No Fap and Porn Addiction

hi Veeky Forums i have been recently finding myself going deeper and deeper in porn first it was anal etc but now i've started going to traps - this may be ok but i have found that since then I have trouble getting erections all the time by just seeing a hot girl in the street. This is all very worrying so I started to fap less and fap to less hardcore stuff. I really want to now the best method to getting back to my old self rather than the porn degenerate i have become - what are the best methods? NoFap? NoPorn?(what i'm doing) or slowing turning down the engine of addiction?

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Try to resist giving into the urge to jack of cause once you do it makes it easier to give in again. i'd suggest just slowing down on jacking off and if youre scared of what youre getting into just force yourself to not watch it.

idk about you but if i dont jack off for like 4-7 days it's pretty easy to get turned on to basic porn. I dont think you gotta stop jacking off or have to stop porn but i used to watch some stuff that i didnt really want to and one day i just stopped. you probably already know what to do, just slow down a bit and try not to watch degenerate stuff

>traps
you're a fag

>I have trouble getting erections all the time by just seeing a hot girl in the street.

Er, unless you're 14, this should not be giving you erections anyway.

Traps are gay buttben

Quit porn, fap only when you are so horny that you have painful erections, believe me they will come.

not the guy but I quitted porn some time ago, still fapping furiously to my imagination, mostyl irl women. Do you think I should limit fapping as well?

quit both, if u need to relapse jerk off with ur imagination without porn.

aim to jack off every three days than push to 5 than do once a week. than go for a month, don't try to quit cold turkey because when u relpase u will relapse hard.

I think you should only fap when you really feel like it, i used to fap because i was bored but not horny at all so it became boring and addictive

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Take Zinc Picolinate and only fap once a week using imagination or /s/ tier or less pics. You're welcome

Cut out my morning fap so now it's just after work and before bed, hoping to get it to one a day. Probably not lower but we'll see.

How degenerate is too degenerate?

I unironically believe in this

What a guy! Thanks for sharing this

Going full nofap is a complete meme, but some moderation is needed. If you just jerk it once every 5 days or so you'll be fine

tldr?

I tug it every day, usually multiple times, and my life couldn't be any better. Unless you're late for work or avoid family and friends to jerk off instead, it's not a problem.

i had the same problem

just stop watching porn, you can still fap but at the very least cut down. that is if you are a chronic masturbator too like most porn addicts

i found after a few weeks without porn i had 0 interest in traps and now after several months the idea kinda disgusts me like how it used to before i went down the rabbit hole

i'm still into the other "degenerate" yet hetero kinks that i developed thanks to porn ie eating ass and feet etc. i don't know if those are here to stay forever or if they'll go away too. kinda wish i was 100% vanilla again like when i was a kid but porn will fuck you up

op here - so this is the best stuff in this thread but, which do you think is the best
still fap to basic shit and imagination (what im doing)
or cold turkey (no porn or anything)
Which would you guys recommend from your experience and thoughts?

are you serious mabye in your country but here in canada women and now girls dress like fucking sluts

stop porn cold turkey

initially masturbate as much as you need to to not watch porn. every time you get the itch to watch porn jerk off. use only your imagination or maybe nudes that girls have sent you or whatever. at least that's what kept me sane at first

slowly taper down how much you jerk off, this could take a little while but you'll get there. i went from 3-4 times a day at first to now about 1-3 times a week. every now and then i'll have a bad where i jerk off 3 times in a day or so but you just have to deal with it

this is just my advice and what worked for me, i'm not saying it's the definitive cure

My rule was to beat off only once per week, to no sort of media, only imagination. Definitely not porn, probably not even softcore stuff.
Nofap is useless because you'll just end up ejaculating in your sleep (or worse, in public uncontrollably). Do it once a week and you'll be good.

>nudes
That's porn dude

i know, but it's more intimate and from people i know irl. it's not as unnatural as watching random people have graphic sex like some voyeur in the bushes.

like i said, this was just what worked for me

Fair enough

i want a trap to hold me down and fuck my asshole

I used to have ed from porn addiction as well as anxiety but am over it now. I relapsed and watched porn for the first time in 6 months and immediately noticed worse erection quality the next time I masturbated without porn and when fucking my gf.

