Hey bros...

Hey bros, I'm on my knees asking for your help in giving me your honest input on a text I'm about to send my ex girlfriend.

>she dumped me last August
>we had on-and-off arguing that lasted until December. Haven't spoken since.

I want to send this text today:

"Hey, it's Riley S. - Ah would you be cool in later meeting up for an update?

It feels like half my soul disappears whenever memories from last Fall pop up...We helped write a page in each other's life story, but I'd love to meet up to rewrite a better ending, please..SO much to update, holy shit!!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=wTa14Sui7mw&feature=youtu.be&t=4m39s"

>>she dumped me last August
what makes you think she won't do it again? ghost her and never look back and man the hell up for once

Don't do it

I had a similar situation. It's better to just forget about her

Gou sound like such an emotional faggot. What's your fucking problem? Move on, idiot.

dude move on

This.

Never contact her again.
If she contacts you, give her a short, closed answer and then ignore her.

Never do this kind of shit ever.
Learn to deal with your emotions and move on. Get on tinder talk to new girls.

If you send it and you two get back together, she will KEK you. Guaranteed.

I can guarantee it won't work out

if you're sure you won't regret exposing your feelings to her like that it it's a decent way to get over her though.

But yea, 0% of it working out mate

just stop trying to achieve happiness by getting back into a relationship that clearly wasn't healthy. If you think it was a good relationship that's too bad, because she didn't.

You're gonna have to learn how to be a happy person by yourself instead of relying on others to make you happy.

Lift, join a sport community if you're at uni, eat healthy, take opportunities to talk to people, hook up with people if your self-esteem needs it.

You're never gonna be in a healthy relationship without being independently happy first.

I've accomplished and done a LOT of things (and done a variety of women kek)

But my life still feels meaningless when she's out of it.

You know?

FUCK OFF TO R9K FAGGOT

meet up and fuck her

then never talk to her again

Veeky Forums my gf is working away in another state for 3 months. Shes working on a movie.

She keeps telling me she has bad phone signal when my calls drop.

move on, it sounds she probably has.

Lol
>update
>just checking in on how many dicks have been in you since you got tired of mine
Just move on m8.

Then the problem is with your life.
If you need another person to make your life worthwhile, the problem runs deeper than missing an ex.

I know how you feel and its a terrible feel. You just have to move on shes not worth it. Talk with friends or something. Try find annoying things about her. Make yourself hate her. She abandoned you. She doesnt love you. She doesnt care about you. And you put her on pedestal.

Times are gonna be rough for a while but you will get through this shit m8.

Also if text her theres a 85% chance she and her friends will call you a beta and laugh at you. Just dont.

>You know?
No. I don't. Now don't be a faggot

Prepare for trouble chad thundercock is there.

I'm in a similar situation but not
>Gf loves the fuck outta me
>family has been giving me a hard time for years
>like a really hard time
>Going a little insane
>Start taking it out on her in little ways
>Finally lose it
>Move to spain to be an english teacher for the next 7 months
>She tells me prior to me leaving that she was crying and wishing every day that I wouldn't leave
>Come christmas
>We have a little argument
>I tell her that her getting involved in physical activity would make me proud, she's kinda testy emotionally and takes it wrong, I get pissed because she takes it wrong, I block her
>Here we go
>Her dude friend who was always uncomfortably close to her who wrote a rap for me out of the blue while I was leaving is telling her to break up with me along with her shitty new friends
>Come back on christmas eve
>Knock on her door
>get on the floor
>just kidding I give her a ring and we cry a little and she agrees to come to my house to talk things out
>she comes over, we sort things out,
>skip forwards a couple of weeks, I leave again
>Her shitty friends are at it again from the moment I leave this time
>including this guy
>She starts going silent for the majority of the day over messenger
>Eventually
>"Conor, things are getting really hard"
>I give her the choice
>"I didn't give you the choice in this, we can break up if you'd like"
>okay
cont. next post

NOT FIT RELATED NOW FUCK OFF

>I really wasn't prepared for this
>I start going insane
>But trying to keep it from her
>I block her telling her that it's difficult to keep up communication like this
>Also I asked that rapper dude to back off as gently as I could just before I'm back on christmas
>He screencaps me asking, sends it to her and blocks me
>Check out her instagram at some point
>"Thanks mom for making me and rapper dude go to the pantomime!!"
>I'm emotionally insane at this point
>Time to come back again
>I've written and produced a catchy little song
>I bought 50 bongs worth of gifts for her
>Land on her doorstep
>Hey check this song out
>Okay I have loads of shit for you if you want to meet me at the door
>She obviously doesn't meet me at the door
>Go home
>Cry
>Go back to spain
>cry
>Confidence is fucked
>Came back at one point and fucked a girl from some club
>Felt like shit
>go back to spain again
>It's now
>I've been trying to speak to other girls but this chick is still on my mind
>My final move is to simply tell her that I'm sorry when I'm back over whatsapp
>Sorry for being a shitty guy and for fucking it up
>Thanks for being a good gf and doing good things

Td;dr I went to spain because I was stressed to fuck and my long-term broke up with me because I told her press-ups are good and started dating a dude she knows I'm insecure about to fuck with me

Thought I'd tell you guys to get it off my chest

Kill yourself

Never contact her again.

Let this be a lesson to anons, just ghost a bitch if you're not man enough to keep her in line. Also don't bother with girls if they have friends who have vested interests in who that girl dates.

I'll end up contacting her again. At the very least in the far future because we have a lot in common and could be hella buddies at least.

Either way it's tough. Have you been through something similar?

ABORT
ABORT
ABORT

do NOT contact her for any reason.

Suck my dick faggot

Then go cry on r9k

You're retarded

You never know bro. If you really love her you gotta give it a shot- just keep your dignity and NEVER beg.
Keep in mind your feelings for her are strictly neurochemical and there are plenty of hot sloots that are looking for something to do tonight

It's done boyo. Time to move on bruh. No point in being a sad faggot.