Hello Veeky Forums, I know you niggers will respond sarcastically to my request but to those of you who can I need some fucking help. Here's my predicament. I'm 18 years old, 6 3" have dark brown hair, brown eyes, and tannish white skin (mediterranean phenotype, greek to be exact) and I wouldn't call myself super good looking but definitely not ugly. I can talk to girls and make friends with them but am a kissless virgin (thankfully not hugless/handholdless), I've never asked out a girl because I have no idea how the fuck to do it and after getting with one how the fuck to try and have sex with her so I wanted to just ask one of you if you were in my situation how would you go about trying to get a decent girl to fuck or what are your own strategies?, please help me I fucking hate being a virgin, also I have a decent build (used to be skinny fat now have toned arms and legs and flat stomach and still workout)
Step by step guide to losing virginity
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Find a whale and bury your dick in her. With practice you'll gain confidence.
>toned
please leave skelly
Stop jerking off and watching porn. Leave the rest to your instincts.
Just go up to a girl and say, "look i think you are very attractive and i would like to fuck" works more than you think
>toned
every time. sage
There is no secret strategy. You make it sound like you need to trick a girl into fucking you, or that we can tell you some magic words that will make them fuck you.
You are hanging out with a girl, you either sense she is into you or not (if she is willing to be alone with you there's a good chance she is). You get physically closer to her on the couch or whatever and see how she reacts. At whatever time seems right you literally just say "i really like you" or "can i kiss you" and you literally just kiss her. She either gets up and leaves or you fill in the rest.
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There's no real step by step since if it existed and was easy to follow, someone would be a billionaire right now. It's like asking, "How do I lose fat and get jacked?". The answer is "count calories, eat less, exercise more." Everything else is an "it depends" based on your own composition and what tradeoffs you're willing to make to reach your goal.
So let's start with the first logical step - you're talking to a new girl. Maybe she's scanning your weekly supply of Monster Energy Zero Ultra at the local convenience store, and there's nobody else in line so you're talking for longer than usual. If you feel she might be into you, even 1%, keep talking, then when there's a natural pause in the convo, or you have to be somewhere else, tell her: "Listen, I gotta run, but let's continue this conversation over coffee, say... [day you're free] [morning/afternoon/evening]." She says no? Fair enough. Tell her to have a nice day and go home. She says busy and doesn't offer a different time? Same thing. If she says yes or offers a different time, ask for her number and there you go. Simple as that.
>can i kiss you
i remember one guy here asked that and girl said NO and said she would let him if he just went for it
women are fucking stupid
dont bother get bigger
t. almost 25 kissless handholdless hugless virgin rejected 3 times and desu i couldnt care less
rows before hoes
deadlifts before stupid chicks
>nofap
>noporn
>magically makes you charming
you may as well tell user working out will get him a gf
Making this post in the first place means that you're too far gone. Accept the fact that you're going to die a virgin and move on with life.
"can i kiss you"
incel detected
GOMAD + ss
If you've never kissed someone before it's way easier to ask.
But I think "do you wanna kiss?" is better than "can I kiss you?"
Dude, I was a fatass when I lost my virginity at 19, literally if she doesnt run from you then fucking go for it. Its a matter of them not smelling the need for sex, just dont let them smell the thirst.
I have actually been turned off by girls asking me this
If you want a sufficient but not necessary condition, if she's moving eye contact between your eyes and mouth, she wants it
Check out rsd on youtube. there are some great advice there.
Basically make sure you actively meet girls every day.
Stop trying to lose your virginity. The harder you try the less likely it will happen.
Imagine where you want to be in 10 years time, and start working towards those goals. Eat healthy, work hard, study after work if you have a job, read books, start saving money and putting it in an index fund. If you have any debt get out of it at quick as you can.