>nofap
Enjoy your cancer!

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Sound advice here, if you jack off to imagination the same amount of times you would have while using porn, over time you'll find that you will stop wanting to jerk off out of boredom after 1-2 weeks. If you're not horny, don't masturbate. It's that simple.

>ejaculating in public uncontrollably
that turns me on so much i fucking want that to happen so bad

You're low t

Are you serious or just a degenerate
I can get an erection in the street but it's very rare

do noporn, fapping is fine as long as you're playing the memory game. Start interacting with females, fuck it doesn't even matter if they aren't into you.

>working at a restaurant, go to take a cig break
>qt tomboy coworker comes in
>"user i'm really sore, give me a back massage"
>i gave her a workout routine a while back, so its not out of the blue
>start massaging her traps, move down her back
>after like 5 minutes talk about how we should work out together
>says "yeah i get it user, you think i'm out of shape" or something like that
>normal autist me would've just diffused the situation, but then i unironically was inspired by the "virgin walk vs alpha walk" meme
>"no you're not, you obviously do your squats walking around with this WMD"
>grab a handful of ass
>holy fuck thats a nice ass
>wait what did i just do
>expecting a scream and rape charges
>she turns around and smirks at me
>"yeah whatever, user"
>spaghetti meltdown, didn't account for this response
>murmur "y-yeah" and look down, keep massaging her back.

I lost the battle, but I'm making progress. All I can fap to now is the feeling of that ass in my hands and that flirty response after I pretty much sexually assaulted a coworker. I can't even finish to porn anymore.

Thanks for the boner

I don't really get boners from seeing women on the street. I only get hard when I know I'm going to have sex or when I start playing with my soft dick because I feel like jerking off. The only exception is the occasional morning wood. When I do get hard though I don't have premature ejaculation problems are issues keeping it up. Is this normal for a young guy? I'm a freshman in college and I'm fucking nervous about my dicks future. Started nofap today out of paranoia.

the whole idea of nofap and noporn is to recondition your mind and body for fucking women/men/traps. best way to break the mold and start over is making a new habit whenever you feel like you have to rub one out; go for a walk, lift weights, read, talk to an old friend, or pick up a new hobby. then you use the need to breed and go breed some beautiful children and accomplish your biological destiny.

nofap is kinda silly after that though; just that sex > fap > fap to porn.

dude she wants your dick

take her you fucking crazy man

This can be counteracted by kegel exercises.

For those of you who are doing no-fap, don't forget this essential exercise to keep your pelvic muscles strong and healthy.

... ALL YOU HAD TO DO WAS SMIRK AT HER AND SAY NOTHING.

Seriously guys, let the women do the work sometimes. When you got her on the ropes like this, let her fill in the blanks with her own fantasies - she'll believe in her head that you're thinking the perfect thing.

hard to tell
reading this:
Pretty much all of it is.
I guess if you really can't do it only to your imagination or even only the physical stimulation is enough, still images of nude/semi-nude/attractive women are your safest bet. No videos, nothing explicit, nothing involving a man, just pics of hot chicks.

Do these for starters:
And let me tell you, if you're relatively sexually inexperienced, impotence problems are very common, and it's mostly mental - you mention being nervous - that's the problem.

This shit happened to me when I lost my v - my girlfriend at the time could not make me cum.
For me, it was a combinations of porn/masturbation conditioning me to be comfortable cumming one way, and the combination of nervousness. One thing I noticed for me, is that it was very difficult for me to just let go and allow myself to have an orgasm in front of her / with another person. She broke through by giving me a hand job and me concentrating and relaxing (and some timely abstinence from porn/jerking - she was getting kindof upset and it was tearing me up that I couldn't cum for her). Once I busted with her, all bets were off and it was a lot easier to let go with her.

Cumming, while it feels very good, is also a moment of extreme vulnerability and intimacy. Our hookup culture can't change that. The best medicine is to find a sex partner who understands and is chill. Additionally, practice makes perfect, and as you gain more exp, you'll find this situation becoming more an more rare as you transition into the hookup culture - if that's what you choose to do.

