Limp dick

If your dick gets up most of the time and only stops working in certain situations, then it's psychological m8.

You probably didn't actually want to fuck that girl. And the whole afraid of STDs thing, is a major turn-off as well. At least my dick doesn't like it at all if I think the hole I want to put it into is disease ridden.

While I also normally look down on "open relationships", you two faggots are trying so hard to confirm your "all women are whores who ask for open relationships so that they can fuck other men while their boyfriends can't fuck other women" delusion that you're willfully ignoring the fact that OP's open relationship is actually balanced, and he's fucking just as many other people as his girlfriend is. You know that one reddit post about the bitch who was travelling in Europe and wanted an open relationship so that she could fuck a bunch of of European guys, but then she ended up not getting hit on by any guys, meanwhile her boyfriend back home was getting his dick wet with some other girl?

There are definitely plenty of women who ask for open relationships expecting that they'll be able to hook up with lots of guys while unspokenly expecting their boyfriends to not actually do the same with other women. But you are complete /pol/ tier virgins if you think there aren't men who do the same, or that there aren't plenty of hypersexual couples who have fully balanced, mutually open relationships.

Sounds like he had sex with one other girl and didn't enjoy it at all.

So you guys are all rock hard during the whole time even when only kissing?

I struggle with the same thing.

Had a girlfriend for 3 years, while this was not a problem at all.
Now when I take girls home the same thing happens everytime. As we undress I start thinking about if I'm gonna be able to get it up or not. And it just stops working, but the moment she leaves and I am alone I am suddenly able to get a boner again.
This is killing me inside.

Well, I'm not gonna judge your open relationship, we're speaking about about a limp dick here.

I can relate to your story, somehow. I'm almost 30 and I've had sex with almost 20 women. And yet, with some of them and especially the first times, I have a hard time getting a boner.

To me, it's all a thing about being comfortable with the girl you are with, but also comfortable with yourself.

Relax, try to do as much "pre" as you can. For me, that has done the trick. It's all in your head. After 2-3 sex sessions you'll be ok.

If for some reason that does not work, use a pill or something.

Sometimes, almost never, but sometimes, it is the girl's fault. Some of them are just plain boring or fake, it does not has anything to do if she is hot or not.

Good luck, brah.

Open relationships are for cucks, period. If you are cool with the idea of someone you supposedly share an emotional bond and love with getting cocks shoved in her holes by all sorts of other men, you are one twisted son of a bitch.

>Always 100% rock solid and ready whenever I had sex with gf
>Can't immediately get solid if it's with a date
Why tho?

Yeah, but it also sounds like he's fully capable of getting with just as many girls as his girlfriend is capable of getting with guys. So he's not getting cucked in any way and his girlfriend isn't any more of a whore than he is, he's just having problems with his peepee.

No, I get hard while holding my gf's hand lmao. I have trouble reaching orgasm when I'm nervous though, the first time or two with new girls I either take very long or can't cum.

It would only make me hornier knowing she was bleeding desu..

Not me though. Deep down inside feels like I'm hurting her and that shit just kills my boner.

You're literally a fucking pussy.

I eat bitches out when they are on the rags, it's alpha as fuck and literally raises your test to crazy high levels.

"A literal fucking pussy". Man, learn to use the word literally, for fuck's sake.

>Sometimes, almost never, but sometimes, it is the girl's fault

This desu, this one roastie I was fucking wouldn't blow me, hell, she couldn't even give a satisfactory hand job.

Fuck I'm glad I don't see her anymore.

Kys yourself

Yeah man. I have been with girls that simply started talking at the middle of the pre thing, or they would simply do nothing. Not even a small hand job, just nothing. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how horny you are, if she's not cooperating then it makes it just plain hard.

It's a two way thing, too. If you are not making her horny either well, that shit will never work.

One time I was getting semi limp due to performance anxiety and the bitch wouldn't suck it and instead tried to coax the little man by grabbing and twisting like it was a screwdriver. Bitch also didn't want to remove bra during sex, but wanted me to bite/choke her neck, what a crazy bitch.

In this thread op is literally a cuck.

Oh look another cuck.

Yup, and the thing is, I'd be making her cum multiple times and not have the favor returned to me.

kek sounds like a fucked up broad you found there, mate.

>Thread about dicks
>Didnt know what thread to post it in
>Posts in Veeky Forums
Not a bad choice

Also, it doesnt take that much to get me going. 22 here. Been with nine girls, no problems at all. Maybe you should see a doctor. Or try men.

I had that with a hooker once. Than it became a mental thing until I found a girl I was comfortable with. Honestly its because you're not comfortable with them. It's stage fright.

