A LETTER TO THE SOCIALLY INEPT Veeky ForumsZENS

Honestly, as long as Buck Angel is a thing, there's no excuses.

Fuck off mate... girls despised me. The only thing I did was groom myself, dress better, socialise more and HIT THE GYM 6 DAYS A WEEK FOR A YEAR.

>stop lying to yourself you cunt
>Do what I've done, come back in a year and see if your life hasn't done a 180
>Break free from your autistic coping mechanism (you know I speak the truth)

mirin, what routine did you do? PPL?

L O N D O N ?

Honestly mate I'm happy for you but you look much above average facially, most average guys won't have this kind of success

That's not the point of the story. I'm now settled down with a girlfriend I love (1.5 years) and can now focus on other areas in my life. Like I said anything is learnable.

However, being SOCIALLY inept is the biggest hurdle you'll have in your life. You can pretend to be tough and ignore it for a couple years, but having no friends, girls to shag, things to do etc will eat your soul away. You will find yourself depressed and unhappy, and choosing to not tackle this problem will lead to UNHAPPINESS. It's the truth.

It's called neck theory you idiot, and I can tell you haven't been applying it. You would be getting laid 10x more if you did.

Women literally do not give a shit about your face unless you're really hot or really ugly.
It's only a minor advantage to have a good looking face unless you're a 10/10.
They also don't give a shit about your penis size unless it's really small or really big.

Just get big arms/shoulders, abs and a nice back and work on your social skills. Those are the things that actually matter.

What's the best way to approach a girl you find attractive at uni?

How tall are you? I'm making fine progress in the things you've mentioned but I'm also 5' 6".

>lol face doesn't matter

Op your jawline is top 1% shut the fuck up

Face is rarely going to hold you back.

Here comes the typical fucking dogma around here, sluthate etc.

If you saw how fucking ugly some of my friends are and some of the decent girls they shag it would burst your comfortable bubble. Disregarding improving yourself by setting an immovable fake problem is so easy and typical of miserable people. People that say what you say are scared of failure. Put yourself out there, improve yourself and take the failures in the face just like I did mate (you get over it quickly).

>pic related sorry to burst your bubble (face theory bs)... and yes that's his girlfriend.

Through friends or in person. As long as you keep your thirstiness levels low you're gonna be fine.

Dude has the face of a male model. This thread has nothing to do with anxiety and social autism and everything to do with this guy finding out with some gym time he is a underwear model

You'll be fine. My friend is 5'6 and skinny fat and he still pulls decent birds. If you gym you're gonna have a major advantage. Put yourself out there and chat to them petit little sorts. They're the fucking best x

FACE

YOU HAVE TO GO BACK

Disgusting Hueh Ape

>also taking advice from Veeky Forums and Veeky Forums
probably a big bait

Listen op

Tests have been done on this. You can literally mention in your tinder profile that you rape kids but if you have face and body it doesn't matter

when were the opportunities to take off your shirt and show your gains off?

are you insane? why would you go to the same school for sixth form given you'd been there and not spoken a word to anyone for 4 years?! what the fuck

I have noticed that the buff manlets I see around are considerably thiccer than their taller counterparts. It's encouraging.

It's always the brazilians who go on and on about their stories in the most random of places, it's so forced, I've seen it on other boards, it's the monkeys every time
not the beaners, not the niggers, not the slavs, not the shitskins, it's always the monkeys

post more snaps

If this is before/after well fucking done!

I want to get those sculpted eyebrows but I'm too beta to go get them shaped like you.

It's so easy to cope and not do work innit. All you need to do is be JUST above average (no need to be a model u faggot). You can improve yourself in so many areas like: grooming your hair/eyebrows, gym, dressing better, expanding your social circle, acquiring money, having a more interesting life (choose travelling instead of ANIME and vidya). It's not that hard mate. Go fucking do it.
Alpecin and castor oil. Grow a beard and you can hide ur shit jaw if u feel that's needed. Oh sorry, forgot you don't want to improve yourself you lazy slob

>However, being SOCIALLY inept is the biggest hurdle you'll have in your life. You can pretend to be tough and ignore it for a couple years, but having no friends, girls to shag, things to do etc will eat your soul away. You will find yourself depressed and unhappy, and choosing to not tackle this problem will lead to UNHAPPINESS.

fucking this.

