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What do you have to lose? Do it faggit

>How was your workout today?
It was fine. I didn't make much progress on my bi's but my deadlift went up a bit.
>Got any feels to get off your chest?
I really like this girl and I'm not sure if she's into me. We've been on a few dates but she seems kinda distant. I don't know if I should ask how she feels
>Got any plans for tonight? the weekend?
I bought some vodka and I'm gonna get drunk

My friends invited me to go out, but to go out i have to skip the gym, what to do fit

Tell her you want to do something(watch movie, eat, go for a walk, etc) and invite her along.

>overtraining with weak ass weight and only two exercises
>implying that he gets even more volume than professional olympic lifters and other athletes
dude, it takes a LONG ass time to become "overtrained", and even then, it takes even LONGER to recover.
dont fucking worry about it, it is rare to REALLY experience overtraining and it doesnt even happen often for professional athletes

Would be nice to go out more. But the thing is, I don't really have anyone to go out with. Just me.

go to the gym tomorrow night, you will have recovered from the hangover and you get to go out

dont do dropset if you're a newbie

We've been on a date before but I'm worried she sees it as a friends thing and I don't wanna waste my time if so.

same, dont worry breh, we will make it at some point, i promise

work out right now

My gym is shit and it isnt open on weekend

Then make it more clear that you don't want to be just friends.

Fellow fag with a Jack Daniels by my side

Heavy shit bro feels here
Was with this girl, but moved away to work. The only guy I talked about how I cared about her wasted no time (roughly a month) to get in her pants

She owed me jack shit, but as a great friend I guess I expected a different behavior from him

>Would be nice to go out more.

Iktf. My problem is not that I don't no people though. In my case my parents are so damn restrictive that they're making trouble each fucking time I wanna go out and do something with my buddies. I can't handle that shit any longer. It literally is one of the reasons why I can't get with girls.

I don't have money to go live by myself though. Just hope to graduate soon enough so I can find work and earn some cash

That's what I thought, but I wanted to be sure haha.
The thing is, will I get more gains from doing drop sets till fail and doing it all day every day or should I calm down a little and let my body rest?

Why? It's with low weights and I just don't feel like I've done anything if I just do 5 sets of 10 repetitions with 12kgs

Is it your first girl? If she likes you, you'll notice it, especially if she's slutty. If you aren't sure, just try touching her more and see how she responds. Also make her laugh and make sure she notices what your intentions are. Don't try to be her friend if that's not what you want to be.

t. 16 yo hs student

No I've had a few girlfriends but this one I like quite a bit and she's really hard to read. She was really receptive to my touching when we hung out last time, we were really close physically, touching knees/shoulders at the bar and all that. But then she dodged a kiss. So I don't know how to proceed.

Nah 20yo uni student but unlike most of my fellow students I'm not rooming with others because my parents don't wanna pay for it so I commute to uni each day. Shit sucks

>How was your workout today?
Rest day baybee
>Got any feels to get off your chest?
I'm still not sure what to think of getting dumped on Sunday. I'm over her, but not.
>Got any plans for tonight? the weekend?
Going out drinking with some friends, this will either be a great night or a total disaster but whatever happens it will be better than sitting and thinking about things I can't change all night, again.

It was ok, how can I make friends again?

just b urself bro :0 :)

