would give me a blowjob whenever I asked for it. She taught me how to go down on a girl. She thought my honesty and "innocence" was cute.
On my 21st birthday we were cooking around she finally just begged me to fuck her. So she got on top of me and I came in like 18 seconds.
The second and third and fourth and fifth rounds were way better though.

Don't be afraid to tell a girl it's your first time. Don't cockblock yourself like I did though, or it may take a few months and destroy you emotionally when it's over.

Join a sportsteam, social rugby is good craic and if you are big you don't need much skill but any sports team/club would be good. Maybe look into doing some training so you can improve your skills and maybe meet new people. Getting a good friend group is priority number 1. If you have achieved that just go out to clubs and talk to people in the smoking area. Eventually a girl will show interest. Make a move and go from there, Thats where I would start if I were you but like everything its alot easier to say then do.

I went full blown low inhibition and had sex with my friends little sister

Is that copypasta?

I can give you a guide that worked for me but thats all really. I was a vegan till 19 but i started lifting around 8 minths ago and have seen good progress. Pre much lift everyday, and make friends with about 1-3 girls. Like friendzone yourself. These girls will then become your trunk of your tree of women, and use them to meet women you could potentially fuck. When talking to them, just smile ask open ended questions but generally dont give a fuck about the outcome. Eventually turn the convos sexual and add touch blah blah blah. At the end of the day virginity means absolultley nothing so dont sweat it bro. Women account for literally 90% of my problems.

If all else fails go fuck a hooker man. Really hot, they want to please you and theres no strings attached.

Gl user i believe in you. Jist act like a man, not a bitch. Be the man you want to be and you will be fine.

Would you say you guys are in shape, and or attractive?

Whenever I talk to a girl it seems like I can only ever get to a superficial level with them. The most recent girl I talked to seemed to have interest in me at first, but then I asked her to go to movies and she said yeah but then said she forgot. This happened 3 times. I kept talking to her because jt feels good to talk to a girl. Now she has a bf. I'm not sure what to do at this point. Not just with her, but in general.