With all the other bullshit nofap threads and what not I figure a sex health general would be good right about now. Post questions and answers about sexual topics here.
Alright guys, I just started having sex. I'm a sleep deprived 18 yr old male, and the girl I'm with is a sleep deprived 18 yr old female. We have fucked twice now(we've known each other for 3 days) and although I get rock hard when we are making out before hand, as soon as I slap a condom on my dick either goes soft or half mast. She doesn't seem to mind cause I do a lot of foreplay, but I haven't fucking cum from sex yet and my balls are blue af. It isn't that I have a problem getting hard, it's just once I put the Jimmy hat on and start fucking I start getting soft. Is this normal? Do condoms just completely suck? She noticed this and asked me how my pullout game is and I kinda want to try rawdogging it but I don't want fucking kids, and she is "Christian" so I doubt she would grind that fucker up at the clinic.
Elijah Stewart
Raw dog that shit bro as long as possible and then when she gets knocked up fucking get lost.
Evan Torres
Fuck her in the ass. No babies.
Bentley Richardson
I never understood not being able to pull out. Seems to me you'd have to be some sort of primitive retard to not know when you're about to cum. It's never been a problem for me
Hudson Ross
Learn how to do reverse kegels and do as you get the johnny and as you put it on. I use them to get myself from semi to rock hard, should feel like pulsing at the base of your cock.
Jason Gray
>girl who claims to be Christian enough that her keeping the baby is likely but still has extramarital sex Probably down for buttstuff
Andrew Brooks
Also >sex within 3 days of meeting >most likely fucked on day 2 Gotta be down for buttstuff
Josiah Sanchez
precum tho
Ian Adams
>stop jerking off so much, it's ruining your sensitivity. >jerk off with condoms to get used to them. >use a bit of lube. >if you're still desensitized, use stimulating lube.
Also, definitely do buttstuff raw.
Jacob Gray
i dont want poop on my dick user
Anthony Davis
Yeah, condoms fucking suck. I'd raw dog it and pull out if she's down, it'll be a thousand times easier to cum
Henry Morris
Totally normal, OP. I usually start off with no condom (if girl is cool with it). Literally 30 seconds is usually enough to get me fully hard. Slap a condom on and go.
Also stop jerking off. I dont buy into the whole NoFap thing, but if you have low sensitivity like me, jerking off will only make it harder to cum.
Leo Nguyen
>asked me how my pullout game is >Rawdogging an 18 year old who would suggest an inexperienced 18 year old to fuck her without protection and pull out at the last minute
Sounds good to me. Please get an STD as soon as you can so you'll never have unprotected sex with a woman again (like your future wife) and hopefully have some unwanted kids that you can't legally force her to abort so your life is ruined early on.
Go for it, you little idiot. Take the advice of random strangers on an anonymous image board who may or may not be 15 year old virgins pretending to be slayers. Keep it right up.
That was sarcasm, in case you can't figure it out.
Ayden Hughes
A little risk makes it fun though.
Lucas Reed
I have had sex one time and I had the exact same problem OP. I was fucking rock solid for like 45 minutes of netflix and chill while we were still fooling around. Got my cock out, still fine, grabbed her by the legs and dragged her towards me, removed her panties and im fucking diamonds at this point and then as soon as I got the condom on the pinching fucking killed my boner. I think my problem was that the condom was just too tight at the base (am 7x6). Ive never tried fugging with trojans but the trojan magnum slims seemed to fit fine when I tried one on, so maybe see if a bigger condom is a better fit for your donger.
Jordan Hill
>A little risk makes it fun though famous last words.
Jackson Parker
This. Besides, OP..fuck her until she cums, then make her finish you in her mouth. How is this a complicated issue for you?
>pullout "game"
You're 18 now, time to grow up a bit, son.
Samuel Garcia
>can somehow control himself from impregnating a hot girl, the greatest feeling there will ever be Low test
William Perez
Wear. A. Condom. Every. Time.
Zachary Lopez
tfw showed my ex how good sex can be tfw she'll use that knowledge now for some other guy
feels bad m8
Mason Mitchell
Bro if I don't fap for a day my sex drive is so uncontrollably high that I'm pretty much down to fuck any non fatty out back behind the dumpsters. When you are running on test and instinct you are not gonna pull out.