>started hanging out with a 9/10 qt a couple months ago
>she's an ex of a friend who asked me to take her to the gym
>we hit it off instantly but decide to not rush into a relationship since her ex still hasn't gotten over her
>decide ok, she seems like she'd be worth the wait
>about a month since we started low key dating I found out she had sex with one of my best friends (he knew we had something of a relationship forming), who only used her as a rebound
>my heart shattered, but she poured her heart out to me, saying how she regrets it and I decided to forgive her, have barely spoken to my "best friend" since
>about a month later and we still aren't officially together even though we see eachother just about every other day, make out, share feelings, we've even had sex a few times and said we love each other, pretty much everything couples do
>she said we can't be a true couple until the dust has settled with her ex
>I agreed, as her ex is still my friend and I know how much she meant to him
>lately she's been very distant, barely replying to my texts, making excuses for us to not meet up
>couple days ago she said she needs to stay at home to take care of her dad who was ill
>fair enough, she's really close to her dad so I understood her
>few hours later check Snapmap and see that she was 50 km away in another city, hanging out with some of her friends
>haven't confronted her about it though, as I fear it won't bring any good (WHY THE F WERE YOU STALKING ME and what not)
help me brahs, have never been this pussywhipped before, since we started hanging out there's been a little voice in my head telling me not to get attached
to her as she'll end up breaking me, but I can't, I'm already in too deep and love her too much and I can see that we could have a beatiful future together
on the bright side, had a killer back and bi workout today

>I'm turning 30 soon
>Make over six figures and govt takes a big chunk
>Moved half way across the country for my career
>Ended up becoming successful and finally finding happiness
>After a few years of having a lot of money you see that I'm still alone
>I have nothing but a career
>I'm a workaholic
>I work a lot, and have dedicated my life to a career
>I have no idea what to do anymore
>Just cant take my mind off of being alone anymore

In Japan people like me are called salary men. These are men who spend their whole life working for a company

DROP
HER

go to some place where people talk to strangers and regulars on a regular basis

Is this pasta or do you just like posting this?

I would if I could but I can't
I'm hoping that her being distant right now is her way of taking time to herself to think about shit, she said that I'm perfect for her, husband material and all that shit, and I also understand that she wants to spend time with her friends, just wish she told me outright instead of lying (the reason she lied about staying with her dad is because we were supposed to meet up that day and I guess she didn't wanna say "hey sorry I'm meeting up with some friends") I just don't wanna give up on her, she makes me feel so wonderful when we're together, no girl has ever opened me up the way she has and I don't want to lose, which is why I'll keep persevering with her

Every fucking Friday you down a whole bottle of jack Daniels. How is that good for your gains?

I'm a bit depressed right now....

But I'm getting better, have a vacation planned in a few weeks. Things will change

If you recognize my post, my bad for posting it often. I'm just depressed as fuck sometimes and not sure what to do anymore since I've been alone a long time ..

She's using you for her rebound retard. She's going to drop you as soon as she feels confident or finds someone better.

Kinda asked for it my dude, taking a friend's ex is brocode violation, your 'best friend' returned the favor and you still lost the girl. You should feel like a chode, when the dust clears the only people who will be there are you bros. women are fairweather bitches, you should make amends with your friend and thank best friend for showing you what a fag you were becoming. Plus she played you like a sap.

Besides that, my weekend is good, got a shitty YouTube sponsorship somehow and gotta make a video, almost off work and got a decent pump at the gym.

I mean technically wouldn't it just fuck up your gains from the previous day? Maybe Friday is his off day

You have to just decide what you really want. If you love to work then you have to accept you won't have that much time for other people. If you want to build relationships with other people you may have to find another career or job that allows you more personal time or more opportunities to meet people, even if it means taking a paycut

Really crap workout, I think it was purely psychological though.

>last workout day before going away for three days
>woke up late so I missed it
>day ruined
>4 hour car trip
>shit weather
>have to hang out entire weekend with a group of friends, one of which is my ex. (long story short our relationship basically ruined our entire group dynamic as long as her and I are present at the same time)
I just want to pick up and and put down heavy stuff to make me feel better

fucking cringe

>9/10 qt
Probably 4/10 at best.