Eyebrows make a difference innit! Go do it man, if not just do it yourself like I do. Good male eyebrows (male models and shit) are typically straight so it's not hard to do it yourself.

Yeah bullshit, nice story though

>>At that moment I learned that UNHAPPINESS is a choice

What about things that make us unhappy but we have no control over?

Did i make it?

Lol no. Anyone can pull ass on tinder if they're not autistic and don't look like Quasimodo.

>just b urself lol
shut the fuck up you massive fucking retard you have a 9/10 face

True man, once you do it a couple of times you learn how easy it is to trick a girl to let u stick ur peepee in her vajay.

>What about things that make us unhappy but we have no control over?
Like what?

>42765506
This lad what routine did you do? Got any before and afters?

Politics
International affairs
General state of the economy
Other people being retards and being able to vote

Yeah this OP.
I get tortured daily in a cellar by Fritzl, how do I choose to be happy?

good job man. i have a question. how to talk to a stranger girl on the street?

>this girl wants me to be her free personal trainer, did I make it?

aka
>dis grill want me to fug her, d-d-did i maek et guise?!!?!?!1111oneone

You avoid them as much as you can. If it's outside your control you shouldn't stress about it because the only thing you have true control over is your mind. It's classic stoicism, you get to read a lot of philosophy when you're depressed you know

BR here and this is bullshit, its impossible for someone to go through high school without talking to anyone, you get called out eventually, Brazil doesn't coddle autism like america or UK. He looks BR and all but his story is just bullshit.

Only do that when you're out (pub or clubs). 7/10 you'll fail but you'll learn to know what girls to approach and how to not lose your time talking to a girl that won't fuck you. A "hi my name is x what's your name" is perfect. Then just small talk mate.

If you're fully thinking of going solo, best options are tinder, workplace, cafe's. Going solo is more crash and burn tho, but remember she's a stranger and she'll never see you again if you don't want her to

Hey this post has encourage me to post this I don't know if it's an attitude or social thing, when I was younger I just didn't give a fuck about people's feelings (I wasn't mean ego dickhesd or anything just kinda enjoyed not being harassed by immature teens and shit) I could talk to people and then not talk to them for no apparent reason or because I couldn't be fucked and it's both sexes and yes even the hottie chicks. The problem is now people find me cold and hard to connect with and I try not to be so hard to talk to but I'm a man of few words. It fucks me off that I can't spark a connection naturally, So now I'm at that point of life I want to do myself better as I let myself go after high school and am trying to find a lady I can settle down with and sort myself out health wise. I am trying to meet someone the old school way, I can't stand internet dating or one night stands as it doesn't feel right for me and feels a little forced Idk just irks me works for others but not me so don't recommend those.

For health wise when I was younger I would gym in morning and afternoon (Sylvester style routine) yea was a big fan of Rocky and it paid off and had a fucking awesome mindset so I'm hoping to have the same mindset and not fucking die. So its a highway to hell from here onwards.

>all the autists coming out of the woodwork for some bait

>Politics
Just figure out what principles you live by and stop getting triggered when people think differently than you.

>International affairs
Can't control what Pajeet or Wongting do. You can, however, ride their waves. That's what we over at Veeky Forums were doing before China banned ICOs.
>rip NEO

>General state of the economy
Depressing, yes. But you can improve yourself in this regard. Could go to school (for something actually useful, of course), learn a trade, join the military, or deal drugs. Just got to find you market, exploit it, and extract as much profit from it as possible. Also, get into crypto.