Jonathan Edwards
Chance for precum impregnating the girl is about the same as the condom snapping when you cum.
T. animals.
Bentley Morris
>t. 150ng/dl
Henry Ortiz
Prepare to be a father or learn to control yourself. That simple.
Jonathan Morris
...
Cameron Clark
He's fucking girls faggot
Aaron Cox
Can't believe this hasn't been suggested.
Try out a different condom, srs
I lose my boner also when I out on magnums...switched to XL's cause pee-pee is above average and can bone for 40 min
Austin Thomas
Make sure you're eating enough. Extended calorie deficit can really mess with your libido.
Oh and stop watching porn if you haven't already. Peer review be damned, noporn is NOT a meme
Andrew Moore
Unironically this.
Wear a condom or you WILL eventually regret it. Even if shes on birth control. You never know when she might "forget" and youre stuck with some whores kid.
Bentley Fisher
> We have fucked twice now(we've known each other for 3 days) lmao you degenerate hedonistic normies and your sex issues
Blake Brooks
This. Condom brands and size make a big difference. You can find measurements and even specialty order for your exact dimensions online
Wyatt Allen
nigger I already suggested he try big boy condoms
Jayden Morgan
Are condoms supposed to roll all the way down? I bought some to see if they'd fit and they keep rolling back up like 1.5cm at the base so it never fully covers my dick. My length is average but it gets girthier towards the bottom so I don't know if it's above average there or not.
Angel Davis
You're fine. As long as 3/4 of your dick is covered you have nothing to worry about except herpes, but rolling the condom all the way down still won't protect you from that.
Tyler Cooper
Alright, but I was more worried about it rolling off with the rim being exposed, "catching" on the vagina on each return stroke getting removed without me knowing. I'm a virgin so I don't know if that's a thing.
Matthew Martinez
My pussy smells like fudge! Really stinky doodooey fudge that's caked in gobs of doo doo, that is.
Hunter Adams
user unironically has a point. Try knowing someone for long enough to develop feels and see if that helps.
Call me a faggot idc but it worked for me and might for you too.
Bentley Stewart
>EVER putting your pristine pink penis anywhere near one of those foul, dark, mealy, festering slime holes Best case scenario, you get dick disease AND make a baby you have to support by paying the cunt to sit on her ass all day stuffing bacteria and glass up her hole to trap the next idiot. That's BEST case.
Asher Nguyen
post pics please
also how do your feet smell??
Parker Perez
>We have fucked twice now(we've known each other for 3 days)
>tfw 2.5 years with gf and only had sex 5 times >tfw blue balled 3 out of said 5 times it's not fair
Angel Cook
how big of a faggot are you? have sex more
Julian Reyes
Fucking a girl at the moment is is bi, and has mainly been with girls lately.
>haven't go her to cum from sex yet >responds really well to fingering but tries to push me away as soon as she comes close to orgasm (repeatedly) >haven't given her the natty lickaroo yet but insecure as i'm not that experienced at it and surely lesbians are more discerning lickaroo givers/takers :S
Anyway she's cute and seems to be down for anything so I'm not too concerned.
Gabriel Reed
Is the girl is is is bi? Is is she?
Tyler Bailey
I wish I could user. Imagine a sexless relationship at 19.
Owen Moore
why did you stick around for 2.5 years? lmao, got yourself to blame kiddo
Parker Clark
>t. Jamal
Nicholas Parker
Relationships are a bit deeper than a Veeky Forums post. All I'm going to say.
Jason Harris
Precum contains no semen.
Precum after an ejaculation will have small residual amount of semen.
Jaxon Roberts
Jesus dude. Find someone else.
Kevin Thomas
Cool. Your dad should do the trick. Heard he loves wangs in his butt any time of day.
Jace Foster
>sex general.
Okay, I guess. I'll go into my discoveries.
I used to suffer porn addiction, and masturbated several times through the day and got irritated as shit if I didn't get some alone time. I no longer got morning wood. My dick started to recede into my fucking crotch in shame... or the layer of fat was sucking it in like a pouch.
