How are you holding up bros?

How are you holding up bros?

I'll start... I'm in difficult situation and need help bros.

My girlfriend left for a 1 month charity trip with a church group. We have been together for almost 4 months. She's really in love with me, I'm her first boyfriend too, she cried all night before she was leaving and said she hopes we will continue to hang out after she comes. She's really cool girl, relationship material. Nice, cute, compassionate, caring and compromising.

She left one week ago and I'm really missing her, but the problem is that I'm afraid out feelings will fade towards each other.

She initiated all conversations on facebook up until now, we also talked over phone once. She usually writes me in the morning, because only then do they have wifi. I usually reply to her messages in a few hours and she replies the next day.

I guess it's a good thing that she wants to talk and initiates conversations which means that she hasn't lost attraction. But how do I keep the spark? There are 3 more weeks to go.

If I don't initiate conversations at all she may feel like IDGAF. If we talk too much that's also bad. What's the ideal spot? I really hate writing messages and talking over facebook, because that makes me miss her even more and I feel like it's just empty chit chat (catching up, how are you, what have you been doing) in desperate hope to not drift apart. I fucking hate that she left in this moment when things were going to be so good, but I can't do anything about it now. What should I do? Should we not talk at all until she comes back?

Most of all I'm afraid that when she comes back things won't be the same and I'll have to break up with her. I really don't want to do that, because she's a good person and relationship material. My friends tell me that I should break up with her, but I don't want to do that as she is the only girl I've met up until now that I actually care to try something with.

What to do anons?

Glad to see a feels thread on the first page..

Here's my feels first day monday morning :(

I work at a big company and one of the issues I face is with people outside of my role. I guess someone tried to poke me today, but they made themselves look stupid as fuck. check this out

I was in an all day meeting earlier today and I had my laptop there while I did a little bit of work time to time, inbetween/meetings etc..

An older guy who I don't know actually asked me in an odd way if I have internet in the building or am I pretending to work? Than he said if this is my personal laptop...

He is implying I'm some fucking tier 1 in a big meeting and i'm acting like I am working... I ignored him and kindly stated this is my work laptop and I have work to do even though I am on a meeting. My phone also kept going off sine I had people looking for me and the ringer was off so they started sending me emails and looking for me, (even though they knew I was in meetings today)

I still can't believe this guy, to imply I dont have internet in the office building and I'm just sitting there pretending to work

Does he know who he is talking to? Nobody said a word about his comment and they ignored him, I simply mentioned yes this is my work laptop (asset tag on the laptop) and yes I have internet in every building we work in since we use SSO

Single sign on tied into wifi in multiple offices = internet everywhere..

I also have a cell stick for my laptop since I work remote, I still can't believe this guy

Why was he trying to poke me even though he has no idea who I am or what my role is in this company...

22, currently at a 2.6 gpa, still no GF, still a khv, still socially inept

But at least my lifts keep going up

Hangin in there.

How old are you? You come off as a 16 - 18 year old with those problems.

>She's really in love with me, I'm her first boyfriend too

She doesn't know what love is yet.

Also stop being such a needy desperate faggot. Grow a pair.

tfw no gf is killing me

I've left university and have a full time office job. My only friend is my gym partner.

I have no idea how to meet girls.

Fucking hell top kek user

This is bait right? If it's fresh pasta well done.

I'm 20. No need to call me names man, I just feel really lonely. It's been a fucking shit week for me. Girlfriend goes on a month trip away to a shithole at the peak when we start getting attached. My parents are away on a 1 week holiday and my friends (beside 1 good friend) are all on vacations too. I'm in my hometown and today my grandpa also died. Of course i'm a bit emotional.

well why didnt you get one at uni?