>Other people being retards and being able to vote
Once again, why do you care? Does it really make you unhappy when some "retard" votes one way or the other? Not everyone sees the world the same as you. A Christian in Georgia is, of course, going to vote differently than a nignog in Detroit. A college liberal idealist who has never paid much tax at all in their life is obviously going to vote differently than an investment banker whose additional 1% in taxes adds up to be a couple million that could be used for his own utility or reinvested back in his business, etc.

Sounds like you need to take a step back, friend. Once you stop letting exogenous factors in your life affect you so deeply, you can progress quicker in life.

>just bury your head in the sand, the post

Fuck you you prick. I didn't speak and i wish I fucking had. I was depressed like a motherfucker and overcame it. So fuck you. There's some proof, that guy has been my friend for around 7 years now since yr8 or so.

this

Yeah whatever dude you may exagerate and lie all you want to get some ego boosting from Veeky Forums, good for you that things worked out but don't expect everyone to eat up your little soap opera. Take advantage of the fact that people are too caught up in memes to know anything about Brazil.

Well done g, time and PRACTICE is key. I am now settled down and love my girlfriend, ready to build a life and shit. One advice I give is let yourself open up to people, love is built on trust. Once the girl cares about you and you are completely honest with her, you'll be able to reciprocate the same attention and feeling. I wouldn't suggest looking for a girlfriend straight away cos you might find yourself forcing a relationship and lying to urself. Date a lot of girls and sooner or later a girl that literally you can't get away from because you like her so much will come. Best of luck bro, make us proud.

Mate, I lived in England since I was 11. Brazil is not even in the picture of your argument. Veeky Forums helped me and I want to help people here. If my advice doesn't apply to you or you hate my story, I'm sorry g, still listen to it cos you'll benefit from it

Nah I did a typical bro split. 6 times a week with a impeccable diet for 6 months. Consistency is key.

I'm guessing you were a skelly and lean bulked?

Yh man supper skelly. I ate a lot man, nearly a kg of grilled chicken everyday lol. No sugars (green tea and water only) including fruit and dessert etc.

>hard work pays off, go get yourselves a bit of pic related

Being a patriot and seeing your country turn to shit.

>National and public infrastructure being privatized (post office, water/electricity/telephone companies, harbors etc), essentially selling our indipendence to foreign interests.
>Politicians being openly corrupt and not being held accountable.
>People adopting the western "none of my business" mindset that makes the apathetic to what is happening around them. From crimes to nobody batting an eye or remembering when a guy burnt himself alive in front of the Parliament.
>Twenty years of non-stop immigration have made over half the population foreigners who instead of adapting, brought their idiosyncrasies with them (and said idiosyncrasies built the societies they fled from).
>State terrorism in the form of undercover cops infiltrating protests and turning them into riots (once I saw an undercover giving a molotov to another guy, telling him to throw it, and then arresting him on the spot. Another time I was present in a protest that was announced as having turned into a riot on the radio before it did).
>State terrorism in the form of state-funded non-government organizations. Said organizations are "anarchist" (unrelated to the ideology itself) gangs who go around beating people, burning cars and businesses, and defaming/demanding the illegalization of various parties while posing as citizen movements. When arrested in riots, said people are taken to Police Administration and let go through the back door.

That kind of stuff. Being deformed or handicapped also count as things beyond your control, but thankfully I have no such issues. I feel for those who do though.

Been doing a full body strength routine (3x5) + accessories (3x8-12 range) but I'm starting to think I've been memed

Hardly. If you actually think your activism changes anything, you're deluded. Best to ride the waves and profit from it. Don't swim against the current man. YouTube is an excellent example of this. How many fucking channels have copied the "top 10" format? Or that cringe Let's Play explosion? Why study coding and programming in college when you know you're competing against Indians who have been doing it since they were 5 years old?

It's easy to get upset over it all, but what's better is to learn and profit from it in the future so you don't make the same mistakes.

