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Finally hit 1/2/3/4 and my life has not even remotely improved. I'm not jacked like I thought I was going to be,
I don't a have a gf or even get more mires from new girls. All I get are more from the same girls that I've known have always liked me and from guys; and to top it all off I have stretch marks now. Wtf. I thought getting fit would increase my quality of life...

Then do something to change your life you pathetic faggot. That's the lesson of lifting, you don't like your body you work hard to change it.

The life changing effect was philosophical not literal.

>I'm not jacked like I thought I was going to be
as in you're still fat? time to cut, you are decently strong so you should end up looking good with low bf
>I don't a have a gf or even get more mires from new girls
probably because all they see is a big fat boy
>I have stretch marks now.
lmao that's what you get for bulking hard you tard

sounds like you dirty bulked like a mad cunt and are now upset people don't like the new fat you

What should I do bro? I want to change this bullshit. I'm tired of being a lonely peice of shit. The only improvement in my life so far is that I will be very shortly starting an exciting and high paying career doing something that I love. But that's about it.

Not fat. I have semi visible abs but definitely packing on some extra fat that I could loose. I'm just trying to grow my arms another half an inch and then begin a cut on a 200 or 300 calorie deficit

I'm going a small guess you feel lonely because no gf?

I've had one and realized it definitely not where you get happiness, short term you can but it will sink in that isn't the case. Do the things you enjoy, working to enjoy those things and work to progress. If you're going to money maybe get professional 'help' or work on building a strong group of friends who you can share multiple interests with and just your thoughts in general.

Once you have a career and work on being the best person you can be its truly all you can do and you aren't failing.

I realize experiences in life are what I live for, I like trying new foods, new activities, sports, anything with competition or physical. You gotta find you man

>studied hard to get a programming job
>get one and be so excited
>it's the most boring, monotonous shit in the world
>office work makes me want to kill myself

I just need a job that isn't sedentary, doesn't require a degree or too much training.

Yeah. I've never had a gf. I've had many sexual partners and have come very close to having a gf on multiple occasions but I've never had one. I wanna meet new people and establish a new group of friends but I'm not sure where exactly to meet them. My usual group are a bunch of lazy inecels who don't enjoy hanging out very much. Thank you for the advice btw bro. I appreciate it.

what job?
I'm also a programmer but I love the problem solving. Makes it feel like the hours just fly by. Also the money for a new grad is absolutely unreal

Funny, went into IT expecting I could adapt to offices and user but I still dread having to walk into an office everyday and see those people.

You live you learn I suppose, thinking CNC, lits of jobs around my are and the guys who work in the field like to be loud and swear. Its comfy. Lots of banter too, you can go into operator and design

No problem man hopefully it helps, you can find people through evens in your city, helps a lot if you check colleges and universities, even if you're not a student you can go to the events for a fee. Certain bars have gaming nights or theme nights you can always start there. Or try a new activity alone and possibly meet some people.