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>finally get job at a restaurant as busser
>slow to pickup the job but finally settle In to the work after a month
>inside source worker gossip apparently I'm canned in two weeks
I thought I was making friends and doing my job well, but apparently this shade is now following me and I dont know what to do, is there anything I can do for these two weeks to save myself?
I thought I was finally going to make it

>hang out with girl
>makeout and cuddle for a bit
>brettygood.wmv
>tells me next day she doesn't want to han out anymore

Feelsbadman. I would talk about this to my irl friends but pretty much no one in my friend group is ever serious with each other and I don't want to seem like a pussy.

I'll never understand why women do this
>spend everyday with her
>get her number
>flirt
>drops all contact

>busser
>slow to pickup job

how fucking retarded are you. you're probably still fucking up but too much of a dunce to realize it.

Can you elaborate on the situation and articulate why you're going to be fired and how you found out

Maybe you lack social skills and come on too strong. Maybe she get cold feet

That's because I went round and fucked her all night after she moaned about how the guy who was there before was some autist who only wanted to cuddle. Then she chucked you because she wants my prime bit of English pork and not your little chipolata.

that doesn't make any sense
>Hey I like this guy and he likes me. Better stop talking to him!

Dudes I know this fucking feeling. Sucks majorly in a big way.
>meet QT out at a bar
>we have banter, dance, have a good time
>go back to her place, have passionate sex
>chill for a few hours talking afterwards
>text her the next day, she replies like once or twice with 4-5 hours between texts
>eventually just stops responding entirely

You joke but she's a virgin which is why I cared so much in the first place and didn't try to fug her the night of

It does make sense if you understand how women work.

If you want to consistent have sex with a woman you need to subtly hint that you have other options available, women like to compete with other women, it makes them feel special when the guy picks them, the worse thing you can do is show her that she's your only source of sex, that gives her power and shows that you're powerless, ie now unattractive due to being below her.

Men will date/fuck down but women will generally only ever date/fuck upward due to tinder/online dating inflated self-worth and attractiveness.

I'm NEET kissless virgin autist who lives with mommy but for the first time in 4 years of lifting I'm finally comfortable with my body.

Hi bois

Just thought id pop in quickly to tell everyone it'll all be okay.

There will always be good things in your future, but i know sometimes its hard to see.

I hope you all can find happiness, but more importantly contentment in the present, dont let your mistakes hold you back, and dont let your anxiety immobilise you.

I hope you can draw upon your past experience, and use the wisdom you can find.

Be healthy, work hard, hell, be selfish. We're not here for long. Find the things that matter most to you, and nurture them

remember, the devil is in the details. Dont wait for the ability to make grand gestures, but instead make the right small decisions and actions, because those are what really matter

Remember, true bravery is not absence of fear. Its not letting that fear stop you.
In the same way, true strength is not finding an easy path. Its sticking to the tough one, despite how difficult you find it

I'll say it again, because sometimes its important to hear, and its even harder to hear from yourself when going through tough times:

It'll all be okay


I hope you all find the good in the world that youre looking for.
God bless


And remember one important thing:
We're all gonna make it


"It matters not how strait the gate
How charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate
I am the captain of my soul"

Thank you kind sir.

Women have more autism than we realize. It seems like they want you, but at the same time are too scared of being rejected. Remember a women can go her whole life without EVER facing the risk of rejection, they fear it even more than the average autismo on here does.

It's almost like they want you to tell them what they want. They have a different perspective then us. Being direct is key, straight up tell her WHY you want to take her out, so she knows 100% what your intentions are. You're (presumably) a goddamn adult, this isn't middleschool; be straight with her and if she can't handle it then fuck it her loss.

>women FEAR rejection
Try ignoring one or not paying attention to one.
>friends and i go to city festival
>guy says hes already close to one of the girls behind the bar
>talk/flirt with blonde qt
>next day we go out with the same friends and his girl
>girl catches me alone and asks why i didnt talk/flirt with her
I was flabbergasted ťbh

don't do this

...

