People who've gotten fit while being with the same girl, how has her attitude changed? Any changes to sex life...

People who've gotten fit while being with the same girl, how has her attitude changed? Any changes to sex life? Any changes to her behaviour in general?

I cheat a lot more now

Lol, why?

Chicks actually show you desire and are literally all cool with just sex and keeping it discreet because they dgaf

Different now then when i was a dyel

Yeah, but what is wrong with your gf? I don't respect cheaters at all.

Different user here but also a cheater. Yeah I feel like shit about it. What can I say? Life is complicated. I love my girl, but I also love sleeping with other girls. I know this is an untenable situation and I'll have to give up one or the other, but dammit I don't want to!

Never have I ever been so disappointed in Veeky Forums. I understand the lookism and the incel threads but cheating is way too far, Go on, keep justifying your shitty behaviour.

Never cheated, still understand.
Like Jesus ... but other way round

Same. I know I'm a disloyal piece of absolute shit for doing it, but I keep doing it anyways.

She's noticeably more attracted to me. All I need to do is flex my arms a bit and she's rearing to go. She's always had a higher libido than me though, so it doesn't do to much for me personally. One bad thing is that we originally started getting fit together, but I was better at it. i.e., said no to sweets and big portions, exercised harder and more consistently. She felt a bit left behind, but we talked about it and it's alright now. She still gets kind of defensive when I give her tips tho. Like if I ask if she really wants to eat dessert or if I call her out for missing a workout. She's under the impression that I didn't work as hard, but she's very inconsistent. It's kinda frustrating and sometimes I feel she's just devaluing what I accomplished to make her self feel better.

Overall, things are just as good as they were before, we just argue about fitness sometimes.

Well as it turns out all girls sort of smell abd taste different, and as it so happens my girl isnt the best smellong or tasting, or looking that ive been with

Shes great, but as far as sex is concerned shes not even top 5. But thats the tradeoff. Good looking girls are fucking vapid retarded whores with no personality to speak of. Taste and smell great, but theyre terrible people.

Never had much of a player phase in my life so now that everyone wants the dick all of a sudden i thought i might discreetly. This is what ive learned.

At first she whined and acted like a child because it made her feel insecure. But I didn't give any compromise as it has always been one of my goals to be big and lean. She wants to fuck a lot, and we've been together for over 3 years.

How long have you been lifting for

They don't justify their behaviour. They are honest and not making excuses for being a cheater. This is better than not being a cheater but otherwise being complete beta cuck.

They'll makd excuses irl while they act all high and mighty here

literally not at all

I use to be like that. Obviously you better not marry her you fucking idiot. What kind of life would you show for your children after you get caught. And yes you will if you get married.

Dump that stupid bitch you are pretending to love faggot, your dependent on her emotionally and trapped in routine life. If you are seeking life improvement start now or never.

I left my gf after i suspected her of cheating of me. We go to the same gym and now and im significantly better looking then the old days. I booty call her all the time now cause she still loves me. Fucking dumb bitch, i hate you for lying to me ao il keep hate fucking your tight snatch and then ignore youe texts for the week until my boner is unstoppable

Nah you don't know me sonny. I know fill well what I'm doing and if i ever get caught up i can't really make excuses.

T. Bimbo

My highschool sweet heart for 6 years, cant call me names.

Bimbo is the name of a tripfag in the fraud threads that has almost the exact same relationship problems you do. It was a small board specific joke.

Sleeping with other girls while having a gf is the ultimate alpha move.

Your sexual strategy requires you to implant your seed in as many women as possible. You are literally bad at life if you don't.

>mfw I tell my gf about a girl I slept with while I was out of town
>mfw I don't allow her to see other guys
>mfw making me happy is her ultimate goal

Now, it's fairly difficult to find a girl who is redpilled enough to understand the satisfaction of this natural dynamic. However, for those ''cheaters'' out there, keep on cheating. Be discreet, however. You're doing her a favor by cheating, but she can't know it because she'll fuck her self out of the best thing that's happened to her. She may suspect, especially if you have a lot of female friends, but as long as you aren't a weak beta, she'll be fine. In fact, her desire will grow.

Stay mad, sexlet cucks. While you are trembling in fear of losing your girl, I'm showing mine who I'm swiping on Tinder.

Sex improved alot. Squatting her and carrying her around occasionally made her feel like a princess.

Recently broke up with her because she became too controlling and I still have a life to live. I guess its time to move on to fucking dumb slut whores with no personality again. Hopefully i find some cute, goofy, fun, and worry free chick in the process. Wish me luck bros.