Man, that sucks. I have stopped complete relationships or seeing a girl overall because of that.

Like, making them cum and not returning it. ARRGH. Just thinking about it makes me mad.

OP I what you did and had the same problem and more.

It's definitely psychological, but doing your cardio, eating right and not masturbating will help. You gotta just chill out and not expect to have sex with other other girl. If you just see her and fool around and have a good time without worrying about performing you'll probably perform.

Also, DO NOT fuck around with the open thing. If either you or your GF starts getting jealous stop immediately or your relationship will blow up. Make a list of rules together and stick to them religiously.

You sound like a total faggot douche. I wish you get cancer tbqhwy.

maybe you're so in love w/ your proper gf your dick doesnt feel comfortable with other women

maybe its not a bad thing c:

Ok, ill get serious now.

Op in your limp dickness days had you ejaculated prior in the day due to sex or self pleasure? Your refractory period might be a bit off for your age. Do you take a multivitamin? You might have a vitamin / mineral deficiency. Do you have moobs? Have you ever squeezed your nipple and a little fluid came out? This could be to a prolactinoma which is a brain tumor of sorts. Need more detail on physical aspects of your health. Yes it might be psychological guilt from being with some one else but if this was the case you wouldn't just be limp. Maybe she just doesn't do it for you on a primal level like your girlfriend does. Do they have different body shapes?

Boy pol was not wrong, americans are one sick bunch.

lmao OP is finished

Yeah, A bit to young to have half chubbs.

I can confirm that this is a thing no matter how much you don't want it to be.

>rules
Specifically condoms.

Stop masturbating

That's, some people get hung up on no kissing, no feelings, no dates, no spending the night, no talking about it, no not talking about, shit like that.

xxxxXXXX_------DDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

Nothing to do with it. Too much porn maybe, but even that is inclusive.

Inconclusive*

OP here, thanks for the good responses!

You guys are right, I actually don't feel so comfortable around this other girl. She is shy and doesn't know how to arouse me like my girlfriend does, so I end up worrying too much. I tried two times and didn't worked out, maybe the third is the charm.

So I'm guessing it really is psychological. I'm going to try a couple more times with this other girl and see if it works out. I'm gonna try just to fool around without the expectation of sex. Thanks god the girl is super patient.

Also, I didn't mention it because I thought it would be a distraction (little did I know the open relationship thing would be an issue), but me and my GF actually had threesomes with other girls before. In these times, my dick worked just fine. Sure, I wasn't hard during the whole time, but as soon I got a handjob or blowjob I was able to perform. So it confirms that the problem is psychological with me having sex without my GF and with a girl I'm not that comfortable with.

Do you guys with more experience on solo sex with strangers have any tips on how to get more comfortable? I thought about getting high before, is that a good idea? Ou perhaps the best idea is just stop worrying and have no expectations?

Honestly you're just overthinking it OP. I have the same problem when I'm having sex with girls I'm either not 100% attracted to, or am just not comfortable around. The moment that thought of, "oh god, I sure do hope I can get and keep a boner" then you're toast; just try that, relax, and dont overthink it.
Oh, and stop watching porn ASAP If you do

Marijuana actually does help me get aroused, but peoples reactions to it vary. If you're anxious it can heighten that anxiety and nervousness.

Viagra is the only thing that would work. But its really only like popping a vicodin when you have a headache. It doesn't solve the underlying issues.

Fuck off and try

Leave your computer and do something

viagra can actually help long term. i had problems for a little after being okay at first then i took viagra less than 5 times. i haven't taken it since then and i haven't had any issues getting hard. it kind of proves to you you can get a diamond boner and you don't need it anymore

I had this same problem after separating from my wife. The first couple times I'd hook up with a chick, I'd get performance anxiety. Some girls were patient enough to keep fooling around until he rose to the occasion, some weren't.

Three of the girls took their time and after the initial hump we had great sex. Two of them didn't. I'm afraid I'll always be remembered as some limp-dicked faggot to those ones. Oh well I have a smoking hot gf now that loves to fuck and after the first few times I never have any issues whatsoever. Just take a breath and don't be so "hard" on yourself.

How do you buy viagra, You know asking for a friend.

I am erect with glee after arriving at your pun.

Go to a doctor and say you have this issue. Doctors don't give a fuck. You think that's the most embarrassing thing they deal with. They stick fingers up mens asses all day.

i'm sure with enough googling you could find a way to get some bootleg/generic shit delivered to you but i'm a pussy and that's risky for me. if you have big enough nuts to not give a fuck just tell your doctor and they'll give it to you. it's very easy. you'll pay $20 max, versus maybe paying more and risking getting sugar pills or something dangerous online

If she's fucking other men she aint your GF you fucking retard.