>Girl led me on hard (I think they call it ghosting now?), told my friend and apparently she tried to get him to hate me for it
>Never once triple texted, she always responded well
>mfw it's because she found out Im Libertarian and own guns
>mfw my family hunts to provide for others
>Roommates start to hate me
>One bitch can't cook/wash dishes/clean
>Decides it's my fault (I live with two girls and a guy)
>Turns other roommates against me
>Mfw I have to live with people who won't talk to me for the next month and a half

I hate a lot right now. Life seems pretty unfortunate and all around irritating. But screw it, I'll live on.

>One bitch can't cook/wash dishes/clean

fuck I know that pain. Sooner you move out of that mess the better bro

>it's because she found out Im libertarian and own guns

fuck that cunt for direspecting your way of life. Ignore the cunts. Don't apologize for who you are to them btw or they will see you as pathetic, which you are not

I'm new and working out is a really great way to release my anger

>I have to start working out soon or I'll lose it even further
>Workaholic here
>Not even sure what is real anymore
>Day in and day out same shit, go to work, go home
>Thinking of quitting and living alone in the mountains

Ew, you're christian/catholic AND a libertarian. Totally understandable that you're alienated in front of your roommates. Don't worry, I'm sure that in a month and a half you can retreat to a place where everyone is just like you.

thank you, you wise, beautiful and bodacious beast

You have no internet in the woods
Remember that

>thats the point

> he thinks he can leave

I slept with one of my housemates, and made out a lot/slept in the same bed as another. They hated me p fast soon after; I just don't talk to them and completely ignore them. I leave the house for summer never to return in about half a month. It wasn't so bad, gl

Yea

I've done it before, longest stretch being away was like 2years, totally forgot this site name and this community

I'm usually here when I need to figure shit out about my life, been here everyday for about 2-3 months now

I'm sure I will leave again, as soon as I accept my upcoming journey

Allore buona fortuna
See you in 2 weeks

>know a qt
>she has kids
>don't want to be a cuck

thank you user :^)

that'a like a best case scenario for me.
I just want to get to know people and talk and laugh.
After that they get boring and I prefer my own company again.

Thank you friend. I needed that

>quit my job about a month or two ago due to how stressful it was
>currently trying to find work as a substitute teacher in my area, want to also sign up for classes so I can become a full-time teacher and work towards getting my teaching certificate
>just going slow as fuck, will have to wait until the end of summer anyways for when the school district gets back, get IVP fingerprint clearance card
>don't own a car right now, just trying to find a decent car as well on top of this

Only recently figuring out what I want to do in life and trying to get myself back together. Lifting is one of the few things that keeps me stable.

I don't want things to be okay, I don't want it to get better and all this anxiety to disappear. Everything I have has been due to being scared and angry while contentedness has brought nothing.

What's the point of it all if it'll all work out anyway? Why force myself through illness to do squats if I'll get strong regardless? There has to be a reason behind these feelings beyond waiting for something better to come along.

>tfw half a dozen hot women in my class
>tfw I'm basically surrounded by them
>feels good

Ignore this dude unless you want to fuck with women who do dumb shit

after getting a 'proper' job I no longer have any sort of passion for going to the gym, and I don't get that good feeling afterwards.

Also nothing interests me anymore, not even Veeky Forums. I feel like a zombie. I take fish oil, a multivitamin, l-theanine, zma. I have no passion anymore and hate my life.

Aww the poor lil baby has no PASSION awwww
Switch up your routine dumbass. Get fired up. Snort some fucking preworkout, what are you, a commie?

Get a hobby dude

I have switched up my routine, I do BJJ and muay thai, I take fuck loads of preworkout

nothing changes

How's your social circle?
Any close friends?

I would actually suggest a change of scenery if you can afford it. If you don't fuck with taking psychedelics then just go on vacation. Literally take yourself out of the routine for a week or so.

And if you take FUCK LOADS of preworkout and kill yourself training all the time it's possible your CNS is blown the fuck out which can lead to depression.

You gonna make it brah

thanks bro

social circle is shit, 3 close friends, no one else, maybe I'll go drinking with 1 of them this weekend. I need to shake things the fuck up.

>t.iskimmedtheredpill once and understand the broad picture but because I'm autistic I've never actually applied any of it so I'm gonna to spout some macro economics to help you with micro.
Stupid Fucks. I wish nobody knew about this shit.
>inb4 projecting

>I think they call it ghosting now
ghosting is taking a shit that drops so clean you don't even need to wipe, and you're left wondering if the shit even came out.

