Gym feels

Checked.

Women are shit user, people keep saying that there's good women out there but I have yet to find one that isn't bland, generic or jump on Chad's dick given the first opportunity.

I'm 26, not a NEET and if a magic Genie told me I could have any girl I want I don't know a single woman that I would want to have a relationship with. I'd fuck a bunch of them without a doubt, but a relationship is out. From casual observation of those who have found girls in their lives, I think you just need to find a woman you think is attractive and let your brain delude itself into thinking shes the perfect one for you.

Honestly I'd prefer to be gay but it just didn't work out that way.

No I feel you. You're not alone!

I have been playing an instrument since I can remember and practice 5 days a week for at least a half hour a day. I cook all my meals and learned methods of cooking and preserving food that impress guests and save money. I do devops work that is well paid and I can work remote. I can speak Mandarin Chinese (but should be practicing more) at a conversational level and an familiar with Chinese classic literature and myth. I read at least a book a month but usually more. On top of all this I am pretty attractive, or at least others have said so.

I've worked so hard for all these skills and keep working hard every week of my life. But who would I date? Who is worth spending the rest of my life with? Would bear and help me raise children? I've dated so many women but they all are so keen on staying with me and are too eager to please, like I'm doing them a favor or something. It's hard to describe but maybe I'm looking at the wrong girls. I just want to meet people with similar ambitions, but not a cash oriented outlook. Sex is just some skin rubbing in and out that every organism is incentived to perform. The hookup thing gets old.

These are the sorts of things that sound so conceited if said in person and are limited to places like this.

how do onaholes compare to fleshlights?

mirin your life gains
particularly your cultural immersion and remote devops work
need to practice more Japanese, I can watch TV fine, but I still struggle to read manga that tows the line between shounen/seinen and shoujo/josei since I can't rely on established tropes for context as much.
and gods give me a software eng job already

I just realized I'm really, really into bookish-ish smart chicks. I just want to engage in lengthy discussions on what we're working on and what interests us and what we want in the future. I'd love to have a symbiotic relationship where we can nurture each other for the better.

Now, more Veeky Forums-related. I've been cutting for a few weeks now and for whatever reason I've been getting more confident despite not even approaching low bf% and barely maintaining my lifts. I've cut back on fapping and I'd go full NoFap, but this one girl has been on my mind too much. I could probably manage NoPorn though.

>ambition,
>in my values

You're shitposting on Veeky Forums on a Thursday night. What fucking values? What fucking ambition? You've got your head so far up your ass you can't even see straight

>Tfw gf was raped by her first bf and she doesn't want to have sex so I have to wait until she's over it before we do have sex and I feel like 20x less of a man because of it and want to cheat so fucking bad even though its only been a few weeks but I've also never enjoyed someone's presence so much so I have no fucking clue what to do
How much do I need to squat to get rid of this

>tfw gf deadlifted 255x3 today
>tfw she's only been lifting less than a year

Jelly of her genetics

Married 18 years now. Truth? You'll never find that woman. They all disappoint.

Just get out. If she isn't seeking help on helping get past it then get out. You will save yourself from a lot of hell

t. Someone who was in similar situation

fuck yeah Veeky Forums I just finished another week of of texas method and I feel great. My squat is solid and pretty from all the practice. Volume day kills but then I can feel myself recovering from it, it takes all week but by intensity day I'm fresh enough to hit a new max. Been hitting proton goals and taking naps, up a couple of pounds. I'm starting to worry that I'll go Too Far and become one of those freakishly yoked people. I already have ill squat ass. Welp

I've actually dated a few girls who also got raped by their first, apparently it's a common thing. They were down for sex though, I'm pretty sure your girl is just being dramatic or she knows your dick is small

Well she says she wants to forget about it but she's scared of being reminded of it
One thing she said that really fucked me up is the 2 times she was in a relationship before me she at one point wanted to see them get fucked by another guy, just as a fantasy and would never enact on it, not because it would turn her on or arouse her but because its something she just wants to witness. I told her its one of the worst things she Could wish on someone and she said she would never want that to happen to me. Been stuck with me for a few days, unsure if I should break it off.

Doubt it, he visited from another state 3 times and she said the first few times she didn't mind having it but the 3rd time he forced her to do it and wouldn't listen when she asked him to stop, said she was scared of him and shit which I believe because he's extremely manipulative.

>10 sets of 5 squats at 60% 1rm
>45-60 sec rests
>can barely maintain intensity on curls 20 minutes later

At least it'll be easier next volume day r-right?

>notice hips rising early on deadlifts
>giving me low back at 130kg
>lower to 100
>focus on lifting with my legs and ass more
>legs start getting thiccer and glutes juicier
>back to 120kg with no low back pain at all

Stil getting some right leg inner hip flexor pain though.

At this point it's too clear that you are trolling

well they arent always perfect but I've definitely found and even dated women who were better than I was as far as ambitions and I mean she was seriously driven. If you are high achieving you will find high achieving people of either gender. Step it up bro if you are attempting to slay women better than you are you wont have much luck take a look at yourself.

>believing a girl who says 'm-muh ex bf raped me!'

Hahaha.

Two options;

-shes a dramatic liar
Most likely, and an obvious reason to gtfo.

-she isn't lying
You're wasting your time on a psychologically messed up girl. Its not your responsibility, just leave, you gotta do you mane

God I wish I was
I'm sure its true, I saw their convo and he apologized for it a shit ton of times
Probably gonna have to leave if things dont change, its gnawing at me more than anything I'm used to.