Shes using you, she fucked your 'best friend' for fuck sake, and you stopped speaking to your 'best friend' and carried on seeing her. Can't have been very good friends....

haven't really explained the whole situation because it would take like 5 posts and I still woudn't clear everything
she dumped her ex, my friend, around new years and yes he STILL hasn't gotten over her, she's had a 2 boyfriends since but both of them didn't turn out to be right for her
she said that she sees a long term relationship between us, why do you think she said I'm husband material, even sends me screenshots of texts with her girlfriends how I'm perfect for her (quite flattering I must say)
but one of the most heart warming moments was when we were in my car at night, I was just dropping her off but we ended up talking for an extra hour and making out in between, she hugged me tightly and asked me "you're gonna stay, right?" I said I'd never leave her, my heart was melting
before she went home she sang me a lullaby with my head resting in her lap, I could've died a happy man right there, her angelic voice being the last thing I heard and her smile the last thing I saw
as for my "best friend" considering he banged the girl I was having something with just for the sake of getting his dick wet, I reconsidered him being my best friend, even friend is still a stretch at the moment

How was your workout today?
Not bad, did legs with my friend and going in an hour or 2 to get some cardio in

Got any feels to get off your chest?
The girl i'm in love with broke off things with me 2 days ago. Haven't talked since. Start thinking less of her, then I go to the market and saw her today (what are the chances). Now I can't stop thinking about how much I miss her

Got any plans for tonight? the weekend?
going out to a friends for one of our others friends birthday party. I hope I have fun. But i'm afraid i'm going to be distracted by the thought of her

I hope you all have a lovely weekend

Thanks user, I'll need it

i feel you man the same fucking situation here, also me still having feelings for her dosent help

today was rest day
getting drunk tomorrow with a couple of friends life is ok

Ahh i see its a troll haha, had me for a minute. Well played sir

Thanks senpai

My job isn't really the problem., I have plenty of time to meet people and maybe finally start forming relationships with them, The issue is I don't know anymore what to do... My job isn't an issue at all, problem is me and had always been me

Most people can't stand my personality, so I through myself into my work

had a "friend" do this to me except it was after a multiple year long relationship. It's the most painful thing I ever went through. Smacked the fuck out of the dude for it, but god damn does it still sting.

How did you cope with it? Are they still together?
I'm going home on vacation since he thought with his dick instead of his head...I'm afraid how I might react If I bump into them since its a small town

So it's your bro's ex girl, who he isn't over, and you decide to go stick your dick in his ex? Bruh real shit? Two rebounds after him, and you decide to be number 3, sounds like a classic thottie to me.

>she says wants a long term relationship
>she says
>says

Nigga you gotta look at a woman's actions, not her words. She is just telling you that to test how comfortable you are, it's a shit test, and you failed pretty hard. So on top of being a shitty friend, you are also a beta cuck.

>"You're gonna stay, right?"
>translation: "You're gonna be a good beta bitch for me, right?"

>I'd never leave you
>I have testicles the size of rat turds

best friend is alpha af and you should apologize for being such a faggot to him and your friend, and move on.

Nice b8 too.

>parents so strict
>mom didn't allow me to do shit alone
>tfw 27 now
>too scared to talk to people over the phone because PTSD from being made fun of by older brother and mom
>"is that your girlfriend or boyfriend"
>Be,HKV never had a gf

Dalí knew. Any book recommendations?

Accidently posted this on /fat/.

Reviewing for the CPA exam now holy shit this test sucks so bad. Broke up with GF after I told her she didn't see me as an equal and she constantly disrespects me. She just said oh well got up and left. Now she is constantly posting and forwarding to me her drunk escapades. Pls tell me it was worth it, i'd hate the thought of me sacrificing my early 20s for nothing. she works at dunkin donuts meanwhile I work for deloitte. :( least I get to keep my bonus now.

Kinda hurts seeing her having fun on her snapchat and i'm here head deep doing multiple choices and sims.

>27
>no job
>too ashamed to hang out with others because of this
>stay alone inside
>no vida
>just books,lifting,and shitposting

What is your life like?

Being 27 and no job isn't something that should hold you back, what have you done or been involved in before?