Your gf is a pathetic cunt, your dating a cuck lmao

better to date a cuck, than be the cuck, mate

Make sure you use protection. I don't know your specific ex or situation, but "bootycalling your ex who's still in love with you" is usually a recipe for having a baby you don't want

She got really insecure. She always talks about getting into better shape but doesn't. She is thicc but could def drop some pounds. Luckily she doesn't try to make me eat like shit or bust my balls about going to the gym. She blows me more now because she's afraid of me leaving her. Things are good.

Women cannot be cucks by nature.

>associating with cucks of any form

Kys

Is she really a cuck if she doesn't know about it?

ITT: Don't let your GF get fit

Women can't biologically be cucks. A cuck is someone that raises another mans child. A woman can be 100% certain that the child that came out of her vagina is hers, a man on the other hand can't be 100% certain that the child that came out of her vagina is his.

This is the same reason why we want non-slutty girlfriends, but still want to fuck sluts on the side. Fucking a slut on the side has absolutely zero biological consequences for the woman.

A cheating woman is worse than a cheating man, simply because of the implications that she wants you to raise another mans child.

This is why I would never take a cheating woman ever back and find men who do pathetic.

If you bring a kid into the family that isn't hers, and she cares for it, that's cuckholdry.

Obviously not as simple for a man to bring in a child that isn't their partner's as it is for a woman, and a man can't lie and tell her it's hers like a woman can, but w/e.

She can reach her clit easier without my belly in the way.

>Fucking a slut on the side has absolutely zero biological consequences for the woman.
Well, unless you catch something, and if you get hit with child support, that's resources her own children with you will miss out on, but pretty much.

Why is Gary linekar shitposting on Veeky Forums

If you're fucking a slut, then you better wrap your shit up. What's the chance that the child is even yours, if she's a slut? Or if it is, then it's still a minor deal compared if it was the other way around, your gf getting pregnant by another man.

>she's cheating
>she truly believes the child is yours and intends to keep it
>you also think it's yours because you have sex very frequently and no signs of cheating
>9 months pass
>paternity test indicates it's not yours

What options do you have in this case as a man?

Your one and only option is to leave her with her bastard child.

you have to be over 18 to post here

She puppyguards more. I mean ive always been conventionally attractive but before I got fit I was kind of a skinny prettier boy and now I'm a bit manlier and notice more diverse and older women looking at me.

Basically she doesn't like me going out alone at all, I love her and would never cheat and she knows that but she says she doesn't like people thinking they can hit on me. Luckily she really trusts my friends and doesn't freak out when we hang out or go out on the town, it just makes her kind of uncomfortable and she always wants to fuck as soon as I get home.

Pro tip- after you reach a certain level of attractiveness take your girl with you to get your haircut. Seeing another woman run her hands trough your hair and talk to you one on one causes jealousy sex, which is best sex.

I would have never cheated, years ago. Then my gf at the time, with whom I was legitimately in love, cheated and dumped me.
Biggest awakening I've ever had; it started me on my course for self improvement.
But now that I have another gf, that I love but am not in love with, I am tempted to cheat, purely out of lust for other women.

I hear what you're saying, and the world isn't as rosy as I used to believe, but this is a kind of redpill I don't think I can happily swallow.

This is my fear. Getting fit has improved my confidence and raised my test. It seems so easy now to do it. I'm just able to go up and get someone's number now.
I haven't done anything with them, just a test to see what would happen.

gf used to have low libido. Still does.

Lmao don't be all butt hurt when your love cheats on you back, you scum of the earth will feel it in your bones. You get what you give

Unlike the other guy, my girlfriend asked me to cheat on her now because it turns her on. Shits cash.

Sex is generally better, just more physical attraction.

Hmm, different angle here, but I tend to hook up with a lot of girls with boyfriend s these days. It doesn't help that I'm Mr. Melanin, as that detail in particular has the boyfriends in tears when they find out. I've gotten a snap from a girl that featured her boyfroend blubbering with the caption "look at this loser emojicrylaugh"

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Girls only cheat on cucks and losers.....so guys like you. Sorry bub

I've had chances to do this but didn't go through with them. The thought of this happening to me kind of puts me off it DESU. Never been cheated on, and I don't plan to get that sort of karma from being a homewrecker.

>What is a cuckquean

You actually don't know what cuckoldry means, huh?

She loves it, sex is better, everyone is happy.

Also her friend want to fuck me, which happened during 3some and couple swap.

I met my girlfriend when I was like 200lbs, over a couple years I put on another 20lbs from a change in job and the fact that she's a damn good cook.

When I decided to start losing weight I went full bore. Ate only once a day, spend hours at the gym, rode my bike 13 miles to work.

I dropped the weight before she even realized what was going on. And by the time my pants were getting loose she started getting all psycho defensive. I "needed to eat more" blah blah blah.