Just ignore those dyel faggots, why do you let this shit get to you man

gb2reddit

everytime i'm on the edge of throwing it all away I come visit you guys and you always make me feel like I'm not alone and that we all are the same and there's no such thing as hate or death

i love you all so much brehs

>the first year of uni is almost over; I've done quite great and have become well-respected among my peers
>I have a pretty well-paying summer job, but it's still only 30 hours a week
>I'll have over a hundred days without school, meaning I'll have time to read all the books I haven't had time for before - about 5000 pages in total
>I'm more strong and aesthetic than ever before
>might've found the girl of dreams, going to ask her out soon
>have made humongous social gains
>have been asked to give a couple of public speeches during the summer

Life is what you make it.

>be into competitive cycling
>buy expensive road bike
>be doing good
>go to watch a time trial race
>i wanna do this
>probably gonna end up buy an expensive tt bike
i like the sport but shits expensive

were it that easy

...

Well, he never said anything about faith, just his political stance(s).

Nice projection though.

cockblocks....don't waste your time with them...

>getting bigger and stronger
>still have ED and porn addiction consequences

>Christian/Catholic
You're not wrong.

>Everybody is like you

Not really man, I just don't like being shit on for random ideals that don't matter in dating.

user here
>Don't apologize for who you are

T-thanks bro :')
For real though, I needed to hear this, feels good somebody knows the pain .

Thanks bro, I really needed that

Yea women do that. They think you're great, you go out with them, you do something "wrong" meaning something they dont like, to them it turns out you're not as great as they thought and they end up cutting all contact.
I had my girlfriend tell me about cases like this which involved her female friends plenty of times.

HOW DO I BECOME CHARISMATIC BRAHS?

I've become fit, i have a good looking face with defined jawline and a deep voice, yet i can't be charismatic to save my life.

One day me and my friends were hanging out at a bar and there were some girls with us, one of my friends who is also good looking but not fit said something like "Damn, this food is expensive, i hope to at least have sex with one of you girls tonight". All the girls started giggling like he was some popstar.
I tried to do the same the other day, i even smiled confidently while doing it but the girls stopped talking and looked at me in silence like i was a homicidal maniac for a good 5 seconds, one of them said "what the hell man, that was gross as fuck" and another one just got up and outright left the table.

I wanted to cry right there. Fuck my life.

there's a difference in smiling like you're confident and just being confident. cultivate believing in yourself / your own lies. women are like dogs, the smell fear. we're all gonna make it brah

>no one will hire me even with college degree
>have no money to go on dates even though qts mirin me
>feelsbadman

ghosting is when you actually sever all communication and ties with someone - usually with little to no warning.

go on free dates user. museums, parks, beaches, etc. bitches love romantic shit. it shows you can think outside of the box.

Hold me Veeky Forums
>be in great mood
>have a free afternoon
>the weather is great
>on one of the fb groups they re looking for players for game of soccer at the pitch nearby my place
>go for it, love soccer but not many chances to play lately
>met the guys, couple of chicks were playing too
>my first sprint of the game
>feel the sharp pain in my right leg
>either too short warm up or too intense leg day before, doesnt matter
>pain doesnt leave me the entire game
>my speed and dribbling skills go to hell
>I am playing defensively but I am too slow
>After an hour or so I lose concentration and I am late with a challange
>straight out kicked one of the girls
>wasnt really that drastic foul, no guy would make a scene about it, but the girl was clearly pissed
>i guess she didnt accept my apologies
>the game is over
>my leg still hurts
>I will probably have to skip the next leg day
>90 minutes of intense cardio suggest that all my gains from today will be lost
>this day started so well and now all I want is to kill myself a lot

do it and make sure you livestream it so we can watch.

Dont get too hyped, I am too busy filling myself with carbs now. But seriously, cardio is a fucking meme.

>on a date with a girl
>be with her in park, wanted to tell her how I feel toward her
>suddenly text from her friend
>she has been raped
>she is total fucked up with theese news
>follow her home
>fuck won´t have another chance like this fucking raping degenerates

>it's 'user gets cockblocked by a rapist' episode

how do I obtain mutual understanding and affection? don't even need a gf, just a good friend. am I too gay?

protip: once you injure yourself, stop doing what injured you to prevent further injury.