>Nobody expects you to talk to them at the gym and most people keep to their own business
>Go there with headphones so I don't have to listen to shitty gym music
>have fun

Is there any better gym feel than this?

>All the women I know are shit and have casual hookups with shit guys which makes them unviable relationship prospects
>If I had the chance I would hook up with these shit women

You are unironically the same as them and you belong with them. The only difference is that you're also a narcissist.

Good feel:
>Find lifting bro
>He's been goes to my university
>Never seen him there before because I lift at 3am
>Arrange to lift tomorrow

Bad Feels:
>Messed up my lower back reracking
>Excited for tomorrow, can't sleep

If a girl tells you she's been raped, first question to ask is what prison the guy is in.

They'll always have some weasel excuse for not going to the police. And you reckon she has written evidence of him confessing? So she's allowed a dangerous sex attacker to be free to assault other women? What a coward lol

Men having hook ups, while still not good, doesn't make them unsuitable long term partners like it does for women. In fact most women won't even be attracted to you unless there's some proof you can attract other women.

I truly empathize with this

Hold yourself to the same standards you hold your woman MINIMUM. Women don't ask how many hookups you've had so your argument is retarded. Your value is far more intricate than the number of sluts you've put your dick into. If anything good women are put off by a charismatic guy who fucks worthless sluts left and right.

I fucked up and stumbled into a relationship with a major slut who is mentally unstable.

She told me stories about fucking random guys with girlfriends "because the sex was good".
Or generally just having sex with random people.
It bugs the shit out of me but i pretend not to care because i really dont actually value her that much and would love to just gtfo but she is my fucking housemate. Worst decision of my life was to sleep with her.

She goes out clubbing picking up random people to get fucked by and even tried 3somes two times and "used to love anal".

Now i thought ok im just going to have sex with her and thats it but i realize that i am being manipulated by her in every possible way.
I tried to break it off with her 2 times and she started crying and saying"why to men never want a relationship with me and treat me like i'm a whore" and i'm thinking because you fucking are!!!you are!!.

Anyway. She doesnt let me do anal because she has "health issues" but she let randos she met at the club fuck her in the ass before me.
After we first had sex i asked her if ahe liked being choked,being slapped during sex and she was like yes.
Fast forward a few months i tied her up and started choking her during sex. Then i slapped her a few times when she was "disobedient" and she started fucking crying in the middle of sex. I thought i slapped her too hard but she told me that one of her ex boyfriends used to hit her outside of sex and that she doesnt like being slapped.
She is a smart girl but goddamn she is fucked up and manipulative. Her whore ways don't help either. She introduced me to all her friends and siblings(i shouldn've went) and now expects me to introduce her to my friends and family as well.
If i wasnt living in the same place as her i would break it off immitiately but i have to fuckimg see her every day.

Women having hookups does not necessarily make them unsuitable partners either. However the fact is that the vast majority of people who have mindless hookups regardless of gender are absolutely, positively unsuitable for relationship. It's far easier to exclude all of them.

Do right by her. It'll be worth it in the end if you actually love her.

you are fucked and cucked. sucks to be you, silly duck.

You sound like a bit of a nob if I'm honest user.

I haven't had time to go to the gym recently and now I have to meal prep to hit my calorie goal

>I have been playing an instrument since I can remember and practice 5 days a week for at least a half hour a day.

Let me guess, the pink oboe?

Married 6 years.

He's right.

There is no perfect woman, just tolerable ones.

>easier
>volume day
>next

>Hold yourself to the same standards you hold your woman MINIMUM
that's retarded, relationships are not symmetrical and were never supposed to be. you are trying to find a companion, not a business partner, each one plays a very different role.

even most gays have those kind of dynamics in their relationships

fucking kek

>what is reverse image search

>I tried to break it off with her 2 times and she started crying and saying"why to men never want a relationship with me and treat me like i'm a whore" and i'm thinking because you fucking are!!!you are!!
Kek

Why would you expect the same standards for someone completely different from you? Why would that be desirable?
e.g. if a woman expected me to have a decent job and a car then I would understand that, but I would never expect the same thing from her.

And I never said that boning sluts is the only measure of your worth. But it's true that since women are the 'gatekeepers' of sex, if they've slept around it just means they have shitty impulse control. It's just not true for men.

As a young man I used to work in a McDonalds; I'd drunkenly made out with a lot of the female staff at one point or another, and fucked more than one of them. Do you think this made me more or less attractive in the eyes of the girls there?
One or two of them jokingly said I was a slut but NONE of them meant it. They'd tell new girls 'better stay away from user he'll probably try and get in your panties within a week' and guess what all that did was pique their interest. I couldn't ask for a better introduction.

In contrast, a girl who did a similar thing in the same workplace was shunned, treated as disgusting, a slag, a whore, easy.

tldr; MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT. And they experience social dynamics from opposite sides.

Sounds hilarious. I hope your friends give you a lot of shit dude lol

>Weigh 65kgs / 143pounds
>Hit 1pl8 OHP couple months back
>Gonna hit 2 pl8 bench soon if I progress at the same rate I am now
>Already hit 3pl8 squat
>Deadlifting 150kgs / 330pounds so a bit far from 4pl8 dl

Overall, pretty good feels

>it would mean having somebody just for the sake of having somebody.
nice trips, this hit me to close

>met the girl of my dreams
>as times goes on the more and more im disappointed
>the things i believed in are slowly starting to fade

i dont know...