The last straw was when an old work friend came up to me at the bar. She's a cute blonde girl from california, the whole valley-girl-90210 thing going on. My girlfriend flipped her shit and started smacking her for "hitting on her man" despite the fact that the girl is a fucking lesbian and in a 10+year relationship at the time.

I broke up with her right there, it was the straw that broke the camel's back.

4 years on and I haven't been with a woman since. I'm done with them.

no gf before
no gf after

honestly don't mind getting to 40 and still being a virgin if it means i meet someone who will love me at 40

you seem like a reasonable person. I think you are doing good with your gf, just don't be arrogant when giving her tips and you're all set

>4 years on and I haven't been with a woman since. I'm done with them.
Sounds like she won in the end.

Sounds like a vicious circle man, you should move on.

this.

i get 'mired and eye fucked literally everyday but none from girls i like. not a virgin like user but have fucked enough sluts to know that theyre not worth my time. rather have a girl i actually like

In the same boat as you bro...
I've had opportunities but I've passed them up. Would rather wait for someone that at least means something to me even if it doesn't last forever.

your gf seems a bit jealous.

i can vouch for this. had unprotected sex with a girl that was crazy for me that i didn't care for at all. she pinned me down and kept fucking me and made me come inside her. i was a skelly at the time so i wasnt strong enough to push her off. luckily she didn't know my last name and i cut off all contact. i might have a kid out there but i'm not paying child support for it and she wanted it so it's her burden.

now i always use protection and don't have sex with girls i wouldn't want a kid with.

>now i always use protection and don't have sex with girls i wouldn't want a kid with.

I'm guessing you are not into one night stands then

>we want non slutty girlfriends

As someone who has been dating a more modest girl who won't wear skimpy shorts or underwear, i can tell you nothing is farther from the truth. Every time i see a slutty girl around town i go into animal mode and i can barely control myself. It's getting bad. But i can tell non slutty girls do nothing for me. I like to see what my bitch is packing and i like other guys to know i get to wreck that shit. Everyone's different.

i have been chubby / fat my whole life until 3 months ago, and my girlfriend used to tell me how much she loved it. i never really agreed with her and once i expressed that i was unhappy with my body she started crying and told me not to change. i broke up with her 3 months ago because i realised that she just didnt want me to get healthy because she is incredibly insecure. i went from 90kg at the time of breaking up with her to 73kg as of today. i posted a progress picture on my snapchat story a few nights ago because i am looking a lot leaner and healthier+ i have never seen my abs before in my life so i was excited. last night her and all of her friends were sending me videos of her grinding up against other guys at the club and groping their crotches while yelling out "fuck (my name)". sorry for going off topic but i don't have anyone to talk to about this because i lost all my friends when i started dating her 2 years ago. why are some women so insecure and bitchy that they have to put other people down? is this a thing that all girls do? please bestow me your wisdom. i am still young (turned 18 this year) and she was my first girlfriend. i hope i dont have to turn gay because if all women do this then i'm literally just going to suck dick from now on.

I don't know who's trolling who in this thread, but am I the only one that finds cheating under your partner's knowledge absolutely disgusting?

I mean, I can't be the only one right? How can you be in a relationship with someone that's comfortable with you sleeping around? What the fuck?

i live life by the golden rule too.

"treat people how you'd like to be treated."

i wouldn't want some guy fucking my gf so i don't fuck other guy's gf's. i've had 2 chances to and i declined both.

You want a non slutty gf, but you want to fuck the slut. It's not that hard

>Life is complicated.
nice excuse you piece of shit

>What kind of life would you show for your children after you get caught
Business trips were invented for the sole reason of preventing this

No, i actually want the girl i hang out with all day to be slutty. Read my post.

Get your Jewish porn fetishes out of here. Cuckoldry is when a MAN is tricked into raising another MAN's child by a woman. Your mental illness, sorry, "fetish" will not replace the meaning of the word.

wtf was her problem lol, seems like an insta dump and move on.
>i hope i dont have to turn gay because if all women do this then i'm literally just going to suck dick from now on.
You'll be fine

Literally all i use tinder for. Just to see how easy it is

>you also think it's yours
>paternity test indicates it's not yours

Except that second step doesn't happen because the cuck always thinks it's his. Only the in the cliche case of a significant racial difference between child and parents do cucks notice and demand a test. In most countries you need the woman's permission to do a paternity test so cucks can't even get a (legal) test if they want to. The legal systems of most countries are a complete joke when it comes to this. A PATERNITY test should involve an alleged father and his alleged child, any involvement of the mother exposes feminazi ideology at the highest levels of a legal system.

No, cuckoldry is a fetish where you see your significant other getting railed by another, and you're aroused by it.