Have you gone to school?
Do you live at home?
How do you get support?

some fucking pajeet stole the tip jar at the coffee shop i work at.
i swear to god every fucking indian that comes in here is a timid beta numale but the only alpha one to walk in here is a fucking thief. and tonight theyre going to be stinking up the gym i go to too.
we need to eliminate all shitskins

The Divine Comedy is woke shit.

Read Redpill, as cliche as it sounds, the only shit worthwhile in Reddit.

Dali is based.

It hurts. Trust me. But you gotta be strong my man. Your future is very bright, don't forget that

>used to get in trouble whenever i did anything alone
>basic shit kids do
>habit of separating my life into 'shit i want to do' 'my life'
>should've been unabashedly doing my own thing this whole time, just like i thought i should have
>lost time

How does one even respond to this? Is she calling me beta? I know I look dyel as fuck with these 6.25 inch wrists.

>Have you gone to school?
yes, didn't finsih degree
>Do you live at home?
yes,with Alcoholic father and disabled mum.going nuts
>How do you get support?
you already know

>Age 30
>Made the decision to follow my career path
>Thinking about ending it daily

Whatever decision you make, try not to regret it later on. It can haunt you

For the second time this week I was able to masturbate to completion, not having seen any porn or other tempting images this week. Due to my mental condition seeing regular porn makes me feel sick and cry and I don't like masturbating while crying and feeling sick. I have that less when using fantasy. I also managed to abstain from masturbating while looking out my window at one of my neighbours, which is good. I don't know how long I will keep all this up as it causes me a lot of sexual frustration, suicidal thoughts and stuff. I'm still thinking of buying some toys to perhaps make it a little easier.

Was waiting all day for shit to be delivered, though didn't entirely expect it. Nearly a full day of no updates on status and now I know the chance it's getting here is nil because it's still in a major hub many hours of a drive away. So much for a 2 day delivery, now I get to wait until monday because delivery companies are obnoxious about making you wait. Bugged me waiting all day not able to really focus on other shit.
At least work out this morning felt good, think I sort of fixed my form on OHP which made my reps a lot easier than they were before.

Med school is kicking my ass. Going to get trashed tonight with some bros and qt's so there's that

What is preventing you from making it?

Do you read books?

What do you think you can try at this point? (Its never to late to change, starting a career and becoming something is simple)

What current skills do you have?

What do you need to achieve your goals?

gtfo

DUDE I'm 24 and am actually pretty decent socially but resist making connections because I have nothing to offer materially.

It's hell, but it's also pushing me to reconsider what I want, so the perspective change has been great.

She's seeing if you have a sense of humor or if you're going to get offended like a bitch

>How was your workout today?
In between workout schedules and on vacation so I didn't today. Feels really shitty haven't gone hard in a week.

>Got any feels to get off your chest?
Yeah haven't lifted in a week and I just want to go home. Vacation is alright but I just want to play some vidya, lift and hang with my friends before I go back to school. Hyped to go back though.
>Got any plans for tonight? the weekend?
Not really, just chilling with my family, going to the beach tomorrow and driving home tomorrow night. Probably going out to lunch Sunday with the lads, and getting a lift in.

>Do you read books?
yes,self help and plant lit
>What do you think you can try at this point? (Its never to late to change, starting a career and becoming
something is simple)
worm casting merchant,thinking about going back to school and finishing up my degree, need only 5 classes
>What current skills do you have?
driving buses and trucks
>What do you need to achieve your goals?
some land and a steady steam of organic materials

how appropriate is it to respond with absurdity? it would be a lot easier if i didn't have to logically think of something and only connected things retrospectively

>respond with absurdity
that would just be autistic, user. just think of a good comeback

I'd probably ask something along the lines of: "Would that be the Harry Styles kind or early 00s Backstreet Boys kind?"