Or just getting ripped off. Most of those viagra pill sites are scams.

So your doctor can do it ? do they test you for it or send you to an urologist? I don't have a problem getting erect but It feels like I have to wait an hour to get hard again after coming.

Probs just need to relax and take it slower, also, talk

Say "hey doctor so and so, I'm having issues recently getting aroused when with my gf, not in general, just when with someone. is there anything you can recommend?" Medical testing on viagra has been pretty positive, it doesn't have the negatives like opiates. He might send you to a shrink as well which probably would also help you.

I would love it if they tested it. Go in this room and try and fuck my secretary. Dude what?

Well for me its like, I want to go again asap.

I meant more as i they do a blood test or some panel to see if you really needed it. Although my doctors nurse is thicc

They might test, but you could be clear that its not an issue getting aroused, but only getting aroused with someone.

I had problems with limp dick for a while. I changed my diet and it improved - turns out I wasn't getting near enough fats/various micronutrients. How clean do you eat?

If it's psychological, that's on you. If it helps, the girl is already in the room taking her clothes off with you - she clearly wants to fuck. No need to be nervous.

Also lmao @ virgins buttmad that OP pulls more puss that they do. Who cares if he is in an open relationship? I'm in one too, shit is cash, most of the time it just winds up with my girlfriend bringing girls she's slept with to me for threesomes.

Kys roastie

Actually don't do this. They might only refer you to a shrink.

>"Limp dick"
>"Alright, I'm guessi.."
not even reading the thread. buy tribulis, zinc, and L-arginine

>dick problems
>supplement these
>diamond boners
>sex drive through the roof
>last for ages
>actually forced to stop taking tribulus for a while because all I could think about was sex

do yourself a favour and just buy them. see your life change forever within days. not even shilling this shit will change your life. eat more fats and calories for good measure

my multi has like 20mg zinc in it already. ON opti-men multi has both zinc and l-arginine in it

what dose of each do you take? daily?

I take L-arginine and zinc daily already and I still get boner problems, so it must be the tribulus that's working for you. Everything I read online about it says it's snake oil. What so special about tribulus?

If I found out my mom was getting railed by men other than my father before I was born while they were together I would be fucking furious. Polyamory is degenerate and for people who lack a frontal lobe.

/pol/ is so cringey and funny lol. all the cartoons are true

Your such a cuck faggot dude.

>/pol/
Good luck building stability and happiness in relationships, mongoloid. There's a reason infidelity has been a predominant theme in tragedy for hundreds of years.

bicgerl riiiiggg XD

You're a fucking idiot if you think your Jew subtext isnt obvious.

I curse you and your offspring for this attempt at degrading society.

>calling someone a fag
>can't get laid
sounds like you're the only fag here

>we opened up a bit the relationship

get off this board you pathetic fucking cuck

maybe you need that emotional connection

"open relationship"

I like to keep /pol/ off this board, but I find that disgusting.

you realise open relationships are only so the girl can fuck others right? if you were a real man youd just do that anyway and not let your girl fuck others.

biggest fucking cuck kill yourself

>You know that one reddit post

you are just as much of a cuck as op is if not more,

get the fuck off this board

Being in bed with a hot girl SHOULD BE ENOUGH to get you hard.

That's not /pol/. That's common sense.

100%.

>However, this year we opened up a bit the relationship.

you're a spineless little faggot cuck and she's a slutty little whore. gj idiot. fuck off and kys. not fitness. no bump.

This

...

I have the same problem. Life is suffering.

lkill yourself cuck

>Open relationships are for cucks, period
absolutely user and anyone trying to degeneracy should be gassed. not even /pol/

Start something casual with a girl you have 0 romantic feelings for, you need to not care at all. If you have feels youre gonna worry about what she thinks of your sex abilities, if its a casual fwb situation your fucking just to get off so theres less pressure

which micronutrients?

Exact same problem OP. With my ex it was no problem at all, but the with the girl ive begun fucking i couldnt get it hard the first four times. My saviour was viagra. I took it and my dick worked the next time. After that I didnt need it anymore. I still get limp sometimes, when im going to put on a condom for example, but my dick works fine for the most part.

My fear would be getting used to viagra. I want to try what you did, try it once and get the megaboner and the confidence then not need it again. are you saying that works?

>Anyone else get limp dick from seeing period blood?

i couldnt fuck a bitch for about 3 days after i saw her bloody/discharged panties on the floor. literally made my dick shrivel

lol cuck