Since I started dieting:
1. I only really jack off once a day, or maybe twice, morning and/or night, and it's more a chore. Porn isn't as interesting.
2. I stay hard like a teenager again, and if i was having sex could probably keep it going.
3. Orgasms after working your abbs to fail-point feel a million times more intense, for some reason. Likely because the muscles are more sensitive.
Just a couple of general things I've noticed.
Brody Sanchez
You're not me faggot. I'm no bully
Lincoln Hughes
You think calling me a faggot isn't bullying? I'm crying right now you asshole
Henry Perry
I'm sorry ;_;
Lucas Scott
>grind that fucker up at the clinic
ah, kids these days, there's hope for all kinds of new keks
Oliver Campbell
It's definitely you, you fucking retard You're probably nervous or whatever, it's definitely not the condom
Brayden Evans
no youre emotionally dependent on someone whom youre obviously not happy with find someone else or get in great shape and fuck roasties off tinder till you find someone you like
Wyatt Sanders
It's not, if you have a small dick just buy smaller size condoms. The rim should feel tight.
Lucas Anderson
>I only really jack off once a day, or maybe twice never gonna make it
Easton Rodriguez
Recently dumped and cheated on, feeling off about girls as of late however >Girl I used to know in high school messages me >We hooked up in high school >She now wants to hook up >She keeps texting me about it >Told her maybe and I'd let her know >She was pretty normal in high school >Now she has short hair, bit of an sjw, now pansexual >But she has really nice boobs Pretty 50/50 on this. Don't really care for her personality, but she just wants to fuck, feel like it may be good for me after getting dumped but I don't know
Isaac James
Don't turn down free sex, please think of us losers who never get any.
Wyatt Gonzalez
How do you "make her"
Noah Flores
>Oneitis invites me over for sex >we get really drunk, I cant even stand >lose all feeling in my dick >Can tell im inside her but dont feel anything >Can't cum >end up fingering her
I blew it guys
Austin Young
This is the only acceptable answer here.
OP the condoms could be too tight for you, try a larger size. Magnum condom's aren't intended for really long dicks, they're intended for larger dicks.
Don't be an idiot and go bare, be a mature adult about this and figure out a solution instead of just saying 'fuck it' and rolling the dice like a child.
Camden Harris
>not pumping her to exhaustion nigga when i got a FFM threesome I was so drunk and high I wasnt cumming anytime soon.. so i fucked them for 3 hours and went to sleep
Ethan Roberts
>Cum in under 30 seconds What do, it's like 10 pumps and i'm done
Xavier Russell
>stop jerking off so much >jerk off
Cooper Nelson
Any condom recommendation lads? I usually get durex latex-free thins.
Ayden Bell
Why doesn't your gf want to fuck user? Sex twice a year...is she literally asexual and gives it up on your birthday and Christmas or something?
Jose Hughes
I use the Skyn shit. Base is a bit wider and feels better than latex
Jaxon Ortiz
How do I last more than 2 min
Ian Hall
Not him but please respond. Only "fix" I know is dapoxetine and that's just a bandaide
Xavier Torres
I've got all the markers of high test (developed jaw, broad shoulders, ring finger longer than index, etc.) but I get off on the idea of big muscular men dominating me and being their little slut.
What gives, Veeky Forums? Does test determine sexual dominance or not?
Jayden Hill
birthday was yesterday.
didn't get any either.
Cooper Young
I can try and give some advice that has helped me some... still not where I want to be, but making some improvements that are noticeable. I'll hit the high notes since I'll probably hit character limit if I go too in-depth.
1) Everyone always recommends kegels, but you very well may need reverse kegels. Think about this with me for a sec... Whenever you go about your day doing any random daily chores like putting up groceries, chopping vegetables, when driving (like speeding), or reaching to the shelf, picking things up off the floor, etc. = think about your pelvic floor area (basically your anus and the area up to behind your ballsack). When doing any of the above activities or other ones, consciously think of this area, and see if you're inadvertently contracting it. I found out that I've been inadvertently holding kegels and have an overly tight pelvic floor. Doing normal kegels would only make this worse. Reverse kegels are a great attempt to release tension.