Your best bet is to at least go along with it and use it to start a longer conversation

Got invited to Airsoft with the lads, currently doing alright with feels and sheit. Really want gf but hate Tinder/online dating and don't go out much.

Hey it's me, it's been so long I've forgotten how to talk to people.

Feel like shit. Constant lower back pain from my shitty manual labor job. Drinking some cheap rum with coke. Not sure if I even wanna bother going to gym at all, all of the success stories that I've seen here were from (failed)normies who already had friends. It seems that if you don't have friends to drag you into the normie life you're fucked no matter how much you lift.

>tfw 23 years old and working at a warehouse
>still going to school for history education with no prospects
>tfw your 30 year old brother is a corporate finance manager in NYC for a Fortune 500 company
>3 other older siblings
>nobody in my extended family wants anything to do with me
>tfw all my siblings have shit eye vision but they're smarter than me
>20/20 eye vision, most athletic, and sociopath genes. I've never felt guilt my entire life
>bipolar disorder on antipsychotics that dull me out
>therapist says "your IQ is average but your emotional intelligence is very high and that's more important for success in life"
>failed out of calculus and the economics program at Michigan State

A thousand years ago they would have been fending for themselves just to survive and yet I've struggled in life more than they ever have.

"i am a boy band"
"you're not one of those weird stalkers are you"
"i don't look like i belong ___(something relating to profile)"
"ok"
"we all belong where we belong"

You sound like a sorry SOB honestly

>three different boyfriends in 8 months

...

dude what the fuck go full sociopath, go into a work life where you have to be social, if you really don't feel guilt it should be easy for you to experiment with focusing on how your behavior affects other people

>i'm supposed to pass on my genes

>haven't had friends for decades
>someone reaches out to you
yea,fug that. I get the same feeling looking over a tall building, crippling anxiety.

>>someone reaches out to you

I'm the same way, people reach out and try to talk to me. I pretty much shut own and my mind shuts off

My sleep has been garbage these last few weeks. I hope i can fall asleep soon so i can do chest and trapbar deadlifts in the morning. After that i will meet up with other identitarians and we will try to wake up some people to our genetic displacement at the market place in our city. After that we will eat good and go hang at the beach all day, barbeque at night. Its a big meet up from dudes all over the region. There will be about 35 of us, i havent meet most of them, it will be a good day.

>GF (and best friend) of 8 months away for 20 days
>It's friday and I am bored as fuck. I've been boxing for 2 hours, I've watched a movie and I'm restless.

Shit sucks Anons. I was fine with this life before we got together after 3 years single, now I'm lonely.

>very easy for me to casually meet and talk to people
>future projection gives me anxiety
>refocussing my mind on miring aesthetics in my environment

just accept these thoughts and actually realize that life is fleeting and people do want to connect and have fun

>Be me
>Largely a failure, struggle with loneliness
>Decide to become an EMT for aesthetic reasons
>Sign up for a program at a local community college
>Somehow get in, somehow excel and become close to top of the class
>Make friends, flirt with girls, and find meaning in studying
>Grown attached to study group, look forward to class everyday
>Start working out more often just so I can get a pump every time I meet with them
>EMT program ends in two weeks
I really don't want to be lonely again.

>30 yr old virgin
>Book a date with an escort
>Nervous as fuck when I get to the hotel
>Get inside her room and take shower
>Come out with towel wrapped around waist
>"wow, nice body"
>Ask her if she can lead me because im a virgin
>"Is that like your fetish"

I couldn't get hard at all. I just ended up leaving 15 minutes in because it was so awkward.

I try to work out when I can after a 10 hour shit in a kitchen all day I go to my basement and work out with what I found hind the furnace and it's been doing me good to be honest. That is my set up I'm not gonna lie. But hey you guys seem great to talk to it's my first day here so let's get thing going. I guess I'll post best photo of me after my work out. (I'm 6 feet tall but I have weighed my self in over 6 months so I guess you guys and guess my weight