Got fit

Comes with time. The more social situations you put yourself in, the better you'll become at responding accordingly.

After a while you'll just sort of stop giving a fuck (happened to me around age 25) and then you'll realize it's easy as fuck to socialize. Some people still won't like who you are but you just won't care and will move on to the next one.

I'm monitoring this relationship. Please, tell us how it went.

social skills need to be developed just like muscles

keep talking to people until you don't fuck it up

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How does one get social context

If you're the overthinking kind of autist, then here:

artofmanliness.com/2014/09/15/ooda-loop/

please don't shill that website on MY Veeky Forums

You give me hope user, so thanks for that. That's all I need when I get Veeky Forums.

Studying into romance/the 'game'. It's full of useful stuff.

For a start, use them as practice, and just start with 'Hi' and follow with 'So what's your story'.

>girl says hi
>recite some russian video game lines and say sorry with deep voice
>they go away

Lol that's me since age 12.

I mean, if you're dumb enough to fall into the shilling hole, instead of looking for what you want in the site, I apologize for overestimating your intelligence.

>got fit
>is a repressed tranny
>cry and burst into tears whenever I'm alone

Good job on getting fit, don't fall for the meme ever.

It still hurts
I'm still a monster, just one that no one can see

NOT FIT RELATED NOW FUCK OFF

just say HI
dont overthink it if the girl approaches u she is into u just dont fuck it up by being a weird cunt

>got Veeky Forums
>whenever girls mire now find disgusted by them because of how easy it is and how many of them are sluts (especially if they have bfs)

whew, its like my powers are like the opposite powers. I got the power to look at all women like they are sloots.

was pretty androgynous growing up, thought for a long time about going mtf but started lifting (at 1/2/3/4 1rm now). lifes not too horrible now but still wonder what that wouldve been like sometimes

>hey this girl is pretty cute
>find out that girl thinks I'm cute too
>immediately lose all interest

It's like they immediately become extremely boring and plain the second I know they are interested.
What the fuck is wrong with me?

you crave their attention because internet porn cannot give you attention.

You dont crave a relationship because you can pretend with Veeky Forums and internet porn.

But I literally do the opposite of "craving attention"? As soon as I notice I get attention from a girl I get heavily disinterested towards her, like she's lesser than before.

the moment she gives you attention is the moment she becomes worthless because you can get everything else from porn.

Porn never gives you a sense of accomplishment, attention does.

So her attention is enough, its like you just ejaculated.

have had sex at least 5 times, each time i feel emptier than the last and just wish i never had sex in the first place

Maybe you're onto something here.
Although I don't watch porn that much, maybe twice a week.

>The more social situations you put yourself in
how do i get into social situations when i don't have anywhere to be?

not like i get invited anywhere or have an excuse to leave my home after work

>tfw no friends

You need nofap.

Bros, I got fit and finally summoned the courage to talk to my oneitis who is interested in me. Went well enough. Now I'm planning on asking her to watch a movie together. What am I suppose to do once the movie's playing?

Talk/joke to her while watching the movie?
Try to put my arm over her shoulders?
Hold her hand?
Help me brah.

Pull your dick out and make her suck it

Put your arm around her shoulder and force-feed her your tongue when she looks at you like a baby bird look at its momma

Haha very funny anonsTHIS IS SERIOUS.

>get better at picking up heavy things by picking up a lot of heavy things
>get better at talking to people by talking to a lot of people

There is no magic bullet. You just keep doing it.

Movies are bad for first date user, you need to talk getting to know each other.

sex with a girlfriend ought to fix that. I fucked my first one like 40 or some times over the course of our 6 month relationship. just something to be said about that regenerative pussy.

Correction. You need noporn. Distance yourself from any porn for at least a week.

join a club or something.
maybe phenibut. It doesn't work for me but others seem to like it.

Disregard womyn, become a real human bean and a real hero

Not to be an ass but chances are you'll fuck it up. It works when it is fluid, and reading some stories on here it's no wonder 90% of this board are ksv, they don't take the risk. What you're gonna do is try to apply the advices given on here like a robot and it's gonna be gauche and akward as fuck because you're not used to it. You just need to lay back, relax and claim that mouth of hers. Stop over-thinking shit

might as well ask /adv/

just remember, you're better than all of them

Dont even try dating because im unemployed

Start doing shit.
Join some classes of any sort, learn french or any kind of activity, really. You'll be constantly getting in touch with new groups of people and will get the chance to pratice your social skills.
But, of course, you'll have to make a minimal effort to talk to people.
It's kinda working for me, but i'm still in college, where there's a fuckton of people available to socialize with.

Gl my man. You should try to make out with her during the movie. Its hard to make a move if you're just a flat out piece of trash like me. Just gotta get past the scary feeling. Not that I've gotten past it LOL.

You're addicted to being alone and your constant state of yearning for something. You don't want to be happy. You want to stay in your current mentality because that's where all your motivation to be who you are has come from.

The next step is to stay motivated in the gym AND to be happy outside of the gym at the same time.

It depends on how much she looks like she's into the movie.
Maybe just try to hold hands and refrain from making out. And only talk during the movie if you have something funny to say. If not, just stfu.
After the movie you'll have plenty to talk about and it'll be easier to make a move

Practice making small talk with cashiers and store clerks. Do it every day. Just see if you can make someone laugh in a quick 30 second exchange.

You have to work on it just like anything else.

literally me

>used to be highly social mcfat
>got fit
>extreme face gains
>was actually approached several times while mcfat
>girls mire a lot more but never approach
>people I know say I look intimidating despite my friendly personality
>notice I have a killer stare

>mfw

just b urself brah

shut up faggot

movies are bad first dates. Go get something to "eat" aka something very light and that won't make you breath smell terrible

Sushi? A Coffee (if you drink water after to rinse)?

You think of it. Talking is more important

>mr.jones wild ride

The driver became a real human bean for pussy u idiot

kill yourself

An easy opener is to make a small compliment. It has to be genuine, so find something you really like about her. Hair, for example. Don't be creepy or too creative, just say you like it and smile.

Ask open ended questions about her and listen carefully to the response. People like to talk about themselves. Add your personal opinion on the topic from time to time. Only asking stuff is creepy. Try to keep the convo flowing, if one subject dies, pick a detail and move from there.

Try to look them in the eyes while smiling when they're talking. Don't smile from ear to ear like an idiot, girls love half smiles.

Practice, practice and practice again. Don't immediately assume romantic interest. Try to know the person and if you like what you discover start from there with deeper conversations.

Just approach some girls and practice small talk to get used to not being an autistic then work your way up to flirting.

Like learn to walk before you can run desu.

Abort mission. Do not go to the movies, but if you do... Do not try to kiss her. That's too forced, too cheesy and too awkward. Just enjoy the damn movie

Same boat Brah smfh I lifted all the fat away and got high cheekbones/strong jawline only just to get mired or have fatties/uglies come talk to me

>what have I become