If I'm 26 and I:

Psychological time is an illusion and you're caught in it....

>society doesn't give a shit about anyone
then whats the point of it? why should any of us support it?

because the only other alternative is to kys

have you been living under a rock for the past few decades?

ITT: incel neckbeards

>I'm too much of a fucking shy autistic loser to even look a guy in the eyes long enough to show that I'm interested.
I think the bigger problem is being gay.

y'all ever record yourself or think about how you act? I guarantee you're problem awkward as fuck and project anxiety of wanting acceptance in the form of sex or friendship

once you stop putting the responsibility of acceptance on other people they feel less tense about interacting with you

Probably. How do I become more relaxed and less scared of talking to strangers? I have taken anti anxiety pills with opioids just to feel calm and carefree but I still couldn't talk to people I met at clubs. I basically have nothing to talk about.

I had pretty much no friends in high school in the whole six years I went out three times. I finished and got a wage cuck job with people i hated. I was a kissles, huggless, virgin and I was 22. I joined the army and instantly made a lot of friends, I enjoyed hanging out with the boys so much I went another year and a half before I even went on my first date with a girl. So now I'm 23 almost 24 and finally have the confidence to not just talk to girls but be rejected and be fine with it and move on to the next one.
You aren't finished but at 26 you need to do something now, join a club, volunteer or do a sport. Girls don't mind if you have no fiends but make sure you have some sort of social interaction in your life.

It isn't.

>~60 years ago

That was the 50's. White people didn't practice arranged marriages anymore by then.

>qt

Most women aren't qts now and they weren't then, either.

>virgin

Possible, but not guaranteed. A girl's family would go to great lengths to conceal an abortion or a secret adoption, and plenty of girls were just plain lucky enough not to get knocked up.

There was no golden age.

>dude just stop being weird lmao
>just be confident bro

wew lad, never heard that one before

you genuinely have to like yourself and not let yourself down

that means actually comitting and following through with making promises with yourself. Whether that means waking up early, going to the gym, or trying to make new friends, etc

You know when someone says they'll do something for you but never comes through? Most likely you'll experience a hatred or distrust of that person. In that, every time you let yourself down youre generating hate for yourself, which in turn makes you seek approval/acceptance from others that you're not a bad person

change starts from within, once you start to like yourself you'll be more willing to share your interests with others

>Was like you up until this year, at 19
>Long time friend thicc friend with absolutely massive tits straight up asks to be fuckbuddys
>She started to annoy me so I stopped talking to her for a while
>She is now dating someone
Don't waste any chances that come up OP.

If you fell for the ultimate societal meme of "having a girlfriend is all that matters" then you are beyond saving.

Women are a stupid commodity that will be replaced by technology in time. Get off Tinder and focus on self improvement, stop caring about what other people are doing.

That makes sense actually. Thanks, user I'll think more about this.

Getting laid is still nice though. I don't care about a girlfriend. I just want to have sex like a regular person.

I'm not that guy but I never saw having a girlfriend as the ultimate goal or anything. I don't even need the dickings, I don't give a fuck about that. It'd just be nice to have a genuine connection with someone but that seems to be impossible for me.

It's been 7 Months for me. Any advice on how to hire an escorts safely?

I think I'm on the path to becoming a 25+ year old virgin,
I'm 18 now, strict parents who interrogate me every time I try to leave the house, has to meet everyone I hang out with (never met anyone so now I just stay home all the time) I'm not gonna leave for College because Im.doing community for 2 years and gonna commute to a state school for the next two. Parents pay for my school, can't get a loan without it so.i can't do it myself. They insist on paying but won't pay for room and board for me to move out. Im a spineless beta and have never stood up to them and I'm terrified of standing up.to them. I'm a HS senior graduating in a few weeks, prom is this week and kids are re ting houses and living in them together for a few days after and I don't know anyone and i can't invited. I've never been to a party, hung out with a girl, only time I got a girls # was for a project and she didn't respond the one time I tried to talk to her. I can't hang out late because parents flip shit so no College partying. I can't get a gf because even if she says yes I can't bring her to my place and if I explain to her my situation she'll just be embarrassed to be around me

I know that feel user. Mostly my mother was like that and still is. Seriously stunted my social growth really bad. I guess my advice would be to get a job and try to save up for room and board the next two years so you can experience college for at least a year or two.

