Guys, I started dating this girl but I'm scared to have sex because I've only done it One other time...

Guys, I started dating this girl but I'm scared to have sex because I've only done it One other time, and I'm scared I'll cum too fast, usually I can jerk off for pretty long but as soon as I think about cumming I cum, what should I do to just relax and forget about lasting long once we eventually have sex, should I drink before?or take viagra...
Also, unrelated to the rest but don't drink pre work out before sex, it doesn't let you get a boner

Have a wank before you meet her.

You will be able to last longer on the second ejaculate of the day

Never go on a date with a loaded gun.

yeah, but I feel like my thing is actually ever more psychological than physical you know? like when I start stressing about it I cum

be honest about it, literally no girl will be turned off they'll enjoy teaching you.

it's kind of embarrassing though , because most times I've hangout with her were in parties so I was super drunk and confident, and I think she is attracted to that confidence
btw I just love how "fit" actually gives good answers instead of retard shit like /b/

think of the alternative, more embarrassing right?

how old are you bro

I have a date with a girl from tinder this weekend, should I just not text her and leave the talking for in person?

18

I know dude, but idk, I just need something to boost my confidence while I'm having sex, without the impotence that drinking too much alcohol gives you

I agree with the other anons about talking to her about your concerns. She will probably like the fact you are honest with her and it will save you some anxiety. Also jerk off a few hours beforehand

You are overthinking it.

Just relax and be yourself. If it goes off prematurely then laugh it off and tell her she's too hot. If you can't get it up then laugh that off too. If she's cool then she'll understand. Spazzing out about it just makes you more mental about it and that keeps and creates your mental hold-ups with sex.

WWCD = Just relax and ask yourself, What Would Chad Do?

true, I guess I am over thinking it, I mean with the other girl I had sex with it didn't really matter cuz she didn't know my friends, I'm just scared she'll tell one of my close friends cuz we're all in the same social circle

Have a few drinks lad or take some pure mdma

i like that..WWCD, good stuff man

Take cialis an hour or so before you meet up with her, if you really wanna fuck her good take 2 cialis and do a few lines of coke, I fucked a club slut this weekend like that and it took a couple hours to cum, dick was diamonds, and by the time I did I was exhausted and she was a hot crumpled mess

Don't do this unless you have cialis or viagra, on molly you can't even concentrate on your dick much less use it

Take some phenibut. Take some kratom. You'll last fucking forever.

no text lightly, girls on tinder are scared of meeting a serial killer

are you meeting up in public first? that's always a good move like a coffee shop if It's during the day

For you maybe but it's always given me the biggest erections and I can pump for hours

whenever I jack off I start thinking about weird shit like naval mines and how the Volkswagen was invented then after like an hour of fapping I can't cum and I give up.

Don't listen to the people saying to take cialis or viagra. You don't want to take that shit before you actually need it.

It's not as big of a deal as guys think it is. Be open and honest with her when the time comes and let her know you've only ever had sex once before. Endurance comes with practice and plenty of girls are relieved when they find out their guy hasn't been banging sluts for years.

wear a condom and continue pumping after you nut until you feel like she's finished. maybe she won't notice

>"Dayum you're sexy. It's gonna take some practice to last with you"
Badda Bing, Badda boom. You set her up for feeling good if you blow early, plus you set yourself up for some more sex.
I once told a girl that "it's been a while I'll probably blow early" and she said "its ok I'll teach you :)". Stop over thinking this and posting pics of shirtless men you faggot.

I've got the opposite problem of OP

When I'm making out with a girl, I'm nevous, and I can't get hard. I can easily get hard watching porn so I don't have any erectile dysfunction problems. It's 100% mental.

Wat do?

make her grind on your dick

>get hard watching porn
If you aren't retarded this is 10/10 bait.

I only fuck girls below my league so they get super smug and impressed with themselves when I cum too early. Problem solved.

It's not a bait.

Are you one of those nofap nuts?

>Can only get hard watching porn
>Can't get hard around real women
Yes, I'm the nofap nut. Keep watching porn and having a dysfunctional sex life.

>I'm nevous, and I can't get hard. I can easily get hard watching porn so I don't have any erectile dysfunction problems
I had this problem, then I did no porn and after a couple weeks I could get hard over just imagination