Anyone else here have sex and regret it? I spent a year having tons of sex in college (thankfully with only one girl...

Anyone else here have sex and regret it? I spent a year having tons of sex in college (thankfully with only one girl, no STIs or pregnancies), but I honestly regret not just waiting til marriage. Fuck this modern culture for brainwashing men into banging random hoes and making them think they're "winning" while they're doing it.

Yep I kind of regret some of the slags I've slept with just because I start to feel like shit when I go awhile without getting any pussy because society makes you think your a loser if your not constantly having random hookups. Haven't gotten laid in quite some time now and it's really starting to bother me when in reality women are more hassle than they are worth mostly.

crybabby, just move on and relax.

I'm the opposite. I went from a 4/10 all my life to a 6/7 on a good day and only slept with 8 women total. I committed too early to a girl thats below my standards and now I just want to go out and sleep with hotter girls.

I wish i spent more time in my youth fucking random chicks, i spent my 20-25s in commited relationships and now that im 25+ hooking up is insanely hard and the dating pool is non-existant

its worse to grow up and realize you lost opportunities you only had when you were young, OP. Dont live to regret

>wanting to get married
Sounds more like you're the brainwashed one. I've never heard a reason for marriage other than giving into pressure from family/society.

I tell you a secret, its not your age making it hard to hook up its your face.
Srsly if you think you cant hookup with 18-30year girls if you 25 you are a lost cause

Man I don't want to put anyone down because I've certainly been obsessed with sex in my life, but I am drastically more worried by the idea of being a 25+ yo man still worried about 'hooking up' than not having enough casual sex partners.

Not op but sometimes I feel this way and other times I really appreciate making connections with people and not just fucking bodies. Sex is better when it means something, that doesn't necessarily mean marriage or dating but yeah.

>its your face.
Strange, because my first gf chased after me and all my hookups have come from girls going after me.
And i said its hard, not impossible but its not hard because i get rejected. Its hard because women who want to date and have a bf drop out of the game.

But im used to this because whenever i say that daitng is hard guys slam down that its cuz im ugly. I wonder if you are able to get out and grab a random girl right now and hook up

BEst post right here.

married oldfag here. I have had sex with only one woman exclusively. First she was my girlfriend in college and now my wife of 20 years. The two years of sex that preceded our marriage created issues of regret and performance problems that affected us later and I wish we would have waited.

But why regret it? We are married now and have an awesome life. Well, there are a number of things, but one thing I will give you. When you spend two years using the pull-out method and the anxiety of missed periods, and keeping your activities "secret" etc. then when you are married, that history doesn't go away and what should be a relaxing activity still seems stressful - even though you are married and committed. I wish we would have waited, but she was so hot and we seduced each other constantly.

really no option today it s the women who don t want to wait, and if you turn them down they get angry af. all these broads are more sexualized today than the men they want it daily 3 times minimum brah it a fucking with my gains all the cardio but you get a test bump to so I guess it evens out.

still so many sloots it would be refreshing to find one decent grill who wants to be serious.

Yes and no. I was desperate to lose my virginity and it sucked, but I felt 'victorious' for having done it, even though it was shit.

Having sex with another casual sloot just made me feel worse, and the sex was mediocre and completely not worth the emotional pain of dealing with a shitty woman.

Looking back I regretted both, then I finally got a girlfriend I actually loved and who loved me and the sex was amazing. Sex without emotion is honestly worse than jacking off, you might as well just watch some good porn and be comfortable. Sex with emotion is its own thing entirely. I almost wish I'd just waited, but I suppose I wouldn't know this unless I'd gone through the shitty experiences so it doesn't matter either way.

Going back to single after having amazing sex with a woman who loves you is terrible, though. It's like tasting heaven and then knowing you'll never have it again.

thanks for reading my blog post

haha this is the biggest horse shit I have ever read

everyone in this thread is a virgin. faggots

and when I say decent I mean decent not the sloot who s had 1037383939 cawks and now wants to be the ho house wifey lel I. am. not. the. one.

>see a thread about waiting until marriage
>decide to share my experience to encourage others questioning whether to wait.

post is truth. choose your path carefully. You only get one shot and most have chosen not to wait (including me) and look where we are as a society.

"wisdom cries in the streets"

My first time sucked and she ended up not being who I thought she was, but I know plenty of people who have had awesome experiences as man-sluts. I don't think there's a one-size-fits-all answer to sexual morality, since we have societies on earth (even just communities within America) where premarital sex is highly frowned upon or forbidden and then others where life is viewed as a competition to get the most pussy, and it doesn't seem to be working out very well for either of them.

The purpose of getting married is to have a family

brah there are some normies here, dating world is shit for men&women first world countries it s all fuggin& getting fugged, I know 1 dude married& happy you can never get enough girls make you happy trust me if you find a good woman keep her.

watchu guys think about me when im nearly 26 and never even kissed a girl ? Im not ugly im 6,1 and i want a younger girl then me thats a virgin. is there even a 0.00000000000000000000001% chance for me ?

fuck off, Jew

I can relate to that by some extent. although in my case it was my girl that said that she felt some regrets for not waiting, I suggested that we could at least wait until we start living together, which is about to happen soon. Now she said that she wants to wait until she get married, I okay with that, but honestly what is done is done, I already took her virginity (and she took mine) there nothing we can do to reverse that.

If you are feeling disgusted with your past, OP, just stop doing what you are doing (or used to do) and accept that you commited a mistake, it's better to move on and accept that you fucked up so eventually you will lean something about this.

And be careful with who you are gonna end up having sex, sometimes the girl can get really messed up for losing her v-card.

the only good post in this thread.

I wish I had waited honestly. The line between love and lust gets pretty blurry and more often than not, relationships based on orgasms tend to fall apart when the rut hits. And unfortunately I tend to think with my dick more than my brain, so I spent a lot of time making the wrong decisions.

fucking this x10
finding a girl thats worth it is the best, casual sex with someone you dont like is trash


also, im going to have casual sex tonight and i already feel bad but its too late to bail fuck you guys

Bro your going to get cucked I tell ya. She'll be crazy over you for the first few months, but afterwards...