>Watching Welcome to the NHK on my rest day.
>See this thread
>mfw

thanks for letting me know i'm not alone. i just hope for the best

I can't make that much in two years, also my parents get mad as hell when I work more than 2 days a week because they think it will interfere with school.
I wish I could tell them to fuck off but all.my life my method of dealing with them is doing whatever gets them to fuck off with the least conflict and Im the definition of a beta, not just an awkward manlet fuck (I am that too) but a weak fuck who can't do what he wants and Idk how to change this

Oi sonny, you are 18, do what you want to do. If you are invited to a party go, then deal with your parents later. Step up, if you dont step up right now, you will regret it forever. I have been living by myself since your age, and yes its pretty hard n shit. But if your parents really love or care about you, they will help you. Unless they are some kind of super american conservative christians, in wich case its another reason to get the fuck out of there boi.

They are super conservative muslim so them finding out about drinking will be way worse than anyone without Muslim parents can comprehend shit so yeah I gotta get out, I'm financially dependent on them, the shitstorm I'm gonna get if I go to a party will be bad as fuck. My mom's just gonna guilt trip me and say that she can't talk about me around the family and whatnot while crying and my dad's just gonna scream his lungs off
My life now is go to school, walk home, walk.to sisters elementary school walk her home and babysit her until parents come back and then sleep, for an 18 year old
On the rare chance I get to hang out my parents bombard me with texts telling.me to come home at 9:00. I fucking hate them and I've considered killing myself not only to end it but to make them seem like horrible people and spite them

Imagine if it's the opposite, you get attention a lot but when you get one from the one that you really like you immediately spill spaghetti and fuck everything up because of autism, I think that's worse

That sucks, now i would recomend you to get a part time job so you can save some money, i dont know how things work where you live. And when you have enough money just leave, i know it sounds kinda unreal, but it would be a nice story to tell and a way better choice than killing yourself senpai.

Well, thats the problem nowaday.Women have fewer incentives to marry since they can earn money themselves, and in case you havent noticed, dating dynamics for women and men are vastly different. What happens when you take money out of the equation?

>>/r9k/
0/10 at least ask a fitness question

Noah is that you bro?

lol

I live in the us and I do have a part time but my parents will get pissed if I work more than 2 days a week because it will "interfere with school"

You're the way you are because you're not putting in the effort. Cut your hair, do some exercise, shave, get a tan and some new clothes etc etc. Women are something you have to work towards and not something you're entitled to. You have a job so that's a good start.

Neither have I, but I am in kind of a different boat. I hate the notion of one-night-stands. Had a few chances in my life, turned them all down (some quite offensively like literally telling a skank to fuck off). I still cannot fully accept the fact I am one hideous motherfucker, so I always wanted better looking girls (me myself - 3/10 on a good day and I want a solid 7). I have destroyed all my relationships, because I am a shitty person. One tip from my experience - don't worry about so called friends, they will always leave you for a slut. Focus on self development and never fucking get married. And ffs stop caring about what others think about you. I am arogant, selfish, hideous prick and I still have achieved more than my peers.

>>have only had escorts

Would you recommend this?
Also isnt it weird?

Thinking about maybe fuking one, cant be bothered with picking up chicks at the bar at the moment.

Also, will this taint me for the rest of my life? fuking a prostitute?

>with no one ever taking the initiative to talk to me

you need to make the first move. Talk to people, people like to talk about themselves/their interests. Show a genuine interest in them and they will probably like you.

Nice bro science but my beta grandpa married his virgin wife in the 50s. He is always telling me how I have it hard compared to him and how incels like me with a high paying job didn't exist back then.

Do you think there was a constant supply of 18 y/o honeys waiting to be given away? Plenty of men, now and always, died virgins, lived pathetic menial lives of uninterrupted failure. Suppose you were unattractive and poor, unable to make social connections - how would you end up with the qt? What father, even one wholly apathetic to his daughters desires, would give her to someone who not only offers her nothing but offers he, the father, nothing?