Dress nice (tight-fitting clothes, no baggy shit or meme t-shirts, wear regular shirts, polos or monocoloured t-shirts with no ketchup stains on them)
Smell nice (just take care of your fucking hygiene, use deodorant if you sweat a lot)
Be interesting to talk to, if you can't manage that then just be pleasant to talk to. Holding a conversation is easy, especially with women since they love talking about themselves and talking in general. You can literally just keep asking them the most uninteresting things about their personal life and they'll happily babble on.
For the fugging:
Just accept that you're not going to be a fucking sex god right off the bat. Your first time you'll probably nut almost right away. Just swallow your pride and keep at it, practice makes perfect. If she's given you the go then be decisive and aggressive and don't be a cheap fuck when it comes to foreplay.
Some general maxims:
1. Don't be afraid to fail
2. If you're acting, don't look like you are
3. Nobody will remember your failures
4. When looking what to improve on, don't lie to yourself (ties in with #1 especially)
It's a numbers game. Meet and ask out as many women as possible until one wants to fuck.
I'll do it steps for you user.
1.) Live life normally, go to highschool, college, get a job, w/e.
2.) If you aren't doing something like this, (wtf are you doing for one) then get on any dating, meetup, w/e app. Tinder, etc...
3.) Locate qt3.14
4.)Start a conversation with her.
It doesn't matter how autistic you are, I promise. As long as you aren't legitimately disabled, "normal" women will be open to you. If you fuck up, sperg out, etc... and she gets mad, you leave, say goodbye, and go on with your day. Repeat as necessary user, you can only get better, as long as you don't get jaded and buttmad like most posters here. Seriously, if you take away anything, don't get buttmad, get over it. Failure is an option, and you can still lose your virginity even if you fail on 30+ girls.
5.) If she's receptive, get in contact with her. Say something along the lines of, "I like x about you, here's my number".
6.) Go out, be receptive, etc... This is all up to you, no guide will ever be detailed enough to tell you how to interact with a real human bean.
7.) This is arguably *the* most important part, if she asks you to go to her place, or asks to go to yours, you say "Yes", "Sure", whatever floats your boat. If she has something that needs to be done at her place, a movie that needs to be watched, some wine that needs to be drank, you say that you're free. If she touches you, rubs you, or otherwise physically contacts you, she likes you. Almost guaranteed. (Think about how many times you accidently touched someone how she touched you, if you haven't done it, she almost certainly did it on purpose).
8.)So now you should be in a personal setting with your qt3.14. Any physical contact now, should cwrtainly be taken as attraction, you're doing great. Eat, watch a movie, whatever you're there for.
9.) This is another important part. Get to a bed, a couch, anything you can be alone and close on. Get closer, get physical contact, and escalate it.
Talk to girls until you find one that's into you
Usually they get touchy , prolonged eye contact, always agree to everything you say, that sort of thing
Then just fuck her honestly overthinking is your absolute worst enemy here at worst
Most girls love Mediterranean or Spanish (not ghetto Mexican ) guys anyway
Jesus this ended up longer than I meant it. When you escalate contact, eventually take off her pants and she'll understand where you're going, if she doesn't stop you, you're golden.
Bonus Knowledge Step
Things will inevitably be awkward, go wrong, etc... Don't be a faggot and dwell on it. Every single "Chad" has awkward moments, and failures. You just don't notice them, or they've gotten used to dealing with them. If you repeatedly go for new women, you will get better at interacting with them, and will be a Chad. It's guaranteed user, it's basic practice, you just have to put the work in. It's like weightlifting in a way, but just because you're bad at socializing doesn't mean you won't get qt3.14.
just say "I'm gonna kiss you," it works better ime and makes you look alfa af
I forgot condoms, get em, look up how to correctly use them. Seriously, there's more to it than you would think.
Not op but I am in the same position.
>Imagine where you want to be in 10 years time.
I am a 18 yo(still in HS) and I almost always plan for the future (straight A's, going to apply for medical school, improving my shyness, been working out for a couple of years now, dress well).
But I can't help but to fear on missing out on the present. I am a kissless virgin and I'm really afraid of graduating (1 year left) remaining so.