Yeah man, you have. It's a loss of time and not enjoyable

what's your height and weight? (and BF% if you know)

youtube.com/watch?v=8C47KpadwtI

I'm 5'5"

wew im impressed.
Like Zyzz said, "we're all gonna make it", BUT ONLY IF YOU'RE CONSISTENT YOU SICK CUNT BRAH

Is it weird too put gym photos in your tinder profile?

I know I can hit Chad levels, just trying to sort shit out after an enlistment is all, I got a gym membership finally and I'm starting a modified SS after drifting for a few months, I'll make it, just have to get my diet in order is all.

I'm going for the strong silent type, never was blessed in the face department

6'2 around 72kg tops, bf% id say 14-16

Go on my g, a year is all you need. Progress is very motivational so make sure to be consistent. Testing your power levels at clubs/pubs or whatever will also help keep you on track. Go fucking make it

Nah my main pic was a topless one. It was the most interesting aspect of me tho. If you have something more interesting thing to show

If you think reaching 225 bench press in a few months is a meme I don't know what to tell you
I know you're thinking about it but don't change programs right now you're going to keep regressing, do you really want to bench press 225 in a few years on a brosplit vs a few months on a strength program?

You're cool OP, a welcome change on fit

sick story brah, we're all gonna make it

>6'2 158lbs

I dun thiink so OP. Because if that's true then all I need to do is cut some bodyfat %

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maybe

>abs
Guess I'm not bulking this year.

How do I gf man?
I can talk to girls but only in a friendly way. I have always been social but because of my upbringing (Muslim) I have never even dared to even ask a girl out in fear of my parents
But now that I'm in college I don't have to worry about them. Yet I missed so much time for experience and shit that people legitimately thought I was gay
Teach me your ways chad
I think I'm fairly attractive

The face is not that bad. The hair on the other hand...

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What are you lifts like OP ?
Did you just focus on hypertrophy with okay-ish weight ? Or did you still make a lot of strenght gains on a bro split ?

Your BF% is probably closer to 10%, because I'm 6'1 77kg and 14 BF%, and don't look nearly as good or big as you, and you're defined as fuck

Kek

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>but having no friends, girls to shag, things to do etc will eat your soul away
I got plenty of friends and things to do. No gf tho. How would you approach them irl?

alpha as fuck

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>tfw get several matches a day on Tinder if I bother to swipe
>still had like 20 or so matches from the last time i checked
>haven't properly talked to anyone aside from saying hi to a few though
>a few even have written to me first
I don't even know why I keep on sabotaging myself like that. A part of me thinks it'll never work out I guess. I could still use the practice though.
Would it be really weird to write to them now? Half of the matches are more than two weeks old. I hate communicating over shit like that though. Its much easier to tell what the person is thinking in person, plus I always think I'll reply a bit later and then forget about it for ages.

Bro. Sorry to inform you, but your newfound success is due to the fact that you are fucking handsome. That's all it was. Put your current mind into your old body and you'd be just as miserable as before

Just wait until you get really horny then your body will take care of it itself

Also
>past 2 years
>only get horny enough to use tinder consistently
>for a period of a few weeks at a time
>March 2016
>june 2017
Wtf? It's not even nofap doing it, it's just random (though the first time was nofap)

How do I get that feeling except like, for a week per month?

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How does you worrying about stuff changes anything? Does all the information that you consume changes your day-to-day actions or would you do pretty much the same things but with happier disposition?

There were always problems, there will always be problems. It's not just a meme: just look at the history of 20th centure, even after WWII. Person can always find reason to be unhappy, to be "ready" when the bad stuff happens even though a)this moment may never come and b)even if it does your "ready" means jack shit in the face of it save for the initial reaction not being so shocked and there is nothing wrong with shocked, you can be someone who adapts instead of someone who is always ready and as such be much stronger and happier.

Life happens on a moment-to-moment basis, everything else is a story that plays out in your head and you can become aware enough to choose the story that you want, and it truly is a choice, especially as far as your values are concerned. Choose values that ring true, are in your control and feel good and you will be set for a "good" life. Also you can read "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" for a "bro" level of life advice.