People like OP (and possible yourself, or at least people similar to the persona you've adopted) have just failed at life; you have no recompense to your lack of physical/social/mental exuberances - general wastes of life who are very rightfully upset with the abyss that is their being, but this is hardly the fault of others. Some of your fate goes to unbiased providence (genetic or otherwise), some to complete inability and spite on the part of the life-failure in question.

If you're a loser now, you would have likely been a loser at any point in history - the paradigm of human worth and value has held stock pretty well throughout the millennia, and incompetent, selfish, boring, weak, unattractive, brainlets who waste their time and have no hobbies were never/will not by any shift of perceptions be of interest.

Kek. I wanted to find an article on serfdom to disprove you but it ended up reinforcing your point
>Before and after the abolition of serfdom, Russian peasant families were patriarchal. Marriage was important for families economically and socially. Parents were in charge of finding suitable spouses for their children in order to help the family, and were not interested in true love when there were mouths to feed and fields to tend. The bride’s parents were concerned with the social and material benefits they would gain in the alliance between the two families. Some also took into consideration their daughter’s future quality of life and how much work would be required of her. The groom’s parents would be concerned about economical factors such as the size of the dowry as well as the bride’s decency, modesty, obedience, ability to do work, and family background. Upon marriage, the bride came to live with her new husband and his family, so she needed to be ready to assimilate and work hard.
Even among peasents marriages were judged off their social and material worth

>tfw i'm 30 and the same as OP
>except i've never had escorts and i'm a kv
>no friends
>ugly
>socially awkward
>overhear normie coworkers talk and laugh at their jokes all the time
>flirt with each other
>they are good looking, chads and staceys, with good careers ahead of them because of their likeability
feels bad man

This is me OP

>25 years old
>kissless virgin, never been on a date, never even asked a girl out in my life, no girl has ever showed any interest in me
>look weird as fuck and have been teased/insulted for my looks most of my life (have also been called ugly online)
>haven't had friends since middle school when I was 13
>no friends in HS --> not learning how to socialize --> alone in college --> alone post college
>not just alone, but pretty much a shut-in since 13
>because no friends and no girls ever, just bitter and jaded now
>can easily make people laugh, but I'm too weird, autistic, and ADD to have people want to be around me for any length of time (and when I try to calm my autism, people ask if I'm feeling okay or if i'm sick because i get quiet)
>because shut-in, never really got many hobbies
>too afraid to get close or comfortable with people because they will start asking about what I did recently or about my life and they'll see what a loser I am, and at least if I keep my distance there's at least some mystery out there even though im sure everyone knows already
>have terrible relationship with my family because we are all assholes and I'm an only child so not even any siblings to associate with and rarely see my small extended family
>such a pathetic faggot that i honestly think that like 80% of girls around my age I see in public, at work, etc are cute but I never talk to any of them because no idea how to

life is really bad man. i'll be honest though, i've been alone for so long that except on Veeky Forums i don't really complain about, cry about or think about no gf, no friends, and don't even feel lonely really

>I'm such a nice guy
>why won't these whores give me attention
>I'm clearly superior they should bow before me and give me sex
Kys broskis

marriage rates peaked 60 years ago but has been stable for 140 years so your argument is discarded

[1] washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/06/23/144-years-of-marriage-and-divorce-in-the-united-states-in-one-chart/

read this shit:
rationalmale.com

guarantee you will get laid within a year so long as your testicles are still hanging

you need to get a job and move out so your parents can't control you

they will like it if you get a job, tell them you want to be more responsible. don't tell them you're moving out until you have your own place.

you're a man now so you need to lead your own life senpai. it's time to say goodbye to allah (pbuh)

>no one ever taking the initiative to talk to me

they also have more incentive to have a lot of extramarital sex, which is great if you're not getting cucked by """god""" or """tradition"""

Kek, right on, Satan.

Blessing in disguise. Now you might be mature enough to understand that we are spiritual beings and we should not corrupt another by using him/her to quinch the needs of the flesh.

u must change mind, go drugz

This

GOT TO GET BACK

BACK TO THE PAST