I mean wtf do I do if I want to kiss a girl in University? I have no idea what to do
pic related is me and I'm still a virgin
also, 20yo
>tfw 27yo KV
>want a relationship, not empty sex
oh well
Wtf dude how? Do you have high standards?
Liar. Holy shit how can you be like that man . SAD! Make sure the one you fuck has a fat tight ass.
>6'3"
>virgin
Wow you're autism must be off the charts!
Look op, losing your virginity isn’t meant to be special. Get a girl that semi chubby with low self esteem and take her to the movies, put your hand on her knee and slowly lead your way to her Arby’s roast beef. Get her hot at the theater, that way you can fuck in your car in the parking lot. Bring condoms. Make a Tinder and put that you’re trying to lose your virginity. Trust me do this! It works!
Get a hooker, it's the only way.
It works I did this literally all through college
Oh wait except it was a nice dance floor make out and then "can i fuck you"
I bet the former would work though
>make POF, bumble, tinder, okcupid accts
>get decent pictures that make you look normal and somewhat cool/confident
>message girls and swipe every day
>go on dates
>be somewhat normal/cool
>make moves
>laid
>greek phenotype
>not arabic, persian or paki
>nigga y u lyn
0/10 bait
DO NOT ASK A GIRL IF YOU CAN KISS HER. Seriously, girls are retarded. They want you to know what they are thinking and kiss them at the right time, but also asking them and being beta is a turn off.
Τράβα σε kάνα μπουρδελο, kαι με 20 ευρω την έχασες την παρθενία σου
but I don't want to fuck fat ass
yes
step 1: look like this. a 9/10 face gets you a free pass. pic related
fag
It's always hard for me to unhook a bra with two hands. It's much simpler to use just the left thumb and index finger.
What was the thread about? I just saw the picture.
the eyes to lips thing is real no joke.
is that ice poseidon
Real talk, if you didn't lose your virginity to a high school girlfriend you missed out on "normal". Get yourself an escort ASAP, or else you are going to continue to build it up in your head until you reach wizard status.
Once you fuck once, the second time becomes easier, and so-on.
Just do it. IF you have no immediate civvie prospects, get a pro.
you do you, read a book, learn a language, do stuff that interests you and you will become a more interesting person yourself. also you're only 18, your day will come, don't worry.
just pay for a prostitute
trust
john
How is it possible to be a virgin at 6'3"? You must be a huge fucking loser lul
this t b h
unfortunately i live in the middle of nowhere and there are no grills for me around here (i'm leaving soon though)
when i do no porn/ no fap after about day 4 i start to seriously lose my mind i just want to ram it everywhere
all i think about is sex and violence
i think i have a very high testosterone level for a natural person, i have an american dad tier jaw, very low voice and broad shoulders despite noone in my family having broad shoulders
when i move away i will stop watching porn and talk to girls but right now i'm basically using it to keep me from going insane and fighting everyone i see whilst simultaneously flaunting a permaboner
>25 year old megavirgin
>Rejected 3 times (wow!)
>Absolute wimp advising anyone, let alone an 18 year old virgin
You gigantic pussy! Wow! I had been rejected by 9 different women before 18, and I was the anit-poon. Only 3? What a bitch you are lol.
Don't listen to this failure, go out there and get rejected and laid and fall in love and all that bullshit lol. Life without it is fucking gay, and 99% of the posters here are genuinely autistic.
t. The only guy in his crew who can hold down a girl, and gets laid regularly. Also bald too IT CAN BE DONE BOYS, WERE ALL GONNA MAKE IT
make a grindr account
this
there's no special formula, every time i've done it with a girl that wasn't my girlfriend it goes
>dancing (badly i might add) at party/club/event
>make eye contact with girl
>move over to her
>dance near her (like really near)
>touch her waist or ass and go in to kiss her
>make out
>"do you want to fuck"
the trick is to not give a fuck
i'm not joking just literally stop giving a fuck
i'm quite confident sober, when i'm drunk i have the most inflated ego you can imagine, full on chav behaviour it happens every time i can't control it
the chav inside me arises
and girls like it? i guess from the confidence idk
drink till you're confident i guess (approx. 2 cans for me)
Or get high on phenibut.