Yep, I thought it was merely a cramp. But of course I would be better of letting that one pass.

I Fucking hate myself, im 22 and no real accomplishments. the women who show interest in me I Do nothing about and as usual i wind up reliving memories of them showing interest in me all day being depressed. i seriously fucking hate myself. 22 no college degree i might as well join military and join the infantry.

my dream would be to teach martial arts but im 22 and im getting older. i fucking hate myself so much i dedicate myself 6 days a week working out in the morning cardio at night weightlifting. and i'm not happy with my results. ive been workin out since december. just fucking kill me i fuckin hate my life.

>pic related

>text her the next day
ya done goofed

>went on tinder date with stoner chick
>we go out lunch and smoke together afterwards.
>kiss a bit but she shuts me down pretty quick

I found out on the date she used to be a huge junkie. I'm stuck wheter I should try to hang out with her again cause she was really cute and nice. But the whole junkie thing is kinda a huge turn off

She probably just messaged her friend to type that so she gets an excuse to get out of the awkward date

>wake up
>gf still doesn't have a dick

When is it gonna come lads?

If you're degenerate enough to even consider hanging out with her after learning that she's a junkie, then do it. You obviously don't have any standards so why pretend that you do?

Keyword is she used to be a junkie. So she isn't anymore. And she came right out and told me upfront. I respect her for that at least.

Get a dog. Rescue one from a pound. Just figure out your free time activity level as well as spacethen find breeds that fit that critera

>was a junkie
>red flag
Oh but its behind her now
>met her on tinder
>red flag

You deserve better

i feel you

Just graduated uni. Have good job lined up, but never had a gf or a relationship. Don't wanna become a beta provider, and family grew up poor. Definetly wanna see the world, anyone here ever do solo trips, at best I wanna go with my brother. But what exactly do you do, tourist shit?

Ever since i got Veeky Forums starting to like nature more, wanna go on hikes and trails. Maybe even climb mountains.

True. I can meet chicks elsewhere

>get asian qt 3.14, literally my type in every way
>suddenly start seeing all the asian/white couples
>que shame
>I care less and less about her
>que cheating
>tell her I did not cheat
>still break up

All this, considering I have the worst developmental condition a man could have, I do not know what to feel. Right now I just feel "they come and go, get better, do better, a better one will come".

Good job man, keep at it.

A+ for poetry taste

>falling hard for my housemate
>too scared to try anything
>spent hours just lifting and running my frustration away

Thank you user.

find other friends. Don't replace your old ones, but you need friends that are willing to talk about feelings
also this guys seems to get it

Not him, but easier said than done for autistic fucks like myself.

Only friends I can just talk emotional shit to are on the internet and they're not always available, not to mention the one chick I really like talking to has BPD, so she occasionally splits/ghosts on me - she helps so much when I do talk to her (particularly when it's shit involving my wife) but I sometimes can't reach her.

nah it wasnt awkvard date we both had fun until that text

>said hello to my work crush without spilling my spaghetti today
Absolutely making it.

I needed this user.

A quick quote about what you said about true strength, one of my favorite quotes of all time.

"We chose to go to the moon in this decade, and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard."

Making it wouldn't feel so damn good if it was easy.

Good attitude man. Look at it this way, at least you will have peace and silence at home.

youtube.com/watch?v=xLN4OHxfbGQ

Just recently watched this again. Made me feel because it reminded me that if you just want something enough you will achieve it, no matter how many times other people will tell you the opposite.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, look up Matthias Steiner's story

>tfw will never be a dad

I pulled my lower back doing deadlifts today. I was too fast on my last rep and my form was off, and there I went. I guess this is the Snap City everyone talks about. I don't think it's anything serious and I hope this goes away within the next few days. It isn't exactly painful but it is fairly fucking sore. I can walk fine but movement like bending and such causes a lot of discomfort. Also I feel the discomfort when I stand up or sit down. I don't know. Somebody give me guidance here.

I married and had a kid. Then boom i start thinking about my oneitis after 10 fucking years. She's still so hot

It's not that great. Just another person to disappoint