This is a hard thing to understand. Look up reverse kegels to figure out a lot more in-depth about them and how to isolate them... you may need to isolate them first to even see if you can benefit form them.
Most people that even recommend doing these reverse, often neglect the "whole day" aspect - i.e. if you're tight/tense for the entire day, then a couple sets of reverse kegels won't do shit... you need to be consciously aware of what your pelvic floor is doing at all times, similar to how you are aware of your knee positioning during a squat (like them caving in, for example)
2. Couple that conscious relaxation/understanding of your pelvic floor during your daily activities with some easy butterfly stretches to the area.
3. Do some light, soft-tissue work on the area. Just pressing, rolling the skin all around there, etc.
4. Do deep belly-breathing and feel the breathes move down into your pelvic floor area. Feel, with every breathe, it push out the area.
Angel Jackson
5. Meditation
Try 10min. JUST focus on your breathing. Literally feel the breathing come into your body, feel the breathe moving down into your belly and into your pelvic floor, and feel it come back out. Just focus on that. Set a timer or something. It can be hard to get right, but if you seriously just focus on every breathe and feeling it into your body, you'll get into a good zone of relaxation.
After the meditation, try what I kind of term "sensory awareness"
Obviously, don't want to be seen doing this because it's weird as fuck but whatever. I've noticed it helped me. Basically, I notice during sex I pretty much just get cock focused, feeling and fucking only with my dick. Which means All my attention is there = all pleasure is just there = cumming.
So my goal is to spread that pleasure around during sex, basically, be how a chick can just feel this global sense of pleasure that I think most of us that bust early lack.
6. So that above paragraph = sensory awareness = after the meditation... just sit and lightly touch all over. Graze your legs, feel the fan blowing wind on you, rub your head/hair some, touch your chest, feel your rippling pecs and biceps, whatever. Just gain this awareness for a minute or two of sensations EVERYWHERE.
7. Practice edging. This won't be sitting and beating your meat. This will be actual positioned fucking your hand. Sex, unless you're getting ridden, isn't static with just you lying back and feeling things. Thrusting is a game changer and if you're not used to it, all the relaxation goes out of the window.
Importantly, when thrusting take a second to stop, and feel where your pelvic floor is... is it contracted/tightly wound? Relax your butthole, serious.
Get used to standing and thrusting, sitting and thrusting some, trying it on all fours, try with one leg on the bed, try thrusting while on your back and actively pushing up.
Plenty of resources on edging, and you can find the typical "scale" 0-10 arousal
Grayson James
how to satisfy blood fetish
Michael Garcia
>tfw 21, in college, due to work in Investment Banking, still a virgin
such is life when you are a beta. funny thing is, most of the time I don't even feel the need for companionship with a woman, its only those critical moments of crippling loneliness you gotta watch out for.
Nathan Taylor
This. Been on a 700 kcal deficit for 2 weeks and I am not getting morning wood anymore. I don't even watch porn while jerking off.
Jackson Nguyen
jesus you must be quite the cuck to stay in that relationship for so long
Levi Sullivan
>"18 years old" >needs to come onto a Veeky Forums board to boast about his sex >fucked twice (only known each other 3 days lol im such a stud) >pullout game, rawdogging it >after knowing for three days >thinking she is a "good christian girl" >grind that fucker up
jesus fucking christ, the state of this board
Leo Carter
>lose virginity at 23 to 2nd gf, been dating for 9 months >turns out I'm a sexual machine >minimum 5 climaxes on her part if we go the distance (PR is 10) >she's small enough that my 6-incher is a big dick (for her) >likes getting tits, ass, pussy spanked (found that last one out completely by accident) >rough stuff in general >she's bi and has been with girls >we joke/fantasize about threesomes a bunch, but probably won't happen because we feel too strongly about the act of sex being too personal Feels fucking good boyos
Christian Cook
>tfw when you nut in a qt3.14 asian girl who is super adamant about taking her birth control properly >my 5.9 in (manlet) dick feels fucking huge inside of her >i look in the mirror and check myself out while hitting it doggy >she grips my tris and 'ceps and says finish inside me babe
Ryan Hill
This is the case for me, I just can't do hookups or jump straight into intercourse.