You don't just straight up ask directly. You have to set up the situation so that it seems spontaneous or nonchalant to allow both parties in the situation to save face. This requires being kind of a social butterfly so you know exactly what to say in a conversation to steer the topic toward the direction you want while making it seem like an accident. This is a really shitty example, but it's like if you watched a movie where people were kissing and someone said "Can you believe my friend Becky has never kissed a guy," and without missing a beat you say something like "I'm a guy," or "I can fix that right now." But you say it in a way that it can either be taken seriously or as a joke, so if they follow through it was just like a playful dare but if they turn it down it doesn't matter because you were just kidding.
Everyone here watch this video.
I am a Greek
>ctrl+f
>0 results for "flex a 'cep"
I'm disappointed Veeky Forums.
kissing is actually very easy
it just comes naturally, don't worry about it
after reading through everything on the thread you should just know that the longer you put it off the more hesitant you're going to be as you wait. You don't wanna end up posting the same thing here in 5 years.
post the red forearms
what's phenibut like?
Whip out your cock on the first date.
Like the social aspect of having a few beers, but without any loss of motor skills or memory. You lose all inhibitions, but there's a reason inhibitions exist. You may wake up tomorrow with a headache and realize you said a lot of cringey stuff or shared too much. If I take a moderate dose I just get extremely talkative, as in literally will not shut up. I used to take a small dose before job interviews to increase sociability and decrease anxiety.
what's the size of a good dose just to decrease anxiety?
About 20g
I'm gonna give you an actual non-meme response here.
Women are people just like you or me. Treat them as you'd treat another dude that you're interested in getting to know and being friends with. If there's a spark of romantic connection between you two it will happen on its own. You don't need to force a spark where it doesn't exist. It'll exist with some girls and not with others.
If the spark happens, just keep on hanging out and flirting and ask her out for drinks. Date, make out, and let things progress naturally.
1) hire an escort
2) have sex with escort
m8 you're 18, you don't need some super strategy. girls at 18 are wild and will fuck without any regard for the future. you don't have to shower them in dates and affection, just go out with friends, have fun and you'll probably encounter one.
alternatively, meet them at uni and do similar things there. as other people have said, it's just confidence and not giving a fuck. even if you're some pasty ugly dude, girls will think you've got something going for you given your confidence.
sensible dubs
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Of the 30 or so girls I've kissed, I never asked them before doing so. I've only been rejected a kiss once and that was due to a slip up in reading signals.
P.S. If a girl does reject your kiss DO not mention it or act different. Act as if it didn't happen and carry on like normal.
Don't put too much thought into it. It will be pretty obvious when a girl is into you and you just have to make subtle moves to progress it. "Netflix and chill" really does work. If the date is going well ask if they want to watch a movie at your house. If that works grab a blanket and start to gradually cuddle with them. Progress from there.
t. khv until 3 weeks ago when I lost it at 23
>tfw she just ghosted me
Sex without intimacy is a fucking meme.
>Start to gradually cuddle with them
>Sex without intimacy is a fucking meme.
Just went on my 3rd date with this qt3.14 and we pulled a "watch movie in her room under a fluffy blanket while making out and cuddling"
I'm going to sound like a bitch but I enjoy cuddling and making out more than sex.
If you gave me the choice between fucking a 10/10 for one night without any intimacy or cuddling with a 7/10 I'd go for the cuddling every time.
I think you're right and I'm going to take it slow from now on. We boned on the first date and I think that was a mistake as all the milestones to look forward to were hit in one night. I wanted a real relationship and I don't know why I thought that would come naturally from sex. I kinda feel like a skank now even though I'm male lol. For any virgins reading this don't let your eagerness to lose your virginity fuck yourself.
I'm glad it's going well for you, my man.
Can you link me on where to get some? Searching "phenibut" brings up other meds.