Raising another man's child is usually the sign of a beta. Unless if you're the type of step dad to beat the shit out of the kid. Then you're rad.

normies out

Literally learn to google. The term cuckold is ancient. It comes from a man being duped into thinking he fathered a child, duped into wasting his resources.

Sexual arousal has no part in it and this fetish is very, very recent. Stop watching the sexual Jew.

>raising another man's child is usually the sign of a beta

This, but i know a guy who's in an LTR with a girl who has a young kid, and she's way out of his league. He's basically raising the kid but he's probably a 5 and she's an 8. I actually think that's a worthy tradeoff if you aren't good looking enough to get an 8.

Because only have a few acceptable ways to get attention, the best one is probably having a hot girlfriend and showing her off.

>dude life is like.. so complicated xD
kill yourself

Not at all. She's only with him because he's a big enough cuck to raise a kid that isn't his.

She'll likely divorce early and take half his paycheques, too.

Ya, she's super insecure now. When she cums she grabs my shoulders and chest hard.

Unless she's a widow, you're basically leaving yourself open to her ex coming back into her life. It's not worth it.

Only if it's a realistic prospect that she will let him impregnate her and be faithful. I wouldn't be surprised if she will do neither. Young singlemother = mentally ill slut, doesn't matter if her looks make her "an 8" if all you get to do is pay her bills.

Women can't stand rejection and they will try to destroy you with all means possible to get their petty revenge.

Jokes on her though, she's riding the cock carousel and will probably an hero by the age of 30. Her insecurities will make relationships impossible and it will get the best of her.

Cuckoldry is a form of sensitive passive weakness. Women are meant to be passive and weak. Furthermore toleration of the male having multiple partners is hardwired into a woman's DNA because it fits our pack mentality where an alpha male has all the women and the beta males sneak in and fuck on the side, hence a woman's natural tendency to cheat.

A woman taking care of a child that isn't hers is motherly instinct and inherent to a good hearted woman. A man doing it is a pathetic cuck who thinks with his emotions and not with his brain.

Bro you got out at the right time. If she was good looking and dating you when you weren't it was because she liked the idea of being "the best you'll ever get", and you bettering yourself very suddenly put you in her league or above it. Alternatively she is not a looker and she knew that you would realize how much better you could do if you got Veeky Forums. Either way, she's a cunt and I wouldn't worry about it senpai.

Do you think Chad would decline the offer from your gf, given the chance?

All is fair in love and war, user.

>normie

Never had the opportunity of having a relationship before. If I did, I wouldn't waste it on some fucked up cuck fantasy. This kind of shit can't be healthy in the long-term.

You are literally asking to be cucked. Don't say the Internet didn't warn you.

Everyone has exes you fucking imbecile, that's just the risk of doing business. Learn to fuck and make money and she'll never give a fuck about her ex.

It's normalfags, you fucking normalfaggot. Take your r-selected promiscuity back to tumblr.

Yes, because having an ex is the same as having an ex who also fathered your child, who has a legal right to see said child and will therefore forcibly be around you frequently.

Brother I feel you, I've been in the same kind of situation as you. It hurts even tho you're the one who broke up with her.
You just have to accept that there are 5 stages of grief, and one of those are anger.
They will get angry and do fucked up stuff to get back at you.
The key is to put it all behind you and try to shake it off.
I know that it's harder than it sounds, because that stuff hurts...
and NO, not all girls do it at all. I think it's a mix between their personality and how the breakup itself went.
If you wanna write about it or something feel free to drop some contact info like discord or something and we can chat.

I cheated on my ex-girlfriend with my current girlfriend almost a year ago. I broke up with my ex obviously, but I never told her I cheated. I gave it to my current girlfriend straight before we started dating and apologized for using her, but she was cool about it. Though I didn't suffer any consequences and my last relationship was worth ending anyways, I still feel a lot of guilt. I've been told my ex is still very hung up on me. I wouldn't know personally. I don't talk to her unless she messages me first, and in those rare cases I'm consciously too polite. I wish I could apologize to her somehow but know it's impossible. I have nightmares about it sometimes. I'm a sensitive fag. I know for sure I'll never cheat again.
tl;dr for your sake, never cheat. The pleasure in your dick isn't worth the pain it puts in people's hearts.

>The pleasure in your dick isn't worth the pain it puts in people's hearts.
Gtfo moralfag.

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It's really sad that a lot of people are acknowledging that their significant others have become insecure and get enjoyment out of that. I'm not surprised the majority of you are unhappy on this board with personalities like that.

I think it's like a double insecurity, they are insecure, therefore it boosts their ego if their SO is insecure.

I hope she cheats on you

wow same here man

cheated on my ex girlfriend with my now current gf

feel fucking awful about it. will never cheat again. one of the worst things i have done in my entire life and now im an absolute saint in terms of faithfulness with my gf