Im happy for you, keep going!
but
>I pretty much sexually assaulted a coworker
Dont fucking believe that shit. This is the way they use to make mens numales!
Im assaulting sexually qt all the time and guess what, nothing bad happens.
Make your expiriences, dont fear!

FUCK ZINC
Horny all the fucking time, beating off three times more than usual IT NEVER EVER STOPS WHAT THE FUCK

>tfw talking to thicc tinder girls constantly
It's been like a month with no sex and I'm crumbling on no fap

>talking to girls
>on tinder

that's not what its for

Whatever you do, do not take any erection supplements like maca or horny goat while on nofap. I made that mistake, mixed those with nofap for a week, and it was a disaster. I ejaculated in my pants in public one time, handsfree, from seeing some slut nipple on the bus, and during the same day later I came again just from having thoughts about sex (but this time I took of my pants in time not to cream them)

it will make you so horny you literally won't be able not to come, air itself will make you shoot buckets, and your underwear will make it impossible to endure

Stop watching porn, it's filth and reduces your gains and energy.
Just fap to imagination.

>reduces your gains and energy.

How, precisely?

Rewrites pleasure-based receptors in the brain

jewish psychic vampires have embedded various energy draining sigils in many porn videos and outlets, they want your soul

Rewires *

How will recetors rewiring in my brain hurt my endomuscular gains?

Jokes on them I sold my soul for two extra inches

I've read somewhere that porn and masturbation is bad for bones, especially knees, so I'm trying to distance myself from that since I don't want to stop lifting when I'm 30 and have my knees give up and go to snap city alone.

Also watch pic related video, its really inspirational.

Enjoy cleaning a gallon of semen off of your ceiling afterwards.

What day are you lads on? Day 13 myself. Not touching my dick at all is pretty hard I gotta say, when I'm bored, it's just become an automatic reaction if I'm alone. Not looking at any porn at all is taking some time as well, but I'm getting used to it. I also find I'm getting turned on so much more easily now. Yesterday, a coworker of mine was wearing yogapants, and good god her ass got my dick diamonds. I think that's just the excess semen, but idk. Later that night I had my first wet dream since I was like 14 or so. I've also sorta been cheating by edging, but I'm doing my best here.
Keep going my bros, we will all make it.

Nah I have a gf. I just cum in her tight white pussy when I need a release. I was just giving some advice to non chads.

>I've read somewhere that porn and masturbation is bad for bones, especially knees

Sounds legit.

Also, make sure your dick gets hard enough to penetrate before ejaculating. Most of the masturbation related ED is from being about to cum when you're 75% erect.

Very important to mention that shes white

White women are the epitome of peak performance.

>porn and masturbation is bad for bones, especially knees

I'm really bothered that there are no regular /fit girl/ and /high test/ threads on Veeky Forums anymore. They were the perfect place to get some "appetite", while keeping it SFW.
I kinda want to go to /s/ and look for "non-nude" threads, but then again I don't want to get tempted into returning into the spiral of pornography.

This is basically true. Fapping is fine, porn is bad.

A lot of sad nerds are getting completely mindfucked by porn, I don't think this is the entire reason why trans* people exist these days in such numbers, but consider the reason why mtfs are so much more prevalent than ftms? Our society has a crisis of masculinity, young men have no idea how to relate to their own sexuality and get lead astray by porn and media.

It's a little bit tangential but Veeky Forums is actually a very positive actor in this scene. Showing guys on Veeky Forums how to relate to their own sexuality (no homo) is incredibly valuable in a world where men are usually viewed as secondary actors in sexuality and ignored in favor of women.

This is actually pretty alpha man well done

I don't know lads how true is that but better to evade the knees going to snap city then to be handicapped from fapping.

Look what happened to Lil B the rapper.

>I've read somewhere that porn and masturbation is bad for bones, especially knees

I think most of you in this thread are hopelessly retarded but I watched porn pretty much all the fucking time and had trouble keeping it up with my girlfriend so I guess I'll give you that much.